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... by Nobody: 3:18pm On Mar 03, 2023
I appreciate those who made positive contributions

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Re: ... by azadus18: 3:26pm On Mar 03, 2023
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Re: ... by Natbrowny: 3:26pm On Mar 03, 2023
My advice.

Observe ur environment. Hunt for someone who has opposite of everything u represent. Thats ur ticket outta d hell you are right now.

It will be easy when u get ursef attracted to someone who has another side of things dat makes you you.

It works
If u r gentle, get attracted to some1 crazy and not crazy if u dig my point
If u r easy going, get attracted to some1 who's everybodys person n a risk taker.

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Re: ... by dontrulee: 3:26pm On Mar 03, 2023
You seem like someone having a cluster c personality disorder, perhaps the avoidant type personality disorder with some other underlying factors.

I can help and be a friend to you if you don't mind.
Re: ... by woginid967: 3:31pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input

Here is an advice

You dont need anyone.

If i was your friend, i would show you that you are too special to need anyone. Thats your chakra.... Your power.

You're destined to be a boss lady.... A person who is sufficient all by herself.

People will get close to you but you're not supposed to depend on them. Its the universe way of telling you that you're an independent soul.

My story is getting too long. Contact me if you want a different experience. I can explain more with your zodiac

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Re: ... by Saint1960: 3:41pm On Mar 03, 2023
woginid967:


Here is an advice

You dont need anyone.

If i was your friend, i would show you that you are too special to need anyone. Thats your chakra.... Your power.

You're destined to be a boss lady.... A person who is sufficient all by herself.

People will get close to you but you're not supposed to depend on them. Its the universe way of telling you that you're an independent soul.

My story is getting too long. Contact me if you want a different experience. I can explain more with your zodiac


Disregard such information
Everyone on earth need people around them
I will advise to take yourself out maybe once a week
I suggest you start from evening walk
And I kind of feel you donā€™t exercise

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Re: ... by OlatunjiJohn(m): 3:45pm On Mar 03, 2023
Hi.let us connect. I believe you will happy there after 09025252652
Re: ... by Shalommy(f): 3:54pm On Mar 03, 2023
Her type even trying to be friendly with her, she'll see herself too important and will snub you like shit. Sadist.. Chaii.. cheesy cheesy no pity!

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Re: ... by Nobody: 4:03pm On Mar 03, 2023
Shalommy:
Her type even trying to be friendly with her, she'll see herself too important and will snub you like shit. Sadist.. Chaii.. cheesy cheesy no pity!
Jeez undecided
If all females are like you, why bother?

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Re: ... by Blupen(m): 4:10pm On Mar 03, 2023
Go and have sex op go out there and let someone fvck you hard till your third eyes opens

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Re: ... by woginid967: 4:15pm On Mar 03, 2023
Saint1960:



Disregard such information
Everyone on earth need people around them
I will advise to take yourself out maybe once a week
I suggest you start from evening walk
And I kind of feel you donā€™t exercise

Walk around so she gets kidnapped abi.

Well done o

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Re: ... by Shalommy(f): 4:18pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:

Jeez undecided
If all females are like you, why bother?
Enjoy your boredom. Don't forget to drink sniper. Oops!

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Re: ... by Saint1960: 4:26pm On Mar 03, 2023
woginid967:


Walk around so she gets kidnapped abi.

Well done o

So all the femaleā€™s that walk along the road get kidnapped??
Just stop Abeg
Re: ... by imagrg(m): 4:31pm On Mar 03, 2023
What I always advice is Don't worry, be happy!
Re: ... by Shalommy(f): 4:34pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:

Jeez undecided
If all females are like you, why bother?
You open this account today just for this? Chaii.. Ur shakara don hook u for neck. cheesy cheesy

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Re: ... by akwesenana: 4:36pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an ...
Can I paraphrase this as "I want to kill myself 'cos I've got no one talk to"?
Re: ... by SenecaTheYonger: 4:39pm On Mar 03, 2023
The only thing thatā€™ll help you is to start smiling often

You might not know this but that act of unconsciously frowning is chasing many guys away and also killing your self confidence.

Girls do that unconsciously because without guidance, they unconsciously work against their own interest.

whether youā€™re fine or ugly, Frowning and/or keeping a sad face makes you unapproachable.

Start smiling when youā€™re alone, not like a maniac but just a little smile to curve your lips. It will do a lot for your self image and sef confidence.

Girls donā€™t have problem because once you have a smiling/happy/approachable face guys will tend to approach you and do all the work.

Trust me you will get tired. And when youā€™re tired of guys, you can start frowning back.

The vein in your hands are from being skinny and not carrying water. There are women that carry heavy duty stuff day and night but you canā€™t see veins because itā€™s covered in healthy fat. Iā€™m only pointing out these stuff cause it seems to be the cause of your insecurity. So fixing those will help.

I also work from home so I know the struggle with making new friends.

FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an endless loop of commerce and consumerism (earn, consume, earn, consume). How are you not losing your mind?

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input

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Re: ... by oluwaseyi0: 4:43pm On Mar 03, 2023
You need a boyfriend
Re: ... by Nobody: 5:14pm On Mar 03, 2023
Where do you live ? Maybe you might benefit from going out and letting yourself be free ,you think too much and worry about the wrong things ,trust me other people you see who seem to have it all together and always looking happy ,they too have difficulties, cheer up my dear ,life is for the living

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Re: ... by Obnoxious2001(m): 5:21pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an endless loop of commerce and consumerism (earn, consume, earn, consume). How are you not losing your mind?

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input

Calm down and take the Things of this world gently...
Let me use pidgin "you too serious with life'

Take some time out and take a walk within your environment.
This might be a motivating force.

Cheers better days ahead.

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Re: ... by faceLAGOS: 5:31pm On Mar 03, 2023
Hey!

Can we be friends?
Re: ... by Kogbakogba: 5:32pm On Mar 03, 2023
At least you know how to blow grammar,that one still count.
Re: ... by lotkyes200: 7:53pm On Mar 03, 2023
One of the greatest things you can ever learn in life is this learn to love yourself for you.

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Re: ... by shantti(m): 7:57pm On Mar 03, 2023
woginid967:


Here is an advice

You dont need anyone.

If i was your friend, i would show you that you are too special to need anyone. Thats your chakra.... Your power.

You're destined to be a boss lady.... A person who is sufficient all by herself.

People will get close to you but you're not supposed to depend on them. Its the universe way of telling you that you're an independent soul.

My story is getting too long. Contact me if you want a different experience. I can explain more with your zodiac

What rubbish are u saying
Social life is very important
She need to learn how to relate with people

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Re: ... by shantti(m): 8:00pm On Mar 03, 2023
Try and join choir
U will make friends from there, that's a good foundation.
Re: ... by Sweetvie: 8:06pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an endless loop of commerce and consumerism (earn, consume, earn, consume). How are you not losing your mind?

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input
I think you need to be confident in yourself. You need to learn how to smile, frowning is going to make u look unfriendly and you won't be able to make friends even if you want. You need to love urself n accept the way u look, that's really gonna help too.
Go out more, make friends, try to mingle with people more and relax whenever you're with people, they're not going to do anything to you. You don't need to act perfect or something, just be yourself.


Be happy! smiley

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Re: ... by Ballzproblem2: 8:11pm On Mar 03, 2023
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Messi greedy Sha
Re: ... by SeeItSayIt: 8:13pm On Mar 03, 2023
First all, you've locked up your mind & destiny against proper advice & link point.

Believe it or not, the spiritual control the physical. You don't necessarily need to make friends to flow freely with people of your like-mind.

Again, your judgement about yourself has pulled you to the negative part of life.

There's a lot work to do but you're yet ready, till then. No advice can work on you now 'cos your mind will be first to be renewed.

Your father probably rightly or wrongly took his decision to protect you people the best way he can, based on his exposure at his time & in his environment. So, how long will you blame him?
Re: ... by specialmati(m): 8:13pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an endless loop of commerce and consumerism (earn, consume, earn, consume). How are you not losing your mind?

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked format your system, install the right program to have a wonderful fulfilling life filled with joy and gladness of heart.i even forget to tell you that the person that will help formatting your way of reasoning and all is still the same God ,please seek him

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Re: ... by ThothHermes: 8:25pm On Mar 03, 2023
FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an endless loop of commerce and consumerism (earn, consume, earn, consume). How are you not losing your mind?

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input
This is not the Christian interpretation at all.

Anyway I think you are smart and if you wouldn't mind having an online buddy, I just sent you a PM.

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Re: ... by Culer: 8:41pm On Mar 03, 2023
Sweetvie:

Go out more, make friends, try to mingle with people more and relax whenever you're with people, they're not going to do anything to you.


for an introverted/antisocial person, what you stated above is the most difficult thing in life to do, trust me.

Human psychology is obviously not your forte

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