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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by LINTUNE(m): 6:07pm On Jan 28, 2023
This life eh, for once have never taught about love, like all my taughts is all about money....omo eh, make God bless son of man,so that I can think of something else...I believe financial freedom is the most Paramount thing in any young man's life, other things follows after money......no ambitious man would think of love while broke or struggling....this is real life....

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 28, 2023
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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by jaxxy(m): 6:09pm On Jan 28, 2023
ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?

Being stupid. Make sure u know what ure doing always.
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by theredaddy: 6:13pm On Jan 28, 2023
Persephone1:
Still the same emotional roller coaster for me.

Somebody's son will just come and disrupt your stable, organized and controlled emotions. 🤧


The love of preek won't let most of join reverend sisters. shior!
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by iykejohnson(m): 6:13pm On Jan 28, 2023
franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.



As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:


1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.


Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.





When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz grin
You said it all

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by TyroneP(m): 6:14pm On Jan 28, 2023
Not everyone understands sincerity of purpose.

ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Godsown0: 6:16pm On Jan 28, 2023
Loss of freedom 🚶🏽
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by TenQ: 6:17pm On Jan 28, 2023
ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?
There is NOTHING Like Falling in Love: what exist is Growing Affection into LOVE.

Love is an UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE of a Person and the WILLINGNESS to SACRIFICE ALL PERSONAL COMFORT for the all-round UPLIFTMENT and GREATNESS of the Person concerned.
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Horus(m): 6:18pm On Jan 28, 2023
What happens when you fall in love? After a while, the soap opera begins, you start demanding.
When you start demanding, the love diminishes. The joy fades away.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by ozome15(m): 6:20pm On Jan 28, 2023
ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?
But will you cheat on someone or you are the faithful person
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Ubanz: 6:24pm On Jan 28, 2023
Do people still fall in love?
But when you talk about relationships, nothing to get scared about it,kpata kpata you give her belle and she must born am.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Kirchoffs: 6:24pm On Jan 28, 2023
My own na billing, Naija girls too Dey bill person that’s why I love to Furk friends only

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Ubanz: 6:24pm On Jan 28, 2023
Do people still fall in love?
But when you talk about relationships, nothing to get scared about it,kpata kpata you give her belle and she must born am
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jan 28, 2023
One Thing You Must Not Sell

Apostle Joshua Selman

Listen And Learn


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKJpNu9AZFg
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by jojothaiv(m): 6:42pm On Jan 28, 2023
Nothing scares me about falling in love anymore, just give me the respect I deserve when we are together. I promise not to say ill of you once we are no longer together.


I'd advise those who found love while primary/secondary school to always have it at the back of the mind that things could go south some day, the realization of such will make them adjust if things work out well or not.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by qtguru(m): 6:46pm On Jan 28, 2023
Nothing, except women today are not as appreciative as before. We men do too much for women and yet not the same love is returned. I've thought about it, but being monogamous is beneficial for a proper society.

This is not to say all Nigerian ladies are like that, but most are. undecided

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Babaken(m): 6:49pm On Jan 28, 2023
Is only STD that scare me most cuz am use to the rest.
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Pickmycall: 6:51pm On Jan 28, 2023
I have never been in a relationship.So I can't relate.
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Babastrong(m): 6:58pm On Jan 28, 2023
[quote author=Sniper101 post=120355042]I have trust issues.
I can't and I don't condone being cheated on.

Reason why I try not to give room to fall inlove. [ Are you a simp? You learn by falling. O ya fall in love naw.]
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Stanweezy(m): 7:04pm On Jan 28, 2023
MITCHELL96:



Registered in 2009. She fit be one of this 33+ oo 😯😯

Definitely, she maybe married though
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Formularcr7: 7:06pm On Jan 28, 2023
ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Toks2008(m): 7:06pm On Jan 28, 2023
I love but I don't fall in love.

I expect everything and I expect nothing. I just go with the flow.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by achimendy(m): 7:09pm On Jan 28, 2023
ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?

Loving someone who doesn't really love you, but only there for material gains.


That's my greatest fear.

Love is a heart to heart thing , and it must be felt between a man and a woman. That's how it should be.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by gbemishile: 7:09pm On Jan 28, 2023
Falling deeply in love and not loved in return.
Beunh served breakfast and most importantly being cheated on.
Like my friend woukd always say.
Do not fall in love but STAND in love.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Lucifyre: 7:13pm On Jan 28, 2023
abobote:
I guess this question is for our baby girls.

Me I don't fall in love, I have never falling in love before, any girl wey I wan toast, I de Imagine weda she go sweet, weda she go clean inside.
Even, my wife use to say that I don't love her, that I married her coz of the kids. Na after she born 2 pikin for me, before I pay her bride price

You are definitely aromantic. Im same, never been in love before. My partners say the same thing that they dont think i love em.
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Goldbw122(m): 7:25pm On Jan 28, 2023
This is online, so you can all say what you want to say, when you experience love you won't know when you will give the password of your bank account, phone, security details to your partner because of love you never see anything, na when e happen na your eye go clear..
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Starz825(m): 7:27pm On Jan 28, 2023
For the most part, You don't just know if you are doing the right thing by falling in love.

Now, the Redpill (school of thought) stated clearly: falling in love is highly unnecessary and toxic because when shit happens (which is mostly certain) you could lose your mind, senses and even fall into depression infact you could start having suicidal feelings.

However, the same school of thought says you can still love and care for someone without having to 'fall in love' with them so when shit gets to Pop up...you re ready for it therefore you will be able to handle it emotionally and psychologically no matter how worse the heart break is.
And heart break comes in different forms.
Cheating, death of a partner, abandonment and what have you.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by correctguy101(m): 7:28pm On Jan 28, 2023
InfinityFabric:
Of course the question is asked by a woman. Makes sense, they're the only one who's infected and affected with love since it's based on emotions.

As a man, I don't fall in love so this question is INVALID.

It's not invalid mate. And don't make the mistake to think men don't fall in love.

It's just that you're yet to recognize that part of you. You can only learn or be forced to ignore that part of yourself but it's still there and it won't go away, plus there's always the a trigger for it.
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Chetas81(m): 7:29pm On Jan 28, 2023
CHEATING
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Silentgroper(m): 7:30pm On Jan 28, 2023
See finish..


I find it hard be completely open..


I'd rather give you summary of the circumstances and not the full details..


But love doesn't scare me .
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by FROGMAN101(m): 7:37pm On Jan 28, 2023
franchasng:
This question should be directed to the ladies only and maybe boys between age 17 to 23yrs.



As far as I know, the only things that scare guys in life are:


1.) Fear of ending up financially poor

2.) Fear of dying young or falling sick and becoming physically incapacitated or handicapped.


Because majority of men don't believe in true love, men believe that women love men based on the man's financial/economic/social status, so to most men, once they are doing well financially and also healthy, they will never lack women to be with, it doesn't matter if the women are there for their money or not cos men already have a predetermined mindset or belief that women's love or affection for a man depends hugely on the man's financial muscle.





When it comes to women issues, the only thing that worries young average guys is how to get a girlfriend for the purpose of curing conji with minimal spending or zero spending not necessarily about love, so when an average young man finds an attractive girl that gives him free access to sex without spending,
that means he has found love, this is how boys think, don't get it twisted lolz grin


Haha bro why you Dey cast update
Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Emdebby2: 7:40pm On Jan 28, 2023
Persephone1:
Still the same emotional roller coaster for me.

Somebody's son will just come and disrupt your stable, organized and controlled emotions. 🤧
Lol

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