Tokskob2008:

Olosho wey carry her "hard earned" money worth several thousands buy gifts for person should at least be treated with a little respect don't you think

Many dey do the olosho work yet still billing their boyfriends to death

If it is actually money gotten from olosho, then the means is not decent.

Take her with all those things to visit your mother. She will accept her gift

Aareakinwunmi:


Don't be stupid little girl.

Imagine me calling you an Olosho just because I assumed you can't afford some of the things you use.

How will you feel? I still maintain my word "Not every young man or woman living a good life are into fraud or runs".

If you are intelligent and wise enough, you could have decipher sense, the benefits of being an only child as op said.


It's a pity how lack of sense can delude one a lot of things.


Merry Xmas.

You are an asswipe if you need to be told I didn't say she was any of these assumptions you creating from a place of emptiness.
She saved to buy abaya for the boyfriend's mother. If she was from a rich home, she won't save to buy 15k abaya for who no send am

AuroraB:
You are an asswipe if you need to be told I didn't say she was any of these assumptions you creating from a place of emptiness.
She saved to buy abaya for the boyfriend's mother. If she was from a rich home, she won't save to buy 15k abaya for who no send am

Go back to that post and try rereading.

Have a wonderful day.

henrixx:
calm down bro. Op said she's the only child, her parents could give everything to make her happy, possibly as its always the case with an only child. op sef don follow am for almost one year, he suppose don know If na olosho. just calms

So if she is an olosho op will tell us? So every family that has just a child are invararably rich? Op told you she doesn't have any source of income say na him dey support am small but still yet she is a fashion freak and you dey wait make Satan come tell you her work. Ok. Wetin be her work since she no be olosho not from a wealthy family,can dash upto 30 cloths of not less than 6k each,still collecting small small Chang from op.

Aareakinwunmi:


Go back to that post and try rereading.

Have a wonderful day.

So every only child comes from a wealthy family? Poor people no dey born only one pikin? Una know the truth but wan people to see Una as good guys. Smh. Tell us her work Oga stop blabbing.

Justbehave:
So every only child comes from a wealthy family? Poor people no dey born only one pikin? Una know the truth but wan people to see Una as good guys. Smh. Tell us her work Oga stop blabbing.

As you grow old, I hope you grow in wisdom also.

Aareakinwunmi:


As you grow old, I hope you grow in wisdom also.

You didn't answer my question. Let me repeat it. So all only child's comes from a well to do family? Yes or No. Mr wisdom.

Justbehave:
You didn't answer my question. Let me repeat it. So every all only child's comes from a well to do family? Yes or No. Mr wisdom.

You keep acting foolish.


Let me imagine your parents are not that rich, but they have 5 of you and they finance you all to the best of their ability.


Now imagine how enjoyable life would be if you and 3 others were not birthed.


Life would be at least better for the one who was birthed, more gifts from aunties and uncles.

Aareakinwunmi:


You keep acting foolish.


Let me imagine your parents are not that rich, but they have 5 of you and they financial you all to the best of their ability.


Now imagine how enjoyable life would be if you and 3 others were not birthed.


Life would be at least better for the one who was birthed, more gifts from aunties and uncles.

Na her fellow woman still tell you say I'd life was easy for her she wouldn't be saving to buy 15k cloth for the woman. Why she no tell op say her rich family give her the money? Because she knows op knew she is from a poor home that's why she lied that she saved it. Ode. Use your brain

Justbehave:
Na her fellow woman still tell you say I'd life was easy for her she wouldn't be saving to buy 15k cloth for the woman. Why she no tell op say her rich family give her the money? Because she knows op knew she is from a poor home that's why she lied that she saved it. Ode. Use your brain

At this point.


I can confirm you are Childish, Moronic and Brainless.


Take care.

Justbehave:
Shatap. This na Wetin you just talk because you no wan accept the truth. Why you no write am before say her family get money? Na now weh we don tell you the truth you come dey revise. Chill abeg. Your mama get sense.

Who hurt you bro. You seem to be carrying this on your head even more than the OP's mom . Hope all is well bro...I'm genuinely asking

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.

bro no return abeg, it will upset ur beb and the relationship will not be strong bcox ur beb go run away

cyrusmillz:


Who hurt you bro. You seem to be carrying this on your head even more than the OP's mom . Hope all is well bro...I'm genuinely asking

Says a sensiless fool

Aareakinwunmi:


At this point.


I can confirm you are Childish, Moronic and Brainless.


Take care.

Adult answer my question nah.

Send the gifts to your sisters,

Why he be say na poor people dey first catch witch and dey carry spiritual matter for head?

One of the things a lady should check before going into any family is if the family especially the mother are those that are always fighting spiritual battle. Na to Japa be that.

G00DHardDick:


You sound so dumb and daft. Not all girls are olosho? What business could possibly a Nigerian girl who's in sch be doing? Oga didn't you read where the op said the girl is fashion freak? (A typical Nigerian olosho way of life). The OP never told us that she works, neither did he made mentioned of her parents being rich.
Are you so daft not to know that all those clothes she claimed to have was gotten from her olosho business? Bros, I'm very sure she collected most of the clothes from those yahoo boys who use to bang her. A typical Nigerian olosho. You better stop defending rubbish here.

#1. Stop making conclusions without first hand knowledge. It's dangerous, and would bite your ass someday.

#2. Learn to pass message without insults. Until then, no one would take you seriously in civil discourse, especially on here.

You aren't worth engaging. Just seeing your handle. Oops!


OP, you too must confirm the livelihood of your girlfriend so your story is balance. Let's be sure her income source is legit.

Poverty full this country na today I believe!

Ordinary 15k that a student (saved) over an (unknown period of time) automatically means the lady is an olosho?

Buhari..........

iamL:
Poverty full this country na today I believe!

Ordinary 15k that a student (saved) over an (unknown period of time) automatically means the lady is an olosho?

Buhari...

G00DHardDick

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pyyxxaro:
Which one be Ayaya Gown again



What your Mum sees while sitting under a table , if you climb 2 mtn / Glo mast joined together you won’t see it



You mum knows you are like TONY UMEZ , she doesn’t want you to end up crying and shouting DOORLING DOORLING DOORLING

Wow

Justbehave:
Op said she has no means of livelihood. If she was into online trading op will know but in this case,he doesn't. know of any.

You nairaland guys eeh! Una matter tire person aswear.

If the lady was the leechy type now, una go dey talk say she dey useless.

Now she's the one giving and showing love, una don conclude say she dey do olosho work haba!

She might have elderly ones that are helping her financially so let her rest abeg!

This is Christmas time and a season of love and giftings, even to people you don't know. To me, she's matured and open minded in thought.

And you, who have you given a gift this season? No dey form bad belle ooh!

AuroraB:
You are an asswipe if you need to be told I didn't say she was any of these assumptions you creating from a place of emptiness.
She saved to buy abaya for the boyfriend's mother. If she was from a rich home, she won't save to buy 15k abaya for who no send am

Some people are cultured you know. A little experience from me, I take style beg for airtime Xmas gift on my Facebook timeline, someone I've never seen before, just a Facebook friend sent me N2000. Some people are just like that. They like being caring because it's the season.

peepydelano:
op no even care where she get money to buy all those things and he quickly bought her story of saving for it. This op no sharp gaskiya

Omo the chic no Dey ask OP wey he Dey get his money; it’s simply respect that you don’t bother as far as there ain’t any issues so far, life is better simple
Relationship no be boarding school

ZiiVentures:


You nairaland guys eeh! Una matter tire person aswear.

If the lady was the leechy type now, una go dey talk say she dey useless.

Now she's the one giving and showing love, una don conclude say she dey do olosho work haba!

She might have elderly ones that are helping her financially so let her rest abeg!

This is Christmas time and a season of love and giftings, even to people you don't know. To me, she's matured and open minded in thought.

And you, who have you given a gift this season? No dey form bad belle ooh!

See this one weh no even understand Wetin him read dey talk sef. Smh.Go and eat. Hungar dey your body

Justbehave:
See this one weh no even understand Wetin him read dey talk sef. Smh.

Work on brain bro. It's really oozing out stupidity!

ZiiVentures:


Work on brain bro. It's really oozing out stupidity!

If you have brains you won't be begging for airtime on your FB profile. Use your brain to go make money

Justbehave:
See this one weh no even understand Wetin him read dey talk sef. Smh.Go and eat. Hungar dey your body

I don't blame you.

ZiiVentures:


I don't blame you.

Blame the poverty in your life

Justbehave:
If you have brains you won't be begging for airtime on your FB profile. Use your brain to go make money

Look at this idiat! You think I'm as jobless as you?

ZiiVentures:


Look at this idiat! You think I'm as jobless as you?

Keep begging for airtime. Dangote.