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That's one of the culture shocks that a man that's quick to japa with his family will face in the West. He loses control of his children. The wife "may" start disrespecting him. But when the child gets into trouble, they will remind them that they are Nigerians.

3 years for beatings wey people dey collect for free here? . Now imagine how the remaining parent will discipline the kids. The kids are the boss and na you dey feed and accommodate them.

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MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

while flogging is legal, it makes most children dumb.
Some parents will physically abuse the child until the child breaks down.
So it's normal to criminalize flogging as a whole

Instead, he blamed his wife. He said she had encouraged the kids to fabricate allegations against him because she was upset with him over citizenship and her family’s entry into this country.

Of course he’s blaming his wife

Did she tell the hospital staff to lie against him too? Smh

Omoh........wahala plenty 4 dis obodoyibo ooh,u flog animal nah wahala,u flog human being,nah still wahala

U never chichonchin

InvertedHammer:
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That's one of the culture shocks that a man that's quick to japa with his family will face in the West. He loses control of his children. The wife "may" start disrespecting him. But when the child gets into trouble, they will remind them that they are Nigerians.

3 years for beatings wey people dey collect for free here? . Now imagine how the remaining parent will discipline the kids. The kids are the boss!

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If a parent needs to beat their children for them to respect them , then they never had control over them in the first place.

Our kids even when they are stubborn and disobedient (which is normal) still need to be able to have respect for us without the threat of violence. Your kids need to be able to look at , your presence, the way you carry yourself etc and feel a sense of respect and reverence for you. If violence is the only way to get that from them, there are baseline issues that need to be resolved

That wife wants collect her 50%

Rubbish.
I read a news in America, how a pupil shot a teacher with a pistol over an argument.
All these stupid stupid laws no dey help in all aspects.

anthonyuncle:
partners should really have an agreement on how to be disciplining their children before marriage.

This a man that supposedly moved abroad in 1990 and should have known better abeg!

His wife, the victim’s mother, during the lockdown when school children had migrated to online classes, was informed that the victim had not been attending his online school classes for two days. As a result, she barred him from playing computer games and told the father about the development.

On 22 January 2021, she left home to visit her eldest son leaving the victim with his sisters. Their father came home from work to find the victim using the computer. According to the court documents, the father repeatedly struck him across the back using metal sticks or rods, which he retrieved from a basket next to the television in the living room. He also used his belt repeatedly to strike him on the back, arms and shoulders. The nine-year-old son cried very loudly; one of his sisters witnessed the assault, while the other, who was upstairs at the time, heard his cries. “When the physical assault had come to an end, the offender told E to hold a metal stick above his head and face the garden. He remained in this stress position for some two hours,” the court said. ‘E’, in this case, was the victim. Two days later, the mother came home to find her son in pain. “She saw the marks on his body. She confronted the offender, who admitted what he had done at that stage but did not accept that his actions were wrong.” She took her child to the hospital, where he was found to have multiple horizontal bruises across his back and arms, linear in appearance and consistent with the use of a metal stick-like implement. He also had bruises on his shoulders and his head, as well as cuts to his hands.

The metal sticks used by the offender were provided to the police, and the father was arrested on 25 January 2021. He said at that stage that he felt very remorseful but, when interviewed, denied assaulting the little boy, his son or any of his children with a stick or belt and denied putting him in a stressed position. Instead, he blamed his wife. He said she had encouraged the kids to fabricate allegations against him because she was upset with him over citizenship and her family’s entry into this country.

The father was charged and remanded on bail with conditions that included a qualifying (electronically-monitored) curfew.

This is nothing about an agreement but a man who simply refused to adapt to the laws in his new environment even after so long.

InvertedHammer:
/ That's one of the culture shocks that a man that's quick to japa with his family will face in the West. He loses control of his children. The wife "may" start disrespecting him. But when the child gets into trouble, they will remind them that they are Nigerians. 3 years for beatings wey people dey collect for free here? . Now imagine how the remaining parent will discipline the kids. The kids are the boss and na you dey feed and accommodate them. /

Moving abroad since 1990 is still a case of quick to japa? Abeg make we hear word o'jare!

UK is not a good place for Africans to raise kids.

I can't count the number of times I was flogged by my parents, especially my mum.
I can say it proudly it made me to have focus because I was very stubborn.

Na such kid go carry gun go school dey shoot people.

MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

That first one, I mean A is most important.

richmond500:
while flogging is legal, it makes most children dumb. Some parents will physically abuse the child until the child breaks down.
So it's normal to criminalize flogging as a whole

Case and point, the youths of Nigeria. Even their parents fall smack into that category!

MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

If Nigerian kids are so great, why is the UK better than Nigeria?

Well, that explains why kids in the UK are so rotten and busy stabbing each other about.

ledaman:
I can't count the number of times I was flogged by my parents, especially my mum.
I can say it proudly it made me to have focus because I was very stubborn.

Your parents flogging was a waste of time..imagine them thinking they were instilling sense in their son only to find out he is an apc supporter. Shame

Laptop powerbank available.

Even the Bible teaches of the good principles of using the rode on a child when needed, and of course with love. These western countries have completely lost it and little wonder their country is imploding.

MrBrownJay1:
today flogging a child is considered abuse, even though majority of us are great human beings today because of these same "abuse"... so make sure that you A) have kids with a woman who follow your school of thought and B) live in a country where flogging is allowed-

no wonder kids in the UK (and all over the world) are now out of control!

You just read my mind sir . Wonder why black high school students fight their teachers and get hailed by their peers when doing so. Wonders why black kids turn out gay against their parents consent and the government condone these nonsense .. Lord have mercy!!!

Someone cannot discipline his own Child again. I feel for some reason best known to them they all ganged up against the man

techbroX:
Well, it seems more like abuse than beating cos he was reported to have beaten his kid with a "metal stick."

At the same time, the mother and the child should be ready to take care of themselves without the husband because that man may not forget that incarceration... It's not gonna be easy to reconcile after 3 years in prison.

the metal stick is wire from the tv.

But they put metal stick to make the case look inhumane.
Na so dem dey do for court.

Ireportlive:
Na why their kids are wayward

Una wey know dy wayward for naija are either criminals or terrorist😉😉😉. East are known for unknown gunmen, north are known for bandit and Boko Haram/ ISIK, West are known for yahoo yahoo. I prefer there own wayward kids than ours

Got to do on Rome as the Romans do.

I was about to support the man but why beat the child with a metal stick? Belt is fine. Not a metal stick.

kingthreat:
I was about to support the man but why beat the child with a metal stick? Belt is fine. Not a metal stick.

there is nothing like a metal stick.

justli:
■ Even the Bible teaches of the good principles of using the rode on a child when needed, and of course with love. These western countries have completely lost it and little wonder their country is imploding.

It is equally written in Scripture that God uses a rod of punishment on His people, does this mean a literal cane is employed by God here - Psalm 23:4 & Micah 6:9 & Micah 7:14? You can correct a child without wire abeg!

NinjaMetahuman:
the metal stick is wire from the tv. But they put metal stick to make the case look inhumane. Na so dem dey do for court.

You beat someone with wire and you know say that is inhumane?

blaquemyc:
The bible they brought to us said "spare the rod and spoil the child".

By physical inflicting injuries on the child abi?

The way most Nigerian parents beat their kids or other kids in their custody, is something else.

Ibo women una hear?

The british should be running our courts on a consutancy level. I don't trust Nigerian judges