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l am about to cheat on my partner by victooman: 2:39pm On Jan 18, 2023
l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leave their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if the woman is good, perfect and beautiful.

Now l am in that position now, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt,
we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherish her.

Our sex life is great and perfect, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman, this has nothing to do with love or commitment, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman, chances keep springing up here and there and l don't want to do it, guilty conscience is already disturbing me.

Please guys who overcame this, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it?

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Papichulostunne(m): 3:06pm On Jan 18, 2023
Dem dne finally see your remote control for village. Dem bin dey find am sinceeee.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Isabi4lov: 4:40pm On Jan 18, 2023
grin grin grin same as your girlfriend she will also want to taste another man too , that's if she's not doing that already.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Qatar2022: 7:12pm On Jan 18, 2023
You see how stupid men can be? If the reverse is the case now , you will run to nairaland to spit trash

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Qatar2022: 7:14pm On Jan 18, 2023
Papichulostunne:
Dem dne finally see your remote control for village. Dem bin dey find am sinceeee.
Tomorrow he will come to nairaland to blame a girl that love him rightly before he mess everything up

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by frozen70(f): 7:34am On Jan 19, 2023
victooman:
l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leaves their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls,, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if he the woman is good , perfect and beautiful,,, now l am in that position now,, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt,,
we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherishes her our sex life is great and perfect,, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman,, this has nothing to do with love or commitment,, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman,,, chances keep spranging up here and there and l dont want to do it,,, guilty conscience is already disturbing me,, please guys who overcame this,, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it..

It happens to every man

Women too are going through the same thing

But self discipline is the key

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Goodlady(f): 9:11am On Jan 19, 2023
That discipline is worst in men. And they really need to stop it

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Nobody: 9:16am On Jan 19, 2023
Goodlady:
That discipline is worst in men. And they really need to stop it


^^^^^^ lonely house house...& then she complain she can't find man on Nairaland..how sad. angry

anyways did i mention am from London...juss in case u ask? smiley (no oofencsse)

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Nobody: 9:19am On Jan 19, 2023
frozen70:


It happens to every man
Women too are going through the same thing

But self discipline is the key


Stop talkin rubbish sir...$hit sint happening every were. I am a loyal one woman man!!(no oofencsse) angry

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by frozen70(f): 9:48am On Jan 19, 2023
DaddyCK:



Stop talkin rubbish sir...$hit sint happening every were. I am a loyal one woman man!!(no oofencsse) angry

You lack manners

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Sheistoopretty(f): 9:48am On Jan 19, 2023
victooman:
l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leaves their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls,, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if he the woman is good , perfect and beautiful,,, now l am in that position now,, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt,,
we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherishes her our sex life is great and perfect,, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman,, this has nothing to do with love or commitment,, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman,,, chances keep spranging up here and there and l dont want to do it,,, guilty conscience is already disturbing me,, please guys who overcame this,, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it..


Pls leave her alone so her missing rib can find her, when u are tired of lusting over other women or have contracted incurable infection, by then u might be lucky to get a partner to settle down with lipsrsealed


Nigerian men are Us*less......all of them grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Nobody: 9:54am On Jan 19, 2023
frozen70:


You lack manners

How? anyways am a Londoner..juss in case u intaressted (no oofencse ) angry

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Sonnobax15(m): 10:16am On Jan 19, 2023
DaddyCK:


How? anyways am a Londoner..juss in case u intaressted (no oofencse ) angry
. grin. Who asked you werey? grin. Londoner my foot........ Meanwhile I won't be surprised say na trenches for Agbasa for warri you dey grin

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by BigYash: 10:24am On Jan 19, 2023
Use the energy do better thing.. The girls no worth your time and resources, except you no like yourself sha

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Nobody: 10:48am On Jan 19, 2023
Sonnobax15:
. grin. Who asked you werey? grin. Londoner my foot........ Meanwhile I won't be surprised say na trenches for Agbasa for warri you dey grin


son is yor name frozen70? ... cant u see am toasting babe?..WELL U GET THE STEPPIN SIR!!!!(no oofensce) angry

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Goodlady(f): 10:49am On Jan 19, 2023
DaddyCK:



^^^^^^ lonely house house...& then she complain she can't find man on Nairaland..how sad. angry

anyways did i mention am from London...juss in case u ask? smiley (no oofencsse)
Nigbayen wa nko?
Ara London.
Naso I never see you gimme pounds sterling. Akagum!

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by jeromestarks: 12:34pm On Jan 19, 2023
Go ahead and cheat on her.

It is obvious that you lack sexual experience. You haven't fvck many women before you met her.

Go and fvck and refvck. Then go back home.

Fvck other girls as man times as you can.


In all you do, never marry a woman who has been fvcked by many men. A woman's past will always matter in a relationship.
Be wise.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by victooman: 1:30pm On Jan 19, 2023
Qatar2022:
You see how stupid men can be? If the reverse is the case now , you will run to nairaland to spit trash
a times before placing judgement ,, try and read to understand naa,,, if l am comfortable with this cheating of a thing l wont be here making this topic,,

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by BlackMan6969(m): 2:05pm On Jan 19, 2023
When ever i feel this way, i pray & cast all the demons of lust, & i feel better. Bible says, pray without ceasing, cos deamons will keep troubling u without ceasing.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Qatar2022: 2:11pm On Jan 19, 2023
victooman:
a times before placing judgement ,, try and read to understand naa,,, if l am comfortable with this cheating of a thing l wont be here making this topic,,
My friend you don't have any excuse to cheat, if she give the same excuse will you accept it?

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by victooman: 2:31pm On Jan 19, 2023
Qatar2022:

My friend you don't have any excuse to cheat, if she give the same excuse will you accept it?
who is giving excuse to cheat? l didn't say l want to cheat on her,, l know it was wrong that is l am asking those in my situation how they handle the feelings,,, how will u feel if l attack and insult u for been Hot?

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by jesmond3945: 2:38pm On Jan 19, 2023
victooman:
l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leaves their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls,, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if he the woman is good , perfect and beautiful,,, now l am in that position now,, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt,,
we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherishes her our sex life is great and perfect,, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman,, this has nothing to do with love or commitment,, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman,,, chances keep spranging up here and there and l dont want to do it,,, guilty conscience is already disturbing me,, please guys who overcame this,, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it..
yes is normal. Thats why people masturbate or watch porn. Is just sexual tension enveloping inside of you. If you fall you have cheated on your woman, so you need to be strong to hold yourself.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Weirdcamila: 2:51pm On Jan 19, 2023
Oga Bleep ! Haba
You are not married and you are caging yourself already , if you enter marriage you will cheat .
The earlier the better so she can catch you and decide to marry you or not .

Meanwhile please get your pvc .
Please everyone get your pvc

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Sukkyy2010: 3:16pm On Jan 19, 2023
Devil is about to intrude your marriage and throw in agony into your home and is using extra marital affairs bait to unlock the door in to your home. Do not gratify the flesh, pray aggressively against the urge may peace of God never seize in your home.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jan 19, 2023
grin
Good luck cool

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by obajoey(m): 4:47pm On Jan 19, 2023
You have seen everything that is needed to be seen under her skirt.

Women, sex don't keep a man.

Men, you will find everything in your woman in other women too but in the form of deceit, don't fall.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by BigDawsNet: 4:48pm On Jan 19, 2023
Insatiable can be control

You both need to speak to a sex teraphist ..

What u looking for from other women is available in ur woman... you guys just need to spicy up and generate a creativity sexual feelings for your selves

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by bonechamberlain(m): 4:48pm On Jan 19, 2023
angry

You described her as a perfect woman, so why do you plan to hurt her.

Like someone said it happens all the time, but ability to discipline yourself is key. So learn self discipline and don't give out what you won't accept.

On the other side, you bringing it up here, seems like you have already cheated or made up your mind to cheat. You just need more encouragement.

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by IbrahimSkiba(f): 4:48pm On Jan 19, 2023
grin
Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jan 19, 2023
Cheating no pay

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by africandollar: 4:48pm On Jan 19, 2023
Guy! Dont' do it! Simple! There's nothing there! Believe me you don't want to go down a rabbit hole you might find it hard to crawl out from and from what you said you're not facing any extenuating circumstance that from my view that could 'justify' you cheating on your girlfriend...maybe if you're God fearing then you might just go ahead and marry her so you can have a more solid reason not to cheat on her (not that this would totally prevent you from cheating but at least you would have a stronger moral reason not to).

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Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Charismatic107: 4:48pm On Jan 19, 2023
I hereby reject you on behalf of all the loyal gentlemen worldwide. Can you just imagine, and your girlfriend will think she has a sensible boyfriend smh

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