Idaraobong5:
It can be so hurting but I can’t leave my man if he cheats except he is abusive or de cheating is a regular thing

superCleanworks:
Hello wives
please don't mind this guy and his one sided logic. who says you can't leave with your kids and be alright? please leave that marriage as soon as you sense the slightest hint of cheating no matter how much your husband begs you to stay. Leave and don't look back.

We need more single mothers independent women in the society 😁

koladata:
no man willingly stay with only one woman, they all stayed because they have no options and they have to remain faithful to their option.

any man that willingly stay with one woman has medical issue. every healthy man should get erection every morning , every single morning regardless of if she's on her period or in the labor room.

onuman:

Oyibo that brought you the Corinthians one man one wife story no longer marry.
Partnership is it now for Oyibo. And it's legal. Any day woman or man in the partnership says: I can't take it anymore, both go their separate ways. They have established methods to take care of the children of the broken partnership.

Earthstorms:
It hurts when the trust is broken that is why some women leave a cheating husband.

However life later force such women to either become someone else side chick or a second wife. So the women do not really escape sharing the men.

What can the women really do? It is a man's world in Africa so it is more difficult for women to survive and take care of the kids alone. The first mistake they make when leaving is that they take the kids along.

To me, if a woman is leaving a man because he is cheating, she should leave the kids for him and bother only about herself.

talk2hb1:

Moral Of The Story:
1). We men can have side chic under the auspices of helping them out.
2). We Shouldn’t Marry her (our side chic) but keep her for contingency sex satisfaction.
3). Women should accept the fact that side chic has come to stay.
3). Any Woman that left her husband because he is cheating with side chic will end up being side chic
4).


Female Gender don suffer

Adgraced:
A man can easily leave his kids and not look back, but not a mother!!

Earthstorms:


Divorce will affect the children whether they are with the mother or father.

If I were to be a woman, and my husband cheats and I want to leave the marriage, I will be leaving all the children and all the burden from the marriage for the man. Men generally have better finances to cater for the children than women, so why should a woman take on more financial burden after the divorce.

I will not take on avoidable financial burden because a man was unwilling to keep to his vows.

A step mum maltreating the children can happen. But then the man will also see the maltreatment and experience the outcome of his indiscretions.

Odebayo4010:


Is not by Force to obey God word,if you obey it,is for your own good,and moreso accept it or not doesn't make God word vanity

missyblissy:



Not all women. Some women who are not financially capable tend to do stupid stuff to meet their needs. To ms its total crap. Work for your money and call out the bullshits of your boyfriend or husband. Don't depend on him financially cos when you do, you won't want to hurt his feelings so that he stops giving money from time time.

Abeg women are different as all fingers are not equal

qtguru:


Never, I hate dealing with more than 1 woman, you women stress men too much. I'd rather than stick it out with one. Cheating is too much stress. before I was dating, I tried dealing with 2 women and it was the most stressful part of my life.

I'd rather be alone than have multiple women stress my life it's not worth it.

BloomingDale:


For every action, there is a reaction. Who are the men cheating with? Well, they are your wives, mothers, sisters, relatives etc. That’s why I like karma. It does not look at bias explanations.

This world has been perverted to think patriarchy is the normal way of things. Meanwhile, it is supposed to be a martriarchy, because wives are the natural born alphas, whom are supposed to be surrounded and taken care of by her many husbands. That is why the men can get along, but not the women, cos women are territorial and protect their territory .

talk2hb1:

Moral Of The Story:
1). We men can have side chic under the auspices of helping them out.
2). We Shouldn’t Marry her (our side chic) but keep her for contingency sex satisfaction.
3). Women should accept the fact that side chic has come to stay.
3). Any Woman that left her husband because he is cheating with side chic will end up being side chic
4).
Jesu...SC has come to stay..?.....My husband shouldn't try it. 😳😳😳😳😳😳

Female Gender don suffer

damoceile:



How does it goes both ways? Any man left by a woman will always bounce back to marry a better woman, either young or woman with trinities... But same can not be said for vast majority of women..

dazzlingd:


You can cheat the system, get yourself one wife, but bang as many women as you can in your life time. Don’t just get caught by your wife so you can maintain a healthy family. Don’t let your kids find out too so you will keep your respect.
Make plenty money and go on some kind vacations where you can chop your life and what happens there stays there

PreetyAngel4U:



And you bring infections inside the home. Then what was done in secret becomes open. The kids find out eventually, and you loose the respect. Then you die alone with your plenty money.

You people can never think beyond the pleasure abi? Reality will help you.

Earthstorms:
It hurts when the trust is broken that is why some women leave a cheating husband.

However life later force such women to either become someone else side chick or a second wife. So the women do not really escape sharing the men.

What can the women really do? It is a man's world in Africa so it is more difficult for women to survive and take care of the kids alone. The first mistake they make when leaving is that they take the kids along.

To me, if a woman is leaving a man because he is cheating, she should leave the kids for him and bother only about herself.

talk2hb1:

Moral Of The Story:
1). We men can have side chic under the auspices of helping them out.
2). We Shouldn’t Marry her (our side chic) but keep her for contingency sex satisfaction.
3). Women should accept the fact that side chic has come to stay.
3). Any Woman that left her husband because he is cheating with side chic will end up being side chic
4).


Female Gender don suffer

PreetyAngel4U:


Coming from a man, it's obvious.

Some men keep giving women thick skin. Continue, till women begin to multiply and do worse. Then they start shouting, fear women, fear the female gender.

Women will continue to stand up for themselves. That's why we see broken homes in the society. The men cannot take quarter of what they dish out to their women. If the woman just start, they start raising dust.

She is not satisfying you, you claim. You expect your wife to bring money home, clean the house, cook, care for kids, and have sufficient time to look sexy and fresh like someone who just woke up to eat food and sleep? Exchange the roles of a wife with that of a side chick let us see who looks better. You want to use someone daughter till she's a shadow of herself then you tell me you need a side chick?

What if I say she needs a side guy to help her relieve her of the stress you make her pass through? If it is an open marriage, then let everyone do it and you guys remain married.
They'll start saying Yen Yen Yen Yen now.

taneez:


The wives were comfortable with it. Some women who are faithful do not want cheating husbands ( especially virgins). Some who don't mind- the ones that dated married men before marriage or hoes may not mind sharing).

The bottom line is that before you get married tell your fiance. If you like side chic let her know and make her decision. Don't marry then start cheating. If men are not cowards, the least you should do is to be honest with your partner before marriage.

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

dazzlingd:


Pleasure is part of life my dear.

You think that’s not what many men do? Even your pastors do same.
The body of a woman is heaven to the eyes and pleasure to the body, that’s why sex sells.
You play the game well, use protections and ensure the girls you fvk are std free.

NemoDatQuod:
I don't know if you are a serious fellow or not. But you should actually not be toying with your own life.
Here are the verses you say you've been looking for.

The traducers of Jesus Christ had asked him if it is lawful for them to divorce their wives, as they were looking for a way to catch him out.
In verse three of Mark chapter 10, Jesus asked them what Moses had commanded them. In verse four they stated that Moses had allowed them to issue their wives a certificate of dismissal and divorce. Read Jesus' response from verse five to verse 9 thus:

"5 But Jesus said to them: “Out of regard for your hard-heartedness, he wrote this commandment for you. 6 However, from the beginning of creation, ‘He made them male and female. 7 For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother, 8 and the two will be one flesh, so that they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.”

You will notice that Jesus stated the two will be one flesh. He did not say the three or the four in the case of a man marrying two or three wives. He also stated that "He(God) made them male and female". He did not say that God made them male and FEMALES as in a one to many relationship.

It is up to each of us how we exercise our free will. But our manufacturer made us a promise that "he will by no means leave the guilty unpunished" (Exodus chapt 34 verse 7). Those are His own direct words He spoke directly by himself.

I look forward to a life where no one on earth will say "I am sick", because all the people living on earth will be people who have been pardoned for their errors. Isaiah chapter 33: 24

gotnel:


Even, in the bible, it is only stated that you should be husband of one woman if you are a Bishop or a pastor.
The Pastors and Bishops of nowadays are not even obeying the Bible on this law.
How much more an ordinary man, well wired up by God almighty himself.
God help us

Zonefree:

Learn to reduce how you watch Africa Magic. It's affecting your reasoning already.

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

talk2hb1:

Let’s Marry Then