flexxyworld:



Look at you trying to prove your point with your scenario. Don't try to make that guy feel any worse, this is an adult here, she had family and friends also. She refused to speak out. Mr bf also has his own battles. Suicide isn't an option and let's learn to open up when we can. Everyone is fighting different battles. Suicide isn't an option to anyone reading this and let's stop feeling entitled that it's someone duty to ensure we are fine and safe
We owe ourself that responsibility first and anyone that really care should be held more dearly.

Sucre6:


Oga sir, all these one doesn't matter as far as his life was saved and ps palm oil doesn't kill anyone, I dont know what u mean here

GogetterMD:


I am telling you in case of a future occurrence. Read about aspiration pneumonia and lipoid pneumonitis to have an idea of how dangerous it could be feeding a person with altered sensorioum or an unconscious person palm oil

Crucialgem:
Suicide is never and would never be an option whatever you are facing someone out there is facing the double if problem doesn't make you why shoild it mar you. She is going to face worse where she is going for taking a life she can't create

Sucre6:


All these your long grammar self, lolls i aff hear 😂

Sltp:
STFU!!!

Crucialgem:
Suicide is never and would never be an option whatever you are facing someone out there is facing the double if problem doesn't make you why shoild it mar you. She is going to face worse where she is going for taking a life she can't create

Sucre6:


This doesn't have anything to do with being a red piller, redpill didn't teach u not to be sensitive and attentive to your loved ones, he acted very childish, someone was sounding off on the phone, common sense should tell u that all wasn't well with her. But insensitiveness made him not to realise that, I am a red piller but I care about those in my life red pill didn't teach u to be insensitive, red pill teaches you not to simp around women.

Being sensitive to woman u claim you love and want to marry isn't simping, it's called caring but op was too insensitive to notice any of that, If he showed care and inquired more by calming her down, maybe, just maybe she would have opened up to him and this death could have been averted

Sucre6:
You claim she is your girlfriend yet u weren't sensitive enough, if truly she's your girlfriend u should have noticed that from the way she spoke that something was definitely up, so u calm her down and get to know what the issue was, any small thing u don vex, u could have averted her death u know, yes I want u to really blame your self, u bleeped up.

Not even talking about my girlfriend, a friend of mine called me one day and was sounding funny, the dude told me that he's done, he's leaving this night, I didn't quite understand what he meant at first but I decided to equire more, he was withholding information, I had to call people around to go check on him, they rushed and saw the guy, laying lifeless on the tiles inside his room, he took snipper already, they force two bottle of red oil down his throat and rushed him to the hospital, thank God he was saved,

Turns out dude was owing plenty lapo and online loans, we gathered money and cleared the bill even before he is discharged from the hospital, dude is happily married now and doing very well financially, thats what friends should be all about, you should be sensitive and observant, it very important

GogetterMD:

It's not long grammar, look at my moniker to have an idea of what I do

mysticwarrior:
Am not sorry for not feeling sorry for her, nobody has the right to take a human life, whether their own life or any other person's life.

Zonefree:
Life is like Owambe, when you're drunk and tired you go home.

Elizkid:


I was attentive and kept asking. She wouldn’t spill, so I got angry and asked my friend to talk to her.

I didn’t know it’d get to this

Krak:


Suicide is an option and some people are clearly taking it. I am tired of Nigerians always repeating the same thing every time as if by rote.

All the people choosing suicide, why are they taking it if it's not an option?

Crucialgem:


Shut up joor do you know suicide is a punishable crime under the law. Why will you even contemplate killing a life you don't even own in the first place. Anyone who commit suicide is just a stupid bastard coward

Elizkid:


She took something but it’s not sniper. I don’t know what it is.

I’ve only spoken with the mum and sister today. I’ve not been able to touch down there myself.

Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

helinues:
You are not an attentive bf. I am not blaming you for her death, but you could have pay more attention.

Sorry for the lose

Oluwasheyijossy:
Wow...so sad to hear that. Reminds me of my ex who once attempted to take her life due to family pressure, called me one night and said she was tired and wanted to end it all, i thought it was a joke initially and kept telling her to stop using death to play, asked her what the issue was and it was same pressure from home for her to build a house for her parents, she's the last child and was just 24yrs, she was away in Dubai while i was in France, suddenly babe did a video call with me and drank sniper on the spot and immediately switched off her phone...mehn it was a night i will never forget. Thank God she survived sha

logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain."
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.

Mjshexy:
what ...why on earth will any parent pressure a 24yr old last child to build a house for them, common that's wickedness and the blood of that girl would have been on their head. But really, I'm scared of people who can easily take their own life without thinking twice, they are capable of killing anyone at a slight provocation and taking their own life too

ChybuzzDD:


You didn't read where he wrote about calling a friend to talk to her, the same thing you claimed to have done in your own case?

Quit this stupid blame games boy.

PattyMike:


Sorry for ur loss. Unfortunately I think suicide victims selfish, cus loved ones bear the brunt and scar from the pain for the rest of their lives. Look at OP for example, he will have to live with this guilt for the rest of this life.
Like what if, What if he had been more patient, what if he had been more attentive, what if he had calmed her down.
Killing yourself to escape the pain and struggles but handing over emotional trauma and scar to loved ones, pinnacle of selfishness I’m sorry.

Elizkid:
My Fiancé called last night and said she wanted to die. She wouldn’t tell me what the problem was.


I got angry and told her to get off the phone if she couldn’t say what her problem was. She said she’s in trouble and would kill herself.

Her sister broke the news to me morning. I’m so down. I should have calmed her down. I should have been patient and listened to her.

But I was just angry because she didn’t say anything on time. My friend even spoke to her on phone and told her to tell him what the issue was and that she’s causing unrest for everyone. I feel so guilty. I’m down

You didn’t have to take your own life, babe.

I heard it has to do with an issue she has with her family. I need words to calm me down right now. I’ve not been myself.

logicalhumour:
Congrats to her. She had the guts to do the very thing nearly all humans pusșy away from. Mad respect to anyone who can take their own life! Overcoming that fear of the unknown isn't easy.

The reality is that even the one who loved her the most would move on and someday (very soon) start laughing with friends again. Na so life be. We just come to Eat, Grow, born pikin, and Die. We do not even know why we do this... We are useless containers.

"Only the living receive pain."
She was smart enough to understand that phrase in a deeper level.