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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by baralatie(m): 9:23am On Mar 12, 2023
popcykaylah:

What do you have to bring to the table ? Dont be a liability
What if she brings money to the table what next?
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:

The concept of wives not wanting to have sex with their husbands after marriage is a totally different problem of sexual satisfaction.
Physical attraction and sexual prowess are not mutual and after marriage becomes less effective in solving marrital squables
lol 😂 okay o if you say so I know what I know and you know what you know who am I to doubt you 😂🤣. My own is if your wife doesn’t want to bang your at least twice every week then best believe something is not right and you are on the losing end 😂🤣.
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by baralatie(m): 9:25am On Mar 12, 2023
ikeno:
That's your own opinion,as for me I ll sample the product before marriage because I can't get married to someone that can't satisfy me sexually,will not be able to get pregnant because she has damaged her womb with multiple abortions.

So why are you not married as of now?
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by popcykaylah(m): 9:27am On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:

What if she brings money to the table what next?
Nigerian women ? Bring money to the table?
Abeg no let me fall comot for chair
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Aguiyimba(m): 9:28am On Mar 12, 2023
Nfora:


I beg remove money. Why should money make you leave a marriage to someone that loves you and satisfies you sexually?

Are you a lazy woman, you can not work for your own money? undecided

Without men she has no life
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Mmmind: 9:30am On Mar 12, 2023
What's your definition of Marriage; a white wedding?? Dey play!
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by baralatie(m): 9:36am On Mar 12, 2023
AlphaAlex:
lol 😂 okay o if you say so I know what I know and you know what you know who am I to doubt you 😂🤣. My own is if your wife doesn’t want to bang your at least twice every week then best believe something is not right and you are on the losing end 😂🤣.
You need to come up to speed with what been married truly means.yes sex in bed is just one of Soo many parts of marriage and class structure matter a lot.for the struggling couples sex may be used as a means to cool of stress but the reality dawn's on them that the responsibilities,effect are too much(marriage crash).or you are in the top class where you as a husband will just look at your wife with one eye and ask is it only sex you know or you are middle class where you are both confused of when to have sex.
Bro leave all these sex permutations o! let us pray to be compatible.peiple grow up and with it ,comes all kinds of character development.take a look at Rihanna (person wey no dey see man for eye,when time reach she settle down with unknown banger) abi Kanye and Kardashian no compatible before but see as the two face opposite direction.
The prayer is that God should give us good homes and protect the home from evil and temptations

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by baralatie(m): 9:39am On Mar 12, 2023
popcykaylah:

Nigerian women ? Bring money to the table?
Abeg no let me fall comot for chair
All these marriages in Nigeria
Who do you think is keeping them alive?
You think is the Nigerian men
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by ikeno(m): 9:41am On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:

So why are you not married as of now?
Been in too many volatile relationship just need to take my time and look for the right one🤔
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Nobody: 9:43am On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:

You need to come up to speed with what been married truly means.yes sex in bed is just one of Soo many parts of marriage and class structure matter a lot.for the struggling couples sex may be used as a means to cool of stress but the reality dawn's on them that the responsibilities,effect are too much(marriage crash).or you are in the top class where you as a husband will just look at your wife with one eye and ask is it only sex you know or you are middle class where you are both confused of when to have sex.
Bero leave all these sex permutations of let us be compatible.peiple grow up and with it comes all kinds of character.take a lot Rihanna (person wey no dey see man for eye,when time reach she settle down with unknown banger) abi Kanye and Kardashian no compatible before but see as the two face opposite direction.
The prayer is that God should give us good homes and protect the home from evil
lol see the people you are using as examples celebrities American celebrities for that matter that live fake lives 😂🤣😂 Omo when you and your spouse have good heads on your shoulders and you are sexually active with each other the bond will be good and there’s nothing you two wouldn’t be able to handle together, sex with your partner on a regular helps both parties understand each other and I’m not talking of duty sex no I’m talking of lustful sex with burning desire in marriage most people get married and they stop having wild sex with their wives because they feel she won’t go for it, Women love sex as much as men and they love having it with the men they desire. Make I stop here but marry who you dey enjoy your prick night and day rain or shine cold or hot.

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by baralatie(m): 9:44am On Mar 12, 2023
ikeno:

Been in too many volatile relationship just need to take my time and look for the right one🤔
You get what I am saying
As much as people say sex o,sex o,sex o.when you just meet people in their character the sex flies out of the window into the Atlantic ocean

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by smasher1(m): 9:45am On Mar 12, 2023
Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage

That's why you are still single. No man on earth can give those three things above.
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by baralatie(m): 9:46am On Mar 12, 2023
AlphaAlex:
lol see the people you are using as examples celebrities American celebrities for that matter that live fake lives 😂🤣😂 Omo when you and your spouse have good heads on your shoulders and you are sexually active with each other the bond will be good and there’s nothing you two wouldn’t be able to handle together, sex with your partner on a regular helps both parties understand each other and I’m not talking of duty sex no I’m talking of lustful sex with burning desire in marriage most people get married and they stop having wild sex with their wives because they feel she won’t go for it, Women love sex as much as men and they love having it with the men they desire. Make I stop here but marry who you dey enjoy your prick night and day rain or shine cold or hot.
Lustful desires of sex in marriage!
Tiwa savage ,Tonto dike, and their lots would still be married

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by popcykaylah(m): 9:52am On Mar 12, 2023
baralatie:

All these marriages in Nigeria
Who do you think is keeping them alive?
You think is the Nigerian men
The only thing most women have to offer is their pussssieeee
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by smasher1(m): 9:53am On Mar 12, 2023
popcykaylah:

What do you have to bring to the table ? Dont be a liability

Nothing, no love, no money, even the sex, thousands or millions of other ladies Sabi am pass her.
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Dottore: 9:54am On Mar 12, 2023
CodeTemplar:
Sexual satisfaction is an erroneous and evil idea. There is nothing like sexual satisfaction in reality. It is just a phrase to help package and launder premarital and extramarital affairs.
According to Gods plan, one man knows one woman sexually, how will you be dissatisfied with something you have never tasted another version of? You aren't suppose to taste more than one flavour. If you taste more than one flavour out of mistake, as a matured person, self-control is a key part of maturity.
Did God punish anyone in the bible for polygamy? Just asking
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by natddon1: 10:00am On Mar 12, 2023
Interesting15:


So I came across a post by a false teacher with a false online church, sponsored from the kingdom of hell to spread doctrines of demons and lead many astray.

The false teacher, twisting Holy Scriptures to suit his demonic agenda, said "the moment you are engaged, my advise is; sample the goods, taste the milk before you buy the cow. There is no scripture that says it is sinful for an engaged couple to have intercourse."

This is a lie! Please, ignore this false teacher and all his lies.

God created everything, and sex is not an exception. As the Manufacturer, only He can give guidelines on how these things can be engaged. And the Will of God is that all forms of sexual pleasures should be shared only between a married husband and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution, with no other party involved.

Marriage is from God. It is a sacred institution that is above sexual pleasures. When it comes to marriage, the Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge." Hebrews 13:4

"Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." I Corinthians 6:18‭-‬20

The Lord already warned that in the last days, false teachers shall arise to lead people astray.

"Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons." I Timothy 4:1 NKJV

Give yourself to the Lord and don't allow anyone lead you into hell. If you are yet to establish a good relationship with the Lord, please do so right now by embracing Jesus as Lord and Saviour.


I think the issue here is immorality, both sexual and behavioral. If both persons haven't prior experience with sexual intercourse there wouldn't be any issue of incompatibility or non-satisfaction. Adam only had Eve and she only had Adam so either partner would not have known more than he/she was getting. A lot of us these days have had several sexual partners before marriage hence the reason we know who "sabi do pass" and it is affecting the society badly. Imagine young boys taking sex enhancing drugs and badly damaging the psyche of young girls. They end up in marriage with more reasonable persons and the problem of sexual satisfaction within marriage comes up. Let virgins marry virgins is what I propose.

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Fiscus105(m): 10:04am On Mar 12, 2023
Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage


With that, ur chances to remain in marriage is less than 10%
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by ChukwukaEze: 10:04am On Mar 12, 2023
Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage
This sex thing no dey tire una?
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by ajalucy16(m): 10:05am On Mar 12, 2023
I guess you are still a young lady,don't worry,with time you will understand life better.
Have you bothered to ask those your beautiful aunties why they are still single at 37 and 45 years,maybe they where just going your direction, time to wake up is now,be smart 😊
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by CodeTemplar: 10:05am On Mar 12, 2023
Dottore:

Did God punish anyone in the bible for polygamy? Just asking
The word of God commends monogamy over polygamy.
It like acknowledging the reality of the various levels of faith and then going for a lower version of faith.
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by crazybee069(m): 10:06am On Mar 12, 2023
I'm sorry.. but sexual compatibility is very very important... Yes the institution of marriage was created by God but still if your partner can't satisfy you sexually, the frustration can be very depressing... So as we pursue the things of God, we should not forget to apply common sense when due... Shalom
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Ambassadors: 10:07am On Mar 12, 2023
Me i need a gurl that can satisfy me sexually. I stay in P.H
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Dottore: 10:33am On Mar 12, 2023
CodeTemplar:
The word of God commends monogamy over polygamy.
It like acknowledging the reality of the various levels of faith and then going for a lower version of faith.
The idea of monogamy is a western culture not African culture not biblical. I wonder how the white man convinced you people that polygamy is sinful and abominable but homosexuality is tolerable and human right.
All the biblical patriarchs were polygamists and it was never mentioned anywhere that anyone was punished by God for Polygamy infact God even promised David that he could have given him even more women if he hadn't slept with Uriah's wife. David had 8 wives and many concubines yet God still refers to him as a man after God's heart. Abraham slept with his maid and still had a concubine called Kethura. God even promised to bless Ishmael just for the mere fact that he's Abraham's blood. I don't need to mention Solomon. Jacob married 2 sisters and was fvcking their maids: Bilhah and Zilpah yet God used him to establish the nation Israel.

We all pray to God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob but we don't want to follow their foot steps. Haba.

Only Bishop's and General Overseers were instructed to be husbands of one wife.

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by CodeTemplar: 10:35am On Mar 12, 2023
Dottore:

Only Bishop's and General Overseers were instructed to be husbands of one wife.
... and we know every believer is a potential bishop and GO.
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by chatinent: 10:35am On Mar 12, 2023
Although wrong, things we see nowadays can model one’s mind to subscribe to the notion to testrun the womb. Wetin people dey do ehn.


But it’s still doesn’t make it right.
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by titusmichael27(m): 10:37am On Mar 12, 2023
I see this as opportunity to share my experiences with those who want to learn. This life is very simple if you chose to listen to what God advised you not to do. The danger in fornication is not just something you can quench in a simple way. when once you've quickened that part of Brain, the memory remains your enemy even when you wish to put a stop to it. The reality is that, it's never a sexual satisfaction, but past memories of sex with drugs and doing it with someone who has gone far beyond normal sex habits. Right about now I wish I never tasted it. The peer pressure is another source of all these things. Now I have to learn how to control the animal in me. God knows that the day you taste of it, you will never remain the same , that's why he said you shall not do it until you're legally married.

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by lanre316: 10:38am On Mar 12, 2023
Worst thing you can do to yourself as a Christian is to marry a woman who does not satisfy you sexually.

Don't allow these spirikoko pastors deceive you o

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Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by Toktee(m): 10:38am On Mar 12, 2023
Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage
so you do have sex in relationship/courtship?
Do you know that's fornication the writer is talking about?
Re: A Response To "Don't Marry A Person Who Cannot Satisfy You Sexually" by rapheal5(m): 10:43am On Mar 12, 2023
seanwilliam:
if sexual incompatibility is the only ‘ issue’ I have with a woman, I think I can still manage. Provided she’s respectful, submissive , resourceful and peaceful .

I sabi masturbate no be small grin
dey play

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