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Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by JuanDeDios: 8:41pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Got ya, didn't I? |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by didroon43: 8:53pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
That guy na CAPrisonne. Him dey always cap. |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:19pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
irunoko: A) a person having premarital sex does NOT mean they cant hold themselves....it simply means that they live their lives under different rules/opinion, than your religious views. just because your holybook dictates that you people should live in a certain way, doesnt mean EVERY HUMAN BEING on earth should live like you religious people. some people WANT to have have sex before marriage, thats their own wishes and they have the right to do so. there is no law against it. B) who cares about marital disciplines?! who made you judge and jury on the type of lives that people should live?! C) many men/women who got married as virgins became some of the biggest whoring people on earth. virginity means nothing in the eyes of being disciplined in marriage. no wonder the rate of married women sleeping with both bachelors and other people's husband has skyrocketed in a shameless way....and i guess, you can see in your crystal ball that the only people who cheat in marriages are people who indulged in premarital sex, abi?! lol how will you like it if your wife or girlfriend is fighting another woman because she caught you in the hotel with another woman.all this Yama Yama behaviour is because people just cannot follow what the Bible recommends as sexual purity.now everyone wants to show that they're wiser than God are you talking about the same holybook where plenty plenty highly respected religious men indulged in premarital sex and where not punished by your god?!?!?!? was Abraham, king David and/or king Solomon married to all the biatches that they had sex with and/or impregnated?!?!? LET ME EDUCATE YOU: the rules of your bible are very simple: so long as you dont fukc married women, you can have sex with anybody you like before and/or after marriage! thus why the only one of the above men i mentionned that was punished by your god , is because he slept with ONE married woman, and none of them were ever punished or viewed as sinner by your god/bible. |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by sojayy(m): 9:23pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Says a man who has disvirgin dozens of innocent girls...... who'll marry those girls? |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by lereinter(m): 9:49pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
"Mate like a dog 🐕" Lolzzzzz 🤣 For me the main reason to talk against sex before marriage and sex outside marriage is only for spiritual reason, keeping God's law. 1 Like |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by irunoko(m): 9:51pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:don't blaspheme o.the stories in the Bible are for believers to LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES of the fathers of faith so we don't suffer similar consequences.tbe stories were not written to copy their wrong doings and errors but to live a life that brings glory to god.now look at David who married several women and his eyes were still entering the wife of one of his workers swimming jeje on her own in the pool.the consequences of his promiscuity was that since that moment his home was never at peace,his son raped his daughter, everywhere was pandemony Solomon too married many women and had several concubines but at the end of the day he regretted his actions and said all of that is vanity Meanwhile the Bible imight be an ancient book but it is very TIMELESS and even solves 21st century issues |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:05pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
irunoko: again EDUCATE YOURSELF ON YOUR "TIMELESS" HOLYBOOK so i dont have to do it for you.... king David was only punished because he slept with a "married woman" aka bath Sheba! for all the hundreds of single biatches that he was bedding, he was never seen as a sinner nor was his premarital sex viewed as something wrong. Abraham was married to ONE woman only, but had 8 children by 3 different women (Sarah, Hagar, keturah). again, your "timeless" holybook gladly accept premarital sex with single women, FACT! ...but now you wanna come here and play holier than thou because people are doing the same thing, lol...you bunch of religious hypocrites. |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by incentive: 10:05pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Hope you haven't corrupt yourself and as well indirectly want to corrupt others. Tell the audience what is good about premarital sex. will you boldly tell your daughter or son to engage in that? If no, don't corrupt other people's children and if yes, suite yourself 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:19pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
incentive: do i really have to repeat myself?!?!?!? my below answers are very simple to understand: MrBrownJay1: MrBrownJay1: as for my children, i teach them about the dangers of having sex (whether before or after marriage) so that they fully understand the consequences of doing such act. but, if they wanna do it before marriage, so be it, and if they want to wait until marriage to have sex, so be it. here is a simple clue: if your child wants to have sex before marriage, NOTHING you do or say will change that. so instead of trying to brainwash people online, why dont you people on how to protect themselves the right way if/when indulging in such act?! 1 Like |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Neoteny7: 10:20pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
micxwell: We're all animals |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by imagrg(m): 10:27pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
You nor well at all. My friend who didn't do testing, ended up marrying a woman that has preek! |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by imagrg(m): 10:38pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
I have another good friend who married a choir mistress at the Redeemed Church in my area. It was a no-sex-before-marriage thing. Less than six months later they divorced. Reason: Husband discovered that she had a borehole between her legs! What was more? Her kpekus had a pungent odour. This is not hearsay. It happened to a young man very close to me. If the guy had done testing he wouldn'thave lost money marrying a gutter lady. IyaebeTheGreat: |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by sweetrace(f): 10:44pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Very true. Virginity should be a major criteria that couples should look out for before marriage… that’s one of their greatest asset or value to each other. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by faithfull18(f): 10:47pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
C'est fini |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by blahc007: 3:04am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:True example of my neighbor....it got to a point, she had to open up to me that she married the guy, because baba Sabi the game....but now she don tire, the real man he married don manifest....em de colet wotowoto for the guy hand. 1 Like |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by MichaelSokoto(m): 6:12am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:we nor dey damage anytin dia! we dey thrust am in small-small then leave am intact as we meet am! |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by razible5384(m): 6:31am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Villa12:you've got a very weird an laid back mindset.....that of a defeatist. There's nothing as sweet an satisfying as success. living with the knowledge that you've given your all an made a name in whatever field of life you've chosen. Thrust me, the society an your children will forever immortalize you an your name will always make way for them far when ur gone. Never pray to die poor bro, cos you'll be taged a loser |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Rapture4real(m): 6:45am On Mar 23, 2023 |
Premarital sex will blind your eyes to the faults and red flags in the relationship. You will continue under the yoke of soul tie and lust which you mistaken as love and marry a witch or someone that will destroy your destiny. It takes away joy from home and brings hatred. A time comes in marriage when you need to refrain from intimacy,-sickness, travel etc. If you don't have self control, how will you cope? |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Villa12(m): 7:17am On Mar 23, 2023 |
razible5384:Your point implies that an average Nigerians should resort to crime to make it right because even in the developed world there are poor people not to talk of developing country like Nigeria where more than 70% of her population are poor. I personally believe not everyone will be rich, also not everyone will die poor Riches or poverty doesn't matter after life. What matters is the life you live before death. If you believe in heaven and hell then you'd understand riches or poverty doesn't matter after life. I also believe good name is better than riches. Once you live a descent life before death then i see no crime you committed. Your children can also move freely in the society. There are lots of riches whose source of wealth is questionable. There are lots of riches whose children couldn't maintain the wealth. There are lots of riches whose society are scared to associate with. I can always go on and on. Money is good but doesn't matter or count in life after. Your lifestyle is what matter in life after Riches and poverty will all end up in 6 feet. Your way of life will determine who wears the crown |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Tayorshd2(m): 7:49am On Mar 23, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: God bless u jàre make d idiot they spill nonesence.... Make I go marry borehole for house mtheew |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by SPAMBOX7: 10:20am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Ok biitch |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Janosky: 11:24am On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat: Very correct. It may also affect a man too, dating a lady for 4 or 8 years without getting to the altar. Why? There is a word the Americans use to describe it-- 'Di*k*kmatize.' Only God can deliver you from this addictive menace, clear your head & get you to think straight & focus on Godly standard for marital success. 1 Like |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Ndleabilli: 1:30pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
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Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by deanoffaculty: 2:54pm On Mar 23, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:I strongly disagree with you on this. Are you trying to tell us here that ladies who doesn't engage in premarital sex end up with good men? False!! Don't forget that sex is a mutual thing and it's for mature minds. This is the aspect some pastors will never tell you in church or Imam in mosque, even when they enjoyed it before marriage. This is the more reason sex in not meant for kids cos they don't have matured mind to handle it. God created urge, feelings,drive for sex and it is meant to be enjoyed. If you are disciplined enough to handle sex with your partner before marriage, you've done well. On the other hand if you can't hold yourself, please obey your mind. We don't have equal grace when it comes to premarital sex. This is the more reason why so many "christian singles" masturbates secretly because of 1001 dos and don'ts they hear in religious places. That does not implies that those who have premarital sex are sinners and those who don't have it are saints. Sin has no category .....all sins are SIN!!! Mind you, God didn't create man as Angels, He created them as Humans. How would you explain the mystery that the lineage of Rahab the prostitute produced Jesus Christ? It is hypocrisy to see sex before marriage as sin, meanwhile you tell lies, you backbite, you steal, you kill, etc .....and you see all these as "normal sin". You no fit buy shoe for market and you no go wear if the shoe go size you. If you are strong enough to zip-up before marriage, kudos to you. If your body dey do you gizgiz.......obey your mind! Cheers!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by DonroxyII: 8:21pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:You are Over thinking ... ! Calm down .... Everyone should do what they can handle and Someone Experience is not Universal nor Absolute truth for Others .... If you are an Emotional type someone that think with Deep Emotions You might find sex too deep and any slight nastiness from your partner can Messed you up Emotionally ... Some people see sex as just two adults having fun like ludo, chess, video games .... like rubbing hands ... no Emotions no nothing ... just like hunger dey catch me and I wan Chop..I'm feeling thirsty I wan drink water ..... I'm Konjified I wan Fvck ... What's happened there about is a no issue .... An Average African is an Extremist Genetically because we are adapted to Putting Much Extra Efforts in getting Basic Beauty of Life Done and This has Messed Us Up Mentally that we Don't See anything from Normal Perspectives anymore but Paranormal which also gives birth to Accusing Village People for Your Own Stupidities Instead of Facilitating Changes .... African are too Spiritual thus too Emotional and Sex would Messed up an Average African ! Thus, An Average African should keep off Premarital Sex because Sex is not Ordinary to Someone Operating from Extremism Tendencies especially the Emotional debris and Evils in Sexual Intercourse might be too much for an African to Maturedly Handled coupled with Struggles to Breakthrough Nature . Avoid Being Messed Up join the normal Daily Family and Street Messed Ups ....! Many Well to do Peeps don't usually have this experiences though ... Riches Clears Many Poverty Shenanigans ! |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Nobody: 8:35pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
DonroxyII:I think we are all different, and I can’t ever see sex as just having fun. You write so well by the way. Lots of intelligent guys on this forum. How was your day? |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by DonroxyII: 9:01pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Yes, We are all Different from different Backgrounds, Brought up and Maturities.... You can Depending on the guy handling You: But for now You Can't Because of the Philosophies and Principles Engineering the Maturities that Brought You Up Coupled with Your DNA(Your Parental Chemical Build Up Transferred to You that Makes Your Original Self): I'm Fine, How are You too ... Don't have sex oo Because the Nasty Aftermath is dirty and evil for Emotional Person |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
DonroxyII:thank you. But sex is only evil outside marriage, we can have plenty of it in marriage |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by DonroxyII: 9:31pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:... That's Your Emotional Blocks Again ... Sex can also Be evil in Marriage with an Irresponsible Man The simple answer is Pray to God and Only Delve into What You can Handle .. Once it's beyond your Maturities take a Step Back 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by Nobody: 9:35pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
DonroxyII:You are right 1 Like |
Re: "Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" by DonroxyII: 9:36pm On Mar 27, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:... .. Right Kwa ... Panso Wife |
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