rickleye:


Dude you're my hero for your backbone.
There was a lady - a damsel i met at the supermarket in Magodo in October 9th. I couldn't fathom the confidence to say hello. I am still not over the lost chance to date her.
For you, bounce back and ask the next lady. If she looks you up and down - Just say " I know I am not up to your standard but can you tell me why not ? " I just wanted to say - you look like an angel. You must have fallen from the skies cause you shine like the stars at night.

Do not say the bold to any girl or human!

olaeffect:


Yes that is how they behave.
Use to know a girl way back in secondary school (my best friend's cousin) she use to refer to one of my other friend as "cow" they have have been married for 16yrs now.
Summary; they are peculiar beings. Even some amongst them that are tripping for you may behave funny and somewhat rude when you approach them.

Approach more and more of them, catch fun and boost your confidence, don't make sex your main focus ooo. In fact, always expect and enjoy the rejection. Look at it like you are developing your marketing skills and catching cruise. By this way you won't be under pressure or be scared.

Keep it up Bro.

one calls ode intermittently too.. if I ask her to stop calling that, she'd say why..


Na like this one too??

syntekelite:


Funniest part is the girl likes you.. when toasting always remember that whatever a girl says or does means the opposite. Especially naija girls.. the hiss signifies her own insecurities..

That is so being stupid.. why his when you could just smile...

SenatePresdo:

90 out of 100 girls won't give you number at a go.
If she says no, just persist a little bit, if she doesn't give you, then bounce.

nah, fvck that. I ain't persisting shiit ... She's not the trophy, I am... If she wants me to persist, she better say no nicely..

Jeffyblaq:
The thing is most young dudes who want to get a gyal.. Makes it so obvious that this is their first time.. Itz gonn be a turn off (depending how classy she is anyway)

The beginning of the F - UP. Especially if she noticed dat..

Just act normal with 2 to 3 formats.. Any one dat suddenly comes up.. Act on dat..

Example :Hello, greetings from me here.
Do u understand English or French which (if she gives an awkward look) smile to dat and say.. Cmon.. Was only kidding.

Xup, do u stay around here? I actually do.. Bla Bla Bla.

Example 2: straight talk.. Excuse me.. I'm actually a philantropist.. I do help people like I'm about to do now .. Do u wanna go take a bite somewhere with me.. Hahaha.. Cmon.. Just a joke.. But for real.. U busy with some kinda errand or something.. I'm actually going to take a bite down the street..

Wat u say... Itz dat simple man..

examples 2 ... When she gets fixated on your pockets, you start blaming the Gods.

Rubbiish:

Do not say the bold to any girl or human!

Dude it's called reverse phycology. The girl will certainly laugh for which you would have broken her façade.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

The

Zonefree:


That's how they behave now.

If you have money, just make them an irresistible offer, bang and discharge them.

Chief, though you made a valid sense but I’ll like to disagree with this view.
@OP, never make money your only way to a woman’s heart, pesin wey buy love with money no dey ever pay finish. Instead of spending on women to get them, channel the money to making your self look good always (car, wears, expensive outfits and outings etc)
Never make money your only weapon to getting women or you risk being ‘magalized’
You’ll be seen as a fool.
Your number one step to getting any lady you want is to adorn yourself with overwhelming confidence (even arrogance) and start seeing them as assets you can get and discharge anytime you want and like. Stop getting nervous whenever you see them. Also start walking up to ladies (even those ones that you have nothing to do with) and start creating conversation and collecting their numbers just for fun (collect the numbers and don’t bother calling or texting). Ignore their rude attitudes because it’s normal to get turned down as a man and with time, you’ll be at the top of your game, remember that men age like fine wine; we become better and more irresistible with time. Lastly, see and treat every woman you see as a cheap toy that has a price tag, no woman, I repeat, no woman is too big for you no matter how rich or classy she seems; believe me, that classy girl you’re chasing is getting ignored by some other guys.

Hello... don't mind those telling you that finding love is only on the condition of being rich or having loads of money, it's not true!! All you need is to 'package' by looking neat/ presentable with your dressing and grooming. And start by being friends with the person first, before asking her out. Social media or dating Apps can also serve this purpose.

Don't feel bad about the reaction you received. Better options will come calling.
Good luck...

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Mature advice!

LittleBigDick p
ost=119884771:
First of all try and be fit


Improve your social skills and confidence by joining a society in uni , unit in church, book or developers club, this helps you in building connections with various women and from time to time you get to know each woman , they'll start visiting you if they find you valuable or attractive


Make yourself valuable in the eyes of women by acquiring useful skills like programming, being a plumber etc.


You can afford it , get a cool motorcycle or power bike



Make your sense of humor more dark and try to neg women
You can start watching comedies with dark humor


Dress maturely
Ditch 15 years old boy outfit and wear more chinos , senator, long sleeve shirt and a dope Nike pam

rickleye:


Dude it's called reverse phycology. The girl will certainly laugh for which you would have broken her façade.

It's a wrong approach!
Do not talk down on yourself or suggest any utterance of such just to break a girl's facade! If that is what u have been doing, stop it.

ibkayee:

Lol I don’t ‘get’ them to like me first per se, I guess they’re just attracted to something in me for whatever reason. I’m a nice person sha

are you sure it's not because of one of those massive jiggly thing you've got on you

Silentgroper:
are you sure it's not because of one of those massive jiggly thing you've got on you

No it’s definitely because of my kind heart and pleasant energy

ibkayee:

No it’s definitely because of my kind heart and pleasant energy

. Right...



You don't speak for those guys though

Silentgroper:
. Right...



You don't speak for those guys though

I was being sarcastic sha

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Keep trying and one day you would get a good girl that will love you for who you are and not for your money, you just need to keep searching and doing it don't give up.. remember it takes many trial to create a bulb.

- Do well for yourself. You don't necessarily have to dole out money to anyone of these leeches but you'll feel good about yourself. You feel good about yourself, you can get literally anyone. Be healthy, join a gym or workout at home, you'll feel good about yourself, ladies will admire you.

- Expose yourself. Read more, acquire more knowledge about the world in general, experience different things, other cultures. Be well travelled, comes with doing well for yourself.

- Don't aim low. Leave all those hungry ass tiny babes on your street. Look out for actually classy ladies, not the other set of broken-screen-iphone-14-in-a-room-at-phase-2-fake-bbl-leeches or living at epe claiming lekki.

- Build your own style, your personality, find yourself

- HAVE PATIENCE. Getting game takes time. You've been introverted all this while and you essentially need to re-invent yourself. You are creating a new persona and that takes time to work out the kinks. Pick up a hobby that forces you to socialize while at it.

** Edit, try leave all of dem until after vals. Too many of them are just hungry.
Also leave out the church and church related blah the previous people talked about. Your brain go just dey think like mumu....or rather not at all.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

rickleye:


Dude you're my hero for your backbone.
There was a lady - a damsel i met at the supermarket in Magodo in October 9th. I couldn't fathom the confidence to say hello. I am still not over the lost chance to date her.
For you, bounce back and ask the next lady. If she looks you up and down - Just say " I know I am not up to your standard but can you tell me why not ? " I just wanted to say - you look like an angel. You must have fallen from the skies cause you shine like the stars at night.

Are you for real or you clown. This is bunkum

cyrusmillz:


Of all the advice you'll get here , please avoid any advice like this or anyone like this below .



The truth is most of them have no game in real life and they believe money is the only answer .

Bro , I've seen and experienced where guys with nothing so to speak date and n@ck the so called best girls. Would you have believed that someone like Carolina danjuma was dating tagbo before he died ?

You're still new to this , so you have a lot to work on yourself personally. Girls are just like normal people and there are different types and classes of them . Some can like tall guys, some short , bearded , not bearded...so many likes and dislikes so you don't expect every girl to listen to you or give you her phone number when you ask.

I'll suggest you read this page from the book of pook

https://bookofpook.com/15-lessons-for-young-men-rejection-is-better-than-regret-lesson-1/

then go on youtube , watch AG. Hayden videos
And there's another guy on nairaland here that has a full thread , can't remember his name .

Ubunja?

A305:


Funny but here are some tips.

1. Don't be swayed by this girls' redudant attitude, simply put — rejection. It's better to be rejected than to regret later not making a move.

2. Truth of the matter is: it's a game of number. The same way you approach this one unsuccessfully today, if you keep up like this every now and then, at least you would be successful with one.

3. Kit up — Dress good. Not necessarily expensive clothes but decent outfit. Along with well kept hair.

4. Conceal your intentions: The moment you stopped her; she already has an idea what you want (her pušsy), so it's up to you to come at her with an intention of being friends and not just straight up — you like her. However after friendship is established and numbers exchanged. You can now begin to signal your interest.

5. Pull back after you signal your interest following constant communication after 2 weeks or a month. If she reaches out to you. Then you in business, if she doesn't then you playing yourself, and she's just leading you on. At that point, Just quit and go hunt for another girl.

6. Learn to be slick with your tongue like lesbians and lawyers. If you don't have an idea. Go study Tbag pattern of talking to convince people in the movie prison break.

7. Never make her the focal point of your existence and treat her like your junior sister after you have gotten her.

8. Always hit on women everywhere you go just for ego boost. Be careful as some will be way out your league.

9. If you can make a girl laugh, you would have successfully completed 50% task to take her to bed, the other 50% is your verbal intercourse.

10. To override these whole step 1-9. Just make money. Get a car and appear rich, that same girl who looked down on you today would be the one to come introduce herself to you tomorrow.

6. Like lesbians ? Kindly elaborate on that part

dj5naira:


Ubunja?

Confirm bro

Iloveu778:

I wish you can elaborate..I will really love to discover that power...But thanks anyway

Ah... Are you sure?! É dey choke sometimes oo

Rubbiish:

It's a wrong approach!
Do not talk down on yourself or suggest any utterance of such just to break a girl's facade! If that is what u have been doing, stop it.

Why should I when it benefits me ? Do you know how many women’s guards are down when you can make them laugh ? I know my worth and once they get to know me - would know this dude is a prince in pauper clothes !

rickleye:


Why should I when it benefits me ? Do you know how many women’s guards are down when you can make them laugh ? I know my worth and once they get to know me - would know this dude is a prince in pauper clothes !

If u think it's cool to belittle yourself just to get into a woman's pants, then it's fine. A lot of men even do way more sillier things to get a woman. But my point is, don't just standardize it.

the problem is what actually did you say to her?


did you start telling her immediately that you want her to be your girlfriend?

you don't need millions to get girls and you don't need to be a comedian too.

It doesn't take me more than 5mins to get a girls number, but I have different approach for different girls including the ones I meet on social media.

onyeego:
Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

The power of a man. Hmm. Shed more light.

Rubbiish:

If u think it's cool to belittle yourself just to get into a woman's pants, then it's fine. A lot of men even do way more sillier things to get a woman. But my point is, don't just standardize it.

That’s the goal bro . It ain’t jamb Q

Naija babes don't have chill. All they want is money. So just make small cash, woo them, they will fall badly, fcccccukkkkkkkk them and dump them. They don't wanna build with any guy. Na ready made they are looking for. That's why men cheat on them evenafter marrying them.

Young Man,
You're in a very wrong place for advice... and judging by the many replies I'd say you've gotten a lot.

Focus on developing your self esteem and just start with building platonic friendships with the females already in your life...

I should also ask what do you truly really want?
Relationship? Sex? What exactly?

Bro pls forllow this INSTAGRAM PAGE AND get sense for live https://www.instagram.com/4evertoxic/


pls always get sense to know how to treat women

Babysho:
You don make her day be that and she don ruin your day

As a young guy still in the street hustling wey you never gather ehn, make sure the girl is giving you some green light.

You can get that green light when that one girl in your class is always looking for your trouble or a girl stealing glances at you in church. The school classroom own is more likely tbh. Even if she's not too fine, still go for it! THEN AND ONLY THEN should you approach a lady for chyking.

When you have her, some fine girls that like make-believe will see you with a gf and think you're "that guy". That's how you climb the ladder bro.

I'm against chyking random girls when you no get money/car.

you're the only one so far that has made sense in this thread. Other so called experienced ones are making noise of "make money" before approaching a woman, like how many of them here have made the money?...if all of us were to wait to make money before approaching a woman, then semen for dey comot us for mouth lol , cos truth is, no be everybody go get money...

Next time, don't chase. Attract instead. Only chase when she gives you green light, so you don't waste time, effort and esteem.

Also, your number one rule when it comes to women is that, you should go for the ones that chooses you already. Believe me is like having an all expense vacation to heaven.

Women effortlessly love and submit to a man they love, and it's not something you can use logic to convince or toast your way into her heart.

One thing you don't force is things of the heart. But to make rejection less painful, you should have an awesome life. Thats the antidote.