Herbephe1:
CALA ,I invested in it with 80k and the thing crashed the following week. The person that introduce it to me, invested with 700k This life no balance,if not because I was teaching then, I'd have committed suicide, I sold my goats and with my monthly salaries to invest

I don't know why I find the bolded funny .


Sorry for your loss.

Tell him to sell his properties and japa to cotonou.


Its his consequences, let him face it squarely.


The best you could do had been done and that was advising him to take heed.

People who invested in anything online should do so with the funds they're ready to lose, as nothing is guaranteed.

That wife must be one of the so called obituaries.

If you know you know

kennybabs1980:
My younger brother (half brother) and his wife believes so much in online investments. I called him and advised him seriously against such phantom businesses last year July but he didn't take my advise. His wife even insulted me at a time because of the advise.

At that time he was into a particular one called Kala. He collected money from people to the tune of N9.6million in the name of trying to help them invest in Kala. The investment went under and he is now using family members to pressurize me to assist him especially to secure a loan from a particular coop society I belong to so that he can pay off four of the people he help to invest who are seriously troubling his life with police and thugs.

I am not willing to do this under any condition. I have told him to sell off our late dad's landed property if he can get a buyer but people are offering peanuts and two of our sisters (his own full sibs) are insisting on getting their own share immediately it is sold, one even said she didn't send him on online investment. If he can get buyer for the property, I can help talk to our other siblings but these two, no way!

How can I help this stobborn brother without hurting myself?

Na even half brother sef,but no hatred just help the nigga out, make the thugs no decide to kill am one day

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

make e start Uber/taxify with the car na.

riverbird:
Please help him if you have the resources, this days it takes nothing for someone to get killed over peanut

Bruv!!! God bless you for this. Life has no value to most people nowadays. People don't care anymore. Like you said the poster has to help the brother ASAP. NO PAIN NO GAIN.

Chivadoski:
OP try respond to ppl

Where is the land location?

How many plot ?

What are the estimated prices ?

Well I am interested, when you are ready you reply

Land is in Ondo State. Its a farmland of 6.5 ha with some palm trees, scanty though. Not too far from the Akure-Owo-Benin Expressway, just about 500m inside. There is a very serious buyer on it now. Infact payment is expected on Thursday after all legal documents are finalised. The buyer is paying N450k per acre. Thank you.

kennybabs1980:
Land is in Ondo State. Its a farmland of 6.5 ha with some palm trees, scanty though. Not too far from the Akure-Owo-Benin Expressway, just about 500m inside. There is a very serious buyer on it now. Infact payment is expected on Thursday after all legal documents are finalised. The buyer is paying N450k per acre. Thank you.

450k per acre is a good buy around that area. Hope the land will be safe for the buyer sha? That area is notorious for weed growing. Be careful with legal encumbrances and don't give the money to him until after you have settled all your siblings especially those who are not ready to help him, settle extended family people too, they can cause trouble for the buyer if they're not settled especially if its an inherited family land, good luck.

DWJOBScom:


Why sell your father's property?
Na wa o

The guy is in real trouble with those who want their money back. Police and thugs are already involved. I'm so sure that guy can't sleep in his house for now until he pay something. Police will do shege for him, he will settle police and thugs too. His family members like the OP will also be receiving part of the harassments. People really entered into real trouble in Ondo State because of CALA, his own is even small. What these oversabi guys did was to go into their offices, churches, business places and collect people's money sometimes with signed agreement for the investment. Some fast guys madd money from there fast and ran before it crashed. I know a lady whose father is a big trader in building materials who lost people's money to the tune of N13Million to CALA in Owo, her father had to look for money to pay off some of the very troublesome "clients" to dissuade this lady from committing suicide, it was that bad. Its a very big issue.

wwwkaycom:
450k per acre is a good buy around that area. Hope the land will be safe for the buyer sha? That area is notorious for weed growing. Be careful with legal encumbrances and don't give the money to him until after you have settled all your siblings especially those who are not ready to help him, settle extended family people too, they can cause trouble for the buyer if they're not settled especially if its an inherited family land, good luck.

It is not an inherited family land, my father bought it for farming activities in the 80s. The head of the family of the original owners will collect some money, kolanut and alcoholic beverages from the buyer, that is already been considered and everyone is been carried along, thanks.

wwwkaycom:
The guy is in real trouble with those who want their money back. Police and thugs are already involved. I'm so sure that guy can't sleep in his house for now until he pay something. Police will do shege for him, he will settle police and thugs too. His family members like the OP will also be receiving part of the harassments. People really entered into real trouble in Ondo State because of CALA, his own is even small. What these oversabi guys did was to go into their offices, churches, business places and collect people's money sometimes with signed agreement for the investment. Some fast guys madd money from there fast and ran before it crashed. I know a lady whose father is a big trader in building materials who lost people's money to the tune of N13Million to CALA in Owo, her father had to look for money to pay off some of the very troublesome "clients" to dissuade this lady from committing suicide, it was that bad. Its a very big issue.

Ask from any policeman in Ondo State, they have been busy with CALA issues for like 2 months now. People entered into real problems because of the Phantom investment platform. Funny guys like my brother. He signed agreement with the guys who are giving him trouble now, stupid overconfident guy.

kenedyx:
He has to learn how to handle his finances. Only experience can teach him so let him bear his cross. You can be there for him in other ways in terms of advice and other more critical needs.

Let everyone have their equal share from proceeds of the land sale. Then anyone who wants to can assist him.

Your bro still has a lot to learn in terms of accountability and you have to stop petting him. You don't take people's monies and play Ponzi with it.

100%

Some people only learn through the hard way..your brother is one.
You guys should sell the property and share the money .anyone who likes to dash him their share is free.he should carry his cross as he greedy.

E no go pass say na the wife introduce am to the business

Starz825:


You dey mind am

People don't know the worth of siblings....

And it's down to 5he fact that they are not trained well

You that knows the worth of siblings, please what's the worth of a useless siblings hellbent of destroying him or herself...??

Kobicove:


Every family has a useless, irresponsible, good-for-nothing sibling a.k.a the black sheep.

The best way to treat the black sheep of the family is to completely ignore him and let him destroy himself if he so wishes!

Exactly...who wan die make e die, some people will never understand the pains of having a useless sibling...

I have this cousin doing very well in his business until the advent of Bet9ja...!! That was how this guy left his business to wither and invested every penny with Bet9ja until the last kobo...There is no kinda advise this guy didn't receive, pastors, elders, friends, family name it, it would be as if he's now a changed person until we (family) decides to put him back on track, but once money enters his hands, it's business as usual, you open a choice business for him, he will squander the money on betting and women...And this has continued for years, Baba has been owing almost all online loan platform, gotten himself arrested multiple times but we will still bail him, his elder sister has tried her possible best to offset most of his debts one certain time but he will go and accumulate more the next time...It got to a stage all his friends deserted him, families deserted him and Baba was in a sober reflection, went into trance mode and regretted all that has happened to him...

He started attending churches and going to weekly programs and went for deliverance and become a changed person, we studied him for like 6months, we saw changes in him and decided perhaps it's time to help him out, his Uncle abroad called him and decided to set him up as a man (That one no know watsup shaah). we rented a fully furnished 2 bedroom apartment for him, established a well funded and furnished business of his choice in a very busy and lucrative area and credited his account with sufficient amount of money, infact the only thing we didn't do for him was to marry a wife for him...On the part of his Uncle abroad, that one was constantly sending him upkeep money in $ even to the extent of him paying his children school fees in Madonna University and Baba was looking all fresh again...As a result, his immediate elder sister entrusted her almost completed house project for him to oversee since he's in the same state where the project was sited...

To summarize everything, problem started when we asked Oga to send pictures of the fittings and POP work that was done in the house because he said they have finished the work, Baba stated giving series of excuses until he ran out of ideas of what to say, that was when we started suspecting foul play...

Lo and behold, the house was still the same as it was in genesis, nothing was done A look at the shop we rented for him, was scanty and we didn't see the 55 inches plasma TV, we later heard one Bet9ja agent he was owing common 80K came with boys and took the TV away Children school fees in Madonna, he didn't pay, house we rented for him, he has sold almost all the properties, Omo...!! Everybody just weak and that was when we concluded that enough is enough "This guy is inredeemable" as I'm typing this, we don't even know his whereabouts, the last I heard from him was 2months ago he called me with a different number and was giving me a very long sermon of how I was his last hope and was talking plenty, I just sent him the amount he requested for because it was within my capacity...

Omo, sorry for bordering you with long talks, but I decided to type this because of the people quoting your post, You are right when you said "The best way to treat the black sheep of the family is to completely ignore him and let him destroy himself if he so wishes"

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

So you know all these,you still want to put head? Be rational oo!

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

OUT OF EVERY 12 THERE MUST BE A JUDAS!

be assure that you will be the one to pay off any loan you guaranteed him to collect.

you have done enough by giving him permission to sell off your general Inheritance

Slynation:
Exactly...who wan die make e die, some people will never understand the pains of having a useless sibling...

I have this cousin doing very well in his business until the advent of Bet9ja...!! That was how this guy left his business to wither and invested every penny with Bet9ja until the last kobo...There is no kinda advise this guy didn't receive, pastors, elders, friends, family name it, it would be as if he's now a changed person until we (family) decides to put him back on track, but once money enters his hands, it's business as usual, you open a choice business for him, he will squander the money on betting and women...And this has continued for years, Baba has been owing almost all online loan platform, gotten himself arrested multiple times but we will still bail him, his elder sister has tried her possible best to offset most of his debts one certain time but he will go and accumulate more the next time...It got to a stage all his friends deserted him, families deserted him and Baba was in a sober reflection, went into trance mode and regretted all that has happened to him...

He started attending churches and going to weekly programs and went for deliverance and become a changed person, we studied him for like 6months, we saw changes in him and decided perhaps it's time to help him out, his Uncle abroad called him and decided to set him up as a man (That one no know watsup shaah). we rented a fully furnished 2 bedroom apartment for him, established a well funded and furnished business of his choice in a very busy and lucrative area and credited his account with sufficient amount of money, infact the only thing we didn't do for him was to marry a wife for him...On the part of his Uncle abroad, that one was constantly sending him upkeep money in $ even to the extent of him paying his children school fees in Madonna University and Baba was looking all fresh again...As a result, his immediate elder sister entrusted her almost completed house project for him to oversee since he's in the same state where the project was sited...

To summarize everything, problem started when we asked Oga to send pictures of the fittings and POP work that was done in the house because he said they have finished the work, Baba stated giving series of excuses until he ran out of ideas of what to say, that was when we started suspecting foul play...

Lo and behold, the house was still the same as it was in genesis, nothing was done A look at the shop we rented for him, was scanty and we didn't see the 55 inches plasma TV, we later heard one Bet9ja agent he was owing common 80K came with boys and took the TV away Children school fees in Madonna, he didn't pay, house we rented for him, he has sold almost all the properties, Omo...!! Everybody just weak and that was when we concluded that enough is enough "This guy is inredeemable" as I'm typing this, we don't even know his whereabouts, the last I heard from him was 2months ago he called me with a different number and was giving me a very long sermon of how I was his last hope and was talking plenty, I just sent him the amount he requested for because it was within my capacity...

Omo, sorry for bordering you with long talks, but I decided to type this because of the people quoting your post, You are right when you said "The best way to treat the black sheep of the family is to completely ignore him and let him destroy himself if he so wishes"

Na wa o!

Dennisbulkan:
it's when the tides goes out you can see who has been swimming naked. Muumu man

Na your grandfather be Mumu.
Stupid fool.

player007:


Na your grandfather be Mumu.
Stupid fool.

My grandfather didn't lose 400k+ to a ponzi, neither did I. So, guess again who the true mumu is here; who's the clumsy, slow thinking stupid fool now? Illiterate pieces of shite. There's a very thin line between you, the money doubler lover and ritual killers.

NessFortunate:


Bruv!!! God bless you for this. Life has no value to most people nowadays. People don't care anymore. Like you said the poster has to help the brother ASAP. NO PAIN NO GAIN.

I see some people Posting and saying all sorts of things like why would the brother help him? Or he shouldn't help him because the said wife insulted him, there's one thing synonymous with human nature, all those who where gearing him into neglecting his brother will be thesame people that will blame him if his brother gets hurt and even that wife he's was using as an excuse not to help his brother will walk away and move on with another man, he will be left with what ever aftermath that he will left.....

Herbephe1:





CALA ,I invested in it with 80k and the thing crashed the following week. The person that introduce it to me, invested with 700k This life no balance,if not because I was teaching then, I'd have committed suicide,I sold my goats and with my monthly salaries to invest

Even the goats you sold were wiser than you financial wise

You want to sell a land and you are cooking up stories .

panini:
He hasn't learnt from MMM yet? Or agro yet? Or them "bring your money let me do crypto/Forex for you" yet?

They'll be a lot wiser after this. I wouldn't borrow money to anyone who still believes in these.

Is affiliate marketing also fake?

walk away, the man is not sick let him work his way out of the problem himself

panini:
He hasn't learnt from MMM yet? Or agro yet? Or them "bring your money let me do crypto/Forex for you" yet?

They'll be a lot wiser after this. I wouldn't borrow money to anyone who still believes in these.

bring your money let me do crypto/Forex for you" this line sha.

riverbird:


I see some people Posting and saying all sorts of things like why would the brother help him? Or he shouldn't help him because the said wife insulted him, there's one thing synonymous with human nature, all those who where gearing him into neglecting his brother will be thesame people that will blame him if his brother gets hurt and even that wife he's was using as an excuse not to help his brother will walk away and move on with another man, he will be left with what ever aftermath that he will left.....

Going to prison is part of life oh. Naija we are the only people in the surface of the earth that will run to support our family members even when there kill some one and are caught with the head in their hands.

riverbird:
Please help him if you have the resources, this days it takes nothing for someone to get killed over peanut

N9.6m is peanut?

kennybabs1980:
My younger brother (half brother) and his wife believes so much in online investments. I called him and advised him seriously against such phantom businesses last year July but he didn't take my advise. His wife even insulted me at a time because of the advise.

At that time he was into a particular one called Kala. He collected money from people to the tune of N9.6million in the name of trying to help them invest in Kala. The investment went under and he is now using family members to pressurize me to assist him especially to secure a loan from a particular coop society I belong to so that he can pay off four of the people he help to invest who are seriously troubling his life with police and thugs.

I am not willing to do this under any condition. I have told him to sell off our late dad's landed property if he can get a buyer but people are offering peanuts and two of our sisters (his own full sibs) are insisting on getting their own share immediately it is sold, one even said she didn't send him on online investment. If he can get buyer for the property, I can help talk to our other siblings but these two, no way!

How can I help this stobborn brother without hurting myself?

His wife that insulted you can also sell her father's property to help pay up 🙄😒

LAW 10: AVOID UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKY. When you try to help unfortunate people, they will draw their misforune on you.