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Ibechris2:
U have a nice uncle.

But we may not know the full story here but it's indeed painful to hear stories like this.

I wonder how some women prioritise affairs over their children's future.

But if u are close to 25 of age I don't expect u to be in that house.

you spoke well until that your last paragraph
Which one be 25, na Una go Dey pressurise person upandan. You think say na every body Dey privileged??
No go kick your children comot o

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Pay 2yrs rent to avoid unforeseen circumstances, don’t squander the rest 250k Atleast if u pay 2yrs rent u will know u are covered for 2yrs my one cent cause ur uncle won’t be there forever, some responsibilities might come up for him to making him not to be able to pay ur next rent

Ibechris2:
U have a nice uncle.

But we may not know the full story here but it's indeed painful to hear stories like this.

I wonder how some women prioritise affairs over their children's future.

But if u are close to 25 of age I don't expect u to be in that house.

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It must have been a terrible experience for your mum.for a mother to go this far eeehad

Ibechris2:
U have a nice uncle.

But we may not know the full story here but it's indeed painful to hear stories like this.

I wonder how some women prioritise affairs over their children's future.

But if u are close to 25 of age I don't expect u to be in that house.

Well said BUT, what if he is 25 but still do not have what it takes to stay alone ??
Just know that your uncle will not pay your next house rent and he will not feed you.

ArcFresky:
Who get the house?
If it's your father's, better go and paint Not for sale in front

you get a point there oh! Incoming step dad might use it to chop suya

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Please, cut her off by all means. She doesn't deserve to be called a mother. Just cos of one stupid guy, she decided to chase her son away. At least, she should have given you some time to prepare yourself. It's not easy to stay on your own in Nigeria.

ArcFresky:
Who get the house?
If it's your father's, better go and paint Not for sale in front

More trouble for them be that

Oloki:
You've gotten a place. You are now a man. At least, you will be responsible for your welfare. Let your mum be. Don't cut ties. She is still your mother in all aspect. Just give her the require space.,and both of you will leave in peace.

Live

generalwo:
..... Baba, his step father is a mugu for coming to live in another man's house but make our guy go work and make a family and try to get a good life for himself...... There are ways to this...... Na how im mama see am make am behave that way.... If na pikin wen get sense and get him own money, she for give am that respect but i won't be surprised if he's the kind of a guy that waits for his mum to cook before he eats.. If indeed he's such a dude, then i support his mum's decision to chase him out of the house to go and hustle.....

You people should stop giving useless advices. The guy's father property belong to him and not the mother. Hence the mother has no right to send him out of his father's house. If he moves out, that property will be sold by the step father who certainly is a gold digger.

After his mother has been duped, she will turn around and blame the guy for not standing his ground.

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Is this for real. Chasing you out of your own Fathers house.

Iamicekid:
Pay 2yrs rent to avoid unforeseen circumstances, don’t squander the rest 250k Atleast if u pay 2yrs rent u will know u are covered for 2yrs my one cent cause ur uncle won’t be there forever, some responsibilities might come up for him to making him not to be able to pay ur next rent

It is only a weakling that will leave his father's house for another man even if he is his mother's lover.

The father- in- law will sell that house once he observed that the guy moved out without putting in any fight. He should use the #500,000 and fight the father- in-law man to man.

He should make life uncomfortable for the father- in - law until he moves to his own house with his mother.

His father's house belongs to him and not the mother.

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Congratulations for taking the bold steps

You dont need to cut her off

Rather don't call her but if she calls you pick the call listen to her and if she requests for anything

Just tell her you will try
Dont ever tell her you don't have, she will keep wishing you not to have because you keep saying you don't have

Dont tell her you will give her that will be a promise that you ha e to fulfill

Just tell her you will try

If she keeps calling you keep telling her you will try

She will give up bye force

As for her new found partner or husband
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Just dey observe them because you will hear their story soon

If she will please her man to displease you and send you out if the house, that man has not started with her

Any day she calls you that her man is treating her bad, just tell her to sort herself out

Braveboi1:
Some mothers sell their babies after birth, at least yours didn't, so as a man move out if you can, don't cut her out please the malice/grudges is not necessary. Just move on if she calls you fine, if she wants to visit let her. enjoy her life while she's young. lol

He should move on and leave his father's house for another man. What if the man is a fraudster who is pretending to love his mother so as to have access to the house documents?

After the man has duped the mother by selling the house and fleeing with the money, won't the mother turn around and blame the guy for not standing his ground?

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Eminem and his mum repeating all over again.
Listen may you die shamelessly the day u forgive her.

Majority of people on nairaland are not wise person go post something you can't verify lies every where

Oloki:
You've gotten a place. You are now a man. At least, you will be responsible for your welfare. Let your mum be. Don't cut ties. She is still your mother in all aspect. Just give her the require space.,and both of you will leave in peace.

You are on drugs ,may your children chase u away from their houses .

Who owns the house?

ArcFresky:
Who get the house?
If it's your father's, better go and paint Not for sale in front

lmao

By the time your mum comes, she will come back to her senses.

CoronaVirusRelo:
The mother wants the best for him!

At 25! The mum already feeling he is a deadbeat and wants him to go face life!

She wants the best for him by driving him out in this harsh economic times? Wouid she drive him out if the dad was alive? What nonsense is that! All the mum wants is privacy to enjoy sex with her new lover, nothing more,! There are a lot if 25 years old male students in the universities, how many of them have been chased out their father's houses by their mum because they want the best for their sons

generalwo:
..... An adult living in his father's house when his mates are out there hustling, is it right?? He should allow his mum be with who ever she wants to be with..... His father is late and the woman should be allowed to live on.... He should hustle to begin his own family
.....

This is the most foolish advice that I have seen. So because he wants to hustle, he should leave his father's house for another man. If he cannot fight for his own father's house, then he do not have the stamina to hustle in the first place.

What if his mother's lover is a fraudstar that wants to take advantage of his mother's emotions to have access to his late father's properties ? He should allow the man to fulfill his mission because he is hustling?

If I were him, I will not move from that house even if I have millions in my account. I will ensure that I chase the father in law to his own house. My mother can decide to go with him or break the relationship.

That is how hustlers behave. They don't run away from battles.

mikeapollo:
He wants the best for him by driving him out in this harsh economic times? Wouid she drive him out if the dad was alive? What nonsense is that! All the mum wants is privacy to enjoy sex with her new lover, nothing more,! There are a lot if 25 years old male students in the universities, how many of them have been chased out their father's houses by their mum because they want the best for their sons

Ow you attacking the mum as of you can also vouch for the habits and behavior of the OP.

For his mum to have made such moves, she definitely has her reasons.

An adage will say that, “ A mother will never lead her son astray. Whether she has a boy friend or not, she means well for the 25 year old lad.

Were you expecting her to do such at 30 or 40 years old?

Op will later appreciate this days….. I am certain he would be glad he attained independence early enough!

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

1. How old are you?

2.What are your qualifications?

3..Do you have a job or plan to get a job? You cannot rely on your uncle forever.

Ibechris2:
U have a nice uncle.

But we may not know the full story here but it's indeed painful to hear stories like this.

I wonder how some women prioritise affairs over their children's future.

But if u are close to 25 of age I don't expect u to be in that house.

My dad was still sending me money when I was 25. Today I send him money without him asking. So enough of your bullshit ideology

Evolutionlove:
You are the one who will provide a house for the people in this category right. Nonsense & Rubbish. Keep promoting poverty.

Most of u are shamelessly at home wasting away.

Una go stay tire.

Mumu.

ukaface:
you spoke well until that your last paragraph
Which one be 25, na Una go Dey pressurise person upandan. You think say na every body Dey privileged??
No go kick your children comot o

When u born ur pikin allow am stay till 30 as u be super man now.

See Mr man,I left my parent at 19 and today I am glad I did.

If it is my father house I will give her knife to kill herself else I will threatened to kill her. I won't go anywhere but avoid her in all round.

If you had said your age I wld have been better advised to lay ma input, however, she doesn't mean bad for you but might be going about it wrongly...due to wrong advise.
Just focus on yourself for now n build yourself. May you attain your monicker

Ibechris2:
When u born ur pikin allow am stay till 30 as u be super man now.

See Mr man,I left my parent at 19 and today I am glad I did.

smh
You sound gullible, I’m sure you didn’t read my previous post.

Igala women mostly behave like this