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Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by airminem(f): 11:31am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Thanks to entitlement mentality 6 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kog45(m): 11:33am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Even pastors marriages 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by jikjimmy: 11:33am On Jan 05, 2023 |
This can not be true Pastor, much more people are happier in marriage than outside marriage. It's normal to have misunderstanding at some points in marriage but such ends up strengthening the bond between a husband and a wife. 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by EngrchidiG25(m): 11:34am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Righteousness2: I thank God of Chosen for your wisdom more wins for you and welcome to the year of explosion by grace 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by hopexter(m): 11:34am On Jan 05, 2023 |
NgoZeemama: How can you tell? Where you once married? |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by xristos(m): 11:35am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Moniya4Real:. it's not bad in itself..as that's one of the biblical prerequisite...what now happens if ure not getting the sex in the marriage. ur partner may just deny u for stupid reasons. marry person wey no dey take sex joke o..matching libido 2 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by BabaAgba79(m): 11:39am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Righteousness2: Marriage is about tolerance, love and forgiveness. People should not be forced to live together if the two of them are no longer interested in the relationship. I cannot force myself on any woman. I do not expect any woman to force herself on me! Please, no God forces any couple to be together! Let the two hold themselves together or separate if things are not working! |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Magnoliaa(f): 11:39am On Jan 05, 2023 |
When it's time to attack women and talk about our fear of loneliness rather than fighting lion, and our love for materialism and XYZ, una go remember our common noun. It'll come to problems we're facing or circumstances we're victims of, and the word "woman" cannot be found anywhere. It's to be mentioning "people" up and down. Mtcheeeeeeewwwwwwww. 3 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by atorioke77: 11:40am On Jan 05, 2023 |
I am not Obidient, but I salute them for this coming up with their own top forum in Nigeria pepemendy70: This is best news i am seeing today
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Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by KanwuliaExtra: 11:42am On Jan 05, 2023 |
More like endedbefore they ever started. . . Nigerians dey marry? Only for convenience. 2 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Goodman247: 11:42am On Jan 05, 2023 |
True, if Nigeria is western country, 50% of marriages will be over by now, people endure and pretend to be happy 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Chetas81(m): 11:42am On Jan 05, 2023 |
opalu:SO ALL THIS SINGLE MOTHERS ON THE STREET DID NOT FORGIVE THEIR MR HUSBAND 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Alexbio: 11:43am On Jan 05, 2023 |
onthehill: Marriage is not meant for real hustlers. It's not just about money or kids making or sex 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by airsaylongcome: 11:44am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Funny thing is that this Pastor Kingsley's marriage may be over without him being aware. Pastor Chris of Belewu, we know where his marriage went. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by jagjag: 11:45am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Sonnobax15: For your information and Incase of next time, there is nothing like people are compatible. No one is compatible with anyone, we are all different and unique in our own ways and can never people compatible. If we are compatible, there won't be need for forgiveness in marriage, compromise, patience, understanding and etc. So let's all remove the idea of compatibility. Marriage is about two different person with the capacity to forgive, understand, compromise, unlearn and learn and any other attributes to put in the effort to make a marriage work. So marriage is not about I am compatible with someone, after all, what is the yardstick you use in measuring your compatibility with some who can change in character, attitude or whatever 5 years into the marriage. The question is that as a man or woman, do you have the qualities and ready to put in the work to sustain a marriage. If not, remain single until you are ready. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Mazulu: 11:46am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Man times, I wonder what a marriage would look like in 50 years time. Will people still want to get married just the way they do today? Will people be willing to go into a legally-binding marriage where a simple divorce can wreck them financially when they can cohabit and give birth with very little attachment? In other news, Germany has a lot of opportunities for Africans, and one of the easiest ways to access in these opportunities is to learn the German language. Learning German language opens you up to opportunities, such as scholarship and jobs that sponsor your visas and lead to PR. Messages us today for German language classes taught by certified scholars.
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Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kajaard: 11:46am On Jan 05, 2023 |
infogenius: Wow, that's no marriage. The pastor is right. |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by ghiloman28(m): 11:46am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Tipe tipee |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 11:48am On Jan 05, 2023 |
He is very right...I have come to understand this a long time ago. Given the opportunity, a lot of people will not: A) remain in their marriages. They will walk. B) re-choose their partner again if there's another life. Even our mothers that the men of this age want us to emulate are not left out. 5 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FireUpNow(m): 11:53am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Marriage is about forgiving, endurance, patience and understanding. Money alone cannot keep marriages together. |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by bonnyhope: 11:53am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Whatever way you want to look at it There's always a statement of purpose for everything If you stay in marriage because of kids, fine If you stay because of what society will say, fine If you stay because of poverty, good And if you leave due to another purpose Fine 5 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Nobody: 11:55am On Jan 05, 2023 |
onthehill: Why are Pastors allowed to wear military camouflage and ordinary Nigerians are prohibited from so doing? Are Pastors now part of the armed force or are they simply more Nigerian than the rest of us? 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by vickydevoka(m): 11:57am On Jan 05, 2023 |
loosecanon50:Lie. Dating too easy if u get money. Marriage hard even with your money. Woman behaviour is what keeps or breaks marriage, she determines everything Buh de don’t know. How can u deny your husband his conjugal right expect him to be faithful, yet u still snoop into his phone after several denials to check if he’s getting elsewhere or checking the bathroom toilet to check if he’s masturbating. If found, she will use it against him in the public so she can been as angel. Gal go beg you make u marry her with assurance say age go make you happy o (especially if u get money), as you marry them they go still wan frustrate u. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by alizma: 11:58am On Jan 05, 2023 |
Many ended because they listened to people like you. |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by IamMobisola(f): 12:02pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
KingLennon: Everybody saying “our parents married till old age and believe their marriages are successful” is total force. You go to homes of these so-called parents and father and mother are sleeping in separate bedrooms, or mothers have now abandoned the husband’s home to go live with their sons who just got married, or these same parents hardly communicating with each other where the children become the mouthpiece of both parents. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by livinbygrace: 12:02pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Divorce was not high like this those days. Why Is the case of divorce on increase ,now that we have many marriage councilors/seminars or preachers ? I have noticed that most of these preachers/councillors sweet talks a lot,and always in favor of ladies just to increase their congregations Which is not really having any positive impact in marriages these days. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Martartins(m): 12:04pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Is it not the environment and society most people find themselves that drove them into marriages they might not be happy in. 1 Like |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by addexx: 12:04pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
opalu: see you. Sweet to talk. Keep forgiving till you lose yourself. Till you lose your dignity. Till you lose your sanity. Till you lose your life. Osinachi never teach you lesson. No matter what some marriages get so irrevocably toxic that it becomes a danger to the couple or people around them. I'm not an advocate for divorce. But separation is still a thing if you feel you are becoming an endangered species in your marriage. 6 Likes |
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by StUriah(m): 12:06pm On Jan 05, 2023 |
Wives should first submit to their husbands. Love cannot exist without respect for the husband. That is God's principle. Sarah, Elizabeth, Ruth, Esther, Mary are good examples of Good women in the Bible. KingLennon: 1 Like |
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