pocohantas:


His family should take care of him. Together with his side-chicks, they can do it.

Naija in-laws would not allow a woman breathe, but once she commot hand, they would totally forget that man exists. You begin to wonder their problem. Maybe they just wanted her out, not like they had grand plans for him.

Eriokanmi:
The lady really stood by him throughout the time he had health challenges. But she should have endured.

pocohantas:


Yes that is why women get married. Now can you go marry another wife and stop wailing?

It is you guys that do the most to scatter a marriage. Na una still claim say una no dey benefit from marriage. Okay, they have divorced you, another round of cry.

Chanel the tears into being better men. Not registering on dating sites.

mjuvey3:
Please before you abuse the lady,do some findings.

Julius is a serial fornicator and even all the time he was sick,he was cheating on his wife with different girls.....I can't count the number of times I've seen Julius at popular hotels & hangouts on the island frolicking with prostitutes.

Why won't she leave you? Look at the way he painted it as if the wife just left her without him doing anything wrong.


SMH

gratiaeo:
I have never see a man dumping his wife because of health challenges but you can't say same to women

nlfpmod:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/how-my-wife-dumped-me-julius-agwu/%3famp

pocohantas:


It is you that grew with animals if that is your only response to my post. Seek help first for yourself and whatever lowly creatures you have as family.



Very good. They should do just that.

tiswell:
let her be,

women(naija especially )are incapable of love

pocohantas:


Nasooo! The reason most women do not know that part of them is because we ruin everything with unnecessary display of emotions/desperation. When they jam the lethal and cold ones, they would be the ones making all the grand plans. The witch would just be there looking.

You have said it all! Nothing intrigues a man more than an unpredictable woman.

One4me:


Ten out of Ten, any Wife will leave her husband, once the money dries up, even if he was Daddy G.O.
Money-Go, Woman-Go, is what they say.
That is why l tell men not to invest in their Wives because if you lose your income/business, you will also lose your investments, double jeopardy be that.
Invest in Nigerian property, with your name alone on it, have rainy-day bank accounts in foreign countries like Dubai, invest in your "sensible" male friends,

Women, especially the Nigerian version, are who they are, let us stop thinking we can change a creature whom, even God Himself, was unsuccessful in Changing but had to drive her away in anger, from the Garden of Eden.

Mindlog:


If his wife "drove" him into the hands of those so called women, he should be happy he is now free to enjoy those so called women as much as he likes, without anyone accusing him of adultery as he is no longer married.

chrisxxx:

Is the only you have to say? U have cast the first stone as a sinless person. The wife is leaving him to get married to pope.

Reporting34:
Ok

Kobicove:
Only the presence of money guarantees love in marriage!

Treash:
No matter what happens in marriages, the truth is that it was instituted by God. There are homes with sweeteners and sweetnesses. God never changes His reasons of marriage in Eden. Most times, we're not careful of marriage exhibitions on social media. When marriages are conducted with view to display public affection, it will crumble soonest.

BigBashiru:


I didn't say that's why women get married...I said thats part of the reason....

I do agree with you that some guys no dey try for their marriage actually....there's fault on both sides....despite the fault of the guys the stats shows its women that initiate the vast majority of divorces often because they are no longer attracted to the guy or because money no ddey again and life has become uncomfortable....

sharpwriter:

Oya, come and be my side chick my sweet dear poco

pocohantas:


Marry another one. Men are polygamous and they have options.




Nasooooo

dominique:


If it was the woman accused of cheating you won't say it is an unhealthy habit of pointing fingers o. You would have joined others in chanting fear women o. Well, it's common knowledge that Julius Agwu is a serial cheat even before he got sick. The wife stood by him while he was sick only for him to resume the cheating full force when he got better. The wife is fed up and I absolutely don't blame her

BigBashiru:


No I won't marry another one...I will make the current one work....men are polygamous in a God fearing way.... I currently have 100 wives and 200 gfs and I want to get the number of wives up to 1000 by the end of this year and the number of girlfriends up to 750....

dominique:


If it was the woman accused of cheating you won't say it is an unhealthy habit of pointing fingers o. You would have joined others in chanting fear women o. Well, it's common knowledge that Julius Agwu is a serial cheat even before he got sick. The wife stood by him while he was sick only for him to resume the cheating full force when he got better. The wife is fed up and I absolutely don't blame her

pocohantas:


Better for you. If not, you would have to go stay with those your side chicks when you are old.

TheMaterialist:



Love = Depend

Some women(naija especially)are incapable on being fully Dependent on You because,
more often than not, they have other choices.

Same goes with some men too.

Always remember most people don't love(Depend on) you for who you are, but rather they love(Depend on) you for what you can GIVE them.

People only Love(Depend on) you, for the value
(Material, Emotional, Financial) you can add
to their Lives.

And that, is how the World Works.

BigBashiru:


I want to speak on your second paragraph (after the line you drew)....it is partly true that a man can stay married and have 200 side chicks....

However why do women decide to get married in the first place? Women only get married because they notice their attractiveness is in decline... if they could be forever 21 years old, the vast majority of females will be married and still hv side boyfriends....

That's life... everyone makes the most of what they have....as I say the females have the power early on and in full force but the power of the men outlive that of the females. Don't hate men hate nature....

A man will stay married and have 200 side chicks as long as the woman he is married to allows him. Most Nigerian men tend to overlook the role women play in their promiscuous lifestyles. A cheating married man retains his married status as long as his wife wants and as long as any woman he may be replacing his wife with allows it. When you continue to ignore this fact as a man, when cases like Julius's happens it hits you hard and almost unbearable for you all.

Traditionally most women married because they are expected to while Men get married because they have to. A lady can stay unmarried in a liberal society but a man can't because he would hardly survive it. Men need Women more than women need men, the fact that a woman is not enough for an average man proves this. You men are lucky enough to live in a society that gaslight women into not realizing their true strengths and virtues. Women get married not because of her attractiveness (something she knows she will lose in marriage) Women get married because it is expected of her. If women are given equal choices and opportunities in the Nigerian society most won't get married because marriage to a Nigerian man is DRAINING!

In as much as i would like to question what you mean by 'power' and how you use it, i would love to ask what benefits have you been able to use this "power" for other than the privilege to dig as many holes as you want. I won't go into it because it will make this post lengthy.Thats another topic for another day. Nevertheless, i will ask if a man remains young forever? Does a man have the 'power' to do as he pleases till forever? What happens to Old age? Who do you go back to when you are aged and wrinkled ? Your Wife! And guess what she gets to do with you as she pleases. You get back whatever you sow for your retirement plan.

kadraxkyle:
Women are mysterious. You cant understand them.

nenyewrites:



Have you ever come across the verse that God said He regretted creating man? Also that the heart of man is desperately wicked? Emphasis on the word desperate, meaning it longs to be wicked, it can't rest until it does a wicked act at least once a day. And here you're writing about women.

Persephone1:
A man will stay married and have 200 side chicks as long as the woman he is married to allows him. Most Nigerian men tend to overlook the role women play in their promiscuous lifestyles. A cheating married man retains his married status as long as his wife wants and as long as any woman he may be replacing his wife with allows it. When you continue to ignore this fact as a man, when cases like Julius's happens it hits you hard and almost unbearable for you all.

Traditionally most women married because they are expected to while Men get married because they have to. A lady can stay unmarried in a liberal society but a man can't because he would hardly survive it. Men need Women more than women need men, the fact that a woman is not enough for an average man proves this. You men are lucky enough to live in a society that gaslight women into not realizing their true strengths and virtues. Women get married not because of her attractiveness (something she knows she will lose in marriage) Women get married because it is expected of her. If women are given equal choices and opportunities in the Nigerian society most won't get married because marriage to a Nigerian man is DRAINING!

In as much as i would like to question what you mean by 'power' and how you use it, i would love to ask what benefits have you been able to use this "power" for other than the privilege to dig as many holes as you want. I won't go into it because it will make this post lengthy.Thats another topic for another day. Nevertheless, i will ask if a man remains young forever? Does a man have the 'power' to do as he pleases till forever? What happens to Old age? Who do you go back to when you are aged and wrinkled ? Your Wife! And guess what she gets to do with you as she pleases. You get back whatever you sow for your retirement plan.

TheMaterialist:


Love = Depend

You are Right

Only the prescence of money guarantees
Love(Dependency) in Marriage.

As long as She Depends on you she stays in the
Marriage, whether the Marriage is symbiotic
or parasitic, is of little importance.

Everyone has Needs and Wants and we usually
Stick to People that can Satisfy them.

Samantha123:
I always find it weird when the wife is taller in a marriage..

Lagos2Berlin:
Well, till we hear from the woman, I won't judge...

Either ways, people must realize that marriage is not an event, it is a lifetime contract. Some people think marriage is all about rosy times and building a family, whereas you signed up for everything- for better, for worse.