₦airaland Forum

Kaysalas:
Just thought of you so as to wish you a merry Christmas but see posts
You haven't changed this your uncouth behaviour, even on Xmas day
Anyway sha, I need you to change for the better this coming year. Also begin to prepare the ground, I am coming to know ya parents
I want to take you off the "list"

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Hahaha

Merry Christmas to you too

keyhole2015:
Our parents lasted cos the women were submissive and strongly recognize that the man is the head of the house even if the has nothing

Western culture has corrupted our values

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

NLPoliceWoman:
S?eun Mnd44 Ju?stwise Dminique.
Rule 2.

toujurs:
They are emotional being, especially after sex they become emotionally attached.

If you dump her afterwards, she begins to behave like a witch, and starts hunting you. Till she gets tired

JoshuaSG:
Many nigerian ladies step into marriage from hookup life.
The environment soon become discomforting When the marriage disallow the hookup activity they are already adept to. As a result, they consider divorce to resume their holdup business in the guise of feminism.

nnanna69:
Fowl. go roast Jor.

Bantu10:
No one on NL wants to read whatever you re writing. You are much hated. So shove ur opinion down ur ass

Sweetplum:
Merry Christmas sir. And happy new year in advance.

AutoRedux:
Boys, focus on yourselves. A word is enough for the wise.

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se.x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*


There was a time she went to visit my dad and stumbled on him negotiating with an electrician to help fix a light issue. My wife just laughed and told my dad not to pay anyone a dime that she will do it. She requested for a plier and screw driver and within a short while she don fix the light. My papa fear! Up till this moment, it never ceases to amaze him. She's the reason why I developed my technical skills too, me wey no dey fit fix anything before self don turn senior man.

In conclusion, until Nigerian ladies do away with their crude mentality and become more dynamic. Marriages will continue to crash.

zinaunreal:
Omo how you take know say them no rub am for my face. You know me before?. Its obvious you're a pained feminist. My friend if you dey find who go Greese your punna this christmas slide away abeg. I don't do ego bloated eves. To me you're all nothing but baby factories

Seunpaul01:
You be Mumu.

You started well but f up with how ur dad and you couldn't fix minor electrical faults at home. And in turn using that as a credit to your wife.

Just like my ex mentioning how her dad praised her mother for not allowing him to go use some money to buy car but instead tell or implore him to go use it to start building on their land.

Nonsense! Men that would wait on their wives before making meaningful decisions are not men abeg.

G00DHardDick:
CC: Biglittlelois

Bro.Tell them a man gains absolutely nothing from marriage. This One has been here arguing with me endlessly. Aunty rest! A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage

Fiscus105:
MAY YOU NOT GAIN ANYTHING IN YOUR MARRIAGE! AMEN.


meanwhile, man gains more in marriage much more than woman,
1. An adult will discard her pertenal name and start bearing ur name.

2. One person will bear so much pains for 9 months to bear children

3. The children will not bear the name of person that had excruciating pain but man.

4. She will be doing house chores for u while u be like king in the parlor

5. Man that may be the least in his office/working place, when he gets home, he will be controlling woman and kids like king.

So much more.

Biglittlelois:
Just cos you are a product of a baby factory doesn't mean everyone is like you, because it is so obvious you grew up in a dysfunctional home where punna is always greesed in your presence to the extent that your brain matter can only come up with greesed punna and feminism thoughts when a female quotes you, sad lots.

Amumaigwe:
I bet you most people don't get up to 10% of those "benefits" you wrote down in their marriage, besides those 10% can even be outsourced with much less stress.

Wordsfrombimpe:
I am not a feminist infact my views is general

If you love me , you can shoot your shot and yes I am single

Don't be afraid

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se.x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*


There was a time she went to visit my dad and stumbled on him negotiating with an electrician to help fix a light issue. My wife just laughed and told my dad not to pay anyone a dime that she will do it. She requested for a plier and screw driver and within a short while she don fix the light. My papa fear! Up till this moment, it never ceases to amaze him. She's the reason why I developed my technical skills too, me wey no dey fit fix anything before self don turn senior man.

In conclusion, until Nigerian ladies do away with their crude mentality and become more dynamic. Marriages will continue to crash.

Seunpaul01:
You be Mumu.

You started well but f up with how ur dad and you couldn't fix minor electrical faults at home. And in turn using that as a credit to your wife.

Just like my ex mentioning how her dad praised her mother for not allowing him to go use some money to buy car but instead tell or implore him to go use it to start building on their land.

Nonsense! Men that would wait on their wives before making meaningful decisions are not men abeg.

SodiumValproate:
I indirectly have

Wordsfrombimpe:
Hmmn alright

SodiumValproate:
So what's up?

delpee:
Hmmm! I believe that he's only pointing out that he has a woman who adds value to his life. Not all women are dumbos piling pressure on a man for everything.

EdoBoy90:
We should tread with caution.

Ladies, what are the issues?

KingLennon:
It's the truth and many of them are here on Nairaland. The social media world has really affected our women...³





Yesterday's women (our mothers) were much better!