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I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.
I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.
Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.
I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

I will advice you to "MASTER HOW TO REMAIN CALM".

Don't let ur emotions fool u. Stop stressing about it. The world is a cycle. What has happened before u will experience again. So chill and keep building so u will be ready when it comes again.

incandescentena:
I will advice you to "MASTER HOW TO REMAIN CALM".

Hmmmn!!! I feel time is passing me by, I should have been married at least 10yrs ago.
Anyways I appreciate your advice and will master this calmness!!!
Thanks

Observing

There's nothing like soulmate imo
Find one that you can tolerate and go in

Always think with your head and not your heart sha
Be logical 😎

because you dey find godly wife with Ashawo vibes

They say wife materials are hard to find these days

Maybe you re been too selective or has a particular spec you've been looking for all along. Which I believe will be a bit hard in this present generation. Be open minded and pray for God's guidance, in a short time I believe God will bless you with yr soulmate

This I have been saying. Till you want to get married, you will know there are few wives out there.

Op, you are even lucky you are looking for a wife. What of guys who are hopeless about getting married because they have no resources to marry and manage a family.

Yet some Id!ots in their 20's will open their gutter mouth to call their elders chronic bachelors. Make dem no worry e go reach everybody.

In whatever you do, when you finally find one, pls make the move to check her genotype and yours too.....

You may find your soulmate and yet genotype becomes a barrier.

I made you a wish list for the perfect woman.

If your woman don't have these qualities then rest assured you're clearly waking down the aisle of stupid matrimony.

If you're going to spend the rest of your healthy, sickly, and wealthy life with her then you look out for these.

Intelligent.
Witty
Sense of humour
Loving
Caring
Loves kids
Warm
Accommodating
Supportive
Attractive

However, if you don't want something permanent; a marriage that won't last the taste of time, a marriage which may kill you, a marriage that could turn you into a wounded beast, embittered, depressed and shadow of your own self then chose these qualities clearly motivated by lust.

Gorgeous
Sexy
Cute
Athletic body
Loves sex
Dresses sexy
Looks great and has minty breath when she first wakes

Xoxo




In other news: before HUNGER shift my womb pls come and buy my Facebook account. Danke,!

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.
I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.
Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.
I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

Attractions won't get you marriage,
And there are many good ladies too,. Unfortunately,you don't get to see the good ones everyday ,most would rather be doing stuff with their time or too serious to notice you,
Takes alot this days to see a good lady

OP,

If it's Soulmate you are Waiting for, You will wait till you reach 55years of Age! 😒😒

With All the Materialistic, entitled, Lazy, Towtow-merchandising Girls we have Currently in Nigeria, You are looking for Soulmate? ..😏

You Better Manage any smallie close to you and Wife her.

Pmedia7787:
Attractions won't get you marriage,
And there are many good ladies too,. Unfortunately,you don't get to see the good ones everyday ,most would rather be doing stuff with their time or too serious to notice you,
Takes alot this days to see a good lady

Nawa ooo!!

VinnyBaba:
OP,

If it's Soulmate you are Waiting for, You will wait till you reach 55years of Age! 😒😒

With All the Materialistic, entitled, Lazy, Towtow-merchandising Girls we have Currently in Nigeria, You are looking for Soulmate? ..😏

You Better Manage any smallie close to you and Wife her.

I don't and will not manage marriage

Stop looking for a soul mate.
Look for friends, make as many as you can, then marry one of them

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.
I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.
Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.
I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

You are not alone, I jumped out of one some months ago.

My heart is still panting till this moment.

AbdulMagaji:
You are not alone, I jumped out of one some months ago.

My heart is still panting till this moment.

Speedy healing sir.
Heartbreak is one of the most destructive, traumatic pain anyone can go through.

chccho:
Speedy healing sir.
Heartbreak is one of the most destructive, traumatic pain anyone can go through.

Unfortunately I learnt the hard way, I was lead with my eyes.

AbdulMagaji:
Unfortunately I learnt the hard way, I was lead with my eyes.

Shiii happens,thats all part of the learning cycle of life. Learn, heal n move on..

AbdulMagaji:
You are not alone, I jumped out of one some months ago.

My heart is still panting till this moment.

Sorry, you will get over it. Just give it 3months and you will feel better

OP, relax and remember not to concentrate on only physical package. God will help you out.

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.
I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.
Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.
I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

Is there anything like soul mate? I believe that stuff na setup. You only choose people that you can live with irrespective of their flaws. Someone that you are compatible with..

IamtheTruth1:
Is there anything like soul mate? I believe that stuff na setup. You only choose people that you can live with irrespective of their flaws. Someone that you are compatible with..

I strongly disagree with the bolded.
Like I said earlier in my post I have met one or two wonderful ladies in the past who I believe we connected "soul-fully" but I wasn't ready for marriage then and, was still very naive if not
I didn't even have to say much cos we were already deeply in a situationship at the time. They won't have even thought for a second on saying yes to me.
Trust me there are people u are destined to meet in your journey in life (friends, partners/spouse) that come your way as a lifetime blessings,the big problem is will u meet them? Some people are lucky to meet them and some never

chccho:
I strongly disagree with the bolded.
Like I said earlier in my post I have met one or two wonderful ladies in the past who I believe we connected "soul-fully" but I wasn't ready for marriage then and, was still very naive if not
I didn't even have to say much cos we were already deeply in a situationship at the time. They won't have even thought for a second on saying yes to me.
Trust me there are people u are destined to meet in your journey in life (friends, partners/spouse) that come your way as a lifetime blessings,the big problem is will u meet them? Some people are lucky to meet them and some never

It's a natural something. Nothing phenomenal about it. You must meet people daily. It's part of life journey. Nothing like soul mate. When you marry you go understand. You. Just choose someone u are compatible with.

Generalwoodz:
I made you a wish list for the perfect woman.

If your woman don't have these qualities then rest assured you're clearly waking down the aisle of stupid matrimony.

If you're going to spend the rest of your healthy, sickly, and wealthy life with her then you look out for these.

Intelligent.
Witty
Sense of humour
Loving
Caring
Loves kids
Warm
Accommodating
Supportive
Attractive

However, if you don't want something permanent; a marriage that won't last the taste of time, a marriage which may kill you, a marriage that could turn you into a wounded beast, embittered, depressed and shadow of your own self then chose these qualities clearly motivated by lust.

Gorgeous
Sexy
Cute
Athletic body
Loves sex
Dresses sexy
Looks great and has minty breath when she first wakes

Xoxo




In other news: before HUNGER shift my womb pls come and buy my Facebook account. Danke,!

Who said the two lists can't be found in one person?

@op, never settle for less. There are 7 billion people on this earth, there is definitely someone particularly suited for you. It is better not to marry than to marry the wrong person. Just be patient and build yourself in the mean time. And I don't mean just career wise, build your self emotionally, physically, spiritually and psychologically.

Fun fact. It's easier to make money as a man, than to meet a good woman. Making money is within your control, but meeting a good woman (or man) is based on the society. In Nigeria, you'll meet forkboys and runs girls, in the West, na feminist you go jam.

Good women are minted in societies where the men are strong (some idiots will understand strong as tyranny/oppression, all ye neurotic modafukas). Feminine women are as a result of masculine men. If a society lackss one, it will lack the other.

I'm a Christian myself, but I'll admit that you'll find wifable women more within the Muslim communities, and more importantly, with girls that their survival instinct have not been forcibly sharpened by the harsh realities of life.

mylove4God:
Sorry, you will get over it. Just give it 3months and you will feel better

It's over a year now and it always seems fresh each day.

I haven't given up though but their is nothing like love in my dictionary again especially from any lady.

chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.
I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.
Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.
I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

It's not worth it bro, this is exactly what kept me where I am now, when they noticed you are serious or a little bit desperate, they will use and manipulate you, I hate women

...tomorrow is election please...be focus


Bring up the topic after the election

Na you dey find decent girl.. Wife full everywhere.