Hello Guys! Been with dis beautiful girl for weeks now. Met her on Facebook, fortunately enough. She lives not far away from me. It would cost just #100 transport fare for her to come over my place.

She's also a single mum. I like that fact that she opened up to me about her relationship statues... And we both agreed that there won't be anything serious cos her baby daddy often come around d family, since he's well known by her family members. In fact they are still in talks on how to settle dia marital differences. And that's very okey with me cos am not ready to be committed either.

Now, anytime she comes around, we often have sex. And whenever she wants to leave I make some little transfer to her for transportation and personal upkeep.

But then, I will sound it to her that d money I am giving to her is not because of d sex we have ooo, that its just a tip..

Now dis election weekend, I gave her money to buy bulk food stuffs for me since she lives close to d market.

It happened that she couldn't bring d stuffs earlier, she came by 10pm for some reasons best known to her. She had no option than to sleep over!

Although her stay, I gave her good comfort and hospitality. Enough food and entertainment. But I didn't touch her all through d nite. In fact, we had no intimacy until she decided its time to go on Sunday.

While I was walking her to d main roads to take a bike, her mood was not friendly. In fact she refused walking side by side with me.

She didn't even wave good bye after jumping on d bike. Then I noticed it. Oh Yes! I was very intentional about it.

I didn't give give her any Money! And uptill now, she has not called as usual. She has not chatted me as usual...

Now am thinking of just blocking her. But I don't know if its d right thing to do now cos I hate the fact that she's been visiting me for d money...


Pls ur advise is needed... Should I ghost her

leave her alone
she will still come back
this time Bleep the hell outta her
and throw back to the street where you picked her.
Women that loves you won't give you stupid attitude because of money

You're a Mumu man. We've warned you Simps countless times to avoid single mothers like plague. See the way she's using her over used damaged pussy to cash out from you. "For in the streets did she emerged from and unto the streets will she return to"

Nigeria women please

and why do guys always sexualise visitation from a lady


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But then, I will sound it to her that d money I am giving to her is not because of d sex we have ooo, that its just a tip.

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men are so dumb
kai

abeg tips for what?


dead gender



see that eddiiot beneath my post... his mom had him outta wedlock no wonder she kept going back to your now step father..

Don't disturb yourself she will come back and this is the problem of single mother they're very greedy

Na transaction una bin dey do na. Coded money for hand, back for ground. No need blocking her. Just activate ghost mode. If she vex finish she fit come around

Just know say na transaction una dey do since and remove emotions from it completely.

Promzy99:
Hello Guys! Been with dis beautiful girl for weeks now. Met her on Facebook, fortunately enough. She lives not far away from me. It would cost just #100 transport fare for her to come over my place.

She's also a single mum. I like that fact that she opened up to me about her relationship statues... And we both agreed that there won't be anything serious cos her baby daddy often come around d family, since he's well known by her family members. In fact they are still in talks on how to settle dia marital differences. And that's very okey with me cos am not ready to be committed either.

Now, anytime she comes around, we often have sex. And whenever she wants to leave I make some little transfer to her for transportation and personal upkeep.

But then, I will sound it to her that d money I am giving to her is not because of d sex we have ooo, that its just a tip..

Now dis election weekend, I gave her money to buy bulk food stuffs for me since she lives close to d market.

It happened that she couldn't bring d stuffs earlier, she came by 10pm for some reasons best known to her. She had no option than to sleep over!

Although her stay, I gave her good comfort and hospitality. Enough food and entertainment. But I didn't touch her all through d nite. In fact, we had no intimacy until she decided its time to go on Sunday.

While I was walking her to d main roads to take a bike, her mood was not friendly. In fact she refused walking side by side with me.

She didn't even wave good bye after jumping on d bike. Then I noticed it. Oh Yes! I was very intentional about it.

I didn't give give her any Money! And uptill now, she has not called as usual. She has not chatted me as usual...

Now am thinking of just blocking her. But I don't know if its d right thing to do now cos I hate the fact that she's been visiting me for d money...


Pls ur advise is needed... Should I ghost her

I doubt it's because of the money, she slept over intentionally so that you could fuxk her, perhaps she was feeling Hot, but you refused to touch her, that thing they make women very angry bro.

According to you, you gave her food and enough entertainment all these without fuxk is nothing, it's not always about the money.

Why don't you ask her what the problem is?

No reason her. She'll call back for the money. Def, she's in for the money. No stress yourself. It's FWB fam, give the pussy hard stroke.

Promzy99:
Hello Guys! Been with dis beautiful girl for weeks now. Met her on Facebook, fortunately enough. She lives not far away from me. It would cost just #100 transport fare for her to come over my place.

She's also a single mum. I like that fact that she opened up to me about her relationship statues... And we both agreed that there won't be anything serious cos her baby daddy often come around d family, since he's well known by her family members. In fact they are still in talks on how to settle dia marital differences. And that's very okey with me cos am not ready to be committed either.

Now, anytime she comes around, we often have sex. And whenever she wants to leave I make some little transfer to her for transportation and personal upkeep.

But then, I will sound it to her that d money I am giving to her is not because of d sex we have ooo, that its just a tip..

Now dis election weekend, I gave her money to buy bulk food stuffs for me since she lives close to d market.

It happened that she couldn't bring d stuffs earlier, she came by 10pm for some reasons best known to her. She had no option than to sleep over!

Although her stay, I gave her good comfort and hospitality. Enough food and entertainment. But I didn't touch her all through d nite. In fact, we had no intimacy until she decided its time to go on Sunday.

While I was walking her to d main roads to take a bike, her mood was not friendly. In fact she refused walking side by side with me.

She didn't even wave good bye after jumping on d bike. Then I noticed it. Oh Yes! I was very intentional about it.

I didn't give give her any Money! And uptill now, she has not called as usual. She has not chatted me as usual...

Now am thinking of just blocking her. But I don't know if its d right thing to do now cos I hate the fact that she's been visiting me for d money...


Pls ur advise is needed... Should I ghost her

I think you don't need to block her because you too don't even understand what is happening

You are the one giving her money anytime she visits,
So it now give her the impression that you don't give her money untill she comes and go

Its a tradition you set in

Stop giving her money when she comes, yet sleep with her and give her money another time, which is ordinary time without sex

If she stops coming to sleep over because she is not getting the money from you, then you can decide

Okay young man. You expected love from her,when she is still in talk with her baby daddy? What's even wrong with you? She came for the money,while you went for the toto and maybe the way she makes you feel. You don even start send her market.. Next thing now,belle go enter.. You go still come dey wahala us here with "what should I do" Just be careful sha

StrongAlphMale:
You're a Mumu man. We've warned you Simps countless times to avoid single mothers like plague. See the way she's using her over used damaged pussy to cash out from you. "For in the streets did she emerged from and unto the streets will she return to"

Am not a SIMP bro, thanks still for ur input.

BigYash:
Okay young man. You expected love from her,when she is still in talk with her baby daddy? What's even wrong with you? She came for the money,while you went for the toto and maybe the way she makes you feel. You don even start send her market.. Next thing now,belle go enter.. You go still come dey wahala us here with "what should I do" Just be careful sha

We have already reached an agreement and I separately give her money for drugs..

frozen70:


I think you don't need to block her because you too don't even understand what is happening

You are the one giving her money anytime she visits,
So it now give her the impression that you don't give her money untill she comes and go

Its a tradition you set in

Stop giving her money when she comes, yet sleep with her and give her money another time, which is ordinary time without sex

If she stops coming to sleep over because she is not getting the money from you, then you can decide

I was only trying to be nice... Its already a tradition for us to say thanks to visitors... Don't blame me.

Promzy99:


We have already reached an agreement and I separately give her money for drugs..

I hope its a written agreement, because if a lady wants to exploit or hook you with pregnancy ,verbal agreement no fit stop her.. And avoid raw too,cux as she dey give you so,she fit still dey give other dicks in her circle. Woe unto him that trust them.. BigYash chapter 5 vs 10

GoldSantana:
Na transaction una bin dey do na. Coded money for hand, back for ground. No need blocking her. Just activate ghost mode. If she vex finish she fit come around

My anger is this, Why was she finding it difficult to open her mouth to ask me for money if she needed it?

That means she's aware that d money is illegal, else she would have been bold enough to ask me for money...

But she expected me to do it as usual without even her asking....

By d way, I have been giving her except for dis last weekend... To me that's some form of greed and partiality.

I hate people with such mentality!

BigYash:
I hope its a written agreement, because if a lady wants to exploit or hook you with pregnancy ,verbal agreement no fit stop her.. And avoid raw too,cux as she dey give you so,she fit still dey give other dicks in her circle. Woe unto him that trust them.. BigYash chapter 5 vs 10

I will just start ghosting her... This time, she will have to be d one who will call to come over, then I will get to be sure that I don't owe her anything..

Iambro:
leave her alone
she will still come back
this time Bleep the hell outta her
and throw back to the street where you picked her.
Women that loves you won't give you stupid attitude because of money

You r very correct guy, when a woman loves u like mad, she will even be d one coming over with gifts or anything to contribute to her stay...

But this one na consuming fire!

Promzy99:


I will just start ghosting her... This time, she will have to be d one who will call to come over, then I will get to be sure that I don't owe her anything..

No problems. Just sha be careful with her.. There are many crayfish in the river sef,so you know what to do

Where did you get the cash to give to her to buy stuff (stalk up) from the market?

That's the way most of them are. They find communication very difficult. They'd lock up and expect you to read their minds

Promzy99:


My anger is this, Why was she finding it difficult to open her mouth to ask me for money if she needed it?

That means she's aware that d money is illegal, else she would have been bold enough to ask me for money...

But she expected me to do it as usual without even her asking....

By d way, I have been giving her except for dis last weekend... To me that's some form of greed and partiality.

I hate people with such mentality!

Promzy99:


You r very correct guy, when a woman loves u like mad, she will even be d one coming over with gifts or anything to contribute to her stay...

But this one na consuming fire!

And u expect a BM to love u? She's got bills to pay and needs a daddy for her child. Be playing 😆

Promzy99:
Hello Guys! Been with dis beautiful girl for weeks now. Met her on Facebook, fortunately enough. She lives not far away from me. It would cost just #100 transport fare for her to come over my place.

She's also a single mum. I like that fact that she opened up to me about her relationship statues... And we both agreed that there won't be anything serious cos her baby daddy often come around d family, since he's well known by her family members. In fact they are still in talks on how to settle dia marital differences. And that's very okey with me cos am not ready to be committed either.

Now, anytime she comes around, we often have sex. And whenever she wants to leave I make some little transfer to her for transportation and personal upkeep.

But then, I will sound it to her that d money I am giving to her is not because of d sex we have ooo, that its just a tip..

Now dis election weekend, I gave her money to buy bulk food stuffs for me since she lives close to d market.

It happened that she couldn't bring d stuffs earlier, she came by 10pm for some reasons best known to her. She had no option than to sleep over!

Although her stay, I gave her good comfort and hospitality. Enough food and entertainment. But I didn't touch her all through d nite. In fact, we had no intimacy until she decided its time to go on Sunday.

While I was walking her to d main roads to take a bike, her mood was not friendly. In fact she refused walking side by side with me.

She didn't even wave good bye after jumping on d bike. Then I noticed it. Oh Yes! I was very intentional about it.

I didn't give give her any Money! And uptill now, she has not called as usual. She has not chatted me as usual...

Now am thinking of just blocking her. But I don't know if its d right thing to do now cos I hate the fact that she's been visiting me for d money...


Pls ur advise is needed... Should I ghost her

She has a man in her life...u confirmed that
U are just a means of extra sex and money...
So what do U expect when u ddnt give her the usual...

Its not just single mothers....when a woman is broke and doesnt really like but just dating u for what to gain.... every move is like a favor..from calling u to visiting u to having sex... they just beleive they are doing u a favor that u must pay them back for

Don't make assumptions, call her and find out what the problem is

advanceDNA:


She has a man in her life...u confirmed that
U are just a means of extra sex and money...
So what do U expect when u ddnt give her the usual...

Its not just single mothers....when a woman is broke and doesnt really like but just dating u for what to gain.... every move is like a favor..from calling u to visiting u to having sex... they just beleive they are doing u a favor that u must pay them back for

Wahala dey ooo... Next time I think we gat negotiate price bfr she come visit. I think that will solve d whole issue... Am gonna treat her like a LovePeddler!

Promzy99:


Wahala dey ooo... Next time I think we gat negotiate price bfr she come visit. I think that will solve d whole issue... Am gonna treat her like a LovePeddler!

Thats not the point....i ddnt say u should treat her badly.....
My point is... know ur worth and role in a woman's life so u dont over-expect and over-give

advanceDNA:


Thats not the point....i ddnt say u should treat her badly.....
My point is... know ur worth and role in a woman's life so u dont over-expect and over-give

My intention was just to have her as a friend... I knw she needs finance... I will be glad to assist her d beat way that I can... I already told her that there's nothing serious about us. Just meet, make ourselves happy and all that...

That was d plan... But for her to trying to force it on me, like she's trying to make it transactional, that I won't accept..

I wud better let her find an alternative, while I move on to someone better...

Promzy99:



I wud better let her find an alternative, while I move on to someone better...

Best option...cos women always turn allow to allowance

Promzy99:


I was only trying to be nice... Its already a tradition for us to say thanks to visitors... Don't blame me.

Ok. Naw