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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by zanshi: 3:23pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes i have, we were close mates back in high school and we went to separate Uni's, i schooled in Northern Nigeria briefly and because of the crisis up north talking about circa 2012, i had to relocate to SW. So he was in his final year whilst i was in year one in the Uni he went to, and to be honest he did help me with school reg and stuff but i needed him to help me design something on the web like a music blog like Naijaloaded and he would always say he is busy, yada yada yada. He dropped the bombshell one day when he said he dosen't like to walk/work with people who are not in his level i was gobsmacked, i started living life like a one man mopol in uni, i thank Jah that i was financially okay and could afford to do nice things for myself but i remember what happened aback it makes me a statement Gen. Sanni Abacha made whilst he was still in service "I don't have friends, friends are for weak people".

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by wabbyland(m): 3:25pm On Dec 14, 2022
I cut off one of my closest friends cos he was feeling like too much. Each time I call him, he'd say "I'm in a bus I'll call u back" and the excuse would last like 6-7 months or more. It wasn't just to me but all other friends of mine. That's how everyone decided to cut him off

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Jackanda1(m): 3:25pm On Dec 14, 2022
Was friends with a guy in my 100 and 200level, until he started to be too clingy, visited too often mostly unanounced, wants to cook, eat, sleep in my house and be around me all day. I never had any space for myself.

I started to avoid him.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by zanshi: 3:26pm On Dec 14, 2022
Jeon:
Cutting off people is my hobby.

I always give 1st, 2nd and the 3rd time is final.

And yanking off their Nos off my phone

I could swr say i don remove like 500+ pple this yr.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by BlackAIIDay: 3:27pm On Dec 14, 2022
Omo no reason am, na me be the bad friend were everybody dey cut-off tongue grin

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by missidy: 3:27pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes, I cut off a childhood friend whom I saw as my sister. She showed me she was a fake friend during my unemployment days, I discovered she was only pretending to like me. I gave her huge space. She got married January this year and invited me. I happily went only for her sisters to not answer me when I greeted them, her other sister didn't give me food when she was sharing grin. Everyone on the table noticed and notified her brother who finally brought food for me. Aunty spoilt my name finish to all her siblings, I was shocked at the things her brother said to me outside the wedding venue. I wished her happy married life and cut her off completely.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Kingjbase: 3:27pm On Dec 14, 2022
Jeon:
Cutting off people is my hobby.

I always give 1st, 2nd and the 3rd time is final.


I no dey even wait for 2nd time.... Because human beings are wicked and evil...

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Pharaoh4rin(m): 3:27pm On Dec 14, 2022
This my guy ehn, we don enter police cell for four different states and we don enter guardroom taya.
But in 2015, he said he was going to vote buhari. I refused. We argued, and I told him that if he vote buhari,, it'll mark the end of our friendship. He went ahead, and I cut him off. Till now we could not reconnect. I honor my word above myself and he knows it.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by MrHighSea: 3:27pm On Dec 14, 2022
It's an art less ppl drive you crazy

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by GboyegaD(m): 3:28pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes, a few.

In some cases, it wasn't intentional. I think life separated us and we couldn't keep up.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by jossytech(m): 3:28pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes oo completely, and my life get better

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by ojotobiloba1: 3:28pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes, how can someone be this cold is what I don't know.. Two weeks to my wedding,He stopped talking to me completely, Days after wedding, he can't text me Happy Married life sms, nigga just dey view status like a total stranger. This isn't entitlement, bur at least.. Happy married life sms is golden for a fwend of more than 20 years
If you can't be Dre for me wen I needed you the most in my life, shey wen someone Wan die u go rally round ni

Na so Fwendship scatter

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Eppking(m): 3:29pm On Dec 14, 2022
I got to friend's hostel back then in school and I met a girl I was eyeing cooking for my friend. I was almost in coma as I could not hold back my emotions.

I didn't end the friendship as I judged myself not have acted fast. I decided to allow love rule. I am still in touch with my friend and I was always there to ensure the relationship worked out well.

For us in diaspora, no friendship for here, na chop I chop. We all no dey pass boundary here.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by saintruky(m): 3:30pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes!! I loaned him 30k during d covid era, promised to pay d following month, he nor pay.. Later on baba accused me of wanting to snatch him babe... Omo i weak... D said babe like dey near me cos she love my voice to a fault... She just want make i dey talk to her...

Me n my guy nearly fight sef, but i applied wisdom n walked away... I had to cut him n d babe off completely... Till date baba no pay my 30k again...

D babe be wan settle us... But i know who that nigga be, saw he wasn't interested in d settlement, me just bone face...

I leave am for God...

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Smarte724(m): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2022
I just Cut one off recently, he brought his girlfriend to my office and introduce her to me as his junior sister, he plead that I allow her do IT in my office, which I accepted , the lady spent all the ASUU strike in my office doing her industrial training , I went extra mile to make sure that I trained her to be the best, recently my cousin called me and inform me that the girl was the guy girlfriend ,

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Johel(m): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2022
Carcholce:
Have you ever cut of a very close friend completely? If yes, give your reasons why you did.


Yes o....I realised he was the frienemy. Like when you have been good to someone for many years and the person whom you show love to doesn't even rate you,and it's not like he's got more money whatsoever than I do...But i move..

I don't keep snakes and snitches.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by rexesq(m): 3:31pm On Dec 14, 2022
Carcholce:
Have you ever cut of a very close friend completely? If yes, give your reasons why you did.

What else do you do with a green snake in the green grass?

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by New007: 3:34pm On Dec 14, 2022
gimakon2:
Ah omo, i had to. Dude was never supportive as far as anything that concerns me comes up, my startup, lets run it together, dude said No, he cannot answer me sir, i got a job let him stand as referee , dude said no. I ran into issues, help out dude said he cannot.

I said to myself, No point keeping this one as friend, make e kuku day go. Na so we become strangers
in 2 weeks , make e kuku follow 2022 day go final final.
na silent hater be that.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by MissLeslie(m): 3:35pm On Dec 14, 2022
Nothing like close friends in dictionary, I threat everyone equally, I don't expect some new from anyone,

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Angelfrost(m): 3:35pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yep... The path to greatness is a lonely one!

No time for certain attachments especially unproductive and parasitic ones.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by intruder15(m): 3:36pm On Dec 14, 2022
Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
It is hard but there are some things a man got to do ....because some friends dey do pass themselves....



me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
Oluwa run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin city come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I managed to picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same...I was no longer picking his subsequent calls...I cut am off
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now

Story whe make Slawomirr type English. Know say na strong thing.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Hollicom(m): 3:36pm On Dec 14, 2022
I have cut off so many close friends due to various reasons. I'm a practical person, once I found out you're snitching or infidel, I cut you off straight.

There's this particular one of my close friends, he accused me of seeing his ex wife and concluded I did it whereas I did not...a female friend of his, she's the one that told him this lies just for him to hate me and separate the two of us. But as foolish as he is he believed her without hearing my own version. So, I kuku deleted him away from my list of friends.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by PaAdu02(m): 3:38pm On Dec 14, 2022
I completely cut off a close frd that acts like mr know-it-all. and very selfish completely without leaving any % to doubt.I ve had to deal with his ways for years and we have both done favors for each other,but he can’t ever help u but like to oppress one,at some points he started making good contacts unknowingly to him,I started to make good money at that time ,him thinking I’m still that broke nigga,distanced himself from me completely for 2years,I changed country and finally decided to exit him for life from my life.and so shall it be .

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Bouncing2(m): 3:39pm On Dec 14, 2022
They just cutting my shiiit ass off everywhere!!! cry embarassed

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Tony4000: 3:39pm On Dec 14, 2022
Oh yes!

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Bouncing2(m): 3:40pm On Dec 14, 2022
They cutting my shiiit ass off everywhere!!! embarassed cry

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by LINTUNE(m): 3:42pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yh..he has always been a toxic friend, but he did something on October, the eve to my birthday, he just knowingly wanted to spoil my day pyschological, I just decided enough is enough...have cut him off for good, such that I don't feel guilty nor care about him one bit again...I don lock up for him matter.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Otunbakayce: 3:43pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes, 1. for supporting tinubu
2. For being a selfish bastard
3. For being a dirty cultist.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Smartlux(m): 3:43pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes,. The guy na complete SIMP

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Kujo(m): 3:44pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes, I had to cut off totally from this particular friend of more than 5 years and we were very close.

he tried sleeping with my gf and said so many negatives things about me because we share a room, he asked my gf to be sleeping with him when i go to work and they should pretend nothing happened when I'm back

so I left the place that same day and I will never have anything to do with him again.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by frank14011991(m): 3:45pm On Dec 14, 2022
I had to cut off my best friend for allowing Peter obi sweet mouth brain wash am

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