Persephone1:
You mistake me for one who is interested in your frivolity

Manydays01:


But these women still have white men chasing them. Believe me, Men have no value. Too thirsty

1Sharon:


He wanted to use her for papers and you have the audacity to come here and call her shallow? She likely sensed he was disingenuous and ignored him.

Even if he rejected her for her looks, doesn't a woman need to find a man attractive to want to sleep wit him??

Women are visual too. Not only men.

Persephone1:
I like how you male on this forum go defensive and pensive when you get called out. Oh I enjoy your selective morality and body positivity you display too albeit very hypocritical of you lots. So now here you are joining in the "You are beautiful the way you are" chorus because the body shaming is directed at your gender when few days ago you lots dropped your derogatory and ill thought out opinions on a thread about "fat women" that was created on this section. Your hypocrisy stinks to high heavens! I'm touched BTW, beautiful voice you've got singing that song

Leave the lady that died out of your foolery! Men like you are responsible for her decision. Face the fact that people don't find your marsh potatoes faces and your amoebic structures pleasing in other part of the world. This isn't about NIGERIAN WOMEN but NIGERIAN MEN!

SO REST!

Abyounghammed:



Broz, 98 percentbof women are moved by what they see and discuss in there mist

Johndoh:

You got it all wrong, I never mentioned white or caucasians in my write up.
The blacks (non-African) are more picky when it comes to dating, especially the mixed ones (half caste). They are of course the most pretty and handsome amongst all species by ratios (their total numbers in existence against total numbers of their pretty ones or vice versa, which ever way).
They don’t want to date Africans coz we don’t look good enough due to how our bad economy has taken tolls on our skins and looks (poor nutrition due to poverty, excessive heat due to lack of electricity, stress of survival, and bad skin care products due to oversaturation of markets with counterfeits or fake/pirated products).
So we really don’t look fresh and cool when compared to them.
I didn’t say ‘all of us’, coz the rich gets good life in this same Naija or anywhere in Africa and looks as fresh as these so called half-caste or black Europeans but most of us here in nigeria and Africa at large don’t because we don’t earn as much to take good care of our looks.

And as for the guy who said he can opt to change any feature of his face just to look good, I support him coz imo that’s not a sin.
If a feature in your body is affecting your self esteem, it’s not a crime to change it. It’ll be a waste of time to look like a squirrel and trying to bring on the confidence of a tiger! That’s idiotic.
Instead, get a good hair cut, a good body shape, groom your face, and if it demands to go under knife, do it, and look as good as possible. The rewards far supersede the cons.

MrDoGood:
It's like you didn't visit his other thread. Just try and see for yourself

Okonandmary:
■ Only working-class and unemployed people waste their time in the gym. anyway, the gym has to make money so they will create a trend targeting working-class and unemployed people.
■ There is a video of an ugly white man and a beautiful model enjoying their time on a yacht in Dubai. I am 100% sure the man took care of his benjamins, everything is all about the benjamins.

Abyounghammed:
■ Broz, 98 percentbof women are moved by what they see and discuss in there mist

zexy2030:
he is just a kid learning to be alpha.

Johndoh:
■ You got it all wrong, I never mentioned white or caucasians in my write up. The blacks (non-African) are more picky when it comes to dating, especially the mixed ones (half caste). They are of course the most pretty and handsome amongst all species by ratios (their total numbers in existence against total numbers of their pretty ones or vice versa, which ever way). They don’t want to date Africans coz we don’t look good enough due to how our bad economy has taken tolls on our skins and looks (poor nutrition due to poverty, excessive heat due to lack of electricity, stress of survival, and bad skin care products due to oversaturation of markets with counterfeits or fake/pirated products). So we really don’t look fresh and cool when compared to them. I didn’t say ‘all of us’, coz the rich gets good life in this same Naija or anywhere in Africa and looks as fresh as these so called half-caste or black Europeans but most of us here in nigeria and Africa at large don’t because we don’t earn as much to take good care of our looks.
■ And as for the guy who said he can opt to change any feature of his face just to look good, I support him coz imo that’s not a sin.
If a feature in your body is affecting your self esteem, it’s not a crime to change it. It’ll be a waste of time to look like a squirrel and trying to bring on the confidence of a tiger! That’s idiotic. Instead, get a good hair cut, a good body shape, groom your face, and if it demands to go under knife, do it, and look as good as possible. The rewards far supersede the cons.

luminouz:
■ Don't agree with you. You seem to think na so these oyinbo girls fine? Lmaooooo... They are not fine...so only a dude who knows his value will run after them. Na simps wey konji wan kill dey talk your story.
■ Sure culture is different, but a true G should see a girl who likes his vibes in the first six months abroad. But then, no be pussy everyone go abroad to find

Kobojunkie:
1. Oyinbo girls are not fine yet when Nigerian men get here na the same Oyinbo girls dem they pine after en masse?

2. Please leave the foolish things for the foolish and focus on processing reality as it presents itself abeg! Ever asked yourself the major reason why many Nigerian men here, even with all the horror tales, continue to go back to Nigeria in order to find for themselves wives? It has majorly to do with the fact that the pickings are slim for them here. They head back flashing their hard-earned cash—cash they would not be able to do that with here—knowing that their chances of having fine girls come to them are higher down in Nigeria than abroad.

Johndoh:
■ So, that said, they have standards in what they go for in terms of looks and physique. Unlike here in nigeria, where we are still respectful and considerate, they over there will not give two f*cks about your feelings, they’d let you know asap that you’re not looking human as they are. They could cringe in your face while trying to woo them.
They’ve got too many options that’s why. Lots of poor handsome half cast around, lots of rich white good looking dudes, and also a handful of superbly attractive Arab and brown people could be seen as well.

PROPEACE:

White men chasing who? In my student Life in the UK, I have seen many black dudes going out with white girls including short ugly me, but I have NEVER seen a black Nigerian girl (student) going out with a white dude. Never!🤣

Kobojunkie:
1. I advise you to stay put in Nigeria and don't bother coming over here because Nigerians like you, na una full here.

Oyibo go work and still make time almost everyday to visit gym. Na only una with una level of commonsense go decide say una busy pass them.

2. What percentage of Nigerian men arrive here rich or even become as rich as you describe? Make una dey visit reality abeg!

1Sharon:
■ Black women overall are not attracted to white men, we tend to be more race loyal. Black men have the largest appetite out of all races of men.

Kobojunkie:
1. Which is sad by the way because there are lots of white men who would date black girls only if the gals were open to it. Fortunately, in the last 20 years, I have watched as more and more black girls are beginning to abandon that loyalty many of them were probably fed from childhood and society.

luminouz:


Lol...nawa oh....so because you were rejected by many women, now all Nigerian guys are ugly as well?


Besides if that Rwandan rejected you because you're below 6 feet and your looks are subpar(to her), doesn't that mean she is very shallow? I mean, what can you do about your own height na? Will you break your diick and add it to your spinal cord to become taller? Or you will do plastic surgery to fix your broad nose and forehead?

A woman who really wants to settle down or serious about her life would at least want to connect with you emotionally. Because you can be very handsome and still be a mudafucking jerk...so won't she still divorce you later in the marriage? Besides, her attitude and mindset are suspect. This goddess you want to die for, what's her penile mileage, how many men had she dated before trying to settle down, is she a virgin? Or is her beauty and Canadian PR what you most desire? You see how I have dissected the fact that you don't even place value on yourself but instead of owning your own shiit and work to make yourself the king, who can reject women like her and go for VALUE, you chose to wallow in insecurities and then cuss all Nigerian men. ...



Know one thing: You may be ugly to many girls but trust me, many girls too like your looks as they are but most importantly your personality. Quit being so craven. The fact that you even came to NL to rave about it shows your insecurities about being rejected.

Bullythebully:

So a woman's character should be under scrutiny for rejecting an unattractive man? Are women allowed to make choices? If we want rich man? It's a crime. If we want attractive men,it is still a crime.

I guess we can only be right in a man's book if we appreciate and accept all men of all types,shades and class.

Men like you accept mediocrity (keep yourself as unattractive as possible and not make effort to improve aspects of your life) because you believe that any women that wants a better version of you is the wrong one.

But lemme announce,unlike the days parents imposed spouses on the daughters,we can now make choices. We now have the right to reject or accept men,and nothing will happen.

Op,don't let it kill your spirit. Focus on things you can change and not the ones you can't. Eat right,stay fit,hit the gym. Improve on masculine traits. Be strong,bold and confident and I pray that you get the love you crave you. Sending you loads of love and light.

1Sharon:
■ Yep. But those white men that are into Bw tend to like a specific type of Bw, they like the ones that very slim. Now if those BW fit the description, they can open up their options and not waste time with BM.

Kobojunkie:
1. Oyinbo girls are not fine yet when Nigerian men get here na the same Oyinbo girls dem they pine after en masse?

2. Please leave the foolish things for the foolish and focus on processing reality as it presents itself abeg! Ever asked yourself the major reason why many Nigerian men here, even with all the horror tales, continue to go back to Nigeria in order to find for themselves wives? It has majorly to do with the fact that the pickings are slim for them here. They head back flashing their hard-earned cash—cash they would not be able to do that with here—knowing that their chances of having fine girls come to them are higher down in Nigeria than abroad.

Bullythebully:
You are arguing with a person that sent an attractive working class woman a dm years back on this forum

1Sharon:


Leave him.

Unemployed people going to the gym? Lol.

That was his pathetic attempt at consoling himself.

All of a sudden looks and keeping fit are unimportant when the spotlight is on men.

But Nigerian men approach women solely based on looks alone.

Bullythebully:
■Most men hate to hear the truth on their shortcomings from women. They hate to face rejection from women here. And any desire of a woman here to obtain the best version of males are only written off as delusional and unrealistic by men.
But when they travel out,in the hands of women of other races,they have no option but to step up and be their best. They learn in humility and make efforts they will never had attempted with Nigerian women. Just leave them. After staying single and sexless for years abroad,no one will advice them to do the needful. There is no woman to be pressurized and shamed into accepting them over there .

Manydays01:


I know. You feminist and feminasiz alike are not always interested in logic since you're not usually logical. Run along with your vagina

luminouz:

K

Wise response!

You should do this more often instead of spewing gibberish. Silence is a virtue.

Persephone1:
Wise response!

You should do this more often instead of spewing gibberish. Silence is a virtue.

luminouz:

K

Bullythebully:

Most men hate to hear the truth on their shortcomings from women. They hate to face rejection from women here. And any desire of a woman here to obtain the best version of males are only written off as delusional and unrealistic by men.
But when they travel out,in the hands of women of other races,they have no option but to step up and be their best. They learn in humility and make efforts they will never had attempted with Nigerian women.

Just leave them. After staying single and sexless for years abroad,no one will advice them to do the needful. There is no woman to be pressurized and shamed into accepting them over there .

Kobojunkie:
1. Abegi! Respectful and considerate wetin? Look at the way Nigerian men in Nigeria body-shame their women and tell me how respectful and considerate any of that is. Nigerian men believe they hold the standard for women to abide by and so they freely body-shame and even humiliate women any chance they have. Thankfully, those abroad can give them a dose of the same bullying so they get a good taste of it.

Johndoh:
■ You’re wrong. I’d say here, women tend to get more praised and put on pedestals for just being women than their European counterparts gets from their men.
Way too many simps here and also, due to our culture we appreciate women more than the men in those western countries y’all run to.
■ Because we really do treat women with care here, they also have learned to reciprocate such by staying with us way longer than they should in reality. Don’t worry, get entangled with a western lady first, then come back and share us your story of ‘how it went’.