4ward4:


How about make money , marry a woman of your dream, raise a good fearing family and great children. All those things u listed there, won’t be added to your autobiography

there is no woman of your dream, a woman is a woman

If such exist why did the richest men divorced their wives or their wives divorced them, after all they are rich, what else do women want?

Look, marriage has outlived its importance, a man is a natural conqueror, that’s what he should do, and women are conquests to men

Gadafii:
there is no woman of your dream, a woman is a woman

If such exist why did the richest men divorced their wives or their wives divorced them, after all they are rich, what else do women want?

Look, marriage has outlived its importance, a man is a natural conqueror, that’s what he should do, and women are conquests to men

Marriage haven’t outlived it’s importance as you claimed. The wealthy mean who married and got divorced doesn’t mean she wasn’t the woman of his dreams .Majority if such divorce where centered on infidelity on the part of the man, get that right . That doesn’t mean he isn’t trying hard to get her back

4ward4:


Marriage haven’t outlived it’s importance as you claimed. The wealthy mean who married and got divorced doesn’t mean she wasn’t the woman of his dreams .Majority if such divorce where centered on infidelity on the part of the man, get that right . That doesn’t mean he isn’t trying hard to get her back

mattiage doesn’t not make a man feel fulfilled, I don’t understand all these your plenty talks

You think women want to marry a man that’s not yet fulfilled or achieved a lot

I had one that told me that she doesn't go back to her ex,as soon break up happens. Sisi is currently with one of her ex now,the ex dey drill am anyhow like borehole Those people too go confuse o.. Op its good you are wise.. Don't let them trap you oooo

Ginaz:
I blame that girl for coming back to you, now you're feeling too big for yourself.

yea,men are the prize!

Sheistoopretty:


Ur turn for what? what will I not see on Nairaland

broke boys claiming rubbish online

Is your father rich ??
Are you rich ??

Gadafii:
I have said it in my thread, I am saying it again, marriage is not important to men the way it is to women,don’t be forced or pressured to do it, you will blame your life forever till you die

Get money , travel, go to international tournaments, live concerts, network, and you will see how fulfilled that is

Exactly!!

But what I don’t understand is this word ‘ love’

When you love someone does it overtime fade away?
I mean LOVE o, if you LOVE your child/ relative do you over time end up unloving them?
You see why I no too Dey take that relationship LOVE thing seriously, cos in relationship y’all ain’t showing LOVE you are in it for the gains, both man and woman. Una just Dey deceive yourselves.

ukaface:
But what I don’t understand is this word ‘ love’

When you love someone does it overtime fade away?
I mean LOVE o, if you LOVE your child/ relative do you over time end up unloving them?
You see why I no too Dey take that relationship LOVE thing seriously, cos in relationship y’all ain’t showing LOVE you are in it for the gains, both man and woman. Una just Dey deceive yourselves.

The modern world has bastardized the word 'love'. Nowadays, whoever falls in love in a relationship seems to be the 'loser' or 'slave' cos you'd be manipulated.

It's quite a pity that 'Love' has lost its true meaning & essence in this present generation. Sad to say, 'love' in relationships is now an illusion.

Beetwaise:

The modern world has bastardized the word 'love'. Nowadays, whoever falls in love in a relationship seems to be the 'loser' or 'slave' cos you'd be manipulated.

It's quite a pity that 'Love' has lost its true meaning & essence in this present generation. Sad to say, 'love' in relationships is now an illusion.

A pathetic illusion o

Ginaz:
I blame that girl for coming back to you, now you're feeling too big for yourself.

Sometimes learn to Shut up if you have nothing to say.

That girl left the op and after fvcking around upon realizing that those guys won't marry her and of course after enjoying her prime time with lots of guys, she then decided to return back to the op with her over used damaged pussy. Are you okay?

Everyone knows the older a girl gets, the more desperate she becomes towards marriage. By then all those guys that has fuvked her when she was at her prime have all dumped her for much more younger girls. these and Many more makes you girls desperate for marriage whereby seeking for any man available who's ready to settle down with your over used damaged kpekpus. So why being so stupi*d, and pretending as if you didn't understand what the op was saying?

chinwong:
All I’m ever desperate to do is to make money and have my peace ✌️ with a lot of good food, drinks and sex😁 coupled with intense gym sessions

Comrade

Creativity22:

Squats bro. Squats gaurantees good health

Damn Nigga 😁 that’s my fav exercise bruh

The highest I’ve done on squats is 190kg.

What’s your max?🤷‍♂️

SenatePresdo:


Comrade

You sef dey there Chief 😁

I no like wahala so I like to vent my anger & frustrations at those plates😂

chinwong:


Damn Nigga 😁 that’s my fav exercise bruh

The highest I’ve done on squats is 190kg.

What’s your max?🤷‍♂️

Wow thats impressive. Usually train with 100kg. My max could be around 150kg . I don't think i can do 190kg, though i have never tried.
My strict curl is quite impressive though. I can do 55kg.

Goodmarlian:
Women are the gatekeepers of sex,while men are the gatekeepers of marriage,when a sane man wants sex from a woman if she is not down with it he will likely move on and look for anothers target he will not force her to avoid being charged with rape.
You see women? If a woman has reached marriage age she will do everything to pin her boyfriend down either with jazz or pregnancy infact she will be very open about it as in she will tell you straight to the face if you are ready to marry her or not.
I have a female friend who is getting really close to me lately, this is a girl i asked out in 2018 she was doing shakara and all,claiming she has a boyfriend i left her and moved on as a matured guy,2022 she came back to me but now its too late the feelings have fade away that her boyfriend has dumped her and married someone else after 5 years of dating she has becoming very bitter and desperate for marriage.
She no longer wants rich and handsome guys again now she wants just anyone available for marriage.

I noticed her body language and immediately friendzone her,i dont even want sex with her to avoid making her more bitter we just chat and all,she always complained that i dont call or chat her up,she has concluded in her mind we are dating but i am not in for that.
This girl will keep showing me pictures of wedding rings,telling me someone wants to propose to her to keep me on my feet but i am not moved,i just want to let her know marriage is not an achievement she should stop being desperate for marriage.

You better stay away from her before she give you love portion for your indomie. We finally see your wedding pics for front page. I too will tell you congratulations. Until you eyes open after 14-20yrs. I just pray say you go for Remember your nairaland password by then

Gadafii:
I have said it in my thread, I am saying it again, marriage is not important to men the way it is to women,don’t be forced or pressured to do it, you will blame your life forever till you die

Get money , travel, go to international tournaments, live concerts, network, and you will see how fulfilled that is

Funny enough, by doing this you get to meet better and more beautiful women.
Then you look back at your simp days and wonder why you were so stupid then.
Bro, as I go on tours more, hang outs, gym centers, swimming pool etc. I meet sweet sweet babes virtually everyday and some do admire me.
Then I wondered what was wrong with me when I was very desperate for one lady then, crying and scared of letting her go.

emmaodet:


Funny enough, by doing this you get to meet better and more beautiful women.
Then you look back at your simp days and wonder why you were so stupid then.
Bro, as I go on tours more, hang outs, gym centers, swimming pool etc. I meet sweet sweet babes virtually everyday and some do admire me.
Then I wondered what was wrong with me when I was very desperate for one lady then, crying and scared of letting her go.

Raalsalghul:

emmaodet:


Funny enough, by doing this you get to meet better and more beautiful women.
Then you look back at your simp days and wonder why you were so stupid then.
Bro, as I go on tours more, hang outs, gym centers, swimming pool etc. I meet sweet sweet babes virtually everyday and some do admire me.
Then I wondered what was wrong with me when I was very desperate for one lady then, crying and scared of letting her go.

definitely when you travel you will meet ladies that are sexier than the local ones you have been dying for, their orientation are different as well, it’s important for a man to make money and travel the world first if possible, not jump into marriage

GLouis:



You better stay away from her before she give you love portion for your indomie. We finally see your wedding pics for front page. I too will tell you congratulations. Until you eyes open after 14-20yrs. I just pray say you go for Remember your nairaland password by then

Gadafii:
definitely when you travel you will meet ladies that are sexier than the local ones you have been dying for, their orientation are different as well, it’s important for a man to make money and travel the world first if possible, not jump into marriage

I agree with you bro but the truth is that when a man is young and poor, it is a terrible moment i won't even wish my enemy.
You will be lonely, bored, depressed and desperate for a woman or the so called Love.
It is a boring moment of a man's life. You look into the future and you see nothing, i mean virtually nothing.
No hope, nothing so the only console is a woman then.
Imagine going like 3-5 years without any Happy birthday from any family member or a woman you call your own. You will feel lonely and rejected, like someone that never existed.
It is this factors that makes men very clingy, ready to simp for a woman just to atleast be acknowledged by 1 person in the world. ATLEAST 1 PERSON KWANU AND THIS LEADS TO A MAN TAKING AND ABSORBING A WOMAN BULLSHITS AND bad attitudes.
Let's be frank, majority of men won't make it which means they will be invincible to women in this world and even family members will avoid them.
We all are social animals - we want to be loved, respected, valued, listened to when we talk, associated with etc but a poor man is invincible to the world and because a poor man is invincibleto the world, he has no choice than to keep dropping and dropping his standards just to atleast have a mate and it gets so terrible, really really terrible that MEN are ready and willing to date and marry single mothers with as high as 4/5 kids(it speaks of a man with virtually no options and choice in life),disrespectful and bad attitude women, a serial cheating woman which the man knows about but has no choice that to be enduring it etc

Gadafii:
definitely when you travel you will meet ladies that are sexier than the local ones you have been dying for, their orientation are different as well, it’s important for a man to make money and travel the world first if possible, not jump into marriage

When i comment here on nairaland, i mostly like using my life experience as an example rather than what i read in a book or a hearsay.
I was an introvert, gentle, quiet, Mr nice guy but realized i struggled with relationship because of this qualities.
I was a low-self esteemed guy partly due to being raised by not so masculine figure in my life.
These qualities made me to enter a relationship with women virtually simping for them.
I do literarily beg my women to stay in relatioship, always scared of losing them.Always trying and finding a ay to keep impressing them in other not to go or lose them.
Even the present woman i married, same thing and i struggled during our courtship days. At a point, she became rude, bold and wit an i-don't-care attitude of whatever happens to the relationship so be it.
I know how many times i do call her mum to mend our relationship (because her mum was my school teacher at high school) when she wanted to leave me for a new guy disturbing her in a corner.
At the end of the day, we got married and i was very very very happy i got the dream of my heart but as time goes on and i became more exposed, realized my self-worth and value, added more values to my life, improved my dressing mode, fashion in general, social lifestyle etc, i realized my fck ups in the past and where i got it all wrong.
Started meeting sweet sweet babes and i will be like en en, na babes be these now, where una dey before?
Asi get better and better financially and socially, it increased my self-esteem and i became bolder and bolder and there was a push-back from my side.
I started rejecting her bullshits, never take any form of disrespect and ready to walk away if it gets toxic for my liken.
Now the reverse is the case, she is the one calling her mum to talk to me because she doesn't understand me anymore, she is the one experiencing sleepless nights and worried, waking me up midnight to ask and beg me if she has offended me to warrant my new attitudes etc

emmaodet:


I agree with you bro but the truth is that when a man is young and poor, it is a terrible moment i won't even wish my enemy.
You will be lonely, bored, depressed and desperate for a woman or the so called Love.
It is a boring moment of a man's life. You look into the future and you see nothing, i mean virtually nothing.
No hope, nothing so the only console is a woman then.
Imagine going like 3-5 years without any Happy birthday from any family member or a woman you call your own. You will feel lonely and rejected, like someone that never existed.
It is this factors that makes men very clingy, ready to simp for a woman just to atleast be acknowledged by 1 person in the world. ATLEAST 1 PERSON KWANU AND THIS LEADS TO A MAN TAKING AND ABSORBING A WOMAN BULLSHITS AND bad attitudes.
Let's be frank, majority of men won't make it which means they will be invincible to women in this world and even family members will avoid them.
We all are social animals - we want to be loved, respected, valued, listened to when we talk, associated with etc but a poor man is invincible to the world and because a poor man is invincibleto the world, he has no choice than to keep dropping and dropping his standards just to atleast have a mate and it gets so terrible, really really terrible that MEN are ready and willing to date and marry single mothers with as high as 4/5 kids(it speaks of a man with virtually no options and choice in life),disrespectful and bad attitude women, a serial cheating woman which the man knows about but has no choice that to be enduring it etc

women are not kept by wealth, but it’s necessary you make that money and be comfortable wealthy to your taste, then you have more than several chances of having more than one option, she will realize your are the prize And will fight for it dearly, she. Is aware if she misbehave you won’t waste time tolerating her nonsense, there are options so she will be of good behavior

Women are kept by not doing what they want you to do, because they don’t know what they want, it’s very important to make that money, build your self mentally, physically and emotional, smell nice and look good, talk to random people, and hang out at nice places and eat good food, at the end you would realize that pussy is last on your menu because you will have access to lots and not worried if one doesn’t turn up to wet your cork

5 + any girl's age makes her unsuitable for marriage.
You did great!

I was an introvert, gentle, quiet, Mr nice guy but realized i struggled with relationship because of this qualities.

The most vulnerable group. Highly open to exploits especially when young.

These qualities made me to enter a relationship with women virtually simping for them.
I do literarily beg my women to stay in relatioship, always scared of losing them.Always trying and finding a ay to keep impressing them in other not to go or lose them.

Because that's the only thing u see around you. Then add stupid nollywood, hollywood nonsense to it - perfect SIMP in making.

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Worst of all, so-called fathers and mothers are letting boys to figure this shit out PAINFULLY while girls knows how to bleed you dry from day 1.

I started rejecting her bullshits, never take any form of disrespect and ready to walk away if it gets toxic for my liken.
Now the reverse is the case, she is the one calling her mum to talk to me because she doesn't understand me anymore, she is the one experiencing sleepless nights and worried, waking me up midnight to ask and beg me if she has offended me to warrant my new attitudes etc

Female game depends on ur ignorance, the moment u know what's up, she don turn your MUMU. Literally.
That's why they always lament online so as to make current simps stay ignorance.

At the end of the day, we got married and i was very very very happy i got the dream of my heart but as time goes on and i became more exposed, realized my self-worth and value, added more values to my life, improved my dressing mode, fashion in general, social lifestyle etc, i realized my fck ups in the past and where i got it all wrong.

Many go down the other route, good for you u made it.

Started meeting sweet sweet babes and i will be like en en, na babes be these now, where una dey before?

They've always been there, you were just INVISIBLE to them. No more of them are coming to you most of them are not INVISIBLE to you.
How the turn tables.

Now the reverse is the case, she is the one calling her mum to talk to me because she doesn't understand me anymore, she is the one experiencing sleepless nights and worried, waking me up midnight to ask and beg me if she has offended me to warrant my new attitudes etc

More of this please.

4ward4:


How about make money , marry a woman of your dream, raise a good fearing family and great children. All those things u listed there, won’t be added to your autobiography

Life is not a Disney movie. In reality, only an extreme few (whether rich or poor), get to live an "Happily Ever After" kind of life found in fairy tales.

ukaface:
But what I don’t understand is this word ‘ love’

When you love someone does it overtime fade away?
I mean LOVE o, if you LOVE your child/ relative do you over time end up unloving them?
You see why I no too Dey take that relationship LOVE thing seriously, cos in relationship y’all ain’t showing LOVE you are in it for the gains, both man and woman. Una just Dey deceive yourselves.

Love is Consequential Upon a Phenomenon, Your Children are integral part of You so You love them Unconditionally unlike the love you have for your husband also the love you have for your Mother is different from the love you have for any other person ...

Just love with Your Mind Opened not Closed and you will be OK if the Other party doesn't feel the Same in the long-range....

But the Mind Most times wants to Close Up and Relax but This has always lead to Heartache/HPB/Hypertensions for Most People!

emmaodet:


Funny enough, by doing this you get to meet better and more beautiful women.
Then you look back at your simp days and wonder why you were so stupid then.
Bro, as I go on tours more, hang outs, gym centers, swimming pool etc. I meet sweet sweet babes virtually everyday and some do admire me.
Then I wondered what was wrong with me when I was very desperate for one lady then, crying and scared of letting her go.

Life is a Phase and You lived through that Phase ... You can still go back to it if your present Conditions changed

emmaodet:


I agree with you bro but the truth is that when a man is young and poor, it is a terrible moment i won't even wish my enemy.
You will be lonely, bored, depressed and desperate for a woman or the so called Love.
It is a boring moment of a man's life. You look into the future and you see nothing, i mean virtually nothing.
No hope, nothing so the only console is a woman then.
Imagine going like 3-5 years without any Happy birthday from any family member or a woman you call your own. You will feel lonely and rejected, like someone that never existed.
It is this factors that makes men very clingy, ready to simp for a woman just to atleast be acknowledged by 1 person in the world. ATLEAST 1 PERSON KWANU AND THIS LEADS TO A MAN TAKING AND ABSORBING A WOMAN BULLSHITS AND bad attitudes.
Let's be frank, majority of men won't make it which means they will be invincible to women in this world and even family members will avoid them.
We all are social animals - we want to be loved, respected, valued, listened to when we talk, associated with etc but a poor man is invincible to the world and because a poor man is invincibleto the world, he has no choice than to keep dropping and dropping his standards just to atleast have a mate and it gets so terrible, really really terrible that MEN are ready and willing to date and marry single mothers with as high as 4/5 kids(it speaks of a man with virtually no options and choice in life),disrespectful and bad attitude women, a serial cheating woman which the man knows about but has no choice that to be enduring it etc

Greatly Captured ! .... This is Raw Truth and Facts!

But Don't Pity them Though ... We all Sleeps on the Bed we Lie .... Except for Disabled Ones !

Ade1177:


True

Most men forget they are actually men and allow girls dicate for them to marry

I just ended a relationship of on and off that lasted for 5yrs

She's fine and I really loved her even after breaking up severally. Always find ways to come back together

But that was when it was just boyfriend and girlfriend and she was still in school

Now that she is working

Her parents are all over her to get married

And my plans currently doesn't have marriage in it for the next couple of years

And she has started having guys flocking her and honest truth most are richer than me and are more ready to marry a girl

To not be selfish and tie her down or force myself to marry her just because I want to "win her over other guys trying to pin her down"

I simply let her go. She hates me currently

Because seems I was the one she loves the most

But me marrying her will end up making me blame myself for jumping in too soon when I wasn't ready

I already told her. Its better she goes for a guy that will marry her soon. Since that's what she wants and I am not ready

I know my level, I am not there yet

Wotoporiously speaking

Real nigga

Wotoporiously speaking

Op which brand you dey take?

You murdered the beat