It's now you're talking, you've actually been suspecting her and your suspicions were just confirmed. The initial post didn't show she cheated

Megabig:


What exactly did she go then? I mean she travelled twice on vacation already without me because I’m busy with work. I made sure a relationship shouldn’t stop us from living our life’s. I can bet my penis it’s a man, she was on a video call in the bedroom once and when I walked it she ended the call, I didn’t ask who was that and she said her elder bro called on video. The elder bro she referenced i understand recently do no know how to use social media. I just moved on from the conversation so we don’t stress it all. So why lie?

PussyGalore:


He did not catch her with another guy!

Simp

No perfect lady out there. Check yourself very well

Benki003:


We know you would defend your gender, until she's pregnant for another man 🙄🙄

Hahahhahahaha

koladata:
sorry about your experience bro, going by what you described about her, i think there's something she's not comfortable with about you and she's trying to way her options, she might not be as bad as you think, sit her down, you guys can't be friends again but you don't have to block each other, once in a while hello and hi is not bad.. most of them are the same, learn to remember them for the few good they did and move on without hard feelings.

please shut up

Is this even enough to break up with her? Anyway Op didn't really love her as much as he thought he did. That's why he said he wasn't feeling the pain much just disappointment. So I guess both are better off apart.

Reminderz:
a man who thinks a woman doesn't keep her options open is a dead man walking... a woman is always single until married, and even if married, she's planning her possible escape routes in case the man doesn't perform. give a woman your 100% heart at your own peril.

Jah bless bro, you've said it all

These hoes ain't loyal

Megabig:


There is nothing, the elder bro knows who she’s cheating with, the man has a daughter and divorced. He disclosed that to me and asked me to just move on. So it’s not me, it’s her… I was sad they didn’t tell me earlier

Thank God for men like her brother. Na real redpiller be that.

She was even cheating with a married man? Tufiakwa.

Cc koladata, erimMa1... See your lives outside

PussyGalore:


He did not catch her with another guy!

Just imagine how myopic you are. You are waiting for someone to interpret the handwriting on the wall shey. Ewu Gambia. It's your type that will see black and call it grey.

I dont even know why I get married or why I marry the lady I call my wife today.
Nothing is interesting about women especially the one's who are from trash background.
I am married and I must tell you that, the OP should let that woman go.

Always stand for something else you'll definitely Fall for anything

Megabig:

just 1 and done. Did she know about your HIV status?

luminouz:

Jesus fuqin Christ!

I knew men like you would come out to defend rubbish. Shey dem cûrse you with this mentality of defending hôes ni? Even when it's glaring she cheated, you are still defending her? It's men like you that have made these women bold enough to do the rubbish they are doing.

She was in a friend's place and said na lawyers office she dey? Which one was easier to confess?
You are a simp,nigga

Say whatever you to say without using a curse word for christ I beg you

Reminderz:
a man who thinks a woman doesn't keep her options open is a dead man walking... a woman is always single until married, and even if married, she's planning her possible escape routes in case the man doesn't perform. give a woman your 100% heart at your own peril.

Words on marble....

These are very true words.....

Very true and wise words....

Also even after marriage, they are still constantly evaluating the guy to figure out if they made the best decision....

How did you come to realize these truths??

Microwhy:
I dont even know why I get married or why I marry the lady I call my wife today.
Nothing is interesting about women especially the one's who are from trash background.
I am married and I must tell you that, the OP should let that woman go.

We have to commit this brother in prayers. As Christians would say, it's well.

cejaypriesty:

Say whatever you to say without using a curse word for christ I beg you

Send me 100k if you want me to stop or I will continue and even use it on YOU!!

Ingriid:


Can u guys just stop all these for Christ sake. Is it every Nigerian lady that's bad according to u guys here on Nairaland.
Did u read d chat where d lady was telling her supposed boyfriend that she's suicidal? Oh gosh!
This guy isn't even bothered about that! What sorts of generation is this with no human sympathy ! Damn!

suicide as in, emotional manipulation, do you think those genders care or have any atom of pity.

Megabig:
she was on a video call in the bedroom once and when I walked it she ended the call, I didn’t ask who was that and she said her elder bro called on video. The elder bro she referenced i understand recently do no know how to use social media. I just moved on from the conversation so we don’t stress it all. So why lie?

You just dodged a bullet.

Since that thing no get meter and no dey talk when he reach house, there is virtually no way a man can know if his woman is sleeping around and unfortunately fidelity is just based on trust hope.

Is it even logical / sensible for a man to expect fidelity from his so called woman in todays crafty and hyper sexualised world where every evil under the sun is available for all to see at the click of a mouse online.

Thank your lucky stars that she did not pass on another mans pregnancy to you as yours.

Megabig:

she’s actually calm. May be the right partner for you

You mean she is what you can call slow poison or green snake under the green grass.

Megabig:

Tutor me, I dropped someone off at work and she didn’t go to work? And not aware of what happened at work same day I dropped her, alright run along

I need not tutor u, u re definitely an adult. I am not justifying what ur lady did but swear to me that u have never lied to her or anyone to cover up an act. U said it urself that this lady is cool, peaceful and not d regular party girl; are u gonna throw all that away? My dear, only God Almighty is without fault, human will always mess up but there's d place of forgiveness.

If this lady hasn't given u several reasons to doubt her, it's only this, pls reconsider. I don't know u from anywhere but getting a reasonable person in this age and time is a lot of work. Gosh!
I don't know how u guys do this relationship thing but for me, I will give my partner enough grace and I expect d same.
Stay well!

Just pray for her, she will change, nobody is perfect, take her back

topeluvu:
just 1 and done. Did she know about your HIV status?

Yes, 100 percent

Useless girl

cocolacec:


I think you jumped into conclusions,she was never caught red handed with another man.She could be afraid of opening up somethings to you for fear of being dumped.There is no guarantee sge went to a man's place unless you caught her in the act.She could be at a friend's place.
Communication is the key.

How you didn't notice how stu.pid you sounded here?

She's not caught red handed so he is to wait till she's caught red handed ni?


What could she possibly be facing that she can't let her man know, I mean why be together when you can't fix your shit with your man?

Megabig:


What exactly did she go then? I mean she travelled twice on vacation already without me because I’m busy with work. I made sure a relationship shouldn’t stop us from living our life’s. I can bet my penis it’s a man, she was on a video call in the bedroom once and when I walked it she ended the call, I didn’t ask who was that and she said her elder bro called on video. The elder bro she referenced i understand recently do no know how to use social media. I just moved on from the conversation so we don’t stress it all. So why lie?

Bro you did the right thing. Don't listen to crook of a woman whom is trying to gaslight you for something you didn't do. For the fact she gave you a reason not to trust her, she's cheating bro. You don't have to catch her red handed.

I know a girl currently seeing her boyfriend. I do visit her mostly for her food, and each time I am over, she let's the guy know I'm there. Now I do not have any intention of going above just being friends as we work together at my place of work. However, she's gone on a date with another man and her boyfriend's knew about it. What am I saying, she's not hiding anything from him and has not given him a reason to doubt her. Your babe is cheating hoohaa!

Megabig:


Drop your email address so she can reach out to you, she’s actually calm. May be the right partner for you

Correct guy.

Sorry Op for your ugly experience but look at it from the brighter side. Her infidelity saved her, if she was there during the shooting, chances are she could have been shot and killed. In every disappointment, there is a blessing!

Regex:


Bro you did the right thing. Don't listen to crook of a woman whom is trying to gaslight you for something you didn't do. For the fact she gave you a reason not to trust her, she's cheating bro. You don't have to catch her red handed.

I know a girl currently seeing her boyfriend. I do visit her mostly for her food, and each time I am over, she let's the guy know I'm there. Now I do not have any intention of going above just being friends as we work together at my place of work. However, she's gone on a date with another man and her boyfriend's knew about it. What am I saying, she's not hiding anything from him and has not given him a reason to doubt her. Your babe is cheating hoohaa!

Exactly, current update is that she went to the movies with a man and they did nothing. Someone I dropped at work? Weekend movies that she goes to when I have trainings and I also go with her when free. Is it that she hates my company? I allow her do her stuffs. She can’t have it both ways

Megabig:

Exactly, current update is that she went to the movies with a man and they did nothing. Someone I dropped at work? Weekend movies that she goes to when I have trainings and I also go with her when free. Is it that she hates my company? I allow her do her stuffs. She can’t have it both ways

Free am jareh, na cheat she be. Break up and make it permanent. Find other babes.

Megabig:


What exactly did she go then? I mean she travelled twice on vacation already without me because I’m busy with work. I made sure a relationship shouldn’t stop us from living our life’s. I can bet my penis it’s a man, she was on a video call in the bedroom once and when I walked it she ended the call, I didn’t ask who was that and she said her elder bro called on video. The elder bro she referenced i understand recently do no know how to use social media. I just moved on from the conversation so we don’t stress it all. So why lie?

I sympathise with you. It's painful. Kpele.