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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by seanwilliam(m): 8:21pm On Apr 14, 2023
Richwallet:



Your face, complexion and build looks like Regina . You are not twins, or identical but I can tell that you are from the same area since most Nigerians look same for their region.
wetin be this rubbish now ?
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Airlord2030: 8:25pm On Apr 14, 2023
ukaface:
Lack of communication
with that your masculine igbo voice grin

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by vengertime: 8:25pm On Apr 14, 2023
virginprincess:
A man that is stingy is a big No for me and also a man that talks too much is a bigger No for me,how i hate men that talks too much,i actually turn down a guy's proposal because he was a talktative that loves sitting in the mist of women not even his fellow men.

You want a man to buy you everything including bathing soaps and creams. How about you go get a job and stop this Nigerian girls entitlement

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Richwallet: 8:25pm On Apr 14, 2023
Konjiboii:


But that's a ho



Give it a rest. My mind is too serious for this sort of talk.
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by PureFace1(m): 8:27pm On Apr 14, 2023
Chee59:

No. There's a fine line between constant communication and clinginess.
I want a man who can chip in a bit of a conversation as he prepares to go to work, during his break time in the office, on his way home from work and after he's eaten, resting and retiring to bed, when he's out with friends, etc stuff like that. A little "hey" "what are you up to?" "your day going on well?" "OK something unusual happened at work" just basic conversation.

Very different from someone who wants to be on the phone with you all the time, gets suspicious of everything and everyone, for example, you didn't pick up the phone when they called, where you'll be afraid to even say "I'm sorry I have to go". That's obsessive and clingy.

That's not constant communication, you are actually the clingy and obsessive one. Why do you require so much texting every day and want to know what he is doing at home and work?

So many Redflags and deep insecurities, no valueable man will stay once he noticed that.

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by PureFace1(m): 8:31pm On Apr 14, 2023
GreatVocalist:

No, I dont.

I think people are wired differently, and there's no one-size-fits-all pattern of communication.

I know that women desire more attention than men do, I also know that there are women who define what you mentioned above as clinginess.

So I don't know it better than you do, not even as much.


She is actually the one acting clingy and obsessive.

Why does she need so much texting and want to know what the guy is doing at home and work ? she is very insecure and clingy

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Jakumo(m): 8:35pm On Apr 14, 2023
24SEVEN:


A lady leaves Jakumo?? shocked shocked shocked

With all your intelligence and fanciful writing and talking skills??

It beggars the question, what does a lady truly want? undecided

I blow bigi-bigi grammar sotaaaaay, she no gree. From there I begin dey nack broken sotaaaay, she no gree. Haba how man pikin for do?

Na him I come see say water don pass garri dis time o, say like play, like play, dis woman don dey go be dat o, and she nogo show face again.

When I see say no show again, na so I carry my hunter cloth wear am put, come begin dey take eye dey find new woman for where dem dey.

I pray make Papa God answer my pray o, say make anoda fine girl come follow me dey wakka as before.
.
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 14, 2023
grin grin grin
kings59:


I guess you are from South Africa
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by ukaface(f): 8:41pm On Apr 14, 2023
Airlord2030:
with that your masculine igbo voice grin
Hmmmm
You opened a new account, why do I think this is for you to intentionally speak against igbos and also to keep looking for my trouble?
You Dey even follow me, and I’m not following you.
What’s your plan

I won’t indulge you

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by PureFace1(m): 8:53pm On Apr 14, 2023
jaxxy:


seem like the kind of person that will complain about everything. So a man shouldn't talk bt he must be generous.

Don't believe whatever these women are saying

Women can't be please and you shouldn't try to please women, just live for yourself and prioritize yourself in everything. Know what you want and go for it, there are thousands of women that will like to be in your life for that.

You will see drunkards, street thugz and Marijuana smokers having several women even, even guys that beat their women easily get many women around them, just prioritize yourself and have fun.

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by 24SEVEN: 8:55pm On Apr 14, 2023
Jakumo:


I blow bigi-bigi grammar sotaaaaay, she no gree. From there I begin dey nack broken sotaaaay, she no gree. Haba how man pikin for do?

Na him I come see say water don pass garri dis time o, say like play, like play, dis woman don dey go be dat o, and she nogo show face again.

When I see say no show again, na so I carry my hunter cloth wear am put, come begin dey take eye dey find new woman for where dem dey.

I pray make Papa God answer my pray o, say make anoda fine girl come follow me dey wakka as before.
.

God go answer ya prayer. You go find better woman. 🙏
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by SonofGod231: 8:56pm On Apr 14, 2023
embarassed
Silentgroper:




Like the whole idea of courting wasn't for each of the spouse to get to know each other ..


I don't understand how an invitation to his house deviates from that..
No,our society has become narcissistic..No one wants to marry any more. We just want to get laid.
Your house and bed is meaningless,especially if you don't intend to make use of it...The guyman won use him house...Oya,use your tongue count your teeth.
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by PureFace1(m): 8:57pm On Apr 14, 2023
Jakumo:


I blow bigi-bigi grammar sotaaaaay, she no gree. From there I begin dey nack broken sotaaaay, she no gree. Haba how man pikin for do?

Na him I come see say water don pass garri dis time o, say like play, like play, dis woman don dey go be dat o, and she nogo show face again.

When I see say no show again, na so I carry my hunter cloth wear am put, come begin dey take eye dey find new woman for where dem dey.

I pray make Papa God answer my pray o, say make anoda fine girl come follow me dey wakka as before.
.


Women can't be please and you shouldn't try to please women, just live for yourself and prioritize yourself in everything. Know what you want and go for it, there are thousands of women that will like to be in your life for that.

You will see drunkards, street thugz and Marijuana smokers having several women even guys that beat their women and hurt them badly easily get many women around them, just prioritize yourself and have fun and don't take any disrespect.


You just need more confidence to approach at least 5 to 10 women a week and you are good to go.

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Silentgroper(m): 9:23pm On Apr 14, 2023
SonofGod231:
embarassed
No,our society has become narcissistic..No one wants to marry any more. We just want to get laid.
Your house and bed is meaningless,especially if you don't intend to make use of it...The guyman won use him house...Oya,use your tongue count your teeth.
use him house do Wetin??


Guyman invite him babe come house, Wetin be big deal ..


He could be one of those niggas that feel instead of wasting money on eating out in eateries all in the name of a date, why not bring date venue and menu to his home ...

Spice it up romantically by even being the one to prepare the meal .. you know Netflix and chill type shiit...

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 14, 2023
Samantha124:
I also can't stand arrogant men.
Define arrogance.
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:27pm On Apr 14, 2023
Him too dey form Alpha male/Red piller. Turn off. A gaslighter, narcissist and had a skewed sense about women. Was on every post relating to gender wars. Had a ‘me first’ attitude. Arrogant. A poor sense of communication. Never ready to compromise nor sacrifice. Keeps malice like what I don’t know. Could not deal.

I love my men meek, agreeable, soft and tender. No gra gra vibes. I can’t argue. I’m a handful myself.

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Saintofmelody74(m): 9:27pm On Apr 14, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
He kept asking me to come visit him in his place barely days after our first meeting. This was from someone who knew absolutely nothing about me. He had to bite the dust 👋

So did the second guy.

And the third guy.

And the guy after that.


I haven't let myself have feelings for any guy in quite a while.


Kwantinue....miss loneliness
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by SonofGod231: 9:29pm On Apr 14, 2023
Silentgroper:
use him house do Wetin??


Guyman invite him babe come house, Wetin be big deal ..


He could be one of those niggas that feel instead of wasting money on eating out in eateries all in the name of a date, why not bring date venue and menu to his home ...

Spice it up romantically by even being the one to prepare the meal .. you know Netflix and chill type shiit...
cheesy grin grin So you know...Netflix and chill typa sh8t for 9ja babe?! cheesy
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Airlord2030: 9:39pm On Apr 14, 2023
ukaface:

Hmmmm
You opened a new account, why do I think this is for you to intentionally speak against igbos and also to keep looking for my trouble?
You Dey even follow me, and I’m not following you.
What’s your plan

I won’t indulge you
you must learn a lesson cool
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by 3kay945(m): 9:46pm On Apr 14, 2023
NBAjunior:


With your small ass you sef day talk about rejecting smh 😂😂

Abi na,. Even the ones with awkward characters too will say her preferences ... grin

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Unrated900(m): 9:48pm On Apr 14, 2023
Sixfeetbelle:
He kept asking me to come visit him in his place barely days after our first meeting. This was from someone who knew absolutely nothing about me. He had to bite the dust 👋

So did the second guy.

And the third guy.

And the guy after that.


I haven't let myself have feelings for any guy in quite a while.


Cos dem nor get money

It he de

Na u go dey beg em

Women and money

Are like obi and mandate claimer
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by RIDOO: 9:51pm On Apr 14, 2023
nairanaira12:
The average Nigerians girl only has feelings for money.




I have a different mentality from this.During my days.. l always choose to date a guy that we'll start things together.l don't give already made guys chance cos l believe most of them are play boys.Most of them don't value ladies.

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by OriOko88(m): 9:58pm On Apr 14, 2023
labake1:



Everything is not money bro

A short guy has no place in my heart.
If he is not ambitious enough, it's a NO.
If I discovered that he drinks, smoke and do betting, it's a NO.
Yimu
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by drmikeadams(m): 10:01pm On Apr 14, 2023
Poor broke girls with only toto to offer kills my feelings for Nigerian girls...well grin the great mosdii once said "Nigerian girls are useless,all of them" grin
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by ukaface(f): 10:06pm On Apr 14, 2023
Airlord2030:
you must learn a lesson cool
The pettiness

I must have really dealt with you o, so I won’t take you serious rather I’ll laugh at you cos it will be obvious you’re seeking for closure.

Pele dear
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Silentgroper(m): 10:16pm On Apr 14, 2023
SonofGod231:

cheesy grin grin So you know...Netflix and chill typa sh8t for 9ja babe?! cheesy



9ja babe are too basic ..


If she reason am go far.. na her problem be that...



Not like it still not going to happen
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by OriOko88(m): 10:18pm On Apr 14, 2023
spiceadole:
He asked me for money.

No way a man could get a dime off me
Buh u could get some dime off him rt. How hyperbolic cheesy

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Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:18pm On Apr 14, 2023
SonofGod231:

Any decent guy would want to have you in his house abi you prefer ram for hotel?!
When women are unmarried in their mid-thirties, they will settle for any thing and marry a man that they would have previously ignored.
This shouldn't be your case,so go back to the first guy and do the needful.

Can you imagine the quantity of my body count by now if I did anything with the first guy? Mind you, none of them wanted to continue anything again once I didn't visit.

When me I'm looking for relationship, some guys want to use me to satisfy their lust
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:19pm On Apr 14, 2023
nairanaira12:


Hope you didn't collect money from them?

I always thought it was sex first, money later. As we didn't have the sex...
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:20pm On Apr 14, 2023
tiswell:
there is something you aren't telling us.

How come they all followed the same pattern?

I'm an emotional creature. Emotional connections, more than sexual bonding, is very important to me.
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:21pm On Apr 14, 2023
abobote:

You have probably missed your husband by forming hard to get

I think that's a good thing.

I wouldn't want my husband to be a cheap man either
Re: Ladies, What Killed Your Feelings For A Guy? by Sixfeetbelle: 10:24pm On Apr 14, 2023
Fira09:

Lies😒

Hi, Fira. 👋

I don't think we've been properly introduced yet. I'm Belle, and you are?

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