Thanks to entitlement mentality

Even pastors marriages

This can not be true Pastor, much more people are happier in marriage than outside marriage. It's normal to have misunderstanding at some points in marriage but such ends up strengthening the bond between a husband and a wife.

Righteousness2:
Marriage is a great and beautiful thing thing.

Marriage is not a bed of roses all the time,
Marriage is not about social media hugowash.
Marriage is beyond reading motivational books or even counseling.
Marriage is way beyond six packs and big back
Marriage is way beyond having a Fat bank account.

But if you can build and tie your Home in GOD and His Word, the Holy Bible, you will be able to withstand the bumps and bullets fighting your Home.

I thank God of Chosen for your wisdom more wins for you and welcome to the year of explosion by grace

NgoZeemama:
Where is the lie?

How can you tell? Where you once married?

Moniya4Real:
To be truthful and sincere to myself… And in line with my Christian faith. The reason I want to remarry is because of sex as I am already blessed with two wonderful boys

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it's not bad in itself..as that's one of the biblical prerequisite...what now happens if ure not getting the sex in the marriage.
ur partner may just deny u for stupid reasons.
marry person wey no dey take sex joke o..matching libido

Righteousness2:
Marriage is a great and beautiful thing thing.

Marriage is not a bed of roses all the time,
Marriage is not about social media hugowash.
Marriage is beyond reading motivational books or even counseling.
Marriage is way beyond six packs and big back
Marriage is way beyond having a Fat bank account.

But if you can build and tie your Home in GOD and His Word, the Holy Bible, you will be able to withstand the bumps and bullets fighting your Home.

Marriage is about tolerance, love and forgiveness. People should not be forced to live together if the two of them are no longer interested in the relationship. I cannot force myself on any woman. I do not expect any woman to force herself on me! Please, no God forces any couple to be together! Let the two hold themselves together or separate if things are not working!

When it's time to attack women and talk about our fear of loneliness rather than fighting lion, and our love for materialism and XYZ, una go remember our common noun.

It'll come to problems we're facing or circumstances we're victims of, and the word "woman" cannot be found anywhere.

It's to be mentioning "people" up and down.

Mtcheeeeeeewwwwwwww.

I am not Obidient, but I salute them for this coming up with their own top forum in Nigeria

pepemendy70: This is best news i am seeing today

More like endedbefore they ever started. . .

Nigerians dey marry?

Only for convenience.

True, if Nigeria is western country, 50% of marriages will be over by now, people endure and pretend to be happy

opalu:
Marriage is strictly between 2 FORGIVERS.
If you are not a Forgiver, then remain Single all your life.

SO ALL THIS SINGLE MOTHERS ON THE STREET DID NOT FORGIVE THEIR MR HUSBAND

onthehill:
Relationship coach and founder of David Christian Centre (DCC) in Lagos State, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has taken to his Twitter handle to state that many Nigerian marriages have ended a long time ago, IGBERETV reports.

He further said that a lot of them are just held together by society, poverty or kids

He wrote;



https://twitter.com/kingsleypst/status/1610661145374871553?t=usn0c9yWM3q9STtM99tduQ&s=19

Marriage is not meant for real hustlers.
It's not just about money or kids making or sex

Funny thing is that this Pastor Kingsley's marriage may be over without him being aware. Pastor Chris of Belewu, we know where his marriage went.

Sonnobax15:

Pastor just wan scatter table wey dem Zonefree don already dey shake tay tay.....

Well,the truth is that when you enter into marriage with someone whom you aren't compatible with, there's nothing on earth that'd make such marriage to last.......

Still,there are many marriages out there that are also beautiful to admire.......Even though there have been lots of ups and downs,but being able to understand each other made such marriage to come through many challenges.

For your information and Incase of next time, there is nothing like people are compatible. No one is compatible with anyone, we are all different and unique in our own ways and can never people compatible. If we are compatible, there won't be need for forgiveness in marriage, compromise, patience, understanding and etc. So let's all remove the idea of compatibility. Marriage is about two different person with the capacity to forgive, understand, compromise, unlearn and learn and any other attributes to put in the effort to make a marriage work. So marriage is not about I am compatible with someone, after all, what is the yardstick you use in measuring your compatibility with some who can change in character, attitude or whatever 5 years into the marriage. The question is that as a man or woman, do you have the qualities and ready to put in the work to sustain a marriage. If not, remain single until you are ready.

Man times, I wonder what a marriage would look like in 50 years time. Will people still want to get married just the way they do today? Will people be willing to go into a legally-binding marriage where a simple divorce can wreck them financially when they can cohabit and give birth with very little attachment?

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infogenius:
The pastor is spot on on this

A man in his sixties who still shares same home with his wife of his youth told me last year that his marriage ended more than 20 yrs ago. That his wife was just in his house because of his kids and to fill space.
They don't sleep in the same room, the man cooks his food and the woman caters for hers. It is when their kids come around that they stay together for talks.

Wow, that's no marriage.

The pastor is right.

Tipe tipee

He is very right...I have come to understand this a long time ago. Given the opportunity, a lot of people will not:
A) remain in their marriages. They will walk.
B) re-choose their partner again if there's another life.

Even our mothers that the men of this age want us to emulate are not left out.

Marriage is about forgiving, endurance, patience and understanding. Money alone cannot keep marriages together.

Whatever way you want to look at it

There's always a statement of purpose for everything

If you stay in marriage because of kids, fine

If you stay because of what society will say, fine

If you stay because of poverty, good


And if you leave due to another purpose
Fine

onthehill:
Relationship coach and founder of David Christian Centre (DCC) in Lagos State, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has taken to his Twitter handle to state that many Nigerian marriages have ended a long time ago, IGBERETV reports.

He further said that a lot of them are just held together by society, poverty or kids

He wrote;



https://twitter.com/kingsleypst/status/1610661145374871553?t=usn0c9yWM3q9STtM99tduQ&s=19

Why are Pastors allowed to wear military camouflage and ordinary Nigerians are prohibited from so doing?

Are Pastors now part of the armed force or are they simply more Nigerian than the rest of us?

loosecanon50:
Marriage and dating is the same thing these days.

Lie. Dating too easy if u get money. Marriage hard even with your money. Woman behaviour is what keeps or breaks marriage, she determines everything Buh de don’t know. How can u deny your husband his conjugal right expect him to be faithful, yet u still snoop into his phone after several denials to check if he’s getting elsewhere or checking the bathroom toilet to check if he’s masturbating. If found, she will use it against him in the public so she can been as angel. Gal go beg you make u marry her with assurance say age go make you happy o (especially if u get money), as you marry them they go still wan frustrate u.

Many ended because they listened to people like you.

KingLennon:
As a married man for over 60 years in the other life, I think I have vast knowledge of marriage and can contribute (◔‿◔)



Do you want a successful marriage? Wives submit to your husbands and husbands love your wives (Eph 5:22-25). It's a principle that must be obeyed to enjoy your marriage..

That's the secret why our own parents married till old age until social media came.....

Everybody saying “our parents married till old age and believe their marriages are successful” is total force. You go to homes of these so-called parents and father and mother are sleeping in separate bedrooms, or mothers have now abandoned the husband’s home to go live with their sons who just got married, or these same parents hardly communicating with each other where the children become the mouthpiece of both parents.

Divorce was not high like this those days. Why Is the case of divorce on increase ,now that we have many marriage councilors/seminars or preachers ?
I have noticed that most of these preachers/councillors sweet talks a lot,and always in favor of ladies just to increase their congregations Which is not really having any positive impact in marriages these days.

Is it not the environment and society most people find themselves that drove them into marriages they might not be happy in.

opalu:
Marriage is strictly between 2 FORGIVERS.
If you are not a Forgiver, then remain Single all your life.

see you. Sweet to talk.

Keep forgiving till you lose yourself. Till you lose your dignity. Till you lose your sanity. Till you lose your life. Osinachi never teach you lesson.

No matter what some marriages get so irrevocably toxic that it becomes a danger to the couple or people around them.

I'm not an advocate for divorce. But separation is still a thing if you feel you are becoming an endangered species in your marriage.

Wives should first submit to their husbands. Love cannot exist without respect for the husband. That is God's principle.

Sarah, Elizabeth, Ruth, Esther, Mary are good examples of Good women in the Bible.

KingLennon:
As a married man for over 60 years in the other life, I think I have vast knowledge of marriage and can contribute (◔‿◔)



Do you want a successful marriage? Wives submit to your husbands and husbands love your wives (Eph 5:22-25). It's a principle that must be obeyed to enjoy your marriage..

That's the secret why our own parents married till old age until social media came.....