saphiere:

* When he tries to rule over you. Seeing himself as a lord.
*When he starts acting like a child. (Sadly most men behave this way)
*When he wants your 100% faithfully when he is not married to you.
*When he starts getting jealous unnecessarily.
*When he starts thinking with his third leg instead of his brain.
*When most of the times he talks about sex and want sex than anything else.
*When he does not contribution positively to your life.
*When he starts policing you (checking your phones).
*When he wears one boxer for days.
*When he only bath and clean his house when he is expecting a guest.
*When he cannot take care of your financial needs.
*When he does not respect women.
*When he sees women as sex objects.
*When he has nothing to offer except his third leg (sadly all of them only have that to offer).

sadly you are the product of the third leg

I did Same to me, string me long, ate my money and use me for comfort then when she had chance she bailed.Women are evil more then men

Muffassa:
You should judge yourself
If na you will you go ahead with the marriage proposal despite what you saw? the story sef no clear the guy wasn't your type but yet you developed feelings for him.
After using the guy to your advantage then you realise he's not the type of man you wanted for marriage.
Just so you know hanty marriage is different from dating if you wasn't sure about him trust your instincts.

carsuperman:
I did Same to me, string me long, ate my money and use me for comfort then when she had chance she bailed.Women are evil more then men

LoL.....
I sef why ain't u observing enuff to see the red flags......abi u were busy simpin to see......

StrongAlphMale:


You think men are fools or what?

That young man has since moved on.

The op should do likewise

there some men that dont know how to forgive or its either the op didnt tell us entirely what happened

carsuperman:
I did Same to me, string me long, ate my money and use me for comfort then when she had chance she bailed.Women are evil more then men

I tell you brr I don't even take the gender serious anymore you will never be enough for them always wanting more so selfish heartless, Just imagine the emotional truama the guy wouldve gone through with time and resources invested in the relationships when it's time for marriage that's when you know he wasn't your type seeking opinion. I blame the SIMple mens tho 😡

2 years is a long time I believe your relationship ended the day he found out if he was so eager to get married back then why would it take so long, you should move on but at the end of the day you know him best you should consider why he's taking so long

Aboguede:


Hahaha, and u think am the type dat will shy away from jaguda ni

U never see, if I reset ur brain even in ur dreams u go dey see me
U ever imagine a situation where u go dey see wetin wan chop u and no way to run and no way to resist even ur tears go dey sweet as I make u shout and u can only close ur eyes and feel the bite of a lion

I like what I like and am a die hard

When you fight MissOpe die hard, surely you can't live to tell the story......

MissOpe:


When you fight MissOpe die hard, surely you can't live to tell the story......

Hahhah, u wey go begin beg even b4 I run u like 30mins nonstop. Wey bi say with what I have seen I know say my boy no go gree make i stop

Have u seen wen lion catch entelop?

He will carefully carry the entelop and go to hiden place then he will start by licking

That one na small thing to wetin I go use ur eye take see on d day u go reach my bosom

BigDick70inch:


LoL.....
I sef why ain't u observing enuff to see the red flags......abi u were busy simpin to see......

I simp somehow but it was for love cos I normally don't simp

BigDick70inch:


LoL.....
I sef why ain't u observing enuff to see the red flags......abi u were busy simpin to see......

I simp somehow but it was for love cos I normally don't simp

You know it's time to move on when all the love you once had is overshadowed with hate.
And when the light that once illuminate in your heart is turned to darkness

Theyemmie:
So from the beginning the relationship was perfect,he was the best ,normally he's not my type of guy,but he was there for me when I was at a low point in my life,we started as friends, then feelings developed, and he was the absolute best,no guy has ever treated me like that
So he asked for my hand in marriage, normally I am a pessimist, I expect the worst,create different scenarios in my head and how I would react when it happens and stuffs
So when he talked about the marriage stuff , I started thinking about what would go wrong (because he's kind of boring ,not spontaneous and not wild a lil bit),so I started thinking if the marriage would be boring and if I won't get tired of him as he's not my usual type of guy

so I sent a message to someone asking for advice ,then mistakenly he saw it and it turned to yam pepper scatter scatter sha
I begged him ,he really cried that I have been stringing him along ,which is not so,I do love him a lot
I begged him sha and we continued the relationship, but the relationship has changed a lot,he's not even asking for my hand in marriage again
I'm the one pestering him
and when I threaten him with break up ,he begs me not to,that he's just taking his time with me
This issue happened 2yrs ago o,how long is it going to take


I just feel I should break up with him,but can't seem to let him go
Is it some kind of pay back?
And I am not getting any younger

A broken Glass will always be broken

Uni

Livelystone01:

Your response is not positively correlated to the narrative given, it shows you are off point, irrational, maybe unstable and also emotionally, psychologically and logically troubled.

Now, I'd like to respond to everything you posted, they are expressions of your personality and it would be a disaster for any unfortunate man to fight to take you as a future partner unless you change this mindset.

People like you don't meet good men because you attract what you are. The kind of guys that come around people with this mindset are those with same negative mindsets about women.

Ask me, I'd say that y'all (negative) people deserve yourselves.

This was exactly what I wanted to type to her but when I check her nairaland name I observed she is someone I know and I expected such from her. I am living my life to avoid people like them. She is extremely bitter.

Body go tell you.