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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Blitzking: 9:10pm On May 15, 2023 |
dre11: 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Nobody: 9:10pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ireportlive:If Nigerian kids are so great, why is the UK better than Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by mabea: 9:10pm On May 15, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:I would have agreed completely with you but then part of the judgement cited a text message sent to the wife and the child. Who could have revealed it if not the wife. 3 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 9:10pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:Why will she treat bruises at home? Why didnt the man treat the bruises at home? You are taxed heavily for healthcare. So why will you pay taxes for healthcare and still pay privately for healthcare? Isn't it dumb to pay for one product twice? By the way, the woman did not report that man. The hospital did |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by SavageResponse(m): 9:11pm On May 15, 2023 |
techbroX: I'm sure they exaggerated the intensity of the beating the boy got |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by WannaHowzit(m): 9:11pm On May 15, 2023 |
I should know - Nigerians have 1970s mindset. Sentence should be extended to 10 years in a Nigerian prison - not comfy London. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 9:11pm On May 15, 2023 |
blaquemyc:The rod and the staff, they COMFORT me. Comfort not hurt 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Nobody: 9:12pm On May 15, 2023 |
webcrafty:If Nigerian kids are so great, why is the UK better than Nigeria? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:12pm On May 15, 2023 |
Blitzking:And when you come back with the child and he goes swimming with others kids and people, his mates, or teachers, and they now see the marks wey you leave for him body, na then you go tell your own story. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:13pm On May 15, 2023 |
mabea:The hospital! They are obligated to report any suspicious bruises irrespective of the explanations given to them by the suspect. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 9:13pm On May 15, 2023 |
SavageResponse:Hospitals abroad are not like Nigerian hospitals. Hospitals abroad do not exaggerate facts. Sometimes they downplay the actual extent of injury |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by kcbaba007: 9:14pm On May 15, 2023 |
That man's predicament was fully orchestrated by his wife..... Fear that gender Ilspare the rod and spoil the child..... If I have kids abroad, I will bring them back to naija to train them..... My papa beat shege comot for my body, that's why I am who I am today, and my life is secured, with fear of God and great respect for my Dad deeply imbibed in me I will beat shege out of any of my child that misbehaves..... That wan na sure banker, that pikin brain go dey always reset every five minutes 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Reference(m): 9:16pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621: If you do all these and cannot teach, instruct, guide and then task, assess, wash and wear again you still have not achieved anything. You don't graduate from school by your teachers just talking to you everyday in a lovable manner. There has to be a plan, there has to be a syllabus, there has to be instructions and there has to be a test. The quality of this determines how your kids will turn out. I have always considered violence as the preserve of the ignorant. When you have to use violence it means you are either not communicating well or communicating wrong. The child is not receiving or understanding what you want or how you want it. I cannot see what violence does to enhance this process. When a parent is enraged at his child it simply says I am angry with myself for not being able to do it. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by machine606: 9:16pm On May 15, 2023 |
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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 9:16pm On May 15, 2023 |
kcbaba007:Its not the beating that your dad gave you that made your life secure. Some people in the prison were beaten till they almost as died as young kids. Assaulting a child has nothing to do with building character. 4 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by mmsen: 9:16pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ireportlive: Are they any worse than the cultists and ashawo that you people raise? 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by BobbieZion(m): 9:18pm On May 15, 2023 |
Pikin wey go spoil go spoil If na by flogging, Nigeria and Nigerians would have been the most disciplined people and place. But reverse is the case. I remember when Miss Funmi asked us in class "Who do you think are more well behaved, the African children or the ones in the west"? we where all saying African, when Miss Funmi shocked us and said the European kids are more well behaved. We think say na kneeling down and greeting your parents na him be respect. FYI... Nigerians are some of the most ill-mannered people you will meet on the surface of the earth. Sorry for you if you have an encounter with the Gen-z, those ones behave like donkies. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:19pm On May 15, 2023 |
mmsen:WOW |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Reference(m): 9:20pm On May 15, 2023 |
Shokoloko: That is because 'the rod' in scriptures refers to the Word or the personality of Christ. Not the dogonyaro tree my mum used to love to harvest for 'debugging' in those days..... 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by SavageResponse(m): 9:21pm On May 15, 2023 |
ednut1: Since when did a 9 year old become a grown up? If he's so grown up then he should go and rent his own apartment and start paying his bills |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by blunt1990: 9:21pm On May 15, 2023 |
It's funny how Nigerians claim they turned out well, despite the beating they received when they were young and yet the society/polity has continually failed to reflect it. The Nigerian system today is a mirror image of the beatings people received when they were young. If Nigerians turned out well as we claim, there won't be rampant yahoo-yahoo, prostitution, cheating, killing-cultism, unfazed lies in the country. You can't turn out well and be a congenital liar. Lying is a sociopathic behaviour. Nigerians are just pretentious, pretend to be good around the parents, and monsters outside. You know why western countries are progressing? People are thought to speak out at young age, hence the their stern challenge/stand-up to their politicians with bold faces. Nigerians have been beaten to submission/slave by their parents, the reason why we're dead scared of older ones (elders), even when they are evil. We need to wake up! My stand on beating kids; there are a thousand ways to speak to your child without flogging him/her. Children are scared of lengthy conversational corrections, it makes them tear up and regret their actions. It's far more effective than beating. I've noticed that most Africans transfer their life frustrations/depressions to their poor kids. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by richmond500: 9:22pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:I have a video of a woman beating her 3year old child. As in ehn, the video was gory as she just deh use the pikin head deh nak for wall. You see ehn, when you give people a chance to discipline the child, they can go extra miles by abusing the child, so it's better to completely make beating illegal. If you can't use words to train a child, then you are a failure as a parent. If this generation of Nigerians that insults their patents were really flogged, then the flogging didn't do anything 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Mindlog: 9:22pm On May 15, 2023 |
Blitzking: Just make sure you remain back in Nigeria. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by correctguy101(m): 9:23pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: No mind them. Later one of these dolts will kih himself trying to do TikTok challenge. Their leaders know most of their population are total eediots. But the boy never offend reach na. The man blood too hot, he's a typical African man... We wey dey play our parents street back then. .. the beating when we were caught no be here.. How about when I was caught learning to smoke [ tasted almost all the brands then] ... |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by RaptorX: 9:24pm On May 15, 2023 |
Lewisjohnson:The UK being better than Nigeria is subjective. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by NinjaMetahuman: 9:25pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:so which flogging is humane? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:27pm On May 15, 2023 |
NinjaMetahuman:Must you flog at all? If a child says NO to you, then simply reduce access to your love or something instead, not descend on him as though you must rule at all cost. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by SavageResponse(m): 9:27pm On May 15, 2023 |
richmond500: Pikin wey no dey hear word dem suppose flog sense enter him brain! 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:28pm On May 15, 2023 |
SavageResponse:Says who? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Reference(m): 9:30pm On May 15, 2023 |
richmond500: And why this is so important is that it then moderates ones life in all other relationships as you grow up and advance in life. You will learn to use words and not your fists when relating to your future spouse as is common in this part of the world. You will learn to use words and not AR-15's or shotguns when relating to your boss or co-workers as is becoming common in that great nation we admire across the ocean. Even leaders will be more comfortable communicating with citizens instead of what we see today. A little inquest and they take offence with law breaking retribution. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by richmond500: 9:31pm On May 15, 2023 |
SavageResponse:u can trained ur child with ur words |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by webcrafty: 9:31pm On May 15, 2023 |
Lewisjohnson:To find the answer to your question, I suggest you one day visit UK as a teacher and experience their kids in first hand. The reason UK and indeed the west is better than Nigeria and most African Nations, is not because of their kids, it's because of a system built (no small thanks to years of other nation's exploits of course). But bliv me, not all that glitter is gold... Most UK residents are wishing they could somehow escape living there. 4 Likes |
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