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Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 6:01pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:Do you usually apologise after using those hurtful words? |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 6:02pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Octopusssy: Yeah I do I always apologize |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by madscientist88(m): 6:06pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
she is gone, didn't you listen to womans worth by Alicia keys? she is gone she has finally conquered her demons by accepting that she cant change you even after offering you her virginity if my deductions are correct.you cant be calling a lady you intend to burden your pains names for apparently no tangible reasons,about your temper you need to go for an anger management class 7 years is no joke.but why call her a prostitute?how could you even relate that to her? take life easy bro. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Paulnoma(m): 6:09pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:;Dits in your heart that's why the words come out spontaneously. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 6:10pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
madscientist88: Should I send her a text? |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by GOFRONT(m): 6:13pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
On the other thread, the guy cheated on her virgin wife right ontop of their matrimonial bed. And now this particular Op raining abusive language on his Virgin gf. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by madscientist88(m): 6:36pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:you can try but only if you mean it, sometimes it works |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 6:39pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
madscientist88: Thank you |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by madscientist88(m): 6:52pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:you are welcome and recommend she listens to Alicia keys "fallin",it helps relationships heal,it brings back the purpose of what happens in relationships.good luck. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 7:27pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:It's going to be difficult because apologising now will seem pointless because you have been doing so in the past, and after some time you continue with your abusive words. How do you now convince her that this time you mean to work on yourself? Guy you no try at all. This one hard. Text her. Tell her that you're imperfect and you know that you messed up big time. Tell her you want to work on your anger and bad language, so you need her to help you on the journey. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Godsongang: 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Ogba nne, at what odd brother. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
This op sef. Na wa for you. Your mouth is not good. I can't imagine how hurt she is feeling. Verbal abuse is a deal breaker for me biko |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 7:34pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Octopusssy: She is very hurt never thought my words are affecting her that much I hope things get back to normal she is a good gal |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 7:36pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Octopusssy:Okay I will |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 7:38pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:Of course it will affect her! It will affect anybody. How can you call someone you claim to love such horrible, nasty names? See, don't mind all these online noisemakers. Most of them don't have steady relationships which is why they write the nonsense they spew here. You that you have someone you love, their actions and inactions affect you whether you choose to admit it or not. There is one here that calls himself ubunja. He called your mother, my mother, our mothers the 'Pussy Cartel'. Is that someone you should be listening to? Words are powerful o |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 7:47pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
skj1377:You go fear advice. Are ladies also allowed to date 4 men simultaneously and not invest emotions on any of them? Hm?? Baby polygamist |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Sixfeetbelle: 7:48pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900: Forget it. Forget her. She's gone, bro. She's gone. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 7:57pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle: Can't forget bro she will be back just fvck off okay |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Karlifate: 8:02pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900: You're just an extremist, boy. Keep blaming external party for your actions. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Karlifate: 8:05pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Yugoslavia247: Don't mind him. Instead of taking accountability for his actions, he keeps shifting blames. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 8:05pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Karlifate:I'm not blaming anybody just saying the truth |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 8:08pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Octopusssy: Have sent her the text she has replied what do you think? What should I respond with thank you
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Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Karlifate: 8:09pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Octopusssy: ππ― Someone with sense. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Karlifate: 8:10pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900: Then, you're an extremist. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 8:11pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Karlifate: Okay if you say so thank you |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by johnlaw123(m): 8:22pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
virginprincess:Please next time. Say some nairaland men please, not everyone has that mentality. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Another cry baby thread |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Harrykn: 8:42pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
You don go over do your own, mumu man. How is she a LovePeddler and farm tool when you, yourself confirmed she was a virgin when you met her. Just Dey play, You think say you go see another virgin. welcome to the streets, now nah olosho you go Dey do ππππ |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by frozen70(f): 10:02pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900: You have to use this break to work on your anger issues before you loose even your sanity |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 10:20pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:Reply with "baby, you're the best. I don't deserve you, but I promise to work hard at being the man you deserve." Then for God's sake give her some space so she can work out her emotions. It is better for her to remain in the relationship with her whole heart than. Give her space, but not too much. Admitting your faults doesn't make you a simp. It makes you a wise person because, truth is, we all have our faults. Some are just worse than others. Please, work on yourself. When you're angry, Walk away. There are no points for who get bad mouth pass. Remember my redpiller oga? When he messes up and I start ranting, he keeps silent throughout and then when I cross a line with my words, I start feeling guilty and las las na me dey always apologise because I know that me sef don fvck up. He will freeze me out (on top sey na him provoke me) and then, days later after things have calmed down, he will know stylishly apologise for his own fault. This is after I don shalaye taya. "Guy, this is not fair. Stop this!" "Baby, pick your call. We need to talk" "Oga, if you like don't answer me. That's your own business" Sometimes he replies with "woman, stop nagging!" Or "look, leave me alone". I do most times. Once he responds, I just give him the space he wants. (On top sey na him fΓΌck up). We understand each other π That's redpill. It is slightly manipulative, and he knows that I know, but we respect each other. Tame your anger and your tongue and see how things go. |
Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Miravik900(m): 10:32pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Octopusssy: Okay I sent her this should I still send it to her? thank you
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Re: My Relationship Is At Stake by Octopusssy(f): 10:44pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
Miravik900:Since you've sent it, let her be for the night. Just give her a little space so she can settle down. It will be hard, but that's the way to go if you hope to win her back. Just give her some space. It will also benefit you too so that you can really introspect. For her to insist she needs a break shows how messed up she is feeling so you need to allow her heal from your bad mouth |
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