Even if u finally settle down the relationship won't last,seek for other girls outside do dis it is for your own good

LastProphet:
Any day your brother and his wife get problem in future, you too will get. Walk away. There are millions of women

This reason is exactly why it is frown upon. Many people know that it is wrong but they can't pinpoint why it is wrong.
If there is problem between one couple, it may affect the other couple as individuals might want to take side with his or her blood.

EmiDon11:
She get big yansh abi?

thou art a legend

advanceDNA:
Pple wey normal for this world no reach 3 again...

walai, just me and mama faith and my mum

LoveJesus87:
walai, just me and mama faith and my mum

Killbillz:
Love is the most abused word in today's world

Aswear
Any small likeness, they term it LOVE

stopthecycle:


Ask your mama

You are funny


You brought a pervert case to nl, and you are abusing


Deliver yourself from sexual debauchery

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

You guys are NOT related

Gboom:
Look elsewhere, don't let infatuation lead you to abomination

people like you just follow custom and tradition with no sense, who made it an abomination? you dont know, you just follow them say them say like mumu

its an abomination? says who? na my mama tell me....did you ask? use the brains God gave you.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Will you like your younger brother dating your wife's younger sister? Certain things do not have to be illegal to avoid. You are about to mess up big time.

My advice?

Codedly enjoy the fruit of the valley of good and evil and run.

But I have seen a man who married two sisters from same family. So how is this a taboo pls?

stopthecycle:


In Yoruba culture, can't two brothers marry two sisters at the same time? Like in the case of twins marrying twins?

Dude's blinded by love, y not take a short break and avoid seeing her for a awhile see if you will still have a heart for her.

stopthecycle:


Can you explain why its an abomination?

Advising someone like you whose mind is made up already on the course of action to follow is a waste of time.

You know the truth and just not ready to follow it plus you're blinded by whatever is pushing you towards your quarry.

ruggedboych:


Them say you be man

Is that correct

Nairaland and rumours lol

2015 they said I wear butt pads now I am a man I have seen it all. Lol don’t listen to them I am a beautiful woman.

If it's not a taboo to Mary a cousin sister, how is it now a taboo to marry sister in-law? Go ahead.

Where I come from, it is believed that once one of you is married from a particular family, all family members of the bride and groom family are now one family. So, it no longer allowed for marriage or dating to occur between anyone from both families. In my village in particular, it went as far as the clan entirely (we divide our village into clans and clans into smaller clans and smaller clans into extended families and then into smaller family units. Until my uncle wanted to get married last year, if you were from my extended family, which is our past 4th generation (i.e, the great great grand father of my father). You cannot marry from a family my uncle married from. But that law was reversed bringing it down to only my family unit made up of only my great grand father. We all don't like that law anyway, but they always say the elders are wise. So my advice for you is that you should ask your elders and from your brother's wife side too. Act based on what they advice. I would personally advocate for complete removal of some customs and traditions that were formed at a time when there was no or little civilization, but that would take a very long time to come to effect, fighting that cause would only make you unhappy at the end.

Op is a very rude person from what I have seen here. He is too serious with life. Most people here just dey catch cruise. Any comment that doesn't sit well with you, ignore it and move on. U must not abuse people

Something is telling me she has flashed her toto severally at your randy eyes and your preek has been nodding approval waiting for you to lead it into temptation.

You can fvck her though but don't think of marrying her.

E get as e be.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

You are not related by blood, but pls, no go f**ck her o. Let the love grow formally withing fornication. Are u ready for marriage? If yes, discuss with your brother and the elders.

EmiDon11:
She get big yansh abi?

Of course. What is life without Big Soft Yansh? That's a worthless life nah

G00DHardDick:


This type of culture needs to be abolish ASAP.

I think it's your head that needs evaluation

N3TRAL:
It's legally okay to fvck and marry your Sister-in-law.

It's traditionally okay to fvck and marry your Sister-in-law.

Be a man, take off her panties and fvck her already.

Ensure she moans to the highest heavens.

Suck her, lick her, kiss her, caress her body and make her go crazy, boy.

Send her cards, flowers and cakes.

She's calling you , answer her.

You're such a good boy, you know?

Eyinju112:
How is it a taboo? Well ask the elders as we learn everyday. But I feel nothing bad about it.

Very mature response

maasoap:


This reason is exactly why it is frown upon. Many people know that it is wrong but they can't pinpoint why it is wrong.
If there is problem between one couple, it may affect the other couple as individuals might want to take side with his or her blood.

Another reason: Mostly women marrying in the same family usually see themselves as rival and become competitive and as such they are always having problem with each other. So marrying your brother's wife sister may be a bad idea, they may year your family apart

maasoap:


May be he should secretly satisfy his curiosity.

Your personal opinion.
I never suggested that.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Instead of you to say you want to fvck your sister-in-law, you are writing grammar

Good people, his only concern is after sleeping with his sister-in-law and dumping her sorry ass, the fallout that may follow. He only came here for validation.

Fvck her and dump her and brace yourself for the shistorm that follows when she confides in your brothers wife.

Na only once man dey die.

cescky:


people like you just follow custom and tradition with no sense, who made it an abomination? you dont know, you just follow them say them say like mumu

its an abomination? says who? na my mama tell me....did you ask? use the brains God gave you.

It really shows you lack home training, and you are miserable human being.

I don't see anything wrong in it.

Infatuation not love! That thing that is driving you after her will one day drive you to sleep with your brother's wife is just the beginning.
The silent spirit in you is envying your brother and want to keep you busy with her sister first. You still have time to defeat that spirit before you embarras your family. A word is enough for the wise!

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Dude, I married under the same circumstances, and we now have beautiful kids. There's no taboo there, just human imposed restrictions. Go for what you want, or remain in regret forever.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

I hope you see this. You are not related by blood. Yes, you can marry her. the things you should avoid are having an affair with your brother's wife, two sisters, a mother and daughter, etc. But, fornication is a sin and has consequences. If you wish to marry her, then mention it to your elders.

bottom line, it is not an abomination to marry your brother's wife's sister, not an abomination. It happens, even in Igboland.

i sight you, na type of u dey stare at nyash enter road for okada

Vinnie2000:


OP, which Love

She has attractive Face, boobs and Yanch and you urge to Fcvk her.

Talk True, Make Devil Shame.