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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Cantonese: 10:58am On Dec 27, 2022
Story simply does not add up. If Police hear your story, dem go hold you.

Next person please!

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by benqo01(m): 10:58am On Dec 27, 2022
She is just there to completely destroy your marriage,the day u will bleep her just know it is finished warn her seriously

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Nobody: 10:58am On Dec 27, 2022
shomutuski:

Dumbest comment 2022 yet, that's all you can think of? Pathetic
Afo sagbue gi there
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by atinga1: 10:58am On Dec 27, 2022
They take the relationship for granted, you break up with them and the next thing, they're stalking you.
I don't understand this gender one bit.

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Cantonese: 11:00am On Dec 27, 2022
Buddha3:


Not necessarily.

I broke up with my ex of 2years cause she always exhibited violent tendencies when she's upset. Less than 2 months later, I met my wife on a Job in Cameroon. Three months into the new relationship, I did her introduction and Court marriage. Another three months further, we were properly married.

Relate that with the OP's case.

Your story and OP’s have no common ground. Nothing to reason with him over.

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by CheapHomes1: 11:02am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on

All this "I was the one who sponsored her schooling" gang. I don't know why some of you feel you are obligated to sponsor a girl in school. Are you getting any award for it? With this mentality, you automatically think you own the girl. What a crude way of thinking. When the girl starts misbehaving, you start forming Voltron. Your fellow guys even family go ask una for money, una no go give because you became foster father to one babe.

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Antai123(m): 11:03am On Dec 27, 2022
Beautiful, this is classy...
ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by bonnyhope: 11:03am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:


I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

Thank God you know the right thing

Some ladies are destroyers

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Oceanjagaban: 11:03am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on
She wants your gbola Tinubu one more time
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Babastrong(m): 11:04am On Dec 27, 2022
Is all this for showing off.
as a matured guy, you don't put Frivolity on social media.

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by weljewel: 11:05am On Dec 27, 2022
Who can battle with Lord? No body no one nothing.
Thanks be the Lord El Shaddai.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by ViceGovernor: 11:07am On Dec 27, 2022
ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering
Hehehe grin grin grin
I swr you no well
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by donem: 11:07am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:


I met my wife and within 4 months we got married. And she's the best thing ever
Nice one Sir, I hope to tow same part, all this dating forever am not a fan of it.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by 3verblazing(m): 11:07am On Dec 27, 2022
You are also stalking her in my opinion, how did you know she got an iPhone, how did you know it was the guy that bought it for her, how did you know the guy rented an apartment for her, you seem to know too much about her new relationship how come?. I understand you made an investment and it hurts that it didn't yield. Just let her be.

Calling her will only mk matter worse. Focus on ur fam n be happy

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Leebeedo(m): 11:11am On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her

This would have been good but she will inform your wife and hope to break your marriage.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by MrColdsweat: 11:12am On Dec 27, 2022
olasaad:


That's how most of you end up with a second wife
What is wrong with having a second wife?
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Bryan88(m): 11:13am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:


I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex
correct guy.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Nobody: 11:24am On Dec 27, 2022
Leebeedo:


This would have been good but she will inform your wife and hope to break your marriage.

and what can the wife do?
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Hafis1(m): 11:28am On Dec 27, 2022
you dont need to call her. just tell your wife not to accept any friend request from her.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Orangedreams: 11:29am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on





Hope your wife has something doing Sha, because she seems to have time to help you accept request and all. On your path, don't bleep her ever again, just let her be when she is tired she will move on. She knows what she is doing and her target is your marriage. Don't fall for it.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by 080bjaked(m): 11:29am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:


I can't have anything to do with her again. That chapter is already closed. I can't destroy my marriage cus of my ex

Wise man
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by MansoryMX(m): 11:30am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I got married. I was the one who ended the relationship because she started misbehaving when she got into school, it seems she was tired of the relationship cus she met other guys who could give her what she wanted (I was the one who sponsored her schooling) so I ended it because It seems she was bigger than me and I couldn't contain her anymore.
When I told i I didn't want the relationship, she was suprised because I had spent a lot on her school so she thought I couldn't end it cus I've invested in her school. But I shocked her and ended everything.
She started bragging that she would meet someone better than me and I said no problem There are a lot of guys out there she should try I luck. But I told her she might find a guy that's richer than I am but she won't find a guy like me. So I moved on with my life, not up to 3 months after we broke up she met someone else, the guy bought her an iPhone(she started freaking out about iPhone cus she sees girls in her school use it) the guy has a car and even rented a new apartment for her

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)

So this morning my wife told me that she saw a friend request notification from someone on Facebook looked like my ex, but when she went to accept the friend request it has already been deleted. She later searched the name on Facebook and found out it was my ex.
I just told my wife not to answer her or anything.
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on



This is about to become my situation. Mine I even married her after spending my sweat on making sure she become somebody in life. I am currently on the verge of divorce.

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Hafis1(m): 11:30am On Dec 27, 2022
are you a profiler?
ifihearam:
You broke up with her a year ago?
She blocked you on all social media platforms?
How did you know she got an iphone or met a guy who paid for an apartment for her?
How did you know about her current faring?
Lastly, how did you get married within a space of 9 months?

She is just checking your wife out if she is better more beautiful than her same way you got information of her current situation.

Not stalking its called data analysis/gathering
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by FireUpNow(m): 11:30am On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her
The OP MUST not bleep her again. Bleeping her again will be a very dangerous move by the OP. I will say that the OP should ignore her totally but if she happens to call the OP, pick her call and listen to what she wants to talk but don't accept her back and don't render any financial help again. The rule is keep your friends close but your enemies closer. Shalom
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Edipet(m): 11:31am On Dec 27, 2022
Fiscus105:




Oga not that she needs ur dick o, but she realized she missed great opportunity and she is thinking she might not have such golden opportunity again, knowing fully well you married, she now realized is not always greener at other side.


Meanwhile, atimes, I'm not blaming girls for putting up attitude in relationship/marriage but we men, .....when a man starts spoiling girls that not yet his wife, money and material gifts that are even way beyond her level, going by ur story, you and the guy she met on campus, treated her beyond her level, hence she becomes spoiled child, not in the hand of parents but boyfriends

In addition to this, this is more reason why marriage not used to last, when a lady knew how she has been spoit with material and financial gifts in relationship and not seeing such when she finally married, thre are high tendency, either to make the marriage toxic or start immorality because of mentality she had during relationship.
you are an experience person bro. My brother's wife just left my brother last week, she said her ex used to give her money More than my brother. Marriage that is just 1yr old. quarrel upon quarrel.

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by cliqtips: 11:32am On Dec 27, 2022
dalass:


This is the most sensible post. How did he know the new guy is richer, has a car, bought the ex-girlfriend an iphone after ending the relationship since a year ih he himself is not stalking his ex?

He's accusing her of what he is guilty of grin grin grin

I intentionally opened to page 3 and I didn't see any response to those questions which I would love to see...

Please, incase he answers them, can you tag me too grin

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by InvertedHammer: 11:36am On Dec 27, 2022
funkmrflexx:
I've broken up with my ex for a year now, after I broke up I

Even after meeting this new guy she has been stalking me on social media, first it was facebook and Instagram but I ignored it (mind you she has blocked me on all social media platforms including whatsapp and my phone numbers)
..
I still wonder why she's still stalking me on social media when she has obviously found someone she thinks it's better than me.
I was thinking about calling her and warning her off my wife. I can take her stalking me and all but my wife is where it ends.

It's been a year she should move on
/

She is a lady. You hurt her ego but she needs closure. The only reason she is contacting you is to get close to you, then be the one to break up with you. Don’t oblige her. It ain’t got nothing to do with love.

/

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Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Oludara202: 11:36am On Dec 27, 2022
She wants attention that she doesn't need. Probably doesn't want to sleep with you, just that it's hard to let go that way. She'd be fine for you to just keep in touch and applaud her once in a while.
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Hassanmaye(m): 11:37am On Dec 27, 2022
Braveboi1:
She needs your dick, chop her again and leave her
Hahahhahahaha
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by frog12: 11:41am On Dec 27, 2022
some of them are foolish.

advanceDNA:
Paying school fees??
.... is like some of you no dey hear word..
Re: My Ex Is Stalking Me And My Wife On Social Media by Aguilar(m): 11:49am On Dec 27, 2022
Bros run from your ex o. Na trap she wan set for you, don't go back to your vomit.

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