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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Crucialgem(m): 7:43am On May 03, 2023 |
Krak: Shut up joor do you know suicide is a punishable crime under the law. Why will you even contemplate killing a life you don't even own in the first place. Anyone who commit suicide is just a stupid bastard coward 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by SisterAnn(f): 7:48am On May 03, 2023 |
Elizkid:Lawd! Are you serious Are you sure you were not cheating on her and she was so heartbroken and ended it all How can she be your fiancee and yet you didn't know the demons she's had to fight? Killing oneself is not something you arrive at and execute all in same day. Too bad for her family. My condolences. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by MrDoGood(m): 7:52am On May 03, 2023 |
It's well. May her soul rest in peace |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Hopemanfx: 8:05am On May 03, 2023 |
Me and my girlfriend had misunderstanding and There was a time my girlfriend told me that she will kill herself if I breakup with her and she serious about it. Immediately I heard that I have to reset my mind and reconcile with her. During this process I was looking for a way to break up with her in such a way she won't feel the pain.. now we Don move on 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Hopemanfx: 8:07am On May 03, 2023 |
Am 100% sure this OP knows why the girl committed suicide. He does not want to tell us the full story. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by PureFace1(m): 8:34am On May 03, 2023 |
Juliearth: Blame Redpill very typical of women, not ready to take responsibility That redpill movement is a response to how women manipulate men, rob them of their resources and causes them heartache. If you look around that woman i am 100% sure there were some guys that genuinely cared for her but she wouldn't give them any chance. OP can't be blame for another adult human decisions. We all have our shits to take care of 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Juliearth(f): 8:35am On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6: Have you been following the red pill campaign and banters here? Do you think it stops at being stingy and mean towards women alone? I am not saying op is a redpiller, but op may have been able to get her to talk if he had pushed a little bit more or showed extra care and concern, an act that would be tagged a simp move here. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Foodqueen(f): 8:38am On May 03, 2023 |
This is what nairaland has turned you people into, alpha male or bitter male. A nice guy would av done everything to avert this. But this days una no ready to pet girl again. Tell or you Bleep off.... Then you move onto the next 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by advanceDNA: 8:39am On May 03, 2023 |
PureFace1: Resist the urge to shalayè...there's really no point...women dont care about ur explanation cos they prefer stupid men they can exploit...so redpill will never make sense to them even if u explain it in different forms.... but they themselves are low key redpill and also want their son and brothers to be redpill 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 8:39am On May 03, 2023 |
Juliearth: Real redpillers don't have time for online baters against women, real red pillers don't talk much, action speaks louder, most of those noise makers here claiming red pillers here are vegetables simps in real life, the guy that preach about red pill ubunja u can't see him bantering women here, that's not what it's all about. And yes if u see my reply to this post I have blamed op for being insensitive, he should have pressed her more to know what the issue was or at least call people around her to go check up on her before she does something stupid 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by advanceDNA: 8:46am On May 03, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Pet koor.. Bingo nii... When una don turn any small hello and petting to an opportunity to exploit.. u now want to blame the men and nairaland... every body should hustle for their mental health and stop blaming other pple for their fvcked up shiit..... 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by PureFace1(m): 8:57am On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6: Funny you can't see her pathetic attempt to Gaslight you She called redpill men stingy why can't you ask her why Nigerian women feel so entitle to the money of any guy that show interest in them ? We are not their father or Husband and they should go get a job if they are so broke instead of looking for a relationship to siphon money from. Rejecting their manipulation tactics and bad behaviors doesn't also mean we are mean, if we are mean they can always choose from the list of guys orbiting around them that won't say no to all their unreasonable requests and tolerate disrespect from them. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by detectivejones: 9:19am On May 03, 2023 |
You would have called her sister or anyone close to check on her not blaming you though. Take heart and erase the 'if I had known' from your head 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 9:23am On May 03, 2023 |
PureFace1: The truth is, j can't engage women in unnecessary conversation especially when they are trying to gas light me, I know how to handle those lots You are apt |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Juliearth(f): 9:25am On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6: Your assertions have been clearly established. Cheers! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by WantsandMore: 9:36am On May 03, 2023 |
logicalhumour:Dude...read tha room. |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 9:38am On May 03, 2023 |
Zonefree:Swears daun |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 9:40am On May 03, 2023 |
logicalhumour:Deep. I Concur |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chizzychinny: 10:49am On May 03, 2023 |
Sorry for the loss but you should have paid attention. Most times, you guys always think women like attention and always having mood swings but that's not it. Assuming you listened, calm her down, I don't think it would have happened. Anyway, the deed has been done. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Nobody: 11:10am On May 03, 2023 |
She died finding solace where it isn't, she gave herself another chance by reaching out but she was given more reasons to end it all. I've typed it here severally and I will type it again most Nigerian relationships are meaningless. One thing I have noticed with Nigerian relationships ( I don't know if it is the same for other African nationalities) is the closer couples get the more insensitive they become to one another starting with the husband first. It is the reason a husband will not make changes in his wife's mood seriously until she lands in the hospital. Will he stay by her side, most likely no. Op I know when you were at "chyking" stage, ordinary reduction in this lady's voice will prompt your curiosity and you will do all to make sure you lighten up her mood but when she became your partner even the mention of "killing herself " couldn't bring out sympathy from you instead you got angry. You could have switched to video calls, make her smile, and promised her heaven and earth like you did when you wanted to get her to bed for the first. You could have tried to make her laugh, calm her down, and use the charisma you used in wooing her to gain her trust. But instead, you got "angry" because she was wasting your time. Nigerians and hard love, you all should be taught human relations and empathy management like subjects in schools. You lack it. The deed is done, she's gone. I hope you love your next girl better. That is if you know what love is. 12 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Krak(m): 11:22am On May 03, 2023 |
Crucialgem: Your opinion does not invalidate the fact that it's an option. Even people who commit heinous crimes choose them as an option. We have bad options and we have good options. The choice of taking any kind of option rests on the individuals taking them. I am less concerned about the goodness or badness of such options. In our society today, many people have chosen internet fraud and prostitution as options to get out of poverty. You see, there are soo many different kinds and types of options available for us to take at any point in time. And there are soo many other factors that determine the kind of option we eventually decide to take. I hope you understand me. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by eepeepook: 11:27am On May 03, 2023 |
She no pay suicide tax. My friend, resurrect that body! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Makinaki: 11:29am On May 03, 2023 |
Na you kill that poor girl o. I hope you can live with yourself. Heartless man! 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by SIRKAY98(m): 11:30am On May 03, 2023 |
After they have lived there lifes under the dictate and doctrine of devil, after they have chased out the holy spirit, this normally end it, May her soul rest in peace. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by sammirano: 11:32am On May 03, 2023 |
Bipolar disorder |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Elizkid: 11:33am On May 03, 2023 |
Fearjah: It's the bolded. Happened many years ago before we met, but I can't go into the details. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Revolva(m): 11:34am On May 03, 2023 |
nonsense......she want to go where ....owambe party she is an eediot |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by BusinessPlan22: 11:35am On May 03, 2023 |
logicalhumour: U are a uselesss container. Personalize it 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by kingyakos: 11:36am On May 03, 2023 |
Zonefree: Omo una no go kill person here with laff Even serious matter una dey use am catch cruise. I don laff tire for ur funny but true talk |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sltp: 11:36am On May 03, 2023 |
I envy her. Don't be selfish. She's worth celebrating. She's had enough of this meaningless world and was brave enough to do the needful 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by chris51(f): 11:39am On May 03, 2023 |
Very sad though. Anything to do with dead is a very serious matter. You should have alerted her people or take the trouble to see her. Phone talk and one and one talk are not the same 3 Likes 1 Share |
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