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Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Waffarianman(m): 8:36am On May 21, 2023 |
Just share the properties and renovate yours. This brother things my hand no de... What am facing here if you're in my position you'll be admitted in any hospital around you everyday 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by pocohantas(f): 9:43am On May 21, 2023 |
Waffarianman: Lmao. Please don't develop high bp. I wish you strength. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Waffarianman(m): 11:42am On May 21, 2023 |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by bolademi(m): 12:40pm On May 21, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: It has to be documented |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by BarrElChapo(m): 12:40pm On May 21, 2023 |
JungleJustice01: Discuss with your brother and make sure to delineate it in an agreement drafted by a lawyer. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by kareemkamil(m): 12:43pm On May 21, 2023 |
What nonsense question, can u renovate ur family house, leave ham make e collapse. OmoAle omo. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by DeLaRue: 12:45pm On May 21, 2023 |
JungleJustice01: I would advise you build your own house first. May be you are in a good financial position now, but there's no guaranty that will always be the case. So secure a habitat of your own first. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Fryx: 12:46pm On May 21, 2023 |
JungleJustice01: I will advice you to buy a land and develop it little by little. Let your brother renovate it since he collects the money. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by DonBenny77(m): 12:48pm On May 21, 2023 |
No go buy land build your own No mind my emoji 1 Like |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by HEBEI: 12:52pm On May 21, 2023 |
My dear, go and build your own house. Build for your own kids. Use the rent being collected by your brother to renovate your father's house. Our own na our own. Your own na him be your own. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by ednut1(m): 12:55pm On May 21, 2023 |
Your brother should use part of the rent for renovation. Go and build your own house biko |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by isabi2lof: 12:57pm On May 21, 2023 |
Get your own land and build yours . 1 Like |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by veneza(f): 12:58pm On May 21, 2023 |
JungleJustice01: Please stop looking for ready made,start your own small and gradually grow with time, avoid family property and live long. Am talking from experience. |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by VTJN(m): 1:00pm On May 21, 2023 |
JungleJustice01:please you have two options 1. Don't bother renovate the house, sell it and share the proceeds 2. Leave the property for your brother and don't bother spending on it for renovation. Go and build your own house. Your brother should look for means to renovate the building himself from the proceeds he get 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by RecentHistory: 1:02pm On May 21, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: Wife ke? Na so una dey use your foolishness cause unnecessarily enmity 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by RecentHistory: 1:03pm On May 21, 2023 |
veneza: Try to read the follow-up story 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by chriskosherbal(m): 1:04pm On May 21, 2023 |
@junglejustice01...I read both part of your story infact when you came up with the second part I had a full grasp of how things are in reality.. you see when I was staying those days in my family house there was this guy who had a house close to ours same street God blessed him he built another and gave the house to his elder sister ( face me I face you rooms) I don't think the sis had husband anymore but grown up teens as kids. Here is my take ...guy you are a good man from your write up with good heart ...renovate that crip to your ability and give it to him go build yours ( you can from your write up )...and forget about telling your kids that the house is yours so that they will remove thier mind from it... things like this will go a long way in showing your mentality with respect brotherly love and watch God...you can never tell the future. I wish you well in whatever decision you make but always remember his health condition can either improve or get worsen by the decision you take...this is life and we are not going to live here forever. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by juman(m): 1:05pm On May 21, 2023 |
An option is to renovate it and sell it to get your money back. Good looking house attract high and good price. Discuss with your brother and have the agreement signed by lawyer too. Don't leave your family house rot away while you have money to get it in good shape. |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by josite: 1:06pm On May 21, 2023 |
HEAR YOURSELF VERY WELL.NA FAMILY PROPERTY.YOU DO IT FOR THE GLORY OF THE FAMILY NAME.YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT GETTING ANY THING.IF U WANT TO RECOUP YOUR INVEST.PUT YOUR PROPOSAL IN WRITING AND LET YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS SIGN AS TO HOW U CAN RECOUP.IM SPENDING MILLIONS RIGHT NOW TO UPGRADE FAMILY HOUSE,NA FREE GIFT TO FAMILY. |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by goldloading(m): 1:07pm On May 21, 2023 |
Save the money the house is making and use it to renovate the house,donβt use your money. The house is already a business. |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Chetas81(m): 1:09pm On May 21, 2023 |
IF THERE'S NO WITCHCRAFT DOING MEETING INSIDE THE HOUSE BECAUSE THEY WILL FINISHED YOU IN NO TIME AS THE NIGERIAN WITCHCRAFT DON'T LOVE THE GOOD THINGS |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Domocom: 1:10pm On May 21, 2023 |
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Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by tunjilana: 1:12pm On May 21, 2023 |
When it comes to inheritance....it even goes beyond ur brother... Do u knw the kind of wife he will marry, do you know the kind if kids he will have.... If u are sacrificing cos u are better off now....Are u sure he won't even use his wealth to oppress U wen he stands up....u can renovate the house but document all u are doing and the expectation of returns....except u are doing it as charity...human beings can change at any time 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by highoctane: 1:12pm On May 21, 2023 |
Listen! And Listen young man. Build your own house, before renovating anything. Being the first Son , I am also, build your own house and have your own Obi or Chi as we call it . Puua ala Obi nke gi. ( Igbos in this thread can come to term with this statement) If the renovation will build a bedroom flat, please build it, and renovate whatever. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Mom007(f): 1:16pm On May 21, 2023 |
Oga, go and build your own house if you have money to spend.. You can retouch your family house once in a while so it doesn't fall or deteriorate but this thing you are about to do will bring problems. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by HenryWilliams(m): 1:16pm On May 21, 2023 |
Before you plan on renovation, make sure you get all necessary approvals and permits from the State Government.. You might think it doesn't matter until you get caught and made to cough out millions in penal fees.. Think wise bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by sammirano: 1:16pm On May 21, 2023 |
Op don't sell the property, renovate it appropriately and discuss with your bro on sharing formula since income is assured to increase. DONT SELL! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by sorepco(m): 1:17pm On May 21, 2023 |
My brother they are making lots of sense please. Yes get a lawyer....you should b collecting ur own share of the rent. Let's say 10 years from now ur bro claims sole ownership. Are you awarevhe can tell your kinsmen men that your dad left the proper5y solely to him and that you are aware, thats why you are not partaking in sharing the rent! Don't joke with land or property matter please π π π JeffreyJunior: 1 Like |
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