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What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by iInjureHerYansh: 5:54pm On May 16, 2023
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by riverbird: 5:58pm On May 16, 2023
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Reminderz: 6:03pm On May 16, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by riverbird: 6:14pm On May 16, 2023
Reminderz:

she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

🤔

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Jashub: 6:16pm On May 16, 2023
Women love men on the premise that they provide value , men on the other hand truly love women . Which is why as a man , never ever waste your resources chasing women , especially the ones flaunting on social media

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by thesilentman(m): 6:19pm On May 16, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

BRO...the reality is that love is not enough and will never be.Being a provider is one of the most attractive quality in a man.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Keep2gether(f): 6:21pm On May 16, 2023
Women love money. Just know that.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Jennyclay(f): 6:23pm On May 16, 2023
Another rant from a broke man.

Just say you don’t have money we’ll understand.

Broke wretched men everywhere!!! Shior!!

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by blacksam01: 6:39pm On May 16, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

the marriage important to her pass... after the marriage, money spending go start

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by riverbird: 6:57pm On May 16, 2023
blacksam01:


the marriage important to her pass... after the marriage, money spending go start

No be lie bro but man never ready for marriage like this......🤔

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Baronthecelebri: 8:29pm On May 16, 2023
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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Nyascobar1414: 8:47pm On May 16, 2023
Marriage to vvomen was all about survival.. Women dont love men.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by fyzaila: 9:21pm On May 16, 2023
Please you guys shouldn't generalise, if the ones you've been encountering show similar traits of liking you because of your money, believe me there are still lots of them out there who will show you real love and not just for money. Just keep searching and don't write women off because of the few money lovers you encountered.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by iInjureHerYansh: 10:28pm On May 16, 2023
fyzaila:
Please you guys shouldn't generalise, if the ones you've been encountering show similar traits of liking you because of your money, believe me there are still lots of them out there who will show you real love and not just for money. Just keep searching and don't write women off because of the few money lovers you encountered.
Seems like comprehension is a really difficult thing for you or you are the hasty type that don't pay attention but just jump into conclusion. Where did I generalize?
Is majority same as all?
Sounding like you are dating one of those nairaland evening newspapers. Trying to defend women unnecessarily to impress her?
lol

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Emmanuel909090: 2:11am On May 17, 2023
Build yourself with your resources before any woman.

Women don't worth such sacrifice

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Smartguyboy(m): 3:04am On May 17, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
you are not a alone
Mine told me she will be 28 this year and she’s passing out from nysc next week.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by frozen70(f): 3:55am On May 17, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.


There is a great difference between dating a girl and dating a woman

One is inexperience and not really matured to understand that loving a man is different from making him her 🏧, she doesn't want to understand that you struggle to make money and you are not expected to spend it anyhow

The other is very matured and understanding
Knows that loving a man is not making him her 🏧 but loving him for who he is
She equally struggles to get or make money and depends less on him

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by frozen70(f): 3:57am On May 17, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin

In her own case, she wants to settle down which is more important to her and you

Than asking you for money yet no plans for the relationship and no focus on it

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by okoroemeka(m): 4:02am On May 17, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

their is a proverb in igboland that says it is he who is carrying palm fronds the goats will follow,majority of goats anyway because I can't deny that I have been friends with girls that flatly refuse my money,some even giving me money instead

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by riverbird: 6:25am On May 17, 2023
frozen70:


In her own case, she wants to settle down which is more important to her and you

Than asking you for money yet no plans for the relationship and no focus in it

But the truth is that am not even read for the settling down cos as a man there are alot things that needs to be taking care of before thinking about settling down undecided.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Quality20(m): 6:32am On May 17, 2023
Since u in relationship ,why not put her on monthly stipend or any financial poverty alleviation measure

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MechanicMike: 7:40am On May 17, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.



angry
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MechanicMike: 7:41am On May 17, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.




...boy...so u askin us to borrow u MOINEY to take woman out for date?... corrrrrrrect?
..are u ok sir!!(no offenscce) angry

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by nicerod(m): 7:47am On May 17, 2023
She's only there because of the money

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Nobody: 8:28am On May 17, 2023
Quality20:
Since u in relationship ,why not put her on monthly stipend or any financial poverty alleviation measure

You well so? Na men like you dey cause silly entitlement in women..is her dating you a job or what?

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 9:02am On May 17, 2023
This is the reason why I date only married women.

I don't have the time for stress from single ladies grin

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by AKWATGOLD1(m): 9:32am On May 17, 2023
Even the married woman too. If the husband did not put anything on the table, they will change it for the man.
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by PARADIZEPRIEST: 9:47am On May 17, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

POVERTY IN AFRCA HAS MADE AFRICAN WOMAN OF TODAY SEE MEN AS SOLUTION TO ESCAPE THEIR POVERTY. THAT IS THE SADDEST REALITY OF TODAY,ESSPECiALLY IN MARRIAGES OF YOUTHS,THE MAN PAYS FOR EVERYTHING:HOUSE, FOOD, MEDS,BUYS CLOTHINGS FOR FAMILY,THE DAY HE IS BROKE,THE WOMAN WILL TOMENT HIM WITH MOCKERY AND INSULTS TILL HE REGAINS HIMSELF FINANCIALY.YET THEWOMAN CANT SPEND A PENNY WITHOUT ASKING FOR REFUND. Oyibo sees marriage as shared responsibility but Africa man(Nigerian man in particular) suffer aloneangry Advice if you are a man in a young marriage make sure you hustle and pray well to remain financially up there,otherwise you will loss focus as the man in charge,especially if you were not born into riches. angry

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by frozen70(f): 11:14am On May 17, 2023
riverbird:


But the truth is that am not even read for the settling down cos as a man there are alot things that needs to be taking care of before thinking about settling down undecided.

You can discuss it with her so that she will know that you are not ready and can't wait for you

So that tomorrow she will not say that you delayed her

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by riverbird: 11:19am On May 17, 2023
frozen70:


You can discuss it with her so that she will know that you are not ready and can't wait for you

So that tomorrow she will not say that you delayed her

From her attitude she's trying to move on.....

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by frozen70(f): 12:32pm On May 17, 2023
riverbird:


From her attitude she's trying to move on.....

Ok naw

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by fyzaila: 1:35pm On May 17, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Seems like comprehension is a really difficult thing for you or you are the hasty type that don't pay attention but just jump into conclusion. Where did I generalize?
Is majority same as all?
Sounding like you are dating one of those nairaland evening newspapers. Trying to defend women unnecessarily to impress her?
lol

Lol
So every moniker that doesn't have "f" attached to it is a man shey? Weldone

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