ejitest1:
A married woman has expressed her desire to sleep with other men as she is now bored with her husband.

"Am maried but another preeq don dey hungry me, faithful maried women pis hw una take dy do am abeg, my husbnd no to get my time he no dy too last 4 bed but he's nice."

Foolishness gone on rampage, is she married for sex or there's something better

Mrtaye:

It's not about argument here okay...we are talking about the basics here no be every time be woke woke ....we have q lot of very young nairalanders here and it's all about education and being specific that is to say while I was growing up in nursery/primary school in the 80s/90s we were thought in social studies the 3 types of marriage namely Monogamy, polygamy and polyandry shikena so don't lump it up let's be specific

Lol, go to google polyandry falls under polygamy it is not separate but under polygamy.
Nigeria's education system is really faulty. Stop arguing and take correction it has nothing to do with "woke". You were taught rubbish, that is how they taught us that abortion killls which is a lie instead it is unsafe abortion that can kill. You unlearn and relearn stop defending the indefensible.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy
Learn.

JustforMen:


Men and women are different!

The consequences of sex are different for each gender and this is not even about superiority or discrimination.

Just like only women get to mensturate and carry babies.

Secondly, if one man sleeps with and impregnates a 1000 women, for example, the paternity of all 1000 little imps is clear and under no dispute. But if a woman sleeps with just two different men, the paternity of the outcome cannot be decided by the mother.

Thirdly, a cunt requires just ONE egg per ovulation to make a child while a nigga needs to pour out atleast a million swimmers to have the probability of making a child.

Lastly, commitment in a sexual relationship is in the best interest of the female species to optimise the probability of the protection and survival of her offsprings.

BUT ... it is a free world to try things out. The experiment might produce interesting outcomes to shape the future of scientific enquiry.

NB: I only spoke from the evolutionary biological and human psychological perspectives... personally, I like women, different women...all fine and shapely. I no dey hide mouth.

sorry, na HO mek me write all diz garbage otherwise, na snore I suppose to the snore now!

Matter what a woman can ascertain the father of a child because she knows who swims at the right time

frozen70:


Forget about the part that she is married
Some married women also thinks the same way just like her, especially when their spouse can't do the needful

We don't have to pretend when a fact is said out

Assuming she is properly handled by her husband, she won't send this out

Sex is one thing that must be fulfilled and once you don't get it right, it creates problem especially on women

The same way men wants to enjoy sex, women wants it too and even wants it more because the urge doesn't really come all the time due to some factors

But for the fact that they have the ability to suppress it, makes it look as if they don't want it

She just said what is in her mind, it's not for cloud chasing

I wish her hubby can step up and make her feel like a woman

Though I don't support her getting it out

Once a woman starts ovulation after menstruation that's the correct time to hit

Gamusgamus:
It shall never be well with hackers, how can you hack into peopies account and start attempting to destroy there marriages, what shall it profit you , remember the universal law of karma

ROFLMAO

OsuIgboIpob:

Lol
Guilty conscience
What's your bodycount?
Are you proud of it?
Can you tell your partner or father the truth if they asked?
If it's not so a big deal, why you lie about the real figure?

Again, when I was young, we used to call people who think such as you do mumuni or bongafish brain! Hope that helps!

Teymanhenry:

Men feel they can do that and get away with it because they foot 90% of the bills. If you have a relationship where responsibilities are shared 50/50 then the man would get scared of the idea of cheating

Maybe you are right.

G00DHardDick:


Mu.mu simp! What a simp man you are!

Stupidity taken too far! Oga a woman can never be satisfied. If you like do all these and kill yourself, nothing will stop her from going outside to explore other dicks. Only fools and simps try to please women in other not to lose her. Are you the fool?

Wonder233, in all you do, avoid simps like this. Divorce that olosho now else get ready for more cheating. Na another man Pekin you go train

So what can we do to please them?

victorVIC1:
This is often as a result of severe stress. Imagine what most people that are working in Lagos go through to provide for their family.

You leave home as early as 6am to enable you beat traffic then you get back home at night. Consequently, you're completely worn out. How you wan take perform like German machine?
In conclusion, it's very important that partners engage when having dissatisfactions cos without communications, no marital bliss. Unfortunately, some partners don't do this, they rather express their grievances on social media where their partners may not even be aware

communication is the way to what now?

ROFLMAO

Arabk25:
Well to me I don't really blame the woman but then again she should have call the husband and explain things to him that's the power of communication the would understand her feelings then maybe work on it

Explain her sexual frustration to a husband who probably knows there is a problem but is maybe reluctant to seek help on his part?

Kobojunkiee:
communication is the way to what now?

ROFLMAO

If madam feel say oga no dey perform up to expectation, e no right for madam to express her mind to Oga? Unfortunately, a lot of couples are lacking in this regards. Na their friends dem go dey tell their mind. A lot of men also do same

Strech:
I Know say na only Igbo women fit do this nonsense... when I dey serve for Abia state na so my co corpers dey carry married women go Slaughter house..they where even practically begging me to sleep with them, but I never did, cos of implications.

What's the implications?

2mch:

It’s not mostly stress. It’s bad lifestyle and pride. Many egos are easily bruised when it comes to non functional manhood. Also age does play a factor and women start to approach their peak after 40. While men who are unhealthy have had at least 20yrs of bad eating, drinking and womanizing. At 40 a lot of them can’t last or perform. It’s just the fact. Also, some have health problem that they refuse to address no matter how much the wife complain.

ROFLMAO

victorVIC1:
■ If madam feel say oga no dey perform up to expectation, e no right for madam to express her mind to Oga? Unfortunately, a lot of couples are lacking in this regards. Na their friends dem go dey tell their mind. A lot of men also do same

From the much I know, many women do communicate these things too but the problem is men tend to have ego issues when it comes to their performance and are quick to chuck it up to stress and the many other excuses we hear. Sadly, only a minute number seek help for the problem before it becomes a problem in the marriage.

Also, how many of these men and woman inform your friends when they are themselves the problem -- the partner inadequate in bed?

Hassanmaye:

Once a woman starts ovulation after menstruation that's the correct time to hit

What are you hitting

We are talking about sexual satisfaction not getting pregnant

They are too different things

wonder233:
I'm not kidding. My wife that we dated for four years, went and spent night with another guy just four months into the marriage.

How did you know?

ejitest1:
A married woman has expressed her desire to sleep with other men as she is now bored with her husband.

"Am maried but another preeq don dey hungry me, faithful maried women pis hw una take dy do am abeg, my husbnd no to get my time he no dy too last 4 bed but he's nice."

Curiosity kills.
I'll advice she sticks to her husband.
They both need to spice up their sex life.
Also she needs to pray to God to quench that spirit of lust.

Hassanmaye:

What's the implications?

my father will always say! Son!!! If you want to stay long in this space called Earth, never you sleep with another man's wife.. Besides it's a decree in my lineage. Please do not mention me again .I have headeache.

Strech:
my father will always say! Son!!! If you want to stay long in this space called Earth, never you sleep with another man's wife.. Besides it's a decree in my lineage. Please do not mention me again .I have headeache.

Lol I won't mention you, but this your statement.. Why is the implications only on women, do you know how many married men sleep with young girls in universities and colleges? Personally I have a friend who's married but sleep around And he sees nothing wrong with that, is just Normal to them, didn't he also took a vow?

She told me she was going to visit her female colleague for the weekend, starting from after work on Friday evening. Infact, she had been telling me all week.
I coincidentally saw the same female colleague when I went to pick my car from the mechanic workshop, the lady did not see me. So I called my wife and asked her if she was with the lady and she said yes, so I said lets move the call to video, that I wanted to say hi to the lady. She said the lady is in the kitchen...later, she called back and put the phone very close to her face, I said, let me see the lady na. She was angry that why am I sounding as if I'm suspecting her, that she is very offended, etc etc. I just smiled and didn't say anything else. This was Saturday morning.
So, she cut short the visit and came home on Saturday night, and started trying to find out what I have discovered (for her decide whether to keep up the lie or modify it), so I told her I saw the other girl at the mechanic workshop and I that for her to lie meant she was with someone she wasn't supposed to be with. So, I think at that point, she realized the best option for her was to tell the truth halfway (not the whole truth) - what I mean is that, she admitted it was a guy (true), but that there was no sex (lie).

Iamsane:


How did you know?

Mallam Hassan, it is not correct. if two men sleep with a woman within a 72hrs window, any of the two can be the father of the child because the sperm from any of them can fertilize her eggs and she has no way of knowing.

Hassanmaye:

Matter what a woman can ascertain the father of a child because she knows who swims at the right time

1. No. I wouldn't have.

2. I didn't have any suspicions at all initially. It wasn't the first time she had told me she was going for work related events overnight. The last one before this was Easter period, where she said they told them to wait behind on Thursday overnight to Good Friday evening for "meeting". I didn't suspect anything. Didn't call on video, nothing.
I only got suspicious in this cos she was even the one that mentioned the girl being around - someone I could see in my front!

3. About the guy's identity: I don't care to know. That part has nothing to do with me.
I didn't ask. Initially, she by herself said he's an old friend, later when her mother came, she said its a colleague she just started talking to in the office. Neither scenario means anything to me. Thats not my problem.

4. Marital status. Again I don't know and it has nothing to do with me.
When her mum was questioning her, seems its a single guy.

Klass99:


No vex, your story is interesting so a few more questions please;

1. If she said she wasn't with her female colleague when you called, would you have still suspected something? As in, if she said no I'm at her place but she went out.

2. Did you have a feeling that something wasn't right once you saw her colleague at the mechanic's?

3. Was the guy an ex boyfriend, lover or a coworker she was starting something new with?

4. Is he married or single? I hear married folks prefer to cheat with other married people, because all parties involved know what's at stake........and I'm wondering how true this is.

Kobojunkiee:
Again, when I was young, we used to call people who think such as you do mumuni or bongafish brain! Hope that helps!

Ọdẹ

wonder233:
She told me she was going to visit her female colleague for the weekend, starting from after work on Friday evening. Infact, she had been telling me all week.
I coincidentally saw the same female colleague when I went to pick my car from the mechanic workshop, the lady did not see me. So I called my wife and asked her if she was with the lady and she said yes, so I said lets move the call to video, that I wanted to say hi to the lady. She said the lady is in the kitchen...later, she called back and put the phone very close to her face, I said, let me see the lady na. She was angry that why am I sounding as if I'm suspecting her, that she is very offended, etc etc. I just smiled and didn't say anything else. This was Saturday morning.
So, she cut short the visit and came home on Saturday night, and started trying to find out what I have discovered (for her decide whether to keep up the lie or modify it), so I told her I saw the other girl at the mechanic workshop and I that for her to lie meant she was with someone she wasn't supposed to be with. So, I think at that point, she realized the best option for her was to tell the truth halfway (not the whole truth) - what I mean is that, she admitted it was a guy (true), but that there was no sex (lie).

You talk too much!!! Go and divorce na, you're busy explaining to unmarried people. Mchewwww

wonder233:
She is not catching cruise. Its the fact. Women get bored of having just one sexual partner in marriage. I have seen it first hand. Upon all my knacks, styles, lasting in bed, big gbola, good loving, helping out in chores, all round support. My wife still went to spend night with a guy, and by chance I got to find out. And after initially trying to blame me for "pushing her", she later owned up that she was just bored and needed a new flame. And started trying to bobo me that there was no sex, that the guy (her colleague in the office) was just a friend. That she just needed a space to clear her head. I said all those na story for the gods. Clear your head from what? when we were all happy and laughing all week, knack Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday back to back cos its ovulation period. Then Friday, you up and comfortably spend the night with another guy, without blinking. You see how DNA problems start? Well, the marriage is done. Its a pity cos she was a nice person. But this crossed the line and I'm no simp.

Boss man, first, I want to commend you for standing your ground and throwing her out.

Why should a married lady visit a guy in the first place?

Whatever business they have can be done in a neutral open place.

Not to talk of a married lady spending the night with a guy!

What is this generation turning into?



Thank God no child yet, so it will be much easier to cut her off.

Please and please, DON'T EVER take her back, even, cut off all communications with her.

This your case just weak me aswear.
Is there still hope for single guys?

Like I'm highly discouraged about marriage o.

You'll be there for them, satisfying them in all angles, still yet, they misbehave!

My God

What do ladies want?

I give up o.

How man wan take marry now 🙆🏾‍♂️

Hassanmaye:

So what can we do to please them?

Read my comment very well son. You don't please a woman because no amount of pleasing them will ever satisfy them. Let her be the one to please you and always make you happy. A real niggar knows the above and live a very maximum comfortable and peaceful life

wonder233:
She told me she was going to visit her female colleague for the weekend, starting from after work on Friday evening. Infact, she had been telling me all week.
I coincidentally saw the same female colleague when I went to pick my car from the mechanic workshop, the lady did not see me. So I called my wife and asked her if she was with the lady and she said yes, so I said lets move the call to video, that I wanted to say hi to the lady. She said the lady is in the kitchen...later, she called back and put the phone very close to her face, I said, let me see the lady na. She was angry that why am I sounding as if I'm suspecting her, that she is very offended, etc etc. I just smiled and didn't say anything else. This was Saturday morning.
So, she cut short the visit and came home on Saturday night, and started trying to find out what I have discovered (for her decide whether to keep up the lie or modify it), so I told her I saw the other girl at the mechanic workshop and I that for her to lie meant she was with someone she wasn't supposed to be with. So, I think at that point, she realized the best option for her was to tell the truth halfway (not the whole truth) - what I mean is that, she admitted it was a guy (true), but that there was no sex (lie).

I hope that olosho isn't still living in your house till now? She cannot be commiting all these crimes and still be living under your roof. Send the prostitut.e away from your house, for she belongs to the streets

JustforMen:
Mallam Hassan, it is not correct. if two men sleep with a woman within a 72hrs window, any of the two can be the father of the child because the sperm from any of them can fertilize her eggs and she has no way of knowing.

This is very dangerous then

Kobojunkiee:
If only we would also give this same advice to all men who think having a side chicken makes sense.

Men are polygamous in nature.

The earlier your junkie head wakes up to this reality the better for you.

bukatyne:


So it should only be seen by the group members however a member of the group posted it in public?

It now makes sense.

You get it.

Ladyhippolyta88:

Lol, go to google polyandry falls under polygamy it is not separate but under polygamy.
Nigeria's education system is really faulty. Stop arguing and take correction it has nothing to do with "woke". You were taught rubbish, that is how they taught us that abortion killls which is a lie instead it is unsafe abortion that can kill. You unlearn and relearn stop defending the indefensible.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy
Learn.

Probably you went to a jelesinmi where they didn't teach you the differences hence your confusion