| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by rottennaija(m): 5:13pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Why wait for pregnancy before you test the foetus? The whole stress of dnc if the foetus is AS? Why not go for artificial insemination at once whenever you are ready to have a child? |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Alabaintprice(m): 5:18pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Based on technological advancements, it is okay to go ahead.
So long as you have the money to do what is involved. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Brownshoe: 5:18pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Every other thing is replaceable! Na only God is not. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ibrahim55(m): 5:20pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
I will advice u guys look for another partners it won’t be easy but it will be worth it a word is enough for the wise |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by mrmislim: 5:20pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences As long as there is a plan for CVS for every pregnancy I’ll say you can go ahead, you both can’t be unfortunate to keep getting SS children in each of your pregnancy because the probability is 25%. I and hubby also did the same thing, our families are aware and supported, spent about 500k on the procedure and we have our AS baby boy now, we are going to try for another baby soon and we’re hoping our 75% is in our favor. It is difficult meeting someone you can easily relate with for marriage o. But please MAKE SURE there is a planned money on ground for the procedure, don’t ever take that risk based on faith alone. 4 Likes |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by rottennaija(m): 5:22pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Guy, don't stress yourself. If you can foot the bill, whenever your woman and you are ready, be smart about it. Go for artificial insemination. Let them chose the best sperm and the best egg, insert in her and she carries it to term. It's going to a be a lot easier than the option they gave you, cheaper with less trauma. 1 Like |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ibrahim55(m): 5:23pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while . mbok since u have ur mind made up why are u disturbing us nigbana? |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by mrmislim: 5:23pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
rottennaija:
Why wait for pregnancy before you test the foetus? The whole stress of dnc if the foetus is AS? Why not go for artificial insemination at once whenever you are ready to have a child? Artificial insemination and genotype selection prior to pregnancy is very very expensive, I think testing after pregnancy is more affordable knowing that there’s 75% chance of it being in your Favour. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by aimalohi: 5:23pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
IVF CAN ALSO BE AN OPTION, IT CAN BE SELECTED FROM THERE |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Ifyok50(m): 5:24pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Do whatever you feel is in your heart. However, my candid advise for you is to part ways with this young lady now before you start regretting your actions in the future.
Meanwhile, if you do go ahead, I pray you don't regret it tomorrow. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Nnamaka1: 5:25pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Fool! Broken relationship is way better than a problematic Marriage. Think of the pain the child will go through as a SS person once you permit selfishness and stupidity to have it's way .
Please terminate this relationship now before things get out of hand.
Abi why do you want to Temp Fate |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by sonssyo(f): 5:26pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Forget that advise and look for another lady to marry, simple to avoid had I know How many foetus do you want to destroy? It won't be easy |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Jakama90(m): 5:27pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
You want to be killing innocent children? Right? Every child deserves to live. They say prevention is better than cure.
Please! Please!! Please!! If your genotype does not match, don't marry. Forget: we love each other. Don't suffer your unborn children. My brother you cannot manage it. A friend lost a child yesterday, that was a carrier. It's never easy. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ABIODUNOLAOPA1(m): 5:28pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
I beg you both with everything you hold dear, don't go ahead with that marriage. Love alone will not sustain you. The pains of having stickler children is agonizing to both d parents and d children and at d end, you will live to regret d action. Please, go your separate ways, you are not meant to be husband and wife. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by charlesdinho(m): 5:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
thank God, i am AA. i dont have any problem of asking my girlfriend her genotype before getting married. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Chris2863(m): 5:32pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zico5:
I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute.
My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her.
We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step. what a funny write up/advice😁😏 1 Like |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ucha1: 5:34pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
so you want to be a perpetual Terminator (murderer) because of what you call love.
Bro that not God's plan for you, don't be deceived what you feel today that you call love will vanish soon when you begin |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by advanceDNA: 5:37pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
rottennaija:
Guy, don't stress yourself. If you can foot the bill, whenever your woman and you are ready, be smart about it. Go for artificial insemination. Let them chose the best sperm and the best egg, insert in her and she carries it to term. It's going to a be a lot easier than the option they gave you, cheaper with less trauma. Cheaper?? Lol...bros u dont know what u are saying... genetic sorting is costlier than ivf and they dont even do it nigeria |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Bishopsgate(m): 5:54pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Bros...I am one in a marriage of 11 years with 2 kids, one of which is SS. All this testing crap seems so simple now that you're only talking about it. Wait till you get into it; then you'll understand what you've gotten yourself into. All the physical, medical & mental risks would be taken by the woman you claim to love so dearly. Don't be SELFISH. It's NOT WORTH IT. Find another LOVE! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by akube34: 5:59pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Bishopsgate:
Bros...I am one in a marriage of 11 years with 2 kids, one of which is SS.
All this testing crap seems so simple now that you're only talking about it. Wait till you get into it; then you'll understand what you've gotten yourself into.
All the physical, medical & mental risks would be taken by the woman you claim to love so dearly.
Don't be SELFISH. It's NOT WORTH IT.
Find another LOVE! I have a question to ask you. Where you aware of your genotypes before yo got married? Did you attempt to test? Cus I dnt understand how hard it will be to test |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Xpol: 6:03pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, as soon as I do that there will be inflow of cash.
She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, u might even doubt her age because of her maturity. she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.
Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage. See as you dey praise woman 😃 I just hope this song won't change in the future oh. Woman makes you smile today doesn't mean she can't make you cry tomorrow my brother this songs of praises is too much oh Peaceee!!! Your case:planning and hoping much money will be coming in the future is the weakness of man, getting your licence and boom huge money will start flowing in is not as easy as you're thinking.Every plan should be based on your current income while working hard for increase. I don't want it to be a case when your dearest woman gets pregnant and the money to carry out the procedure is not there then you'll leave the case for fasting and prayer or be looking for miracle from these pastors. Falling in love comes with so many disadvantages that's why I don't fall in love: It can lead one to damnation, bankruptcy, You'll be thinking in opposite direction and still be claiming you're doing the best thing, it makes senseless thing look sensible, it covers one's face as if you can never get a better partner , etc. Sickle cell as ruined many homes and lives, has turned rich to poor. The pain the child passes through is indescribable. There should even be a law to punish parents that bring an SS child to life to come and suffer. Ignorance is not a defence. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by akube34: 6:04pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Blake755:
Please what is pdg I would love to know more about it it’s quite expensive. They remove her eggs, mix with your sperm, select the healthy ones and put back in her womb |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Lordatkinson: 6:06pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
I love the fact that you made your intentions known.
Meanwhile, if a doctor has told you that your wife foetus testing will be the solution, did you ask the doctor the likely cost of this test? Can you afford it? How long can you continue in this manner? Not that after 2 testing you will come back to say you are running bankrupt.
You and I know that it is not advisable that AS AND AS should settle for one another.
Dear friend, consider the stress and cost implication of what you are about doing. Shalom! |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by longifilis(m): 6:11pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Be speaking grammar, love will make make you weak |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by 77up(m): 6:14pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
I see some people asking if op is financially capable hmmm , you better think about the emotional trauma you both will go through even with your money, honestly it's not worth it, let her go . |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Ted4real: 6:16pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Do not go on with the marriage please. Sickle cell is real as my Aunty has buried 2 of her children as a result of the silly mistake they made even after knowing their genotype. That is the height of it all to bury your own children that will have bury you in your old age. |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by longifilis(m): 6:18pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences Love will make make you weak come off it pls. Do not be cajoled, There are a lot of ladies around you Be bold enough to quit the relationship |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by healthconcerns(m): 6:21pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
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I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.
Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by duduade: 6:23pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
OP please ignore all these people jare… hypocrites… be calling person a murderer.
OP if you and your girl agree then go ahead with foetus testing for every pregnancy. I know a lot of AS couples who have walked down this path, are happy and have healthy kids to testify.
God will continue to provide money and May He strengthen you both Amen 2 Likes |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Godsownfc(m): 6:24pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
dawnomike:
In Nigeria, hospitals sometimes get one's genotype wrong, how much more that of a foetus?
Aside from the above, imagine the case of the 1st been SS ad got terminated, the second one also SS and terminated... Try to comprehend such trauma True..they should go on the safest side which is terminating the marriage, this is what so many couples are facing this days! |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Paretomaster1(m): 6:26pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
A word is enough for the wise...
As I know am AS, I ensure I know the status of my would-be partner before proceeding.
I let go of 3 relationships because of that... Before finding my match...
Save yourself the stress, and look for your match... 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Setursight(m): 6:28pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
[aside the financial part, the emotional stress that comes with such arrangements cost more than money.
Op should face reality, it's a dangerous mission. In street perlance, dey say *una eyes go soon clear*].
You should have asked the Doctor the possible cost of such procedure that's where you would have started with
Then you can compare it with your income
Alternatively, you guys will can adopt a child pending when you can afford the cost of that medical procedure including all expenses and drugs
Meanwhile enjoy your relationship till you find your way out [/quote] |
