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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by unscripted(m): 5:46pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


What's wrong with this weight class. I weigh 198kg and I am 5ft 6 inches.
oga this is a serious health issue o

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by bdon123(m): 5:47pm On Jan 08, 2023
Father4all:
I don't agree with you, white guys/Men aren't that tall. Most are average. I have been to four European countries
U hav been,hav u lived?D point is their women will rather date that short guy as long as his white.They will date u if u are tall n handsome only.To knack fine white girls abroad no easy,this na gospel truth.
At that time u will appreciate all this Naija students n small girls wit big god.They are very important.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by AwealthDRL: 5:49pm On Jan 08, 2023
No worry I go prepare plenty love portion when I dey come plus I'm a good looking African Man no worry about sex haha

Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by AgentGoat: 5:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
akpunda86:
In a way d mod is right,my guy sister in US for 16 years beautiful girl wen left Naija now going to 36 said coming back home dis Easter,finally to Naija.No hubby,no sex said can't cope with d loneliness.begged me for sex wch I have her till she left on 3rd ,I felt for her now getting old ,hers similar to op case but I can't say if 4 all.
If Ur active within d Naija community as she said u become essential commidity


Marry her now.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Acidosis(m): 5:53pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


Men the UK own is really bad. One guy said he had to join 24 dating apps to find a gf. I asked a few friends who have relocated and they are seriously regretting the sexual tension. These were people having sex up to twenty times a week in Nigeria and not even able to kiss after like 3 months in the UK but then what do you do. Stay back in Nigeria and have all the sex but get bleeped by poverty or go to a society with more opportunities make money and have no sex . You can't have it all.

All bleep na bleep grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by bdon123(m): 5:53pm On Jan 08, 2023
saxywale2:

For you to score Indians, you go be legend. Indians just really dislike black skin so much. Due to the way the Hindu religion has wired their brains to hate black skin.
Dont worry even their fellow black indians are 3rd class citizens to them

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by bdon123(m): 5:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
BRATISLAVA:


There are only white chicks in these countries? Talk about people giving themselves problems. There are no black women there, or you are all desperate to have a white woman so you don't look elsewhere? What happened to marrying Nigerian women at Christmas, or have you all made them appear so bad that you're having at scraps that white women offer just to prove that they are better than your Nigerian women?
The black women are normally ugly for some reason.i really dont know why.Walk on d street on lagos n see beautiful black girls on island,abroad na another case.....dem dey wowo.

Black women aren't beautiful but black men are handsome?

If you grew up in a country, chances are you will end up married to one of them. But if you're coming from Nigeria, desperate for white flesh, it won't work out magically, handsome or beautiful as you may think you are. There are relatively ugly blacks married to whites, so your cousins aren't true.

Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 08, 2023
ibkayee:

White girls aren’t ‘into’ black guys

Doesn’t really make sense that the demographic of women seen as one of the most socially desirable would collectively be into black men who are seen as the least accomplished (thus least desirable) group of men in the world.

I won’t say there aren’t some white women who are ‘into’ black men, but they tend to be few in comparison to those who aren’t, or the oyinbo women that aren’t seen as desirable in their own community.

Some fetishise black men because of the stereotype of their alleged sexual prowess I guess but that doesn’t necessarily mean that the ones fetishising you even want to be with you seriously

Basically if a black guy doesn’t score with a desirable white girl, that’s not that unusual. You’re not on their radar like that
But a good number of my village guys residing abroad are married to good looking white ladies even with kids, though they have been there for long.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by cupidhero(m): 6:01pm On Jan 08, 2023
Gerrard59:


The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.
Na wa. You don finish Nigerian men. But i give it to our girls. They are really finer than the men.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Solocoin: 6:02pm On Jan 08, 2023
You're speaking on your own experience which might not be reality. How about those Nigerian guy and got there and marry the white? Your experience and some other person experience might not be the same. Even in Nigeria there are people who find it difficult to get a woman, while others will be running away from them because they give them so much attention.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 6:03pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


Have you been to the US or Canada before? Why does Nigerians who don't even have visa always have the most updated info about what they do abroad
The one loud gan

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by GlobTrotter: 6:05pm On Jan 08, 2023
[quote author=zumbigbo post=119840904][/quote]lool no be small thing. Lool. Those UK and US guys need to come here for vacation
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olabrinks(f): 6:06pm On Jan 08, 2023
Life is what you make it. If you sit down and moan about xyz., that is what you will get in return. If you make An effort to mingle and meet people, you will surely recieve favour. U.K. is a place that you have to make serious efforts to build your network. You can’t sit on your phone all day, go to work and straight back home and expect to have people around you.

Use up your annual leave. Dont work yourself into depression because money is not everything, and depression kills faster. Get rid of your ego and be open minded, you will eventually adapt. Uk can never be as bubbly as naija.. but you can have your small fun here and there if you know the right people.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by LastProphet: 6:10pm On Jan 08, 2023
pansophist:
Fitness is not the hobby of the average Nigerian. If you're fit, you'll never have problem having chicks, regardless of colour.

One thing humans generally are powerless against is attraction, and attraction is not a conscious decision. People can't control who they are attracted to.

And a sure way to increase your attractiveness is to be fit to a point you can clearly see your six packs as a man. And for a woman, take responsibility of your life and stop fooling yourself with bbw nonsense.

Being fit is the starter, then have a good life. Graduate college and stay off debt, have your own place, and no baby mamaism. I strongly believe that one can change their circumstances, after all, those living better life are just like you.

But sadly the average Nigerian person I see in the West, especially in Canada were fat, as in not chubby, but fat. And I ask myself, what do people consider a good life?

If you have all the degrees, house and career and a single sickness can kill you, or you cant outrun/fight off a person with a cutlass trying to kill you, then you get it all wrong. Your body is wealth, and every other things follows.


Good point there, that's some of the area the op got it wrong though he's got message for some
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by starstaz(m): 6:11pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them
Werey ni bobo yi. Yo! Men. Laughing gas guy. Edddynut.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by gees101(m): 6:12pm On Jan 08, 2023
You dey follow John Doe on twitter abi ☺️
Ednut03:


Well, don't always believe what a Nigerian tell u.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Divay22(f): 6:14pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


Like you get I am fat and I cant see my dick and I can still get laid in naija. Abroad what will be my fate. I just pray tinubu can make Nigeria good o.
Now, this is funny grin grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by achimendy(m): 6:18pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

In Brazil if you don't have sense, the small one you get, sex go comot am. You literally have to hold yourself and be focused. Girls too much and too fine and na them go come meet you self lol


I've heard alot about Brazil, and your story is inline with what I heard.


I hope to visit there someday.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by DMerciful(m): 6:18pm On Jan 08, 2023
You just laugh now, you can see guys are honest.

Thank goodness for those of us that are good-looking if not it would have been a total disaster
pocohantas:


Hahahaha!!!! Oh Lord!!!
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by seanwilliam(m): 6:18pm On Jan 08, 2023
Gerrard59:


The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.

Lol grin I’m rolling on the floor Walai.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Toks2008(m): 6:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
pocohantas:


US men are way better than UK. UK men are very dangerous. Even women in Nigeria are scared of them. Don’t compare both please. Especially those Yoruba demons in the UK.

grin grin

Habba!

How many UK guys have you dated?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by yom2(m): 6:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Lastly, forget about using your money to score a chick. Hypergamy and feminism is crazy, you will fail and you still won't get sex. Same apply to a woman

I'm sorry, but someone needs to debunk some lies we say here about white chick wanting black dick, no they don't want you, and that happen 99% of the time unless you really have the look game, look young, and work out that your chest is basically obvious
this is half true. Are u saying most dates there match Americas top model? And looks are rarely permanently perfect.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Toks2008(m): 6:24pm On Jan 08, 2023
Gerrard59:


The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.

Chai Naija men don suffer...

Thank GOD for my life.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by BRATISLAVA: 6:25pm On Jan 08, 2023
[quote author=bdon123 post=119841485][/quote]

Black women aren't normally ugly. But if you insist, they are just like black men, meaning that Nigerian men are all ugly too.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Mafo024: 6:28pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them
This happens when you are not educated or have low self esteem issue. Or you don't have a good job, don't socialize, read books or a boring person. It's easy to get women in US than in Nigeria cos not all are attracted to you cos of money. The fact that plenty people are liking your comment is actually crazy sha grin grin

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olalekan9320(m): 6:31pm On Jan 08, 2023
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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by yom2(m): 6:34pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them
what are u saying here? Are u saying they can mistake some one for cave man I don't get?
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Father254: 6:34pm On Jan 08, 2023
vengertime:


Which kind God bless China, all Chinese girls no reach 5"2 tall

They get good heart . When they love ,they love for real. Caring,loves sex, hard working but only that they no get bumbum.
Bumbum dey for waist .

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Mille: 6:34pm On Jan 08, 2023
LoveJesus87:
is it easy to get a Romanian visa? And is masters free in Romania, bro? You lived the life mehn..

Easy compared to the rest of Europe. Romanian Visa is not Schengen visa though and you're not able to travel to other European countries. Also, unless you're coming with enough funds, I'll not advice it. The salary is very low here and work is scarce. A lot of Romanians are scattered all across Europe like Nigerians looking for work.

Tuition can cost from 2500$ upwards.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Jagabanfromcali: 6:35pm On Jan 08, 2023
I wanked so much in my first two years in Chicago that I tot I would go blind, I wanked more than all the wanking i did in boarding house in my secondary school in Nigeria in the 90s , I used to go to Walmart off 47 red line just to see avaerage fat Akata girls who by then looks like royalty and movie stars to me , conji is a bastard but then I realize as u move up it starts trickle towards you, from the nursing school I started banging the RNs and then the emergency room physicians and when I became an RN and subsequently an NP my fork career exploded , my greetings goes to all those girls in lagos and Calabar who will bring the camera down a bit to their mons pubis, you are the MVPs

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