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To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by FairlyUSEDpussy: 3:59pm On Mar 15, 2023
Hello guys!!!sequel to the story of a young man............I read somewhere today on nairaland............who hurriedly brought his so called Nigeria wife to join him in UK............

Unfortunately the wifey got in and started disobeying his words then again started CHEATING ON HIM RIGHT UNDER HIS NOSE..........


So I'd be sharing my own simp big brother story..........so others I'd learn from them both.......and for other who had made similar grave mistake..............


Okay.........mum collected a loan so close to her retirement period and handed it to our first born(my brother).............we all settled for Dubai since the money wouldn't be completely enough to process other available options................


My brother............entered Dubai and hardly listened to us even when we wud complain to him bout how hard the loan servicing was biting....................rather he ended up telling us how had been facing one wahala to another.................Hardly does he send money too.................mum even sent him money(my school fees) from Nigeria so as to cuisine whatever wahala he was facing(that particular action made me lose my admission that year)..............

Okay years and year rolled by........... nothing much was done by him...............


Later..........what we heard from him was "he had moved his wife to be with him"...........and this was someone who always complained how things were terribly bad for him over there lol.....................Most painful aspect was that he never informed any of his family member not until late when he has perfected the travelling............

Mind u.......... all that was still acceptable by us Oooooo...........even tho the so called wife never for once called on phone nor came to check on us in person if not for anything at least for her ageing MIL sake while she was in Nigeria.............


Same brother............still gathered all his saved money and proceeded to send his wife to Germany for further studies...........while he himself stayed stagnant in Dubai..........only God knew how she
convinced him lol.............


Problem now is.......ever since she(wife)entered Germany she's has not being reasoning my brother matter again lol..........infact she instructed my own simp brother to get another wife and should stop nursing plan of ever coming over to Germany...........and even if he does she will never let open her door to him............btw they have a 6yrs old daughter in between them already Oooo.......

Funnily enough..........late last year one of our cousins was interested in processing my brother's traveling which wud have seen him leave Dubai for Australia.........but nigga was adamant he couldn't leave his wife...........


His saving grace now.......is that that my cousin is still interested in helping..........but then not to Australia but uk.........cos nigga is always lamenting bitter to us but then nobody seem to care except our mum...........
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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by otipoju(m): 4:10pm On Mar 15, 2023
FairlyUSEDpussy:
Hello guys!!!sequel to the story of a young man............I read somewhere today on nairaland............who hurriedly bring his so called Nigeria wife to join him in UK............

Unfortunately the wifey got in and started disobeying his words then again started CHEATING ON HIM RIGHT UNDER HIS NOSE..........


So I'd be sharing my own simp big brother story..........so others I'd learn from them both.......and from other who had made similar grave mistake..............


Okay.........mum collected loan so close to her retirement period and handed it to our first born(my brother).............we all settled for Dubai since the money wouldn't be completely enough to process other available option................


My brother............entered Dubai and hardly listen to us even when we tried complaining to him bout how hard the loan servicing was biting....................rather he'd end up telling us how he's been facing one wahala to another.................Hardly does he send money too.................mum even sent him money(my school fees) from Nigeria so has to cuisine whatever wahala he might be facing(that particular action made me lose my admission that year)..............

Okay years and year rolled by........... nothing much was done by him...............


Later..........what we heard from him was "he has moved his wife to be with him"...........and this is someone who always complaining how thing we're just terribly bad over there lol.....................Most painful aspect was that he never informed any of his family member not until late when he has perfected the travelling............

Mind u.......... all that was still acceptable by us Oooooo...........even tho the so wife never for once called on phone nor came to check on us in person if not for anything at least for her ageing MIL sake while she was in Nigeria.............


Same brother............still gather all his saved money and proceeded to send his wife to Germany for further studies...........while he himself stayed stagnant in Dubai..........only God knew how she manage to convincehim lol.............

Problem now is.......ever since she(wife)entered Germany she's has not being reasoning my brother matter again lol..........infact she instructed my own simp brother to get another wife and should stop nursing plan of ever coming over to Germany...........and even if he does she will never let open her door to him............btw they have a 6yrs old daughter in between them already Oooo.......

Funny enough..........late last year one of our cousins was interested in processing my brother traveling which wud have seen him leave Dubai for Australia.........but nigga was adamant he couldn't leave his wife...........


His saving grace now.......is that that my cousin is still interested in helping..........but then not to Australia but uk.........cos nigga is always lamenting bitter to us but then nobody seem to care except our mum...........
[b][/b]

Your brother is very selfish and dense. A woman that watches you betray your own family will eventually find it easy to betray you when she is done with you.

How you treat your family is how your wife will treat your family.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by LIVINGICONREBOR: 4:11pm On Mar 15, 2023
I suppose wipe dat your brother better cord for neck. Damn!!🤔🤔

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by FairlyUSEDpussy: 4:13pm On Mar 15, 2023
otipoju:


Your brother is selfish and dense. A woman that watches you betray your family will eventually betray you when she is done with you.

LoL.......
He's now close to 40yrs.............
I really suffered in school.........thank God for my mum Sha.........even tho she retired before I got admitted..........

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Zonefree(m): 4:20pm On Mar 15, 2023
I'll advise you disconnect every contact with that your SIMPle brother cos SIMPism is contagious. How could he allow a vagina play him to that extreme? He's a disgrace to humanity, sorry no sorry.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Ever8090: 4:22pm On Mar 15, 2023
Nawaooo...that your brother used his hand to dig his own grave....that is why I don't feel anything for those Nigerian girls that men from abroad gets married to here in Nigeria and dumb them back home while they travel back to enjoy their life, those bitches are not worth it...

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Oboto700(m): 5:29pm On Mar 15, 2023
Your brother should be killed.. he's an animal

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by seanwilliam(m): 6:55pm On Mar 15, 2023
Your brother is not a simp,
He’s wicked and a fôol with certificate

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Autobot05: 6:58pm On Mar 15, 2023
I don't do family by blood ... I do my family by loyalty
You care I care... you don't care, I won't care

I will disassociate myself from such a brother . He is wicked and selfish and also a big fool

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Nobody: 7:03pm On Mar 15, 2023
Well well well!

Investment made on male child is always on God ! grin grin His immediate family will always come first. Although your brother's case is stronger cheesy

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by lyriclekidd(m): 7:45pm On Mar 15, 2023
Simps deserves no pity, with all the stories around people go still fall mugu give woman?? Omo this kind stories dy pain me 🤮🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Dshocker(m): 7:46pm On Mar 15, 2023
Omo, amebo dey sweet oooO

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Nobody: 7:53pm On Mar 15, 2023
I gladly hand over this one to redpillers

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by marlow1962(m): 8:14pm On Mar 15, 2023
Nawa o, ur senior mumu no be small

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by uniqueuser(m): 8:26pm On Mar 15, 2023
Simp or no simp, TRP or no TRP man suppose get atleast small sense na, haba...

Abi na Jazz... In conclusion Fear Women!

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by nazicartel(m): 9:24pm On Mar 15, 2023
Zonefree:
I'll advise you disconnect every contact with that your SIMPle brother cos SIMPism is contagious. How could he allow a vagina play him to that extreme? He's a disgrace to humanity, sorry no sorry.
hey bro, calm down. Things are not done that way. I will always tell people, traveling to Europe or any advanced country with your woman is not a good option. Thank God your brother didn't go to Germany. You won't be talking about this now. You will be talking about how to release him from prison, or how to rent house for him in your town

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by tjfulloption(m): 12:14am On Mar 16, 2023
FairlyUSEDpussy:
Hello guys!!!sequel to the story of a young man............I read somewhere today on nairaland............who hurriedly bring his so called Nigeria wife to join him in UK............

Unfortunately the wifey got in and started disobeying his words then again started CHEATING ON HIM RIGHT UNDER HIS NOSE..........


So I'd be sharing my own simp big brother story..........so others I'd learn from them both.......and from other who had made similar grave mistake..............


Okay.........mum collected loan so close to her retirement period and handed it to our first born(my brother).............we all settled for Dubai since the money wouldn't be completely enough to process other available option................


My brother............entered Dubai and hardly listen to us even when we complained to him bout how hard the loan servicing was biting....................rather he ended up telling us how he's been facing one wahala to another.................Hardly does he send money too.................mum even sent him money(my school fees) from Nigeria so as to cuisine whatever wahala he might be facing(that particular action made me lose my admission that year)..............

Okay years and year rolled by........... nothing much was done by him...............


Later..........what we heard from him was "he has moved his wife to be with him"...........and this is someone who always complained how thing were terribly bad over there lol.....................Most painful aspect was that he never informed any of his family member not until late when he has perfected the travelling............

Mind u.......... all that was still acceptable by us Oooooo...........even tho the so wife never for once called on phone nor came to check on us in person if not for anything at least for her ageing MIL sake while she was in Nigeria.............


Same brother............still gather all his saved money and proceeded to send his wife to Germany for further studies...........while he himself stayed stagnant in Dubai..........only God knew how she manage to convincehim lol.............

Problem now is.......ever since she(wife)entered Germany she's has not being reasoning my brother matter again lol..........infact she instructed my own simp brother to get another wife and should stop nursing plan of ever coming over to Germany...........and even if he does she will never let open her door to him............btw they have a 6yrs old daughter in between them already Oooo.......

Funnily enough..........late last year one of our cousins was interested in processing my brother traveling which wud have seen him leave Dubai for Australia.........but nigga was adamant he couldn't leave his wife...........


His saving grace now.......is that that my cousin is still interested in helping..........but then not to Australia but uk.........cos nigga is always lamenting bitter to us but then nobody seem to care except our mum...........
[b][/b]

Can't you see that your brother is the same thing as your "name" implies. What's wrong if your cousin process your travel to the U.K or Australia instead of your pu**y brother.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:27am On Mar 16, 2023
Everytime I read news like this,I am always grateful that my last relationship ended.Am free as a bird

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Teeneyo(m): 1:18am On Mar 16, 2023
Aaaaarghmed:
Everytime I read news like this,I am always grateful that my last relationship ended.Am free as a bird

As in

Freedom 2 do as thou wish
Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by pussyeater(m): 5:04am On Mar 16, 2023
You are lucky like the other dude said. Women have a lot of rights in Europe, especially Germany. If you brother went to Germany with her wife, the case would have been something else. She would have called the cops on your SIMP brother and he'll be in jail by now. Thank God say your brother nor follow that wicked woman go Germany.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by kingthreat(m): 5:09am On Mar 16, 2023
There are women you should help. There are women you should care for. There are women you should build a family with.
The ones that do not fall within the above category show red flags no matter how pretensive they are. Please do not ignore the red flags. Don't be a fool.
Imagine all the millions your brother has invested in that girl is about to become total zero.
Also stop trying to take care of the education of a woman. It is her parent's responsibility. Not yours.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by martyns303(m): 6:41am On Mar 16, 2023
FairlyUSEDpussy:
Hello guys!!!sequel to the story of a young man............I read somewhere today on nairaland............who hurriedly bring his so called Nigeria wife to join him in UK............

Unfortunately the wifey got in and started disobeying his words then again started CHEATING ON HIM RIGHT UNDER HIS NOSE..........


So I'd be sharing my own simp big brother story..........so others I'd learn from them both.......and from other who had made similar grave mistake..............


Okay.........mum collected loan so close to her retirement period and handed it to our first born(my brother).............we all settled for Dubai since the money wouldn't be completely enough to process other available option................


My brother............entered Dubai and hardly listen to us even when we complained to him bout how hard the loan servicing was biting....................rather he ended up telling us how he's been facing one wahala to another.................Hardly does he send money too.................mum even sent him money(my school fees) from Nigeria so as to cuisine whatever wahala he might be facing(that particular action made me lose my admission that year)..............

Okay years and year rolled by........... nothing much was done by him...............


Later..........what we heard from him was "he has moved his wife to be with him"...........and this is someone who always complained how thing were terribly bad over there lol.....................Most painful aspect was that he never informed any of his family member not until late when he has perfected the travelling............

Mind u.......... all that was still acceptable by us Oooooo...........even tho the so wife never for once called on phone nor came to check on us in person if not for anything at least for her ageing MIL sake while she was in Nigeria.............


Same brother............still gather all his saved money and proceeded to send his wife to Germany for further studies...........while he himself stayed stagnant in Dubai..........only God knew how she manage to convincehim lol.............

Problem now is.......ever since she(wife)entered Germany she's has not being reasoning my brother matter again lol..........infact she instructed my own simp brother to get another wife and should stop nursing plan of ever coming over to Germany...........and even if he does she will never let open her door to him............btw they have a 6yrs old daughter in between them already Oooo.......

Funnily enough..........late last year one of our cousins was interested in processing my brother traveling which wud have seen him leave Dubai for Australia.........but nigga was adamant he couldn't leave his wife...........


His saving grace now.......is that that my cousin is still interested in helping..........but then not to Australia but uk.........cos nigga is always lamenting bitter to us but then nobody seem to care except our mum...........
[b][/b]


I don’t like how you write, but I am going to reply nonetheless. I know your type, the black tax. As soon as a relative travels abroad, or is doing well, you guys will start sucking the person dry, swear that the guy never reached out or assisted you and mom in anyway, shape or form. That he never sent any money home. Have you bothered how he’s faring in Dubai? I stayed briefly in Dubai for a short course, do you know how tough it is to get a job as a Nigerian in Dubai?

Just because he’s not pouring every dime he made on you, that has made him a simp. About him bringing his wife to Dubai, bros! You do realize your brother have his own life to live right? So he shouldn’t bring his WIFE, he should have looked for another wife in Dubai or what? All that story of the wife not checking on you guys is just an attempt at giving a dog a bad name to hang it.

So he sent his wife to Germany, with the hope of joining her. My good friend sent his wife to the U.K. while he’s in Nigeria, she went and studied nursing, and now he’s gone to join her. Your brother had a good plan, unfortunately he got a bad wife, how does that make him a simp, is he the first man to send or bring a wife abroad and the woman starts misbehaving?

As someone who’s the breadwinner, I can totally understand your brother, at some point he has to look out for himself because if doesn’t, you guys will kill him with black tax and your sense of over entitlement.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by nicerod(m): 7:35am On Mar 16, 2023
grin

Tell ur cousin to help you instead of ya brother
Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by FairlyUSEDpussy: 7:56am On Mar 16, 2023
martyns303:



I don’t like how you write, but I am going to reply nonetheless. I know your type, the black tax. As soon as a relative travels abroad, or is doing well, you guys will start sucking the person dry, swear that the guy never reached out or assisted you and mom in anyway, shape or form. That he never sent any money home. Have you bothered how he’s faring in Dubai? I stayed briefly in Dubai for a short course, do you know how tough it is to get a job as a Nigerian in Dubai?

Just because he’s not pouring every dime he made on you, that has made him a simp. About him bringing his wife to Dubai, bros! You do realize your brother have his own life to live right? So he shouldn’t bring his WIFE, he should have looked for another wife in Dubai or what? All that story of the wife not checking on you guys is just an attempt at giving a dog a bad name to hang it.

So he sent his wife to Germany, with the hope of joining her. My good friend sent his wife to the U.K. while he’s in Nigeria, she went and studied nursing, and now he’s gone to join her. Your brother had a good plan, unfortunately he got a bad wife, how does that make him a simp, is he the first man to send or bring a wife abroad and the woman starts misbehaving?

As someone who’s the breadwinner, I can totally understand your brother, at some point he has to look out for himself because if doesn’t, you guys will kill him with black tax and your sense of over entitlement.


Seems"Comprehension"is one skill u never had........

Did u read where I said mum.........also sent money(my school fees)to tackle whatever he was facing.......

Did I ever say he was the breadwinner??mum sponsor us all in varsity........

Was the family loan handed to him for his wife or to assist his family??

Seems u'd do something if I was to judge......

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Nice2023(m): 8:16am On Mar 16, 2023
martyns303:



I don’t like how you write, but I am going to reply nonetheless. I know your type, the black tax. As soon as a relative travels abroad, or is doing well, you guys will start sucking the person dry, swear that the guy never reached out or assisted you and mom in anyway, shape or form. That he never sent any money home. Have you bothered how he’s faring in Dubai? I stayed briefly in Dubai for a short course, do you know how tough it is to get a job as a Nigerian in Dubai?

Just because he’s not pouring every dime he made on you, that has made him a simp. About him bringing his wife to Dubai, bros! You do realize your brother have his own life to live right? So he shouldn’t bring his WIFE, he should have looked for another wife in Dubai or what? All that story of the wife not checking on you guys is just an attempt at giving a dog a bad name to hang it.

So he sent his wife to Germany, with the hope of joining her. My good friend sent his wife to the U.K. while he’s in Nigeria, she went and studied nursing, and now he’s gone to join her. Your brother had a good plan, unfortunately he got a bad wife, how does that make him a simp, is he the first man to send or bring a wife abroad and the woman starts misbehaving?

As someone who’s the breadwinner, I can totally understand your brother, at some point he has to look out for himself because if doesn’t, you guys will kill him with black tax and your sense of over entitlement.


I don't agree with u except where u said,his brother has his life to live.

If that guy actually wanted the progress of his family,I think his brother would have been the first person to assist knowing full well,that it was his mum's hard earned pension that was used to send him abroad.

I am a living example,in fact my father got downsized in 2001,that is 15years before his retirement,but it was his gratuity he used in training three of us at the University and I when I graduated and relocated,I got a job and immediately,I relocated my brother and got him a job too just to make sure I stabilised my family first.

Family first and I don't care how sweet the woman turns out to be. The major thing is,the money was mummy's pension for crying out loud.

There is no crime in helping the family to grow.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by ghettochild(m): 8:24am On Mar 16, 2023
Mum are always the best.
That ur brother na ingrate ooo.
Ya all shd leave him to his predicaments.
E carry woman matter for head pass him family wey help am...

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by id4sho(m): 8:31am On Mar 16, 2023
Nice2023:



I don't agree with u except where u said,his brother has his life to live.

If that guy actually wanted the progress of his family,I think his brother would have been the first person to assist knowing full well,that it was his mum's hard earned pension that was used to send him abroad.

I am a living example,in fact my father got downsized in 2001,that is 15years before his retirement,but it was his gratuity he used in training three of us at the University and I when I graduated and relocated,I got a job and immediately,I relocated my brother and got a him a job too just to make ensure I stabilised my family first.

Family first and I don't care how sweet the woman turns out to be. The major thing is,the money was mummy's pension for crying out loud.

There is no crime in helping the family to grow.

Forget that guy

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Kiddogarcia(m): 8:36am On Mar 16, 2023
Sorry about your brother oooo.

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Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Nobody: 8:38am On Mar 16, 2023
Poor guy
Re: To All Japa Guys"dont You Ever Make This Mistake" by Solosolojohquay: 9:05am On Mar 16, 2023
Disassociate with your brother asap nothing good will ever come from him face your life and try to move abroad yourself before your mum get old try and do something for her your story is almost similar to mine I know where you are coming from is just pure bad luck that you are born into a family as second son with a simp brother like that

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