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Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 1:22pm On May 03, 2023 |
flexxyworld: He should feel worse because he acted inappropriately |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by GogetterMD(m): 1:22pm On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6: I am telling you in case of a future occurrence. Read about aspiration pneumonia and lipoid pneumonitis to have an idea of how dangerous it could be feeding a person with altered sensorioum or an unconscious person palm oil |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 1:23pm On May 03, 2023 |
GogetterMD: All these your long grammar self, lolls i aff hear 😂 |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 1:25pm On May 03, 2023 |
Crucialgem:And why will d creator create a human to suffer all manners of physical, emotional, and psychological pain and agony in d first place |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by GogetterMD(m): 1:26pm On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6:It's not long grammar, look at my moniker to have an idea of what I do |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by ofuonyebi: 1:29pm On May 03, 2023 |
it is one great lesson here and take home for ALL... That we should see ourselves so important to help.. whenever we are called upon by those we love or sometimes those who believe so much in us lets not take whatever they say whether they are with us or not for a mere jibes adieu to the dead and sorry for this great loss |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by eaglez(m): 1:29pm On May 03, 2023 |
Go sniff your drugs and get off my mentions Sltp: |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Blue86(m): 1:31pm On May 03, 2023 |
For her to take her own life, and you are not the cause by a heart break? Then it means : 1. Their must be a severe case of manipulation to commit suicide involved. 2. Her self respect has been soiled through waywardness in nudity, and risks being embarrassed. 3. She is pregnant for a relative or for someone very close, which you know or dear to you, as well. Don't mind all the people saying you are insensitive. A woman's strong back bone is her husband to be. If she could commit suicide, with you still in her life, then something abominable has occurred. Or she is under spell of manipulation to commit suicide. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 1:31pm On May 03, 2023 |
Crucialgem:And why will a creator create humans to suffer all sorts of physical, emotional and psychological trauma and pain in d first place?? |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by ChybuzzDD(m): 1:32pm On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6: You didn't read where he wrote about calling a friend to talk to her, the same thing you claimed to have done in your own case? Quit this stupid blame games boy. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by sucemt(m): 1:33pm On May 03, 2023 |
Sucre6: You are a real nigga. May blessing never depart from you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Kennyquestt: 1:34pm On May 03, 2023 |
My brother, firstly free yourself from any guilt of her death. You didn't kill her, she refused to be helped, yes you can mourn. Now you see people who are suicidal, We always believe that Depression led to their suicide, or other problems led to it, yes this is true, but what is more true is that these people first live a withdrawn life, i.e withdrawing themselves from the society,family or friends. Secondly they make up their mind not to submit to counselling, (this is where the big problem is) and thirdly they blame the closest person to them for their troubles. So when you even persuade them to come out and say what the problem is, or you encourage them to get over the problem, they then attack you and blame you for what you don't know anything about. WHAT COULD BE RESPONSIBLE FOR DEPRESSION OR SUICIDAL THOUGHTS. Pls this is just my own opinion, I am not a psychologist, but I am presently leaving with someone who is periodically having suicidal thoughts. I deduced from studying the person with me, that 1. They like looking for other people's pity or consolation (and this contributes to the problem). The person in question is always looking for pity, she takes to all her social media account her lamentations, statements like Why is life hard, I feel like ending it all,Nobody cares about me and so on. The truth is, as Nigerians particularly we are all having challenges. If someone would not listen to spouse,family members,pastors or counsellors, who would they listen to? Now medication is good no doubt but in my own opinion I believe you alone can take yourself out of depression with positive thinking and avoiding things or people who gets you depressed. Sorry don't want to deviate too much from your topic. Hope this helps 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 1:36pm On May 03, 2023 |
GogetterMD: Oh, my bad, sorry sir, you are an authority on this issue, the correction is noted 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 1:38pm On May 03, 2023 |
mysticwarrior:So d creator dat created you has d right to create u bcuz u asked him to create u abi How can a creator create humans and knows beforehand that those humans will suffer all sorts of physical, emotional, and psychological pains and agony and still went ahead to create those humans 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by WorldRichest: 1:39pm On May 03, 2023 |
Zonefree: My Nigga, in all honesty, I think people should be free to go home when they are tired. Sometimes, we withdraw from school. Sometimes, we resign from work. Sometimes we divorce a spouse. So, we should be able to withdraw from life when we are tired. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Algold: 1:40pm On May 03, 2023 |
Elizkid: You should have get to her and take her with you? Under your custody would have been better. I am not blaming you. People are passing through issues that internally. So sorry for your loss 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Psoul(m): 1:44pm On May 03, 2023 |
This is the effect of parents not training their children well or children refusing to take good trainings. Secondly, not having the fear of God in you can lead to this. What am I saying. Most of us have come to that point in life where we feel that just dying will be the best solution. Yes...I can happen. This may be prompted by how people around us are treating us. It may be cos of the worst situation we find our lives or cos of crime we committed which we want to avert the shame and punishment. When things like these happen, ending ones life may come to mind, but the fear of God and your upbringing will play a very high role in telling you that it is not the best choice to take. Parents should make sure they show so much love to their children. This love can inhibit them from making or taking wrong decisions in life. May the soul of this young girl find rest and comfort where ever she is now. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 1:45pm On May 03, 2023 |
Krak:D sound of push push push while coming out from our mothers vagina clearly shows we all came into this life by force and not by our own free will |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 1:52pm On May 03, 2023 |
Crucialgem:Shut d f up!!! Why will a creator beforehand create humans to suffer all sorts of physical, emotional and psychological trauma and agony in d first place |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Maski87: 1:56pm On May 03, 2023 |
Elizkid:Down where? |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Oluwasheyijossy: 2:02pm On May 03, 2023 |
Elizkid:Wow...so sad to hear that. Reminds me of my ex who once attempted to take her life due to family pressure, called me one night and said she was tired and wanted to end it all, i thought it was a joke initially and kept telling her to stop using death to play, asked her what the issue was and it was same pressure from home for her to build a house for her parents, she's the last child and was just 24yrs, she was away in Dubai while i was in France, suddenly babe did a video call with me and drank sniper on the spot and immediately switched off her phone...mehn it was a night i will never forget. Thank God she survived sha 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by OloyeVIII: 2:05pm On May 03, 2023 |
helinues:For this regime? You want make him pay attention to woman... Make hungry remove him beards. |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by madridguy(m): 2:06pm On May 03, 2023 |
So sorry to hear about her death. I believe you should have call people around her last night. One of my ex once told me just like yours and beg me to try and organize a prayer session for her.. I have to abandoned everything I'm doing and start rushing to her house when she stopped picking my calls. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Mjshexy(f): 2:09pm On May 03, 2023 |
Oluwasheyijossy:what ...why on earth will any parent pressure a 24yr old last child to build a house for them, common that's wickedness and the blood of that girl would have been on their head. But really, I'm scared of people who can easily take their own life without thinking twice, they are capable of killing anyone at a slight provocation and taking their own life too 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Weedhustler: 2:20pm On May 03, 2023 |
logicalhumour: Why sound like someone whom is about to it suicide? |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Oluwasheyijossy: 2:21pm On May 03, 2023 |
Mjshexy:Many are actually depressed out there due to pressure from around, they just need a listening ear and someone to help ease the pressure. She was lucky to survive that incident, i had to call her parents, siblings, friends all through that night, it was a friend that rushed in to help her. Thank God for life 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Sucre6: 2:22pm On May 03, 2023 |
ChybuzzDD: I am a man, not a boy, stop being ignorant, he can't call a friend who is possibly 3,000 kilometers away to help talk to her, he should have called her family or anyone closer to do that, wisdom is profitable to direct. |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Chidolalar: 2:23pm On May 03, 2023 |
PattyMike:Killing oneself is far more painful than d pain d loved ones will experience. They are not same at all. And killing oneself is not being selfish but just to free oneself from all d physical, emotional and psychological pains and suffering life and God brought to us |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by Blackdisciple(m): 2:25pm On May 03, 2023 |
Hmmmm APC Administration and we are yet to hear more of such since APC wants to remain in power RIP 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by nedekid: 2:28pm On May 03, 2023 |
Different people with different capacity to handle stress. May her soul find the peace she could not find on earth. |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by lordsterlin(m): 2:32pm On May 03, 2023 |
So sorry for loss but I was just wondering why she chose to end her life. Could it be that she found something that made her feel like she can't withstand the guilt, shame and trauma? Suddenly discovering something like HIV infection for instance can make one consider suicide especially if there's no sufficient counseling. When last did you get tested? I am not saying she has HIV infection o, was just imagining. Could she have been abused by someone so close? This can also push her down that road. Please OP, find out why she chose to commit suicide. Start first by getting tested Elizkid: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Just Took Her Own Life by tunjidachosen(m): 2:33pm On May 03, 2023 |
logicalhumour: That is still murder bro, she took a life even if it is hers. There is life after this life and you determine where you want to spend it. I think more than anything (pain, pleasure, joy, sadness) we experience in this world, we should be more concerned about the after life where we’ll spend more time. God said He will never tempt us more than we can bear and in every situation there will always be a way of escape and He wasn’t talking about death. It depends on who is in control, God? Or Satan? One will suggest life and the other will suggest death. There are many examples in our world today people who faced their fears, shame and lived to talk about it and even motivate others. We should always choose life and give God the honour of ending what He alone created. 2 Likes |
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