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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by fitinwell: 10:49pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

You don't use permutations to select who to settle down with you...

Marriage or marital life is a serious business.. life time commitment..

And i advise that you talk to your Maker about this your next step..

Speaking from personal experience

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Killerbag36: 10:51pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

Marry ifeoma nd thank me later e get why
If you marry Judith u will not b comfortable cus guys eyes go de on her cus she's beautiful trust me marry or date ifoema e get Y

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Babastrong(m): 10:52pm On Feb 20, 2023

[quote author=gfelo post=121056639]Bros there is nothing like love/beauty in marriage, you see that beauty wey dey enter ur eye, u go get tire of it after marriage, after marriage u no longer see beauty alone but the character in the woman u married bcomes very important, the beauty bcomes valueless . the real life drama go enter, am not saying u shud marry ugly woman o, marry a woman that is hardworking and a little beauty, not all human beings is 100%, if u only fall in love with beauty hmm after marriage u go understand why some people marries girl u see as ugly girl.[ Na only you get oil for your head. The kids above you are saying rubbish. But OP is not yet matured to marry.]

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Ogsirsolo: 10:53pm On Feb 20, 2023

Don't come here and be using us to do project

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by kaywhy09(m): 10:54pm On Feb 20, 2023

Mary beautiful young lady with meager finance and prepare to share her beauty someday, somehow...

Mary someone who's not as beautiful as you wish, and run after beautiful young girls years after when you have surplus.

Let your mind be single and see beauty in good character, peace, maturity and resourcefulness and be happy ever after.

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Moschinochimma: 10:55pm On Feb 20, 2023

My candid advise is this... Marrying a beautiful woman , to d extend that she won a price for that ... My brother U see the kind of wahala a farmers whose farm is by d road suffers when his corn or produce is ready for consumption suffers ... Is not far from ur own case ... U dey find beauty abiiii... Kwantinue

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by JC2021: 10:55pm On Feb 20, 2023

You said Juliet still have like 4 years to finish school. What's the guarantee that she would want to settle for you before or after 4 years? You don't even know these ladies deeply enough to make an informed choice. Please don't make a life changing decision until u know them well enough.

Marry who you are most comfortable with. Marry who you can accept her shits and who can manage with yours. Go for compatibility not beauty or any other superficial reasons.

I have seen who married a former prostitute and they are happy today. I have seen who got married to a lazy woman and is surprisingly happy. I have seen happy men married to not so good looking women. Compatibility, understanding, not love and beauty ensure best marital experience.

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by sheflat: 10:56pm On Feb 20, 2023

To be realistic with you go for ifeoma as time passes by you will love her and after taking care of her very well her beauty will show because business is very important and money na better thing

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by GorillaApp(m): 10:57pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Wow thanks, this is more than a motherly advice to me

I have always watched frozen70 advice. Sincere and very balanced position.
Like she posited, it's character not beauty that makes a good woman. Ask your self, which of them gives you absolute peace of mind? Avoid troublesome, stubborn women

Ask yourself again, which of them gives you maximum respect and listens to you.
Lastly, avoid lazy women.
If you have any elderly aunt, visit her with these ladies. Dem go help you detect something's.
Good luck dude

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by udoudo1: 10:58pm On Feb 20, 2023

Go for the one with the biggest Bakassi peninsula man. Something must kill a man

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Linuxdomains: 11:00pm On Feb 20, 2023

choose the one that is a complete virgin

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Chopcy29: 11:00pm On Feb 20, 2023

Nothing you guys won’t bring in here, how can you be seeking advices from people that has no experience of whatever that you have passed through with the girls?. Wanting people to chose wife for you means that you definitely don’t want to marry, or you want a marriage that will end within a short period of time

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by ofemigeorge(m): 11:02pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

To be sincere I prefer the judth. Being that her parents are together and she learns what it is for her mother to respect her father. Nursing is a good profession to have in the family and beauty is very important for a man when he looks at his wife. Becis to be sincere all women her the same. They will at one point in life give you headache, but the one that even with her troublesome, you will still love is what matters.

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Karnice600: 11:04pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

You're still not ready to marry. You don't love Ifeoma but you're still considering her because she's good in business. Cruise.
You sure say na wife you dey look for abi na sales girl.
I believe say you fit even be the person wey dey sponsor Judith for school.

Baba, for now marry your business. You're not ready for marriage. Na your type dey feel say dowry na the money to use buy a woman like commodity.
The whole thing just sound like one kind Nollywood stuff.
Marry one of your sales girl, save us headache abeg.

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by NaijaCover(m): 11:05pm On Feb 20, 2023

Foodqueen:
Why do you want to teach Judith the language of hardship.

She's already in nursing school, how come she still have four years to spend there.

Ifeoma, might just be a pretender.

Inukwa ooooo

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by frank202012: 11:06pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Hmm,thanks... Exactly what is disturbing me here.. The nsukka girl seem so hard working, each time she visits my shop she is always willing to help.. Though the other girl has never visited and she does not look like someone who can work.. Her major commodity to offer is beauty.. I am not even interested in it..

Women from poor families most of the times don’t know what love is,and re very toxic sometimes……

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by ibtommy(m): 11:07pm On Feb 20, 2023

Don't divirg' Judith. Carry your problem and commot.
So, you have turned NL to your God to decide for you? You be mumu!!! Mumuistically u be mumu. Real mumu!!! God punish u!!!

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Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.

Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by shineeye1: 11:09pm On Feb 20, 2023

Man, how many times have they told you that beholding beauty is a free gift of God to every creature, both male and female. Beauty will always be there for you to enjoy as long as you are alive. You don't have to marry beauty to enjoy beauty. Fact is that those not married to beauty are the ones who enjoy beauty the most. Most of those married to beauty are living miserable lives, to the extent that they can't even see beauty anymore! Concentrate on character when you want to marry, except of course you are under the evil spell that makes people deaf to what will save them. Marry Ifeoma and live happily ever after but marry Judith at the expense of your eternal peace....

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Papichulostunne(m): 11:09pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Buying and selling goods

I believe you have made a choice with these answers given to you.. Thank God.

Bros buying and selling what? How can one start ? I must not cashout 600k a month but i can start from somewhere...

Pls... How much capital do i need ?

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by lekonso: 11:11pm On Feb 20, 2023

gfelo:
Bros there is nothing like love/beauty in marriage, you see that beauty wey dey enter ur eye, u go get tire of it after marriage, after marriage u no longer see beauty alone but the character in the woman u married bcomes very important, the beauty bcomes valueless . the real life drama go enter, am not saying u shud marry ugly woman o, marry a woman that is hardworking and a little beauty, not all human beings is 100%, if u only fall in love with beauty hmm after marriage u go understand why some people marries girl u see as ugly girl.

Perfect and good answer

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by lekonso: 11:12pm On Feb 20, 2023

Please go for Judith.

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by franktech(m): 11:12pm On Feb 20, 2023

No marry woman that you are not emotionally attached to because soon you will hate her with passion and this is not good for both of you. Find woman that you truly love give are rules to abide and if she loves you she will bend to with time. Honestly i am in the same crossroad with you, looking for a wife is not easy as i am allergic to girls without tangible thing to contribute or very beautiful girls that are jobless and with excessive demands.

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by vickydevoka(m): 11:14pm On Feb 20, 2023

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Hmm,thanks... Exactly what is disturbing me here.. The nsukka girl seem so hard working, each time she visits my shop she is always willing to help.. Though the other girl has never visited and she does not look like someone who can work.. Her major commodity to offer is beauty.. I am not even interested in it..

If u marry NSUKKA or ebonyi lady come n thank me later. If u want to check you liver marry imo state girl with her parents back up

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by DeBigFab(m): 11:15pm On Feb 20, 2023

Just know that in marriage, love is not enough.

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by vickydevoka(m): 11:20pm On Feb 20, 2023

nick50:
If u are ugly please go for the beautiful one we have too many guerrillas already but if u are handsome please go for character and business know how..in a long run..wen physical appearance has disappeared wetin matters na money...get sense bro

Lol. So ugly people deserve to suffer in a ladies hand. If u advice remain single I for happy

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by enonche85(m): 11:20pm On Feb 20, 2023

Britishcoins:
Buying and selling goods

Is any of them God fearing?. This can also be used to help you decide.

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by vickydevoka(m): 11:21pm On Feb 20, 2023

hardon1:
Bross relax small. You may be financially ready for marriage, but you are not pyschologically ready . Give yourself some time

Lol

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by buizyeazy: 11:24pm On Feb 20, 2023

Britishcoins:
You have already make your choice.
Hmm,thanks... Exactly what is disturbing me here.. The nsukka girl seem so hard working, each time she visits my shop she is always willing to help.. Though the other girl has never visited and she does not look like someone who can work.. Her major commodity to offer is beauty.. I am not even interested in it..

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by AzzaMan: 11:24pm On Feb 20, 2023

Albertone:
I have no experience with marriage.

My own is comman teach me how to be seeing 600k a month 🥺

Do fraud bro.

Bomb slovakia, Bomb Slovenia...

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by slevan: 11:27pm On Feb 20, 2023

Go for Judith, the less attractive for your own peace of mind. Thank me later.

Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by mystery22: 11:30pm On Feb 20, 2023

Ardar:
What happened to the women in their 30's who are well established and understand how life is?
Why is it that you men always go for barely adult ladies who are still finding their feet and yet expect so much from them.

why the hell would a man go for a washed up woman in her thirties

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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by mono26: 11:32pm On Feb 20, 2023

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All I need is someone I can build my business with.. Or a woman who has her own vision that I will support... Should I marry hard working woman I don't love or marry a beautiful woman that is not too good in businesses?

The two are no no for me. Calm down, fast and pray to God to direct you to your right soul mate to avoid had l know. Marriage is deeper than u think. you can still see d business minded one that you genuinely love.

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