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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by SaintCaleb: 6:05pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:

Hmmmn!!! I feel time is passing me by, I should have been married at least 10yrs ago.
Anyways I appreciate your advice and will master this calmness!!!
Thanks

You should have been married 10years ago, on what grounds. Please don’t make a mistake of rushing into marriage because you feel time isn’t on your side.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 6:07pm On Feb 24, 2023
Divija:
Probably Because most of us ( wife materials 1000 yards🤪🤪)are introvert who stays indoor 24/7… nobi our fault… na papa God run am for us like that… your soulmate fit dey inside dey pray make she find you
I will soon appear in your house with my 1000yards cape.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by seanwilliam(m): 6:26pm On Feb 24, 2023
AbdulMagaji:


God gave me a second chance to live again.

Even though I lost all my wealth after the rescue mission was completed. I'm just happy that I am alive today and picking up gradually by his grace

The only thing I can tell you is ..

Never pick a wife with your naked eyes no matter how beautiful she is, I repeat, No Matter how beautiful she is!

If you are the church type, it's very good but be extremely careful and prayerful if you would pick your wife from there!
thank you so much for this . I appreciate you. I really will like if you can shed more lights on the red flags you saw while dating and stuff like that too
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by aurecia: 6:29pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!what are u looking for in a woman?
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by aurecia: 6:30pm On Feb 24, 2023
[quote author=aurecia post=121198915][/quote] what are u looking for in a woman?
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by kingsceemark(m): 6:40pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

Op don't settle for Nigerian babes, unless you want to develop high blood pressure, i will advise you to visit Ghana or Togo if you want to see a good woman

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Feb 24, 2023
franchasofficia:


Do not ever make the mistake of marrying for romantic love, love is a fallacy, its a tool used to manipulate weak minds.


Does she have luck on her side? If she is not lucky, its a risk marrying her cos her ill luck will mar your life unless your destiny is too bright to outshine her ill luck.


Love is not enough to marry anybody, it will expire when financial lack sets in.

Best advice I've read in a lifetime. I however strongly disagree on the bolded. That's where you fuckkked it all up.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by dollyjoy(f): 6:46pm On Feb 24, 2023
kingsceemark:


Op don't settle for Nigerian babes, unless you want to develop high blood pressure, i will advise you to visit Ghana or Togo if you want to see a good woman
what made you think a Nigerian woman would even consider you worthy of spending a better part of her life with ? grin grin

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by TOPMAN4LIFE: 6:58pm On Feb 24, 2023
pansophist:
Fun fact. It's easier to make money as a man, than to meet a good woman. Making money is within your control, but meeting a good woman (or man) is based on the society. In Nigeria, you'll meet forkboys and runs girls, in the West, na feminist you go jam.

Good women are minted in societies where the men are strong (some idiots will understand strong as tyranny/oppression, all ye neurotic modafukas). Feminine women are as a result of masculine men. If a society lackss one, it will lack the other.

I'm a Christian myself, but I'll admit that you'll find wifable women more within the Muslim communities, and more importantly, with girls that their survival instinct have not been forcibly sharpened by the harsh realities of life.
You are never a genuine Christian, that is why you reasoned this way
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:05pm On Feb 24, 2023
pansophist:
Fun fact. It's easier to make money as a man, than to meet a good woman. Making money is within your control, but meeting a good woman (or man) is based on the society. In Nigeria, you'll meet forkboys and runs girls, in the West, na feminist you go jam.

Good women are minted in societies where the men are strong (some idiots will understand strong as tyranny/oppression, all ye neurotic modafukas). Feminine women are as a result of masculine men. If a society lackss one, it will lack the other.

I'm a Christian myself, but I'll admit that you'll find wifable women more within the Muslim communities, and more importantly, with girls that their survival instinct have not been forcibly sharpened by the harsh realities of life.


This is very true. I told gerrard59 to consider converting to islam when he's ready to get married and he can convert back after finding a Muslim wife. I might do the same if the marriage thing ever tickles me. It's not easy getting married as a Christian at all.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by karkinase(m): 7:06pm On Feb 24, 2023
kingsceemark:


Op don't settle for Nigerian babes, unless you want to develop high blood pressure, i will advise you to visit Ghana or Togo if you want to see a good woman
This advice is worth GOLD

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by ciencee(m): 7:10pm On Feb 24, 2023
pansophist:
Fun fact. It's easier to make money as a man, than to meet a good woman. Making money is within your control, but meeting a good woman (or man) is based on the society. In Nigeria, you'll meet forkboys and runs girls, in the West, na feminist you go jam.

Good women are minted in societies where the men are strong (some idiots will understand strong as tyranny/oppression, all ye neurotic modafukas). Feminine women are as a result of masculine men. If a society lackss one, it will lack the other.

I'm a Christian myself, but I'll admit that you'll find wifable women more within the Muslim communities, and more importantly, with girls that their survival instinct have not been forcibly sharpened by the harsh realities of life.
You are spot on.
The society we lives and the culture we practiced, produces the kind of people we meet.
Here in the southern part of Nigeria, the possibility is higher that the available men you meet that will be a possible husband to you is a cultist, and the ladies you meet that would be a possible wife is a coded runs girl.
This is the society we have found ourselves in, and it's just too bad.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Emdebby2: 7:12pm On Feb 24, 2023
Pray about it and ask the Holy Spirit to open your eyes to be able to see what you are looking for. There's no perfect man or woman out there. Once you are able to get 70% qualities you will cope.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by owbabs: 7:15pm On Feb 24, 2023
Know this:
It is God's plan for you to be married.
Sometimes life's decisions can delay it but it won't be denied
Reconcile your past, and repent of any sins.
Seek the face of God.
Write down your requests and remind God of them every day
Remain calm and let the peace of God dwell within you. Do these, Of course, while sensibly looking for the person with the right qualities.
Cheer up and serve in His vineyard...
..then watch how He provides your spouse miraculously...
Age is not a factor, God knows the right time for you.. and there is time for everything.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 7:31pm On Feb 24, 2023
kingsceemark:


Op don't settle for Nigerian babes, unless you want to develop high blood pressure, i will advise you to visit Ghana or Togo if you want to see a good woman
Interesting..

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 7:33pm On Feb 24, 2023
karkinase:

This advice is worth GOLD
Its DEEP

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 7:35pm On Feb 24, 2023
owbabs:
Know this:
It is God's plan for you to be married.
Sometimes life's decisions can delay it but it won't be denied
Reconcile your past, and repent of any sins.
Seek the face of God.
Write down your requests and remind God of them every day
Remain calm and let the peace of God dwell within you. Do these, Of course, while sensibly looking for the person with the right qualities.
Cheer up and serve in His vineyard...
..then watch how He provides your spouse miraculously...
Age is not a factor, God knows the right time for you.. and there is time for everything.
I love this...
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by litaninja(m): 7:36pm On Feb 24, 2023
Lol. E no hard, but na you dey find
Nicki Minaj with a touch of department leader for church.
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Aguilar(m): 7:41pm On Feb 24, 2023
Omo e hard to marry soulmate. Marry who no go give you too much headache

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by babra19: 7:48pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:

Hmmmn!!! I feel time is passing me by, I should have been married at least 10yrs ago.
Anyways I appreciate your advice and will master this calmness!!!
Thanks
I might be your missing rib!!
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Raalsalghul: 8:21pm On Feb 24, 2023
tensazangetsu20:



This is very true. I told gerrard59 to consider converting to islam when he's ready to get married and he can convert back after finding a Muslim wife. I might do the same if the marriage thing ever tickles me. It's not easy getting married as a Christian at all.

I swear you be comedian but honestly lots of men seems to be thinking this way of recent.

Seatrade opened a thread to this fact.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Raalsalghul: 8:26pm On Feb 24, 2023
kingsceemark:


Op don't settle for Nigerian babes, unless you want to develop high blood pressure, i will advise you to visit Ghana or Togo if you want to see a good woman

Togo? Maybe.

But Ghana and Nigerian ladies are in the same whatsapp group.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nosa111(m): 8:27pm On Feb 24, 2023
And you would wanna make such woman a wife?? Nor try am bro
Truvelisback:
Yes, true love is very hard to find. However, just hit big, have a well furnished apartment, a nice car, and see these ladies hovering and perching on u like flies striving hard to be in ur life. grin

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by chccho(m): 8:27pm On Feb 24, 2023
babra19:

I might be your missing rib!!
Who knows!!

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by SeaTrade(m): 8:33pm On Feb 24, 2023
Raalsalghul:


I swear you be comedian but honestly lots of men seems to be thinking this way of recent.

Seatrade opened a thread to this fact.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Baba na the new update be that ooo,
Na fulani sure pass these days.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by franchasofficia: 8:50pm On Feb 24, 2023
IGBOGENE27:


How do you know a woman has luck on her side?
Make some personal test and fleece.



You ought to know how to test this
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Prettygirl200(f): 8:50pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
Yen yen go back nd look for the ladies in your past that fitted into what you are looking for and stop disturbing this forum.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Leilami: 9:03pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God-fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

Are you God-fearing?
What does being "God-fearing" entails for you?
When people mention Godfearing most times I realise they don't even know what that word means exactly hence me asking.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:04pm On Feb 24, 2023
Raalsalghul:


I swear you be comedian but honestly lots of men seems to be thinking this way of recent.

Seatrade opened a thread to this fact.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Guy Muslims easily get married and to good, pretty and obedient ladies. Even the extremely poor ones sef

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by monabass: 9:05pm On Feb 24, 2023
Divija:
Probably Because most of us ( wife materials 1000 yards🤪🤪)are introvert who stays indoor 24/7… nobi our fault… na papa God run am for us like that… your soulmate fit dey inside dey pray make she find you
some kind hidden sense dey here. Abeg make they introvert into nairaland. We plenty wey dey search
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by monabass: 9:07pm On Feb 24, 2023
babra19:

I might be your missing rib!!
hawwhn... op give it a try. Na God know why you start this thread

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