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Story simply does not add up. If Police hear your story, dem go hold you.

Next person please!

She is just there to completely destroy your marriage,the day u will bleep her just know it is finished warn her seriously

shomutuski:
Dumbest comment 2022 yet, that's all you can think of? Pathetic

Afo sagbue gi there

They take the relationship for granted, you break up with them and the next thing, they're stalking you.
I don't understand this gender one bit.

Buddha3:
Not necessarily.

I broke up with my ex of 2years cause she always exhibited violent tendencies when she's upset. Less than 2 months later, I met my wife on a Job in Cameroon. Three months into the new relationship, I did her introduction and Court marriage. Another three months further, we were properly married.

Relate that with the OP's case.

Your story and OP’s have no common ground. Nothing to reason with him over.

funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

All this "I was the one who sponsored her schooling" gang. I don't know why some of you feel you are obligated to sponsor a girl in school. Are you getting any award for it? With this mentality, you automatically think you own the girl. What a crude way of thinking. When the girl starts misbehaving, you start forming Voltron. Your fellow guys even family go ask una for money, una no go give because you became foster father to one babe.

Beautiful, this is classy...

ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering

funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

Thank God you know the right thing

Some ladies are destroyers

funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

She wants your gbola Tinubu one more time

Is all this for showing off.
as a matured guy, you don't put Frivolity on social media.

Who can battle with Lord? No body no one nothing.
Thanks be the Lord El Shaddai.

ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering

Hehehe
I swr you no well

funkmrflexx:
I met my wife and within 4 months we got married. And she's the best thing ever

Nice one Sir, I hope to tow same part, all this dating forever am not a fan of it.

You are also stalking her in my opinion, how did you know she got an iPhone, how did you know it was the guy that bought it for her, how did you know the guy rented an apartment for her, you seem to know too much about her new relationship how come?. I understand you made an investment and it hurts that it didn't yield. Just let her be.

Calling her will only mk matter worse. Focus on ur fam n be happy

Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

This would have been good but she will inform your wife and hope to break your marriage.

olasaad:
That's how most of you end up with a second wife

What is wrong with having a second wife?

funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

correct guy.

Leebeedo:
This would have been good but she will inform your wife and hope to break your marriage.

and what can the wife do?

you dont need to call her. just tell your wife not to accept any friend request from her.

funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

Hope your wife has something doing Sha, because she seems to have time to help you accept request and all. On your path, don't bleep her ever again, just let her be when she is tired she will move on. She knows what she is doing and her target is your marriage. Don't fall for it.

funkmrflexx:
I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

Wise man

funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

This is about to become my situation. Mine I even married her after spending my sweat on making sure she become somebody in life. I am currently on the verge of divorce.

are you a profiler?

ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering

Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

The OP MUST not bleep her again. Bleeping her again will be a very dangerous move by the OP. I will say that the OP should ignore her totally but if she happens to call the OP, pick her call and listen to what she wants to talk but don't accept her back and don't render any financial help again. The rule is keep your friends close but your enemies closer. Shalom

Fiscus105:
Oga not that she needs ur dick o, but she realized she missed great opportunity and she is thinking she might not have such golden opportunity again, knowing fully well you married, she now realized is not always greener at other side.


Meanwhile, atimes, I'm not blaming girls for putting up attitude in relationship/marriage but we men, .....when a man starts spoiling girls that not yet his wife, money and material gifts that are even way beyond her level, going by ur story, you and the guy she met on campus, treated her beyond her level, hence she becomes spoiled child, not in the hand of parents but boyfriends

In addition to this, this is more reason why marriage not used to last, when a lady knew how she has been spoit with material and financial gifts in relationship and not seeing such when she finally married, thre are high tendency, either to make the marriage toxic or start immorality because of mentality she had during relationship.

you are an experience person bro. My brother's wife just left my brother last week, she said her ex used to give her money More than my brother. Marriage that is just 1yr old. quarrel upon quarrel.

dalass:
This is the most sensible post. How did he know the new guy is richer, has a car, bought the ex-girlfriend an iphone after ending the relationship since a year ih he himself is not stalking his ex?

He's accusing her of what he is guilty of

I intentionally opened to page 3 and I didn't see any response to those questions which I would love to see...

Please, incase he answers them, can you tag me too

funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)
..
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

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She is a lady. You hurt her ego but she needs closure. The only reason she is contacting you is to get close to you, then be the one to break up with you. Don’t oblige her. It ain’t got nothing to do with love.

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She wants attention that she doesn't need. Probably doesn't want to sleep with you, just that it's hard to let go that way. She'd be fine for you to just keep in touch and applaud her once in a while.

Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

Hahahhahahaha

some of them are foolish.

advanceDNA:
Paying school fees??
.... is like some of you no dey hear word..

Bros run from your ex o. Na trap she wan set for you, don't go back to your vomit.