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Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

Adexgentle005:
How is marriage more than responsibilities? Go broke and watch how your wife disrespect you and call you all kind of names. Then you will know marriage is not more than responsibilities.

achimendy:
Of course marriage is an achievement, when you prepare and plan you'll have the desired result. Although is not easy. How is it an achievement to start with? Go broke let see if your marriage is still going to be the same.

achimendy:
Of course marriage is an achievement, when you prepare and plan you'll have the desired result. Although is not easy.

Allisgud:
u supposed write small book on marriage

Kobojunkie:
1. Mother and father did it back in the 1980s in that same Nigeria. That it isn't the popular choice among many a Nigerian men who would rather beat their chest as head of the house while slowly dying young in poverty doesn't mean it is not possible in Nigeria.

2. I don't think. I know there are women who do just that in that same Nigeria.

3. Your problem has absolutely nothing to do with marriage so your complaint is unfounded.

membranus:
And the irony of it is that when the kids grow up, they will eventually love their mother more than you. Not minding your struggles to provide for all their needs and keep them alive when coming of age.

Hardcore11:
Jesus I'm scared

BigBashiru:
The women know exactly what they are doing. Marriage is a negotiated agreement...she negotiated lifetime provision and lured you with romance. Lifetime provision by a man to a woman is an unfair arrangement in this day and age and she knows it. She is just exploiting you financially and she knows it. Reject exploitation and demand she make her own moni and use her own money on herself.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
That is the exact phrase that she always use to nag her husband

Please don't mind her

Adexgentle005:
How is it an achievement to start with? Go broke let see if your marriage is still going to be the same.

GreyLaw:
This is a better way to explain a concept in lay terms without the superiority complex. Kudos to you mate.

Kobojunkie:
1. Who are the "they" that have plenty of money?.

2. You are still lying to yourself! You don't want to accept that the reason your marriage is the way it seems to you has primarily to do with the fact that you chose to strangle yourself with the rope called hypogamy, simple.

3. That maybe the picture for your marriage and this primarily because of choices you made in yours but it isn't the case for every marriage out there.

seanwilliam:
with no responsibilities, to be successful as a single guy from average background is super extremely hard.

When I say successful, I mean all around success and being financially stable not to talk of married men with loads of responsibilities and expectations.

Prometheus666:
Marriage is how men become gods. If your wife is not beautiful, I can imagine it will be like living in inescapable bondage, but if you waited, got the financials figured out then pick a beautiful cherry, then you'd be proud of beautiful human beings around you.

Marriage is not for everyone, if you don't figure out the financials, please stay off marriage. Marriage no be your mate. Get a baby mama

kkins25:
But you will still marry because you cannot control your fvcking gbola and you cannot afford side chicks.. ehyaaa......

kkins25:
Its you who's tuned into social media 247 and have been trapped in some pseudo-reality. 500k per month? Do you know how much the president's salary is? Do you need me to tap you to wake you up?

membranus:
And the irony of it is that when the kids grow up, they will eventually love their mother more than you. Not minding your struggles to provide for all their needs and keep them alive when coming of age.

Sapeleomi:
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My chairman, i sense from what you saying. The marriage is not the problem but perhaps the lack of suuport, morally, financial and trust from your other half. Two hands is better than one..
Our spouse/other half also need to support and assist one another and not leave all responsibilities to the men. This whole religious doctrine about gender role is not applicable to modern challenges. Jesus, virgin mary and mohammed never had a formal education..
Training and providing education for children and living in a comfortable house costs a lot of financial burden..
The challenges are modern and it requires joint working or else marriage becomes a burden.. Men need support. My bro, keep doing your best and ensure you protect your mental strength.
It is well.. We grow together when we all support each other husband, wife, sidechicks and side cock.

Adexgentle005:
I didn’t say that’s the whole amount I’m spending o. That’s just one of many. How much are you making in a month?

dododawa1:
NIGERIA leaders make Nigerian marriage difficult.

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

seanwilliam:
I’m equally scared just as you . As a single young man, anytime I spend , I always think of how to replenish.. sometime I’ll calculate and calculate and calculate before I spend on myself even though “ I have enough in my acc”. Fear of going broke, fear of inability to cater for my present and prospective family , fear of not meeting up with the standard the society sets for a man, fear of marrying the Wolf in sheep skin , all these things fear me pass death

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

IyaebeTheGreat:
And who told you it’s normal to have kids without getting married, which religion permits that? You won’t be young forever,and since you started early believe me you’ll be glad you did at the later stage of your life. Just endure the current situation of the country and be hopeful that it won’t last forever. I understand the angle you are coming from.

Acidosis:
Are you kidding? 100k in two months and you're complaining? Guy! 😃

hardbody:
Only 100k in 2 months? As a single guy rolling with boys, you can spend that and more just hanging out in 2 different bars on the same night. And not on a weekend when we go clubbing.

teefaht:
Just 100k and you opened a thread?

I'm a lady and I've spent over 400k this month.

My husband is currently giving me a cold shoulder cos i called his bs out some days ago.

Marriages is full of responsibilities like you said.

teefaht:
Just 100k and you opened a thread?

I'm a lady and I've spent over 400k this month.

My husband is currently giving me a cold shoulder cos i called his bs out some days ago.

Marriages is full of responsibilities like you said.