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stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

I know two friends that married each other's sisters in lagos. There is nothing wrong accept you just want to f.uck her and leave her heart broken in the future. Go ahead if the feeling is mutual and genuine.

Mind your business

OloyeVIII:
Are you folks ok? Is she the only girl in the world? Guy i have lots of in-laws like that & i dey always form bros for them, i no even dey notice who fine, i no even know their names. No go make dem naked una reach village square!

I see.
His brother can marry from that family but suddenly when it comes to him, the sister is off limits ?

Nonsense.

There are no religious limits to him going forward. No medical issues. No common sense blockers. Just you backwards people.


He’s talking about someone who’s unlike any girl he’s ever met before and you’re saying he can easily find someone else like that. How ?

EmiDon11:
She get big yansh abi?

😂😂😂😂😂

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.
But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

Not really a taboo but the future might be problematic because of family politics. Even if everyone in both family give their consent, I still think there will be a lot of issues in the future. Culture will play a significant role in so may issue that may come afterward.

stopthecycle:
In Yoruba culture, can't two brothers marry two sisters at the same time? Like in the case of twins marrying twins?

Baba, dey play, dey play, deyy playyy, deyyy playyyy....

It is not a taboo in my place. As a matter of fact two brothers can marry twin sisters but that does not make it universal so kindly ask your kinsmen

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

In my culture two blood sisters marry two blood brothers and its normal

If you mean well for her, it's cool but if you don't mean well, pls leave that family alone and go far away..
Do not spoil the good relationship your brother has with his inlaw because of your worldly selfish desires

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

There is nothing like taboo there.Engage her my guy and tell your family that you want to see her family.

texazzpete:
I see.
His brother can marry from that family but suddenly when it comes to him, the sister is off limits ?

Nonsense.

There are no religious limits to him going forward. No medical issues. No common sense blockers. Just you backwards people.


He’s talking about someone who’s unlike any girl he’s ever met before and you’re saying he can easily find someone else like that. How ?

There are about 7 fvcking billion people on the planet, thats farking how! He should come hangout with me mane! My girls don't give head, they give brains!

Bro... It's not a Taboo... Just be sure what you feel for Her is love.
Then go for her.

One of our major problems in African is Taboo... Taboo this, Taboo that.

So as your brother was doing marriage rights you were busy looking at your sister in-law nyash abi? Comman make heaven lemme see

stopthecycle:
Not all men are he-goats like you Sir. I'm sorry Sir.

Vawulence 24/7

Gboom:
The moment your brother married from that family, he automatically become a relative to the family. Simply your brother become an elder brother to that girl in question and she became your sister by virtue of your brother relationship with her.

Mind you, I'm speaking from Yoruba culture perspective, I don't know whether other culture allowed it

Which kind elder brother bull shit, i beg marry her you really like her, there is no harm done.

stopthecycle:
So my elder brother just got married to the Love of his Life. I got to know his wife's family about two months before they got married. The lady has a younger sister who is super attractive, intelligent and nice. We've been talking for a long time and got close and we really like each other.

But I feel we are doing something wrong. Is it okay to date my Sister in law? Some people keep telling g me it's a taboo. I need advice...

The two of una don dey chook already. Wetin you want make we talk again?

advanceDNA:
Pple wey normal for this world no reach 3 again...

Am telling u

I even thought is sister in law as in ur brother's wife.

BluntCrazeMan:
Ok naa..

Your brother's wife’s sister is actually Not your sister-in-law.

Your own wife's sister is the one who is supposed to be your sister-in-law.

I like this thoughts...

It doesn't mean anything, but definitely, share with you brother.

In Yoruba land ,it is a taboo.. don't try nonsense

BluntCrazeMan:
Ok naa..
Your brother's wife’s sister is actually Not your sister-in-law.
Your own wife's sister is the one who is supposed to be your sister-in-law.

OLODO

Trustworthiness:
You need to provide evidence to what you said regarding no culture, tradition, religion forbade it before you can say it is allowed.

The evidence is on you, you are the one that have to refute this claim and show me evidence that such exist.
What evidence do you want?
Do you want me to list all the religion and tribe or culture that shows people marrying their inlaw?

seglabsy:
OLODO

Whatever you think is good for you, it's good for you abbegg..

Don't infest me with NONSENSE..

soundOsonic:
Not true they are not related, so why can't they marry.
There is no law or custom or tradition or culture that forbids marriage between in-laws.

there may be not be official customary or traditional law but there are what we call unwritten acceptable principles. So my brother in law are also my in laws. If u have trouble and I have trouble in marriage so to speak, we go the same family. He no make sense na. U self think am

deyplay:
there may be not be official customary or traditional law but there are what we call unwritten acceptable principles. So my brother in law are also my in laws. If u have trouble and I have trouble in marriage so to speak, we go the same family. He no make sense na. U self think am

Oga no unwritten law and custom.
You can marry into your inlaw family.

It isn't incest, so why on Earth should it be a taboo?

OloyeVIII:
There are about 7 fvcking billion people on the planet, thats farking how! He should come hangout with me mane! My girls don't give head, they give brains!

Thank you for proving my point.

He doesn’t want your oloshos. He’s found someone he thinks is beautiful, intelligent and witty and who he can have stimulating conversations with.

You are blabbing about getting blowjobs from empty headed bimbos.

Massive difference.

deyplay:
there may be not be official customary or traditional law but there are what we call unwritten acceptable principles. So my brother in law are also my in laws. If u have trouble and I have trouble in marriage so to speak, we go the same family. He no make sense na. U self think am

So he should leave who he’s really attracted to because of the off chance of future quarrels that he’s supposed to have at the same time as his brother?


Really? Thats your position?

texazzpete:
Thank you for proving my point.

He doesn’t want your oloshos. He’s found someone he thinks is beautiful, intelligent and witty and who he can have stimulating conversations with.

You are blabbing about getting blowjobs from empty headed bimbos.

Massive difference.

Pure rubbaish!.. empty headed bimbos you can't afford.. Move!

soundOsonic:
Oga no unwritten law and custom.
You can marry into your inlaw family.

It isn't incest, so why on Earth should it be a taboo?

give me one real example of one person you know

maasoap:
This reason is exactly why it is frown upon. Many people know that it is wrong but they can't pinpoint why it is wrong.
If there is problem between one couple, it may affect the other couple as individuals might want to take side with his or her blood.

I have seen it severally, many of us old people here on NL are just here to help society have sense

Gboom:
Tell me why it's not true

Because it's not a taboo. The guy and the lady can marry because they're not related by blood.

Na una dey create unnecessary problems for una self.

Let’s look at it from this perspective. Your brother’s children will call her Aunty while they call you uncle. Now how will the kids describe your union?? “ my Aunty got married to my uncle” 😂🤭