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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by emmanuelewumi(m): 2:49am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin



She is smarter and more ruthless than you think, she is highly experienced.

Wait till you guys are married

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by emmanuelewumi(m): 2:52am On May 19, 2023
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is the reason why I date only married women.

I don't have the time for stress from single ladies grin




Mad man
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by emmanuelewumi(m): 2:57am On May 19, 2023
PARADIZEPRIEST:

POVERTY IN AFRCA HAS MADE AFRICAN WOMAN SEE MAN AS SOLUTION TO ESCAPE THEIR POVERTY. THAT IS THE SADDEST REALITY OF TODAY,EVEN IN MARRIAGES OF YOUTHS,THEMAN PAYS FOR HOUSE FOOD, MEDS,BUY CLOTHINGS FOR FAMILY,YET THEWOMAN CANT SPEND A PENNY WITHOUT ASKING FOR REFUND. angry




Yet when the children starts making money, it is the mother they will spend it on.


By that time the man won't have money and energy to hustle again.


And majority of the women would have manipulated the children against the man.


As a man, while hustling remember to invest for the future oooooo, e get why.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by remfash1(m): 2:59am On May 19, 2023
Jashub:
Women love men on the premise that they provide value , men on the other hand truly love women . Which is why as a man , never ever waste your resources chasing women , especially the ones flaunting on social media

Value as in money? I think there are more values a person can offer other than money. Personally, I think seeing relationship as ATM by most women these days is a sign of mental laziness in them. Because there is no level of wealth a man can attain in life that a woman cannot if she desires and work it out but unfortunately, they have turned their kpetus to a tradable commodity

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by remfash1(m): 3:00am On May 19, 2023
emmanuelewumi:




Yet when the children starts making money, it is the mother they will spend it on.


By that time the man won't have money and energy to hustle again.

God 🙏 bless you. Very thoughtful write up

And majority of the women would have manipulated the children against the man.


As a man, while hustling remember to invest for the future oooooo, e get why.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by AutoRedux: 3:15am On May 19, 2023
The place wey I dey now for life. I dey treat women the way I dey treat men.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by TheBillyonaire: 3:17am On May 19, 2023
Baseline for love is attraction. A man is a natural provider and loves women for sex, and women love men with the hope that they provide what she needs to stay beautiful to be loved by the man.

A man must provide for a woman to keep the love going and a woman must have sex with the man to keep the love going until the covalent bonding dissipates.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by dinachi(m): 3:21am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man
Empty barrel lesbian.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by starstaz(m): 4:00am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man
Hmmmm. Frm U. U that we hold in high esteem even though we knew you are a material girl
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by GboyegaD(m): 4:04am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:


But the truth is that am not even read for the settling down cos as a man there are alot things that needs to be taking care of before thinking about settling down undecided.

Please let her go. Don't waste her time when you know you are not ready.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by forexprophet(m): 4:07am On May 19, 2023
STINGY AND IRRESPONSIBLE SOMEBODY

You must give to a woman. That is how God designed it.

I advise any girl to run away from people like you
Your poverty and stinginess stinks

You will understand it better in the nearest future

Rubbish






iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Kajaard: 4:14am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man

You must be a very dirty broke girl.

Just see how dirty looking your room is. It’s no surprise because it’s very dirty broke girls that talk the way you do.

I can’t even step my foot in such a dirty room. Shameless poverty stricken cretin.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by BluntCrazeMan: 4:21am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
She don cross 28yrs.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by kokomilala(m): 4:26am On May 19, 2023
Naija Women Are Culturally Wired And Socially Conditioned To Pin Their Hopes On Men

We now live in a world, society, where women- younger ones- no less- pin all their financial hopes on men. Culturally, they've been wired to reason, with skewed logic, that men should take care of all their needs- including generational ones.


These days, I begin to wonder what the value of these women is; what would they amount to without that dingy pie between their thighs?

These women have lost their moorings. They've set a bad agenda that their gender is just consumerist!!!

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by b0rn2fuck(m): 4:37am On May 19, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

we should try and break up 99% of the relationship. We will know this before, that's why I shift their womb with my dick before dumping their sorry ass

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by tiswell(m): 4:53am On May 19, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another rant from a broke man
rest!



Daddy issues is so evident in ya opbringin
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Moneyboyz: 4:59am On May 19, 2023
I gave a girl 200k for something she claimed she really wanted my help for, 2 days she didn't text to say thanks or check up on me.
3rd day she texted by 1pm asking if everything is okay. I broke up with her right there and all she can say is ALRIGHT.

After like a week when her mouth dry, she texted me saying I just shenk her like that leaving her broke. I was furious, she started playing games to make come back but I no gree.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Goalnaldo(m): 5:21am On May 19, 2023
nicerod:
She's only there because of the money
this made me laugh.haha
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by FireUpNow(m): 5:29am On May 19, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.

It is called love with benefit. Some girls love if you can give them accommodation , food, sex constant ride you are nice looking. Some look at the prospect that you will be a better person in the future while some if you can make dem pregnant, I know of a lady who left her boyfriend she had a son for and got married to a very wealthy man but after staying with the wealthy man for over 12 yrs without getting pregnant, she came back to her once former boyfriend and today they have 3 sons. Women are very cunny people

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Jakama90(m): 5:30am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
She is a wise girl. She Sabi press button.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Goalnaldo(m): 5:37am On May 19, 2023
stevo123:



The only reason your girlfriend will be after your money is if you did not try to establish a business for her, or maybe she herself is just too lazy... Cuz I establish business for my girlfriend and she is working so hard, sometimes I pretend I don't have money and she will give me money, if I told her not to worry that I will be fine, she will tell me I establish the business for her so she can also assist me right? And so she will not be depending on only me. So I most take the money she is giving me... So my brother don't just be giving her money for materials things, rather try to establish for her, and if she refuse, then you will know she is not the right one for you
have you proposed to her yet? Please do quickly. That one has sense. Some would still collect from you even after establishing her.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Olaolex: 5:37am On May 19, 2023
Well, you just said it. It's not all ladies. Mine doesn't ask, even if I want to give her, she will say she doesn't need it that she has. Unless I cajole her to take it from me. And she shows her gratitude for any small thing. I pray she doesn't change

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by MrBroke(m): 5:39am On May 19, 2023
iInjureHerYansh:
Told this girl I have been seeing lately to stop asking me for money if she really care about me and I haven't heard from her since thengrin Where are the people that say women can date if money isn't involved?
Well not all women are after money but majority of our girls are doing this dating thing for survival.

Relationship has to be transactional or she moves. The earlier you realize all the sweet name calling and things she's been doing for you is cos you have money to give her the earlier you will know how to stand.


I always see every lady as someone who doesn't love me for me but for my assets, until she proves otherwise. It has saved me a lot.
This lady I just talked about is another point of reference.

You can also try it with the girl you are seeing now and see for yourself if you doubt me.


My case is different, she knows i'm broke so money is nothing grin

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Olaolex: 5:40am On May 19, 2023
emmanuelewumi:


She is smarter and more ruthless than you think, she is highly experienced.
Wait till you guys are married
You are entitled to your opinion.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Goalnaldo(m): 5:44am On May 19, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Can you love a woman for free? Can you love a woman unconditionally without any clause attached?
yes na, ive loved you unconditional here for years.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Diligent1(f): 5:45am On May 19, 2023
riverbird:
E be like say na only me get gf wey hardly ask me of any financial favors but keeps disturbing me with marriage talks grin
Before marriage, I didn't asked for money but after marriage responsibilities set on his head.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by luthur5: 5:53am On May 19, 2023
Get a working class lady bro,it does help from experience sha.
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by Ajiswaggs(m): 5:59am On May 19, 2023
stevo123:



The only reason your girlfriend will be after your money is if you did not try to establish a business for her, or maybe she herself is just too lazy... Cuz I establish business for my girlfriend and she is working so hard, sometimes I pretend I don't have money and she will give me money, if I told her not to worry that I will be fine, she will tell me I establish the business for her so she can also assist me right? And so she will not be depending on only me. So I most take the money she is giving me... So my brother don't just be giving her money for materials things, rather try to establish for her, and if she refuse, then you will know she is not the right one for you

I once did this before but I later regret it. As soon as she begin making dough, her behavior changes and feeling she has achieve her aim. But today she is back to zero after dem decieve her finish.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by 7arrows: 6:00am On May 19, 2023
jimcaddy:
It's really sad with Nigerian women. The economic hardship has reprogrammed everyone's brain that we use just about any opportunity we get to get money. Honestly with the resources God blessed Nigeria with, we should not be going through hardship like this. But Ive come to realise that Nigerians are actually the problem of Nigeria. Everyone is stingy, greedy, tribalistic, religious, hypocritical. These bad attitude we have is what has led us here. Magic will not happen from anywhere that will automatically turn Nigeria into America or Canada. But it seems like many Nigerians love how this country is deteriorating. Afterall we can all japaa. Then again, how many people want to Japaa? If Nigerians for example can all migrate to Canada, and all Canadians migrate to Nigeria. Let's assume we swap countries for a year. Do you know that Nigerias will turn Canada back to how Nigeria is, while the Canadians will turn Nigeria to Canada. So you see it's not about the location. It's about mindset. Nigerians need to change our mindset collectively, if not, nothing will ever change. It will keep moving from one generation to another generation in a cycle and we will keep complaining till thine kingdom come.

Very true. It's about the people living there and not about the corn tree. Our mindset has been completely contaminated.

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by BigBlackPreek(m): 6:02am On May 19, 2023
Boss we are there together oooo
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is the reason why I date only married women.

I don't have the time for stress from single ladies grin
Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by cardoctor(m): 6:05am On May 19, 2023
Eyahhh. Poor man

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Re: What A Girl Did After I Stopped Giving Her Money by otuword: 6:06am On May 19, 2023
women like money but nt all ar hie over demanding as u guys are saying 3 years ago wen I was still in dating stage like u guys now my girl then never ask me money she accept whatever I gave her, she never bother me about money even I was saving in her own account till now bcose am nt that decipline wen it comes to money, she don't tourch my money.
now we are marry over two years now, with a baby she still accept wat ever I gave her.she always told me is lazy girls that depends on men money she is hard working which is true

so take Ur time to look for the real one the one that truly love u not because of money, they are out there do your job to know where they are. my wife she is the best friend I ever have she made life to be easier for me. though we still fright alot sha that keep us going. I hope u will also say the same thing in future only wen u hav the right person. most girls are out there to cash out from guys. becareful

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