What has caused hookup culture?
The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault! The men of today have finally woken up to see the unjust and risk associated with marrying a woman just for her to divorce you later and take half of everything you own (Hakimi comes to mind) This will aslo include any kids so if your a man you will be severely punished for the desolution of the marriage even if she cheated on you or did irreputable harm to the marriage. The divorce laws are heavily biased towards women so it makes no difference why the law does not account for realities or gross misconducts from an individual in terms of asset distribution. Men are now simply saying no to marriage for fear of the inevitable divorce proceedings that 85% of women will initiate.

Women on the other hand know that the above is true but since it is them who benefit from it instead of working to change the divorce laws to be more fair they are just doubling down. They will say things such as if you don’t want to marry us then we don’t want to be married either because we have careers, degrees, jobs and can take care of ourselves. This gives the notion of marriage being nothing more than men financially taking care of women and if that is not the case then what intangible incentive is there to marry if your a woman other than the wedding, honeymoon and the inevitable divorce after?

Who does hookup culture hurt the most? In my opinion it hurts women and children the most. It hurts women because unlike men women can not just hook up until they die! As long as a man has money and a working penis he can realisticly hook up with women and have fun until he dies! A woman however will eventually lose her most valuable assets which is her physical beauty, body and ability to have kids usually between the ages of 35 and 40. After that wall hits it will be significantly harder for her to attract men of any quality as men tend to go for youth and beauty so her job, money, degrees and career will not help at all in attracting a man to her romantically. When a woman decides she does not want to marry it kind of empowers men because we know that ALL women will STILL need sex just like men eventually and when she gets Hot enough she will HOOK UP with a man and it might be them so it is no loss for men at all to not be married.

Children are hurt the most because they are denied the option of having a 2 parent household which could affect their childhood and upbringing. Everyone knows having a mother and a father working together to raise a child will usually result in a better emotionally stable child overall!

In my opinion women not marrying is being irresponsible and selfish towards the kids if she wants to have kids eventually and it is also dooming herself to a lonely life when it does not have to be that way it is just ego and pride getting in the way!

How to reverse or cure the hook up culture? Men control relationships and women control the access to sex! So the reality is women would need to start shaming other women not (glorifying and praising) other women who are overly polyamorous. This way the older woman we see now teaching the young girls how to be thots and bag chasers will change to women teaching women how to be classy, self loving, respectable women! Meanwhile men need to start shaming other men who will bail women out by paying for sex and or just doing whatever women want to sleep with them further enabling their low self esteem and characterless behavior. It will have a positive effect by demanding that women bring more than their vaginas to the courtship! I am one that is totally against using immature shaming tactics to influence or sway peoples opinions or minds however in this case we substitute the word shame for dignity or self love and it will be the same thing and is needed here unfortunately for this problem because it is having no shame, no self esteem , no dignity, no guilt and no character that is real problem here!

I hope this helps to answer your question!

P.S. As a woman if your ok with telling your daughters and nieces to go out just have sex until you can not anymore, not to get married then just buy a dog or cat and die alone then your exempt from this.

As a man if your fine with telling your sons its ok to pay for sex when you need it, not to have kids and to expect nothing more from the women in their life other than sex then you are also exempt from this.

Nyascobar1414:
All vvomen are h*es; they all keep selling this p*ssy to the highest bidder..


All men are hoo makers, they keep paying for this p*ssy..

N/B: exceptions dont make the rule!

DeeBaDan:
Greed and lack of self management and control

Merch:
Moral decadence and poverty

pheelbert:
People don't want anything to do with commitment again.

plaetton:

Pure nonsense.

Economic hopelessness and economic inequality between men and women in Nigeria is the only cause of hookup( a fancy name for prostitution).

plaetton:

Pure nonsense.

Economic hopelessness and economic inequality between men and women in Nigeria is the only cause of hookup( a fancy name for prostitution).

IyaTola:
My point is, the men here criticising hookup ladies should focus on the men who patronise this ladies, not trade itself. The ladies aren't fvcking themselves nor paying ghosts to fvck these ladies. Men like you are the ones paying whether she has a disease or not.

Blaming ladies without blaming the men patronising them comes across as envy. It's not the ladies fault that pussy commands a higher price in the sexual market than pen!s.

advanceDNA:


both men and women want to fvck......theres no crime in it....its a biological thing that has been going on since the beginning of time. ..making it a product that men have to pay for is totally an invention of you women..... u women determine sex... if cocacola company doesnt make coke and fanta...there will be no coke and fanta to buy...

this narrative of blaming men is ur usual pathetic, blame-pushing behavior....U cannot keep marketing product and want to push blames on the buyer.... These girls advertise themselves both online and offline.....and it is a known fact that advertising makes u buy even what u dont need......

IyaTola:
Of you stop patronizing them, watch how it will die a natural death. As long as there are buyers, there would be market.

Dshocker:
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him.

So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground

These girls just wants to survive.

Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving?

Dshocker:
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him.

So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground

These girls just wants to survive.

Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving?

oyaaa:
Tell me the developed country that girls don’t open legs anyhow
See this thing is everywhere not just Nigeria
Even with the 250k per month the greedy ones will still practice prostitution to earn more. Poverty isn’t fully the reason for this. It’s just laziness and greed
Babes on nowadays don’t wanna do hard work and they see this as an easy way out. That’s just the truth

oyaaa:
Tell me the developed country that girls don’t open legs anyhow
See this thing is everywhere not just Nigeria
Even with the 250k per month the greedy ones will still practice prostitution to earn more. Poverty isn’t fully the reason for this. It’s just laziness and greed
Babes on nowadays don’t wanna do hard work and they see this as an easy way out. That’s just the truth

oyaaa:
Tell me the developed country that girls don’t open legs anyhow
See this thing is everywhere not just Nigeria
Even with the 250k per month the greedy ones will still practice prostitution to earn more. Poverty isn’t fully the reason for this. It’s just laziness and greed
Babes on nowadays don’t wanna do hard work and they see this as an easy way out. That’s just the truth

DeeBaDan:




I have seen babes earning 250k per month doing runs. This one isn't story. I won't go into details but live I have witnessed it

Sonnobax15:

Relationship and marriage that our fore fathers used to enjoy,e reach our turn,na once our present day bannies turn everything upside down

Dshocker:



More than 80% of girls into hookup/prostitution/runs or what ever you call it are not happy with the hustle, but are doing it because they have bills to pay.