vickydevoka:

Nairaland is not just a platform but a community where we support people financially, mentally and emotionally. It is was it is …. # ke gane

Flawless18:
so I should be working for another human to glow while I wrinkle right 🤷 A man dies at 55yrs and his wife die at 95yrs enjoying all what the man toiled for and enjoy alone what the children brings later in life after the man must have paid school fees and all. E be like say werey Dey your brain. Anyways, as a man, if like work all your ass off to impress a woman shogbo, don’t enjoy your life with your money. E go clear for your eyes

Octopusssy:

Jennyclay giving them wotowoto

pocohantas:


Heya. Please marry her o. I would even support you people with $150. That is the 100k you want to give me for my wedding picture. At least when I show there, you will understand why it isn't my man crying over provision.

vickydevoka:

I hope I have not in any way hurt you Bcus i really wish well for you and I really meant everything I said maam

miqos02:
you made this conclusion after one trying one girl abi ? Dey play

pocohantas:


You can't hurt me dearest. You don't pay my bills and you do not provide for me.

Evolutionlove:



Keep being delusional and feigning Ignorance.

So you don't know there are lot of men/guys on 30k salary in this modern day. Is it from the 30k they will be the Head and Provider.

So you don't now Women have taken larger portions of the Workforce earning bumper Salaries and Wages. Yet they don't want Responsibilities.

pocohantas:


You can't hurt me dearest. You don't pay my bills and you do not provide for me.

vickydevoka:

Women emotions can never be hidden. This is their only weak point. You can tell..

ogbe88:
The truth is@Frozen70 u talk/respond to issue in a matured way.

Secondly, your views always differs/unique from other people on this forum.

Laurene:
When he marries you, come back to this post.

gfelo:
i thought a lady can never got this type of sense

Evolutionlove:


You should connect the dots.

I meant 90% of Nigerian Men are all the same.

pocohantas:


Pele. Because I responded to you accordingly you suddenly remembered women emotions? You wilo be fine. Only providers can hurt me. No same woman takes a non-provider seriously.

Thebadpolitican:
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If your earning 30k salary wetin u dey find with woman, even if the woman does not ask for money, what if she gets pregnant, or she needs to solve something urgently that money can solve, it is senseless having a woman with such salary just remain single or visit a brothel


If your woman his earning high and she is not taking responsibility with you then you're failing as a man, they are ways to put her in line
If that doesn't work then let her go. That is wickedness and not anything

vickydevoka:

That’s why I’m ready to provide 100k support for the number one active lady on Nairaland. Most people really respect you because you have been in Nairaland for a very long time and your opinion are mostly on point

Pwettylinda:


Anytime you like you settle down, no wahalabna your business, if you like settle at old age no issues still your fucking business.

In life you gain at one end, you loose at the other end. That's life.

Pursue money first, age is going - have kids at old age, struggle to raise kids at old age.

Get married at young age, take care of your kids while still young and strong - rest while getting old..

U gain at one end, loose at one end na so life be which ever way. It's your choice.

pocohantas:


Every time they offer only sex. They should build train station for you? Lol!

Thebadpolitican:
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If your earning 30k salary wetin u dey find with woman, even if the woman does not ask for money, what if she gets pregnant, or she needs to solve something urgently that money can solve, it is senseless having a woman with such salary just remain single or visit a brothel


If your woman his earning high and she is not taking responsibility with you then you're failing as a man, they are ways to put her in line
If that doesn't work then let her go. That is wickedness and not anything

SonofGod231:

Sarcasm is normally a sign of intelligence. Honestly,I think I like you...It's as if I'm falling in love.
I like intelligent,proud women with a sense of humour...I heard,women who seem strong and sassy online actually turn out to be gorgeous in real sense..If you're occasionally free and independent we can plan a trip together?! Pls,don't fall my hand#I don't know how to send pm/dm I would have.

ddeola:
You started what you cannot sustain. Maybe if the relationship had been clearly defined from the beginning, you won't have this situation.

We still have a lot of decent men/ladies out there, grab yours now!!!!

jimcaddy:
It's really sad with Nigerian women. The economic hardship has reprogrammed everyone's brain that we use just about any opportunity we get to get money. Honestly with the resources God blessed Nigeria with, we should not be going through hardship like this. But Ive come to realise that Nigerians are actually the problem of Nigeria. Everyone is stingy, greedy, tribalistic, religious, hypocritical. These bad attitude we have is what has led us here. Magic will not happen from anywhere that will automatically turn Nigeria into America or Canada. But it seems like many Nigerians love how this country is deteriorating. Afterall we can all japaa. Then again, how many people want to Japaa? If Nigerians for example can all migrate to Canada, and all Canadians migrate to Nigeria. Let's assume we swap countries for a year. Do you know that Nigerias will turn Canada back to how Nigeria is, while the Canadians will turn Nigeria to Canada. So you see it's not about the location. It's about mindset. Nigerians need to change our mindset collectively, if not, nothing will ever change. It will keep moving from one generation to another generation in a cycle and we will keep complaining till thine kingdom come.

Reminderz:

she knows if you get married to her, you'll still spend naa.. a lady not asking you money before marriage is just playing the game until she has your commitment...

pocohantas:


100k is less than $150 my dear. I don't want to talk too much, but best believe NL won't get a sneakpeak of my personal life. Definitely not for a meagre 100k.

pocohantas:


Thanks for the compliment, SOG . However, I can't honour a trip with you as that would be cheating. I am not free and independent. Lol

ShaqFu:
you know she's just as silly as Jeromeblack with that narrow-minded post she made, which you shared.

vickydevoka:

That’s y it’s a free will support. Nobody is compelling me to … even if you worth 20k dollars people will still gift you something irrespective of the quantity or the amount been gifted. It’s just a gift. I don’t know the country you are but don’t follow what most Nigerian ladies in diaspora do. If 100 men come for them they will find fault in 100 of them. When the get to 37 they will praying fruitless prayer . What will I do with a 38 year old lady genuinely? Please make your bank account no deceive you, abroad money doesn’t guarantee happiness Bcus you end up wasting you whole life working for oyibo without nobody to share your sweat with. Some ladies amazes me, you make money to be training your sister and brothers children, and you are happy. Why don’t you make your own baby and spend your money on them. # ife emebigo

Godsonkemz:
No be lie.
The yeye girl I had called me only when she needed money.
She has never sent me romantic message except her account details.
She only call not to check on me but to request for favour.
There's never a time she's not demanding one thing or the other.

pocohantas:


I have a friend whose wedding invitation read "No gifts"... just come and enjoy.

Now you are crying again and talking what no one asked you. There is no abroad money here. I simply converted your 100k to one of the denominations I am paid in for my legal and professional work right here in Nigeria.

I would advise you learn to talk within reasonable boundaries. You misfire too much.