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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by princeSammyz: 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

You brought this online instead of confronting me? It's over Faith

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by inforesource: 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Run!!!!!!

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Sleekfingers: 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2023

Fake arse story. cheesy

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by blackpanda: 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2023

IyaTola:
I don't understand serious how a guy prefers a fellow guy
No matter how I reason it. It's just disgusting to me

I mean how can't you love pussy na.
How can't you love breast.
Nawa ooo

If u have a friend who is a drug addict, what will u do?..make him go to rehab facility @ YABA LEFT\RIGHT, bah?

Now,u have a hubby to be who is gay, kindly record him in d act and send it to Senate, they will simply enrol him into correctional facility at KIRI-KIRI, not more than 14yrs, he will be corrected

Its not his fault if u ask me, cos in every batch of product in a production line, there's always one wey no make sense, just like in pure water back, u myt see one that has leakage,. So ur hubby has leakage my dear

i dont think you can be more ignorant than this.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by NaijaGoBetter2(m): 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2023

cezarman:
Seems fake

Its fake

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by jcflex(m): 4:48pm On Apr 26, 2023

You said, he is gay.
He is bisexual.

Except you are not telling us the truth, who impregnate you.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 4:48pm On Apr 26, 2023

Sorry, seems like I ran out of English data bundles.

Fira09:
Can't you see 'Husband-to-be'?

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 4:48pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Hope you've gone for HIV test? Gay & bisexual people are far more prone to HIV/AIDS because of anal sex...

Make sure you test yourself first... Don't risk your life staying with a bisexual man.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by danzaki63: 4:48pm On Apr 26, 2023

Let me go and uri . nate first.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Shedking(m): 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Why would a man decided to leave this and go for his fellow man?

I'm yet to understand why and how he will be attracted to his fellow man when we have ladies all over the place

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Sorry, seems like I ran out of English data bundles.

princefrank76:
she clearly said her "husband to be"

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by exotique1fy(f): 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Honestly...

If this story is real, then there are questions you need to answer. You need to examine yourself first and find out what attracted you to a gay man!

Are you in a no sex relationship?

Have both of you discussed sexual compatibility and habits issues?

You are heading down the aisle. At this stage there should be no surprises. You should already know the sexual preferences of your would be husband. Morality should not be an excuse for ignorance.

Shine your eye! Before you attract another gay man grin

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Gandrova: 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Mission aborted, I repeat mission cancelled, I repeat mission scattered.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Lovestrong(m): 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by clockwisereport: 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?

Husband to be

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by GloriousGbola: 4:49pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

since op itself is either les, bi, they/them, but def a member of LGBTQIA+ geng no problem

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by GOVERNORR: 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2023

What if it's a prank cause if for 4 years you never suspected, meaning he was hitting you real good, then won't loose guard his phone at the last minute.

Tf is wrong with people

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by dreamwords: 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

but u are man acording to ur nairaland profile

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2023

Sorry, it seems like I ran out of English data bundles.

miketayo:
or you didnt it properly. she said husband to be

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Trust22(m): 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2023

Am just waiting for the person that will advise this young lady to continue with the marriage...

My dear OP, God loves you so much believe me... U r pregnant for him does not change anything... That's exactly how God planned that u will get ur first child... U don't need to ignore his calls... Pick it, tell him what u found n let him know without emotion that ur relationship is over... Believe me only God can deliver a gay man so don't even think he can easily change.. He is an abomination n if you you can comfortably take care of that child yourself better run away from him permanently for the sake of ur child... But I hope u gathered enough evidence for ur defense.... God loves you my dear.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by fabolouz1(m): 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2023

Looks like it's all made up but if it isn't ,call it off immediately .

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by DAVIDELUXED: 4:50pm On Apr 26, 2023

I hear some azz holes calling it fake story if its the other watly round . Then it will be real.
For your info there ate coded gays.

My advice break up and move on.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by goldenchild03: 4:51pm On Apr 26, 2023

PLEASE RUN as long as you can now.
It's God showing you this now before it's too late. Please RUUUUUN.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by alfa666: 4:51pm On Apr 26, 2023

He's not gay. He's bisexual.

Invite his friend over and enjoy threesum.

What's your problem? Don't be a bigot.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Sicilyjoe: 4:51pm On Apr 26, 2023

He is bisexual not gay

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by achimendy(m): 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

You should be thanking God you find out early.

Just forget that marriage and run from that danger called husband.

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nathan2016: 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

Why are you asking us what to do?

1. Leave him if its a deal breaker for you

2. Confront him on it and ask him if hes ready to commit to you and you only if its not a deal breaker for you.

In every decision, know this:

There are few saint out there.

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Trust22(m): 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

GOVERNORR:
What if it's a prank cause if for 4 years you never suspected, meaning he was hitting you real good, then won't loose guard his phone at the last minute.

Tf is wrong with people

LoL... Even u can stay with a gay man for years without knowing especially if u r not spiritually lifted.... Some of them are actively into both genders

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by onlyboyson(m): 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

Better not enter the marriage or face gbola denial

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Kajaard: 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

Probably another nairaland fake story undecided

Reason I've given up on the forum lately undecided

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by IyaTola: 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

blackpanda:
i dont think you can be more ignorant than this.

Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by clockwisereport: 4:52pm On Apr 26, 2023

Noblegraphix20:
Thank God you found out b4 marriage..
But he will change.. U can also help him to change by praying and also by satisfying him in the ozza room..
Because you can't stop him from hanging out with his males friends

Tastebuds' ex comes to mind.

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