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Meandmycrew:
The silly mistake you will make in life is to marry a liability a girl who cant even foot her bill or who is not ready to work.. if you want to test a girl loyalty or business sense set up a business for her [/b]and watch if she can pay the rent of her shop when its due and also if she can manage the little capital you have invested in her business most of them cant they will eat up the capital and wen the rent is due they will craw back to you for help. Marry a girl who can comfortably foot her bills without depending on you for a penny he get why!

Goodlady:
Do I know u

A broke man is worst than the poverty ravaging Nigeria. He's a curse to his generations!

elinaxy:
One spotted

smokinloud:
Your problem is that you neva find love. Simple

VeryWickedMan:
A broke girl is worse than the Turkey/Syria earthquake.

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

Meandmycrew:
The silly mistake you will make in life is to marry a liability a girl who cant even foot her bill or who is not ready to work.. if you want to test a girl loyalty or business sense set up a business for her and watch if she can pay the rent of her shop when its due and also if she can manage the little capital you have invested in her business most of them cant they will eat up the capital and wen the rent is due they will craw back to you for help. Marry a girl who can comfortably foot her bills without depending on you for a penny he get why!

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

marlow1962:
In all you do, pls do not marry a jobless gal (my bro no be bashing, e get why).
If you meet a gal and she's working legally (I don't care the kind of work she's doing, as long as she foots majority of her bills herself bfr u meet her, then fine), you can take her serious then (if the love connects).
But on no account should you take a jobless gal serious, if you do you will definitely get tired sooner or later.


If you got not job/money/material things, none of them will take you serious, majority of them lazy pussis love already made men.
If your broke and jobless, she won't settle for less, so why will you be living comfortably and wants to settle for less (abi Dem swear for you).

Me I have meet so many gals, but [s]I get pissed off when I see a complete human being depending on another without even putting effort to better themselves[/s], all they want is gv me gv me gv me every dam fvkin time.


This no bashing, just a brotherly advice

natddon1:
if you keep meeting those kinds of women it means you are not as comfortable as you claim too. Women in your own circle will be as comfortable as you are. I work where I earn over 11m per annum and sure there are a lot of single unmarried ladies who are my peers.

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.yrs

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

VeryWickedMan:
A broke girl is worse than the Turkey/Syria earthquake.

VeryWickedMan:
A broke girl is worse than the Turkey/Syria earthquake.

EMPEROROFDONBAS:
I SUPORT YOU ON THIS... LET DEM GET BUSY WITH LIFE. MY GUY YOU BE REAL COMRADE.
LOVE APART, SOMETHING SHOULD BE BROUGHT TO THE RELATIONSHIP. OUTSIDE PRETTY FACE ANS AN OVER USED PUSSY

omonnakoda:
She will never know happiness

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

EMPEROROFDONBAS:
I SUPORT YOU ON THIS... LET DEM GET BUSY WITH LIFE. MY GUY YOU BE REAL COMRADE.
LOVE APART, SOMETHING SHOULD BE BROUGHT TO THE RELATIONSHIP. OUTSIDE PRETTY FACE ANS AN OVER USED PUSSY

omonnakoda:
Ogun will kill my mother in a place where there are no clothes

omonnakoda:
Ogun will kill her in a place where there are no clothes

GboyegaD:
There's more to relationship and marriage than beauty and money. What you need is someone who has prospect and isn't greedy. She may not have money however, the peace and organization she brings to your life will make your way lot more prosperous .

franchasng:
Your reasons are valid, don't listen to anybody.



As someone still growing and trying to find his feet financially, you need a supportive partner, a lady that will bring value to your life not a leech, the moneybag guys can marry the broke ladies but let average guys go for productive ladies they can join effort with to build an enviable future.



Marrying the wrong lady can destroy a man.



With the current economic crunch all over the world, going for a broke lady as a life partner is risky if you the man is not financially settled already.



Go for ladies with great financial prospects in the medical field, IT field, etc who are not just holders of their paper certificate but passionate and ambitious of becoming one of the best in their field.



Don't marry ladies who are more interested in TV shows, celebrities, fashion and looking hot, marry a lady who admires career women, who talks about her plans to grow in her career or field of study.



Love is never enough reason to marry a lady or a guy, marriage is more than love, building a solid marriage and family goes beyond romantic love and sex vibes.




Our world today is highly monetized, make sure the woman you decide to settle with is a money saver, a money maker and not just a money spender.



All the men that married anyhow in the name of she is beautiful, she can cook well, she has hot shape, etc are all regretting it.



Be intentional in your marriage, ladies always map out qualities they want in a man before they say I do, and most of the qualities they look for points towards future survival and sustainability of a good life not just love or sex like many guys foolishly believe.



It is high time guys start marrying ladies with bright future and great prospects

BRATISLAVA:
Clearly he doesn't want to be single. It's why he's come up with the usual thread. But he's still so wounded that it's good he's keeping away from women.

Some people never heal. They are captives of their past.

A lot of men want a hundred percent lady. Truth is, he's not up to what he's looking for in anyone else. He's better off buying a doll or making the lady out of clay.

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

seanwilliam:
Actually , he can find a rich woman who will bring him peace and organization . I don’t know why we always want a man to marry a woman out of pity. We always justify women’s shortcomings. He can get all that if he takes his time .