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Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 1:34am On Dec 10, 2022

Oche211:
The girl is being smart and you have to be 5 steps ahead of her if you are to catch her.

Start by hacking her phone.
Get a powerful spyware; even if it means paying certain subscriptions and install it on her phone.
Give it permission to record everything including her locations, voice calls, Whatsapp, Facebook, etc

You can also hire a private investigator to follow her and take pics.

Go through her social media post and fish out suspicious comments and you will have your answers too.

The other guy may be crazy about her in his comments and also post her on his own wall.

Go to any length to catch her if she's truly cheating cos you can afford to wed a h*e bro.

Thanks bro! I know I can count on you!!!

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 1:35am On Dec 10, 2022

Nonexisting1:
Just look at how this full grown man is giving himself unnecessary high BP just because of a Nigerian girl. The same Nigerian girls that can be white by 8:00am and turn black by 8:01am. I'm done advising simps.

Hmmm! Your advice can be useful bro old help

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by texannaija: 1:47am On Dec 10, 2022

Try to be “smarter”……………..

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by stacyadams: 1:50am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
Good evening every one!!!

I have an issue at hand, I'm in a serious relationship with a lady, in fact I intend marrying her, she spends her weekend with me, during her working days I check on her at her place of work and she's always there, she's so committed.

Just this Monday! A friend of mine said he saw her come to the shopping mall with a guy and the way they where on each other he's suspecting she's dating the guy, I just waved it off because I still went to her office that day and I saw her myself and that there's no way she could be the one, he felt embarrassed, so I told him anytime he sees them together again he should snap them and call me if I'm around that area I'll come see for my self.

After I got the info I never changed towards he and neither did I ask her about it, she even allowed me check her phone, I read through her msg, watttapp, Twitter, fb and others! guys I no see anything!!!

so I had that confidence that she ain't cheating on me, I mean she would have left a trace for me to know, she acts normal, she never changed towards me.

This time I intensified my checking on her and calls her regularly and when ever she didn't pick up she'll call me back apologizing.

Her movements and phones are crystal clean! I know my friend cannot lie to me cos he recognises her even in the dark! I'm hot on the inside knowing she's doing something behind me and I can't even trace anything. Before confronting her on anything I need to be sure she's really cheating....

To the wise men and women in the house! I wan catch her red handed or how do I unravel this mystery!

...of all the whole problems in this buhari tenure,Na to check ur girl WhatsApp,Instagram and face book...kuku go buy pre paid meter card slot into her ttoto see weda e go read or beep inside D tottoto. grin

..mosdii should we tell him?

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Nicepoker(m): 7:14am On Dec 10, 2022

After you have slept with a married woman. Udofia you never see anything cheesy

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Johnnycife(m): 7:37am On Dec 10, 2022

When you have problems, you bring them on to nairaland how do you think folks would suspect huh

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by eventainment(m): 7:52am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
Good evening every one!!!

I have an issue at hand, I'm in a serious relationship with a lady, in fact I intend marrying her, she spends her weekend with me, during her working days I check on her at her place of work and she's always there, she's so committed.

Just this Monday! A friend of mine said he saw her come to the shopping mall with a guy and the way they where on each other he's suspecting she's dating the guy, I just waved it off because I still went to her office that day and I saw her myself and that there's no way she could be the one, he felt embarrassed, so I told him anytime he sees them together again he should snap them and call me if I'm around that area I'll come see for my self.

After I got the info I never changed towards he and neither did I ask her about it, she even allowed me check her phone, I read through her msg, watttapp, Twitter, fb and others! guys I no see anything!!!

so I had that confidence that she ain't cheating on me, I mean she would have left a trace for me to know, she acts normal, she never changed towards me.

This time I intensified my checking on her and calls her regularly and when ever she didn't pick up she'll call me back apologizing.

Her movements and phones are crystal clean! I know my friend cannot lie to me cos he recognises her even in the dark! I'm hot on the inside knowing she's doing something behind me and I can't even trace anything. Before confronting her on anything I need to be sure she's really cheating....

To the wise men and women in the house! I wan catch her red handed or how do I unravel this mystery!

Two things here it's either she is cheating or she is not if she is cheating then she knows all the places you check, and she will wipe it clean; She knows you suspect her and she is smart enough to keep a clean track ... Or true your friend saw her with a guy that might be a close paddy and nothing else... Cause relationship is not bondage and a stay away from the opposite sex .. a lady that's dating and not married can keep male friends but she should know her boundaries. Cause what if you pursue all the persons that might have interest in her and you now back out... She will now start from square zero. A bird thats loyal is a bird that lives in an open cage but flies back to the cage to dwell not a bird that's always locked in a cage. And lastly ask your self this question;doesn't it look like your mind is praying to catch her even if possibly she isn't guilty and trust me it will be making you get angry that you aren't catching her in any act cause in your mind she is outsmarting you... I urge guys to hope for the best and expect the worst... A loyal woman will always be loyal but a bitvh will always be one...

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Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Truvelisback(m): 8:00am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
Good evening every one!!!

I have an issue at hand, I'm in a serious relationship with a lady, in fact I intend marrying her, she spends her weekend with me, during her working days I check on her at her place of work and she's always there, she's so committed.

Just this Monday! A friend of mine said he saw her come to the shopping mall with a guy and the way they where on each other he's suspecting she's dating the guy, I just waved it off because I still went to her office that day and I saw her myself and that there's no way she could be the one, he felt embarrassed, so I told him anytime he sees them together again he should snap them and call me if I'm around that area I'll come see for my self.

After I got the info I never changed towards he and neither did I ask her about it, she even allowed me check her phone, I read through her msg, watttapp, Twitter, fb and others! guys I no see anything!!!

so I had that confidence that she ain't cheating on me, I mean she would have left a trace for me to know, she acts normal, she never changed towards me.

This time I intensified my checking on her and calls her regularly and when ever she didn't pick up she'll call me back apologizing.

Her movements and phones are crystal clean! I know my friend cannot lie to me cos he recognises her even in the dark! I'm hot on the inside knowing she's doing something behind me and I can't even trace anything. Before confronting her on anything I need to be sure she's really cheating....

To the wise men and women in the house! I wan catch her red handed or how do I unravel this mystery!

This one wey u wan get BP so. I hope u don't cheat? People wey don knack different kind of ladies well, well b4 sabi get this kind fear.

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Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by ALCOHOLKILLS(m): 8:12am On Dec 10, 2022

So was a friend was badmouthing my ex, told me a lot of nasty shit about my ex, little did I know he was lusting after my banny, one day both of them happened to visit one Sunday coincidentally. I say make I go buy something for my ex to prepare...... Half way I realize I forget my wallet and rush back home, opening my room unexpectedly, I caught them romancing like perverts I jam the door immediately, went to the Seating to chill na so both of them rush out accusing each other, these are guys wia no like themselves ooooo

OP both of them are doing something behind you

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Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by wealthyhenry(m): 8:32am On Dec 10, 2022

Chris2863:
If you have a laptop, mention me op.

I do

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Someodds: 9:02am On Dec 10, 2022

She's not your wife yet, there's no law stopping her from banging another man.

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Chris2863(m): 9:33am On Dec 10, 2022

wealthyhenry:
I do

I don pm you. Check your mail and drop your number. I wouldn’t want to drop my number here before one of the people I don troll before go trace me oo. I don’t want anyone to come and beat me up grin

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:49am On Dec 10, 2022

Chris2863:
If you have a laptop, mention me op.

I don't have

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:51am On Dec 10, 2022

Nonexisting1:
Just look at how this full grown man is giving himself unnecessary high BP just because of a Nigerian girl. The same Nigerian girls that can be white by 8:00am and turn black by 8:01am. I'm done advising simps.

hmmm!!! may be I shouldn't even plan on marrying a naija girl!

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:52am On Dec 10, 2022

Oche211:
The girl is being smart and you have to be 5 steps ahead of her if you are to catch her.

Start by hacking her phone.
Get a powerful spyware; even if it means paying certain subscriptions and install it on her phone.
Give it permission to record everything including her locations, voice calls, Whatsapp, Facebook, etc

You can also hire a private investigator to follow her and take pics.

Go through her social media post and fish out suspicious comments and you will have your answers too.

The other guy may be crazy about her in his comments and also post her on his own wall.

Go to any length to catch her if she's truly cheating cos you can afford to wed a h*e bro.

Thanks boss! u get level

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:53am On Dec 10, 2022

frozen70:
I pity you

Of all the issues in this life, your worries are about a faithful lady and how to catch her cheating on you

Why are you giving yourself so much worries especially where there are no reasons for such

Anyway deal with it

You just want to develop BP where it's not even needed

No advice?

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:55am On Dec 10, 2022

stacyadams:
...of all the whole problems in this buhari tenure,Na to check ur girl WhatsApp,Instagram and face book...kuku go buy pre paid meter card slot into her ttoto see weda e go read or beep inside D tottoto. ..mosdii should we tell him?

so I should just keep quiet and let her cheat? or I'll end the relationship

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:56am On Dec 10, 2022

Nicepoker:
After you have slept with a married woman. Udofia you never see anything

I have repented now!!! I've stopped that life am now a new creature. abeg nicepoker na ur wisdom I need now

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:57am On Dec 10, 2022

Johnnycife:
When you have problems, you bring them on to nairaland how do you think folks would suspect

Johnnycife:
When you have problems, you bring them on to nairaland how do you think folks would suspect

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 9:58am On Dec 10, 2022

eventainment:
Two things here it's either she is cheating or she is not if she is cheating then she knows all the places you check, and she will wipe it clean; She knows you suspect her and she is smart enough to keep a clean track ... Or true your friend saw her with a guy that might be a close paddy and nothing else... Cause relationship is not bondage and a stay away from the opposite sex .. a lady that's dating and not married can keep male friends but she should know her boundaries. Cause what if you pursue all the persons that might have interest in her and you now back out... She will now start from square zero. A bird thats loyal is a bird that lives in an open cage but flies back to the cage to dwell not a bird that's always locked in a cage. And lastly ask your self this question;doesn't it look like your mind is praying to catch her even if possibly she isn't guilty and trust me it will be making you get angry that you aren't catching her in any act cause in your mind she is outsmarting you... I urge guys to hope for the best and expect the worst... A loyal woman will always be loyal but a bitvh will always be one...

Thanks baba!

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 10:00am On Dec 10, 2022

Truvelisback:
This one wey u wan get BP so. I hope u don't cheat? People wey don knack different kind of ladies well, well b4 sabi get this kind fear.

I have never cheated on her! that's y I want to be sure she's not and if she is cheating then its over, there are many fishes in the ocean

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 10:02am On Dec 10, 2022

ALCOHOLKILLS:
So was a friend was badmouthing my ex, told me a lot of nasty shit about my ex, little did I know he was lusting after my banny, one day both of them happened to visit one Sunday coincidentally. I say make I go buy something for my ex to prepare...... Half way I realize I forget my wallet and rush back home, opening my room unexpectedly, I caught them romancing like perverts I jam the door immediately, went to the Seating to chill na so both of them rush out accusing each other, these are guys wia no like themselves ooooo

OP both of them are doing something behind you

it can't be cos I go kill am myself. he can't try that shit abeg!!!

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 10:03am On Dec 10, 2022

Someodds:
She's not your wife yet, there's no law stopping her from banging another man.

haba! if I'm not banging another lady and faithful to her , is it then right for her to treat me that way?

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Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
hmmm!!! may be I shouldn't even plan on marrying a naija girl!

Mazi Udofia, go and marry ~~your~~ our fiancee and leave me alone biko. angry

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 10:20am On Dec 10, 2022

Nonexisting1:
Mazi Udofia, go and marry ~~your~~ our fiancee and leave me alone biko.

I won't leave you oh, I need your candid advice now

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Nobody: 10:34am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
I won't leave you oh, I need your candid advice now

Oya choose between her cheating on you and her stabbing you to death like people of her gender normally do now. Mazi Udofia, biko rest until your friend, the onyokometer send you a pictorial evidence to support his claim. Don't go and throway good woman based on hearsay. To see good woman in this Buhari's UAR now na herculean task. Almost every Nigerian girl dey into hookup now due to Buhari body odor so if na only one man dey fucck your fiancee, you need to manage her like that. You go rest now?

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Calibrator: 10:36am On Dec 10, 2022

My FWB boyfriend trusts her with his life but with this little information of mine, you now know better.

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Truvelisback(m): 10:42am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
I have never cheated on her! that's y I want to be sure she's not and if she is cheating then its over, there are many fishes in the ocean

Anyway, guys who do have this fear are mostly guy who have had sexual relationship with different kinds of ladies. They are likely to have trust issues with ladies.

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 11:05am On Dec 10, 2022

Truvelisback:
Anyway, guys who do have this fear are mostly guy who have had sexual relationship with different kinds of ladies. They are likely to have trust issues with ladies.

Its not as if I never trusted her, but I was shocked to hear she went to the mall with another man, if the guy is a friend she would have mentioned it

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 11:07am On Dec 10, 2022

Nonexisting1:
Oya choose between her cheating on you and her stabbing you to death like people of her gender normally do now. Mazi Udofia, biko rest until your friend, the onyokometer send you a pictorial evidence to support his claim. Don't go and throway good woman based on hearsay. To see good woman in this Buhari's UAR now na herculean task. Almost every Nigerian girl dey into hookup now due to Buhari body odor so if na only one man dey fucck your fiancee, you need to manage her like that. You go rest now?

Hmmm! I hear u nwanne! I wait for the pictorial evidence

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by udofia234(op): 11:08am On Dec 10, 2022

Calibrator:
My FWB boyfriend trusts her with his life but with this little information of mine, you now know better.

Women will never cease to be who they are back stabbers!!! spits!!

Re: Im Suspecting My Fiancée Is Cheating On Me, How Do I Catch Her Red Handed? by Uchenna10(m): 11:23am On Dec 10, 2022

udofia234:
Good evening every one!!!

I have an issue at hand, I'm in a serious relationship with a lady, in fact I intend marrying her, she spends her weekend with me, during her working days I check on her at her place of work and she's always there, she's so committed.

Just this Monday! A friend of mine said he saw her come to the shopping mall with a guy and the way they where on each other he's suspecting she's dating the guy, I just waved it off because I still went to her office that day and I saw her myself and that there's no way she could be the one, he felt embarrassed, so I told him anytime he sees them together again he should snap them and call me if I'm around that area I'll come see for my self.

After I got the info I never changed towards he and neither did I ask her about it, she even allowed me check her phone, I read through her msg, watttapp, Twitter, fb and others! guys I no see anything!!!

so I had that confidence that she ain't cheating on me, I mean she would have left a trace for me to know, she acts normal, she never changed towards me.

This time I intensified my checking on her and calls her regularly and when ever she didn't pick up she'll call me back apologizing.

Her movements and phones are crystal clean! I know my friend cannot lie to me cos he recognises her even in the dark! I'm hot on the inside knowing she's doing something behind me and I can't even trace anything. Before confronting her on anything I need to be sure she's really cheating....

To the wise men and women in the house! I wan catch her red handed or how do I unravel this mystery!

No let w0man matter make u loose guard....all of Dem cheat on a low......

Just give her 9 months course make ur mind calm

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