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1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

you haven't got any of them yet

And you may lose them both.

Puremind1225:
you haven't got any of them yet

please explain what you mean

I wonder why some guys get married or consider getting married to their classmates. Most classmates are agemates, I can never get married to my agemate. Most women age faster than men, later in life your wife would look like your elder sister or mum.


I met some of my secondary school classmates sometime ago, you won't even believe we were classmates. They all look more matured than me, fat and all that......My girlfriend even called one aunty . I know I will also call their husbands bros because I am very sure they'll be far older than me.

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Go for the one that Appreciates you more and always looking out for your interest and willing to help you grow.

tell them you like them and want a relationship, first, their response and reaction will let you know the one you are in her heart

Puremind1225:
tell them you like them and want a relationship, first, their response and reaction will let you know the one you are in her heart

Good idea boss. Thanks

pryme:
Go for the one that Appreciates you more and always looking out for your interest and willing to help you grow.

Both have been usefull to me in various ways

Bahamas95:
I wonder why some guys get married or consider getting married to their classmates. Most classmates are agemates, I can never get married to my agemate. Most women age faster than men, later in life your wife would look like your elder sister or mum.


I met some of my secondary school classmates sometime ago, you won't even believe we were classmates. They all look more matured than me, fat and all that......My girlfriend even called one aunty . I know I will also call their husbands bros because I am very sure they'll be far older than me.

Omo!!! The classmate is like 2yrs younger

Puremind1225:
tell them you like them and want a relationship, first, their response and reaction will let you know the one you are in her heart

What if both of them accept without hesitation?

AllMight:
Omo!!! The classmate is like 2yrs younger

Ok, personally 2yrs is too close. I want the age gap between me and my wife to be at least 8yrs difference.

Bahamas95:
I wonder why some guys get married or consider getting married to their classmates. Most classmates are agemates, I can never get married to my agemate. Most women age faster than men, later in life your wife would look like your elder sister or mum.


I met some of my secondary school classmates sometime ago, you won't even believe we were classmates. They all look more matured than me, fat and all that......My girlfriend even called one aunty . I know I will also call their husbands bros because I am very sure they'll be far older than me.

your young girlfriend wont get old too Is marriage all about looks So if a lady is family oriented, builder and manager of finances, good mother material etc. na young tik tok slay queen you go pick over her

The one in America. Do you know her values and mindset Has she been to Nigeria before How una wan meet to get to know each other Ogbeni Toyin na you future wife

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Explore both

The one that agrees and gives you peace


Follow that one

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

None is suitable.
You don't know if they have other admirers and they ll take them before you.
That's how a guy was disturbing saying he loved me since 2020 and he didn't know why he didn't come early. Too late for the poor boy

ednut1:
you young girlfriend wont get old too Is marriage all about looks So if a lady is family oriented, builder and manager of finances, good mother material etc. na young tik tok slay queen you go pick over her

A young girl could also possess the aforementioned qualities.

Nor be every adult get sense, I also see "adults" everyday on social media flaunting big bumbum. I can't get married to an old cargo because she's a wife material. I don't joke with a woman's looks, I wanna come home from work everyday and smile by just staring at my princess..... Everybody will definitely get old someday, but I must enjoy her beauty while it lasts.

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Number 2 has more potential....

Bahamas95:
A young girl could also possess the aforementioned qualities.

Nor be every adult get sense, I also see "adults" everyday on social media flaunting big bumbum. I can't get married to an old cargo because she's a wife material. I don't joke with a woman's looks, I wanna come home from work everyday and smile by just staring at my princess..... Everybody will definitely get old someday, but I must enjoy her beauty while it lasts.

then when she gets old you replace her with regina daniels kind babe?

AllMight:
Both have been usefull to me in various ways

Then ditch the long distance relationship.

ednut1:
then when she gets old you replace her with regina daniels kind babe?

It's obvious you don't understand my point.

If the age difference between my wife and I is 8yrs I can't be regarded as her "ancestor" like in the case of Ned. I want a situation where I would look slightly older than her at old age, not the other way round.

Go for number 2 Number 1 have the highest chances of ending in disaster. Her mom trying to matchmake her will ruin everything eventually

Pictures please

Goodlady:
None is suitable.
You don't know if they have other admirers and they ll take them before you.
That's how a guy was disturbing saying he loved me since 2020 and he didn't know why he didn't come early. Too late for the poor boy

God saved the poor boy, actually.

Zonefree:
God saved the poor boy, actually.

I swear your village people ll chase you in your dreams before Salah.
See his head!

Bahamas95:
What if both of them accept without hesitation?

You choose the one that likes you more.

what if they both say no?

Go for the one with more money

If you're in Nigeria and one is in the states, how is it going to work? Why is she an option?

If both of them were your sisters, who would you recommend to a person of your personality?