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Ubunja writes with the mastery of one who has seen it all with women. Unfortunately, it takes one who has equally interacted with a lot of women to understand the wisdom in his write-ups. And Many males have not.

ubunja:
The Sweetest Thing In The Universe.


PROLOGUE.
All women know that all the social advantages and special treatments they enjoy are because of what they have between their legs. They know that if they didn't have that Golden Vagina, men would not even bother talking to them. Most men don't even like women, they just want to get laid.

NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
And so, in a world where their God-given pussy is relentlessly pursued by men, both for pleasure and for procreation; women come to value tremendously those interactions with men that have as little sexual motives as possible.

Those platonic talks women have with men that are guaranteed to lead NOWHERE sexually are as refreshing as the summer rain on the Serengeti. A man who deals with a woman in the least sexual manner becomes important. His conversation is honey because finally, a woman is treated like a normal human being not a sex thing.

With such a man women can lower their guard, relax their defenses and for once enjoy the company of a member of the opposite sex without having to "watch their pussy". His compliments, his praises and his appreciations are genuine. They're not given to flatter and trick anyone into opening their legs.

A woman will have long conversations on WhatsApp and whatnot with such a man. Even staying up all night. Just chatting.

But this is where it all goes wrong for the man.

As he gives a woman all his time and energy, he disqualifies himself from getting the one Thing he really wants from her: the Golden Vagina. Because the more time a man gives a woman outside of sex, the less chances a woman will give him sex. You see, Pussy is the sweetest thing men know, but Dick is not the sweetest thing women know. That honor goes to something called ATTENTION. Of the non sexual variety.

Non Sexual Attention. Attention from a man but that doesn't lead to sex. Attention outside of sex. This type of attention here: compliments (they raise her self-esteem) "Can I carry your bag" (it makes her life easier), "Can I take you halfway through the dark street?" (it makes her life safer), "Here, take my seat, I will stand" (it makes her life more comfortable). All these gestures and their ilk are more important to women than sex. Because women feel validated as normal human beings not just sex objects. Women dress provocatively for this, not for sex. They use Sexual Attention to get Non Sexual Attention. Women use cleavage, short skirts etc to get men to do them favours that have NOTHING to do with sex.

Non Sexual Attention is the sweetest thing in the Universe for women. While Sexual Attention is sweetest for men.

It is when a guy does Non Sexual favours for women (like opening doors, buying birthday cards) that women remark, "He's such a sweet guy!". Because really that's sweet of him to do those things for women, cause all the other guys just want to fvck women. Women prefer to have such a sweet guy as a FRIEND not a lover. Not because they judge him unworthy of the Pussy but because to women A PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP WITH A MAN IS INFINITELY MORE REWARDING THAN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. Men chase sex, women chase commitment but a man who gets himself friendzoned has offered COMMITMENT without demanding SEX in return. Such a guy is pure gold to women.

This is not to say women don't enjoy sex. They do. More than men even. But between accepting your Dick and accepting your attention, women will choose your attention ANY DAY. And as a man you must start charging accordingly

STOP GIVING YOUR ATTENTION FOR FREE.
Your attention is your most valuable asset.

How do TV channels make their billions? How do magazines and newspapers make their profits? How do YouTube videos generate revenue? Through advertisements. Which rely on ------------> Your Attention.

You just looking. Nothing more.

Everything from news to propaganda to movies all need your attention. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram all need your attention.

Facebook is free. And it always will be. But free as it is, last year 2018, the Social Network made a staggering 56 billion US dollars. How? By selling to other businesses what YOU give it for free. And what is that? Your attention. Your time.

Your attention, something that seems so useless and frivolous to you that you're throwing everywhere willy-nilly is pure gold to businesses.

Best believe it's pure gold to women as well

YOUR ATTENTION IS EQUAL TO HER PUSSY.
Men only give attention to pretty women but will have sex with any woman. Women only have sex with top men but want attention from any man. A man's attention has the same worth as a woman's pussy - it's only reserved for the best.

Just as men only admire the best woman but will fvck any woman who offers; so women take attention from any man who offers, but will only fvck the best man. Women's "look but don't touch" policy crystalizes this: Everyone is free to look but only a select few get to touch.

THE WAR FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
Women's movements like Body Positivity, itself rooted in the Fat Acceptance movement, seek to police men's attention by reprogramming men to give attention not only to pretty women but also to those unpretty.

The Unpretty among women (Fat and Ugly women), do get plenty of sex because men will fvck anything (even the ugliest women somehow end up pregnant). But what these women don't get is attention OUTSIDE of sex: Non Sexual Attention. Non sexual attention will be the compliments, the praises, the favours and the helping hand women get publicly from men eg free drinks and free lifts. Ugly and fat women get none of these but guys will still fvck them. That's the bone of contention.

Without Non Sex Attention a woman only gets Sexual Attention which makes her a Sex Object. Which is the unfortunate situation Fat and Ugly women find themselves in. That's why the most vocal women in the battle against sexual objectification are Ugly and Fat women. Because sex is literally the only thing they're getting from men.

Fat and ugly women have the cooperation of men in the bedroom, but out in the World they're on their own. No man buys an ugly woman a drink. No man gives a fat woman a lift. That fat and ugly girl you only meet and fvck at night, it stings her that during the day you act like you don't know her. That's the bone of contention.

GIVING ATTENTION = NO SEX FOR YOU.
The more you give a woman your Non Sexual Attention, the less chances she'll give you sex. Why? Because she knows she's supposed to EARN this type of attention. With her pussy. There's nothing for free. Just as you're supposed to earn a woman's pussy she's supposed to earn your favour.

That girl you're spending hours chatting with on WhatsApp is a girl who's seeing no reason to give you sex. You're giving her for free the Attention and Validation she usually gets by having sex with a guy, so why must she bother having sex with you? You're already giving her free of charge what she usually opens her legs to get.

Ever had sex with a girl then after she told you she just wants to be friends? As crazy as it may sound, that sex was her BUYING your friendship. All male-female friendships must start that way or it's a Friendzone. The Friendzone is in effect a woman's Harem. Those men on her phone eveready everyday to talk about anything and everything are the male equivalent of sex slaves.

STOP GIVING YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOR FREE.
By nature, women use sex to get attention because pussy is the only thing of value they have that men want, while attention is the only thing of value men can give that women want.

Ever wonder why if you starve your GF of attention she'll have sex with another guy? Why does she not simply get the guy's attention since attention is what you're starving her of? But instead she goes for the guy's Dick? It's because your neglected GF is PAYING for the guy's attention with her pussy.

Not that your girl is consciously aware of the pay principle at play.

But this concept of women buying men's friendship with sex is something we all know at the most basic level. That's why people don't believe a Man and a Woman can be friends without having sex. Sex must happen for the friendship to happen.

One day I was talking to this girl and she was telling me about a certain guy friend of hers she was doing business with. When l asked if she had slept with the guy she replied quite casually, "Yes we had sex, to GET IT OUT OF THE WAY".
It fascinated me. She had paid for the friendship with sex!! And that's how it should be.

Because a woman values your friendship as much as you value her pussy; she must pay to be your friend just as you must pay to have sex with her. Nothing is for free. Never accept friendship with a girl that doesn't start with sex, because a girl will never accept sex that doesn't start with a friendship. Nothing is for free.

If a girl introduces herself to you asking to be your friend, make every effort to have sex with her. If she rejects your advances reject her friendship. You just dodged a friendzone bullet. Remember, in ALL male-female relationships, platonic or romantic, it's always the female who benefits more.

GET SEXUAL ATTENTION FOR YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Next time a woman asks for help with something like her bag, jokingly ask what will you get in return. If she asks what is it that you want, or whatever answer she gives, in a playful manner tell her a kiss will do. Then see where it goes. If she has those pillow breasts tell her a hug is all the payment you need. Such things. That's how you make women pay sexually for the favours you do for them. Forget about the phone numbers. She'll ignore you on WhatsApp anyways. Get paid NOW. And move on with your life.

IN THE FINAL ANALYSIS.
With women, Everything begins with attention.

Women love money but the man who gives them money first gives them attention. They love power but to get the power they must first get the attention of the man with the power. Attention is the foundation on which women build everything. Without getting a man's attention they can get nothing from him.

Men love to look at women. Women love to be looked at by men. The joy of men is in looking, which drives them to porn sites. The joy of women is to be looked at, which drives them to Social Media. Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat etc are the women's Xvideos, PornHub and XHmaster.

TRUE MONOGAMY.
Women value attention and want more of it from different men; Men value sex and want more of it from different women. A woman can choose the attention of 1 man just as a man can choose sex with 1 woman. When a man and a woman can do this, that's true monogamy.
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Saintly01:
Hi Ubunja, what kind of marriage do you intend to have? I am very curious to know. Thanks.

ubunja:
i don't think I can get married. But never say never. Either a virgin or a girl from money. But who knows

shiffynaani:
Guy pls drop the approach miseducation nah. na wa oh

ubunja:
first Will be:
"No Green Light, No Approach"

ubunja:
first Will be: "No Green Light, No Approach"

ubunja:
one by one those who Want to be saved will be saved.

Imoh555:
Plenty oil dey your head Ubunja darling

ubunja:
The Sweetest Thing In The Universe.


PROLOGUE.
All women know that all the social advantages and special treatments they enjoy are because of what they have between their legs. They know that if they didn't have that Golden Vagina, men would not even bother talking to them. Most men don't even like women, they just want to get laid.

NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
And so, in a world where their God-given pussy is relentlessly pursued by men, both for pleasure and for procreation; women come to value tremendously those interactions with men that have as little sexual motives as possible.

Those platonic talks women have with men that are guaranteed to lead NOWHERE sexually are as refreshing as the summer rain on the Serengeti. A man who deals with a woman in the least sexual manner becomes important. His conversation is honey because finally, a woman is treated like a normal human being not a sex thing.

With such a man women can lower their guard, relax their defenses and for once enjoy the company of a member of the opposite sex without having to "watch their pussy". His compliments, his praises and his appreciations are genuine. They're not given to flatter and trick anyone into opening their legs.

A woman will have long conversations on WhatsApp and whatnot with such a man. Even staying up all night. Just chatting.

But this is where it all goes wrong for the man.

As he gives a woman all his time and energy, he disqualifies himself from getting the one Thing he really wants from her: the Golden Vagina. Because the more time a man gives a woman outside of sex, the less chances a woman will give him sex. You see, Pussy is the sweetest thing men know, but Dick is not the sweetest thing women know. That honor goes to something called ATTENTION. Of the non sexual variety.

Non Sexual Attention. Attention from a man but that doesn't lead to sex. Attention outside of sex. This type of attention here: compliments (they raise her self-esteem) "Can I carry your bag" (it makes her life easier), "Can I take you halfway through the dark street?" (it makes her life safer), "Here, take my seat, I will stand" (it makes her life more comfortable). All these gestures and their ilk are more important to women than sex. Because women feel validated as normal human beings not just sex objects. Women dress provocatively for this, not for sex. They use Sexual Attention to get Non Sexual Attention. Women use cleavage, short skirts etc to get men to do them favours that have NOTHING to do with sex.

Non Sexual Attention is the sweetest thing in the Universe for women. While Sexual Attention is sweetest for men.

It is when a guy does Non Sexual favours for women (like opening doors, buying birthday cards) that women remark, "He's such a sweet guy!". Because really that's sweet of him to do those things for women, cause all the other guys just want to fvck women. Women prefer to have such a sweet guy as a FRIEND not a lover. Not because they judge him unworthy of the Pussy but because to women A PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP WITH A MAN IS INFINITELY MORE REWARDING THAN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. Men chase sex, women chase commitment but a man who gets himself friendzoned has offered COMMITMENT without demanding SEX in return. Such a guy is pure gold to women.

This is not to say women don't enjoy sex. They do. More than men even. But between accepting your Dick and accepting your attention, women will choose your attention ANY DAY. And as a man you must start charging accordingly

STOP GIVING YOUR ATTENTION FOR FREE.
Your attention is your most valuable asset.

How do TV channels make their billions? How do magazines and newspapers make their profits? How do YouTube videos generate revenue? Through advertisements. Which rely on ------------> Your Attention.

You just looking. Nothing more.

Everything from news to propaganda to movies all need your attention. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram all need your attention.

Facebook is free. And it always will be. But free as it is, last year 2018, the Social Network made a staggering 56 billion US dollars. How? By selling to other businesses what YOU give it for free. And what is that? Your attention. Your time.

Your attention, something that seems so useless and frivolous to you that you're throwing everywhere willy-nilly is pure gold to businesses.

Best believe it's pure gold to women as well

YOUR ATTENTION IS EQUAL TO HER PUSSY.
Men only give attention to pretty women but will have sex with any woman. Women only have sex with top men but want attention from any man. A man's attention has the same worth as a woman's pussy - it's only reserved for the best.

Just as men only admire the best woman but will fvck any woman who offers; so women take attention from any man who offers, but will only fvck the best man. Women's "look but don't touch" policy crystalizes this: Everyone is free to look but only a select few get to touch.

THE WAR FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
Women's movements like Body Positivity, itself rooted in the Fat Acceptance movement, seek to police men's attention by reprogramming men to give attention not only to pretty women but also to those unpretty.

The Unpretty among women (Fat and Ugly women), do get plenty of sex because men will fvck anything (even the ugliest women somehow end up pregnant). But what these women don't get is attention OUTSIDE of sex: Non Sexual Attention. Non sexual attention will be the compliments, the praises, the favours and the helping hand women get publicly from men eg free drinks and free lifts. Ugly and fat women get none of these but guys will still fvck them. That's the bone of contention.

Without Non Sex Attention a woman only gets Sexual Attention which makes her a Sex Object. Which is the unfortunate situation Fat and Ugly women find themselves in. That's why the most vocal women in the battle against sexual objectification are Ugly and Fat women. Because sex is literally the only thing they're getting from men.

Fat and ugly women have the cooperation of men in the bedroom, but out in the World they're on their own. No man buys an ugly woman a drink. No man gives a fat woman a lift. That fat and ugly girl you only meet and fvck at night, it stings her that during the day you act like you don't know her. That's the bone of contention.

GIVING ATTENTION = NO SEX FOR YOU.
The more you give a woman your Non Sexual Attention, the less chances she'll give you sex. Why? Because she knows she's supposed to EARN this type of attention. With her pussy. There's nothing for free. Just as you're supposed to earn a woman's pussy she's supposed to earn your favour.

That girl you're spending hours chatting with on WhatsApp is a girl who's seeing no reason to give you sex. You're giving her for free the Attention and Validation she usually gets by having sex with a guy, so why must she bother having sex with you? You're already giving her free of charge what she usually opens her legs to get.

Ever had sex with a girl then after she told you she just wants to be friends? As crazy as it may sound, that sex was her BUYING your friendship. All male-female friendships must start that way or it's a Friendzone. The Friendzone is in effect a woman's Harem. Those men on her phone eveready everyday to talk about anything and everything are the male equivalent of sex slaves.

STOP GIVING YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOR FREE.
By nature, women use sex to get attention because pussy is the only thing of value they have that men want, while attention is the only thing of value men can give that women want.

Ever wonder why if you starve your GF of attention she'll have sex with another guy? Why does she not simply get the guy's attention since attention is what you're starving her of? But instead she goes for the guy's Dick? It's because your neglected GF is PAYING for the guy's attention with her pussy.

Not that your girl is consciously aware of the pay principle at play.

But this concept of women buying men's friendship with sex is something we all know at the most basic level. That's why people don't believe a Man and a Woman can be friends without having sex. Sex must happen for the friendship to happen.

One day I was talking to this girl and she was telling me about a certain guy friend of hers she was doing business with. When l asked if she had slept with the guy she replied quite casually, "Yes we had sex, to GET IT OUT OF THE WAY".
It fascinated me. She had paid for the friendship with sex!! And that's how it should be.

Because a woman values your friendship as much as you value her pussy; she must pay to be your friend just as you must pay to have sex with her. Nothing is for free. Never accept friendship with a girl that doesn't start with sex, because a girl will never accept sex that doesn't start with a friendship. Nothing is for free.

If a girl introduces herself to you asking to be your friend, make every effort to have sex with her. If she rejects your advances reject her friendship. You just dodged a friendzone bullet. Remember, in ALL male-female relationships, platonic or romantic, it's always the female who benefits more.

GET SEXUAL ATTENTION FOR YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Next time a woman asks for help with something like her bag, jokingly ask what will you get in return. If she asks what is it that you want, or whatever answer she gives, in a playful manner tell her a kiss will do. Then see where it goes. If she has those pillow breasts tell her a hug is all the payment you need. Such things. That's how you make women pay sexually for the favours you do for them. Forget about the phone numbers. She'll ignore you on WhatsApp anyways. Get paid NOW. And move on with your life.

IN THE FINAL ANALYSIS.
With women, Everything begins with attention.

Women love money but the man who gives them money first gives them attention. They love power but to get the power they must first get the attention of the man with the power. Attention is the foundation on which women build everything. Without getting a man's attention they can get nothing from him.

Men love to look at women. Women love to be looked at by men. The joy of men is in looking, which drives them to porn sites. The joy of women is to be looked at, which drives them to Social Media. Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat etc are the women's Xvideos, PornHub and XHmaster.

TRUE MONOGAMY.
Women value attention and want more of it from different men; Men value sex and want more of it from different women. A woman can choose the attention of 1 man just as a man can choose sex with 1 woman. When a man and a woman can do this, that's true monogamy.
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# TheRedPill
# MGTOW

ubunja:
The message that inspired this thread

Truthsbitter:
ubunja nice work!
it's been a while but I stumble back on this old thread of yours..
It's a good read and I would like to have a chat on it.

First about this :
"TRUE MONOGAMY.
Women value attention and want more of it from different men; Men value sex and want more of it from different women. A woman can choose the attention of 1 man just as a man can choose sex with 1 woman. When a man and a woman can do this, that's true monogamy"

Question: Do you mean (under the the term "true monogamy" ) a woman is free to have sex with multiple sex partners since it only requires her to want attention from just one man while the man is restricted by himself to one sexual partner (which Is the woman)?
And on the other hand the man is allowed to give attention to other women and the woman restricted by herself to want or have attention from other men?

Secondly, are women not attracted to rich guys to the extent where they submit their pvssy? (cause it seems in this era, money is the most influential attribute for which women pick the worthy guy to have sex with. If not in every part of the world, at least in Nigeria or perhaps Africa as a whole).

Let me simply ask. How do women judge the worthiness of a guy that would qualify him for sexual affairs .?
If would you say that the worthy guy is the guy who simply values is attention by making it scarce, then if that attention does not produce some kind of "power attribute" (say money, fame or some kind of talent that has value... Etc) in him. I Don't think women will find him worthy of sex. Do you?

Your opinions on this would be appreciated..

skywalker240:
Ubunja and Harddon are one of the few writers in this forum that have my respect.

Regex:
Where you deh since? I have been looking for you comments and I even called you out sometime.

skywalker240:
Serving a one year ban Sir

Lots have changed during my absence

Can't believe I can use this emoji 🙄

karmaolu1:
Damn nigga.
You are supperb! Ubunja.
I searched for you from Google