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I stopped listening to marriage counseling the day Pastor Chris and Anita Oyakhilome divorced

Pells1:
Your lips looks lonely
Do you mind keeping it busy with mine?

U wan join mouth with me so that tomorrow u go follow them dey insult me for this nairaland

Just 5%are the good ones...

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

njelrapheal:
so its not one or two. The worse of them are in tje majority. So u got work to do if u are good

I don't need anybody's validation Sha
I go do wetin I feel like

Totally agreed with you boss
Men didn't benefit from marriage, let's forget about divorce for now. Go and check those healthy family, 80% of them Father must have kicked d bucket. Too much responsibilities have sent Nigerian Men to early grave. For the remaining 20% When the time comes for Father to reap d fruits of their labour, our mothers always favour in the process they turned Children against their responsible father..

zilon12:
You will hear things like marry someone that have sense, after she married someone without sense for 17years

Ma broda I laughu when she talk dat tin.

Really she means say d person nor get Sense for marrying her.

For her mind "see this one oooh, he dey come marry me, he nor get Sense, nor worry after 16 years hin go know say he nor get Sense when he marry me, but if he nor realise, the for the 17th year I go tell am say he nor get Sense and waka

Bantu10:
No one on NL wants to read whatever you re writing. You are much hated. So shove ur opinion down ur ass

Ha!

sheriffindy:
Just 5%are the good ones...

No wahala o
E concern una

Dshocker:
Most times na educated women they toll this pathway.

What a mentality,

Make sure you marry an illiterate, make sure your daughters never smell the four walls of a school, so that they can sustain and remain in their marriage, since they are in fact marrying themselves, because divorces are automatically educated women's fault.

ernnie457:
U wan join mouth with me so that tomorrow u go follow them dey insult me for this nairaland

Lol I don't kiss and tell
Slide into my email let's gets things going
No time

If you want your marriage to work avoid these so called celebrities never let them be your role model when it comes to marriage. Let your mother or any other woman still in marriage be your role model and counselor. Many of your celebrities only marry to boost their ego. Just to be called MRS.

like say u never wicked[color=#000000][/color][i][/i] any man before

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

G00DHardDick:
A Man gains absolutely nothing from marriage. A woman gains so much that if she doesn't get married, she might end up killing herself. Have you ever seen a man displaying rings around? No! But a woman displays hers for the world to see. To a woman, marriage is her greatest achievement in life.

A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage, the earlier you understand this the better for you

Then stop getting married, this thing is not hard, stay single forever now, did anybody put a gun to your head to marry women?

Start by creating awareness and NGOs advocating and educating men to stop getting married, get an audience at the Senate to make men getting married ILLEGAL, that way we will see that y'all are really serious about it, instead of the constant online noise and rants that only ends here.

To teach others how to fail in marriage?

zinaunreal:
they become the best version of themselves

Super woman
I am me
I know me
Nothing less
Independent woman
Free
Go girl!
Woman wahala no get coma

I don't understand, do you expect them to hate themselves?

post=119412806:
We stopped reading at this point....

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Where is this nonsense coming from?!

Prove kee u dia

Here is the link to the research carried out by a reputable law firm.
[url]https://www.thejimenezlawfirm.com/why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/#:~:text=A%20study%20led%20by%20the,initiated%20divorce%20is%20even%20higher.[/url]

Are you happy now?

gfelo:
like say u never wicked[color=#000000][/color][i][/i] any man before

Na do me I do u
If u r good to me I'll reciprocate

Biglittlelois:
Then stop getting married, this thing is not hard, stay single forever now, did anybody put a gun to your head to marry women?

Start by creating awareness and NGOs advocating and educating men to stop getting married, get an audience at the Senate to make men getting married ILLEGAL, that way we will see that y'all are really serious about it, instead of the constant online noise and rants that only ends here.

If this happens, your gender might wail to deaths. Some might start committing sucide. Go online and see how ladies in their late 20s and early 30s all complained of not getting married. Go to Facebook you'll see thousands of them. This is to tell u that women gains so much from marriage that they all sees it as their greatest life achievement. Too bad!

A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage at all.

CHoccolaTE:
This is what useless Nigerian men want naa, I said it.

They want to be catered for 100% but also control the women catering for them like slaves.

Hopeless, greedy and lazy animals.

And if the man is catering for the woman and her family100% the woman is also useless and most Nigeria women are in that useless group

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

Leave them to keep wailing...you even get time.

CHoccolaTE:
This is what useless Nigerian men want naa, I said it.

They want to be catered for 100% but also control the women catering for them like slaves.

Hopeless, greedy and lazy animals.

Haaa

Proverbs 22:6

And we still doubt the BIble.

CHoccolaTE:
My dear it means we are all alike ooo
That's exactly what it means
They should leave us alone and marry women from other countries, you don't need to type anything to console them or discourage them from their bitterness.

Who dash monkey banana?
Which women from other countries will even look them twice? People wey never fit chop belleful? Biko don't make me laugh
They think it's Nigerian women they treat like trash? Let them go an try it abroad that's even if they can. Na only laugh I dey laugh since.
Those that have the means and are well to do sef just dey on a low. But some jigolo wanna b no go allow us rest.

iamsolasoul:
Experience gives us wisdom just like it gives you a boner. We like to use our wisdom from preventing others from going through the same issue. Women really suffer everyday. The quicker we realize signs like asking for money you avoid problem.

Teach a man to fish not phish

Not wisdom, experience. If such women were wise, their marriages won't have scattered.

Meanwhile, washed up divorcee ladies don't ever want to see their fellow women enjoy marriages. They come up with various stupid stories and ideas to poison the minds of their fellow ladies.

G00DHardDick:
If this happens, your gender might wail to deaths. Some might start committing sucide. Go online and see how ladies in their late 20s and early 30s all complained of not getting married. Go to Facebook you'll see thousands of them. This is to tell u that women gains so much from marriage that they all sees it as their greatest life achievement. Too bad!

A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage at all.

So how does it affect you if we wail to death about it? All of a sudden you care if we wail and cry? Lmao confused lots, yes ladies are complaining about not getting married, it shouldn't affect your existence, let us wail and cry in peace, we don't need you boys to wail and cry on our behalf like you all do on this forum everyday, it is you boys that create thousands of threads about women everyday, there is even a dedicated redpill thread on romance section dedicated to talk about women and insult us, it is an obsession cum addiction, this forum is a testament to the fact you boys do not practice what you preach, your everyday life are solely dedicated to women, we don't gain anything from marriage, men gain more, yet cry the most, it's sad really

If men gain nothing from marriage, stay away from it, advocate and educate your gender against marriage, go to the Senate and propose to make it illegal, very simple.

The indifference to marriage today compared to our parent's time is because today's ladies have phuqued a plethora of different pricks so they are confused, sad and damaged.

Feminists and liberals don't tell them the truth:

A lady is damaged already when she has tasted more than one man

Biglittlelois:
I'm yet to see how their way of life affects you men, as far as their bitterness and feminism does not disturb your existence, and their marriage advices does not disrupt your being, mind the business that pays you.

The foolish thing about them is they that they have sisters and they'll come here to spew trash! Like I begin to wonder if they are venting based on how females in their lives or families behave. I don't really get...I don't have any brother(wish I had just 1) reason I try as much as possible to give a man the respect he deserves.
Sometimes you begin to wonder if it's wrong parenting...na wa o

Biglittlelois:
So how does it affect you if we wail to death about it? All of a sudden you care if we wail and cry? Lmao confused lots, yes ladies are complaining about not getting married, it shouldn't affect your existence, let us wail and cry in peace, we don't need you boys to wail and cry on our behalf like you all do on this forum everyday, it is you boys that create thousands of threads about women everyday, there is even a dedicated redpill thread on romance section dedicated to talk about women and insult us, it is an obsession cum addiction, this forum is a testament to the fact you boys do not practice what you preach, your everyday life are solely dedicated to women, we don't gain anything from marriage, men gain more, yet cry the most, it's sad really

If men gain nothing from marriage, stay away from it, advocate and educate your gender against marriage, go to the Senate and propose to make it illegal, very simple.

What's this one saying?

If men stop asking for your hands in marriage, who will those thousands of women on Facebook and offline get married to? Is it trees and plants? If men Stop approaching you women, the rate of sucide among you ladies in Nigeria will be on the increase on a Daily, let alone if the man stop getting married to you, Nigeria govt will have to build a massive graveyard for this because the rate of women that will commit sucide Will be terrible.

Every Sane human knows a man gains absolutely nothing from marriage whatsoever, so what are you saying? How old are you exactly? Tell your gender to stop going online to complain that men ain't getting married to them. Tell them that's how it should be because men do not Gain anything from marriage.

Biglittlelois:
What a mentality,

Make sure you marry an illiterate, make sure your daughters never smell the four walls of a school, so that they can sustain and remain in their marriage, since they are in fact marrying themselves, because divorces are automatically educated women's fault.

U sef dey see wetin I dey see?

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toujurs:
They are emotional being, especially after sex they become emotionally attached.

If you dump her afterwards, she begins to behave like a witch, and starts hunting you. Till she gets tired

Funny you! . . . She starts hunting you till she gets tired. No be stress she dey stress herself ni

Biglittlelois:
What a mentality,

Make sure you marry an illiterate, make sure your daughters never smell the four walls of a school, so that they can sustain and remain in their marriage, since they are in fact marrying themselves, because divorces are automatically educated women's fault.

Be it as it may, the truth is bitter.

I am a graduate and by the grace of God, i will still get married to a graduate.

Quote me anywhere "Educated women tends to cause more problems in marriage, than uneducated ones"...

Mind you, i never said every educated women, but the ratio is higher with them.