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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Fuckyoumod: 9:19pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
lol..... So konji dey kill married men too?

Unbelievable, but Oga.
This life you are seeing is very short.
Now you can knack, trust me soon law of diminishing return will set in.

Is it when your penis can no longer stand that your wife will allow you to knack?

Better go out there and a mistress for that purpose jor.
She has broken the law of marriage.
Her body is your body and if she cant give you her body then. She has broken the law.

Even if you cheat it's no longer your fault or just endure and wait for the day she will change her mind.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by JeffreyJunior: 9:19pm On May 24, 2023
She can't just wake up and start denying you sex. Oga tell us the whole story.

But if you didn't do anything wrong to her and she is not going through some kind of stress right now, biko carry sidechick mek everybody rest.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by juman(m): 9:20pm On May 24, 2023
Try to resolve the problem behind it.
Visit expert on marriage.

As Muslims would advise you to marry second wife if the issue failed to be resolved.
But if second wife is not possible side chic is the answer.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by AlphaHakimi: 9:20pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.


Please look for another woman to satisfy your urge. Don't follow the advice of "seat her down and have a heart to heart conversation with her". If you do this, she will weaponize the sex even more. Reduce the attention you give her. Reduce the money you give her. Do all these with a smiling face. You are living out your life time the same way she is living out her lifetime. Do not let anyone deny you of something you can provide for yourself all the name of marriage.

In the immortal words of Theodore "T-Bag" Bagwell, " We are prisoners of our own identities, living in prisons of our creation."

Marriage is a prison of your own creation.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Exhalex: 9:20pm On May 24, 2023
Try soap yien yien

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Blitzking: 9:20pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Any woman that denies me sex should be ready share with other women...would just look for another woman that is loyal and transfer my affection to her...I won't disturb her again would start by giving her space, then reduce my time with her, affection next and money last, won't even bother asking for food if we stay in a rented house that would be my last rent, would have another apartment where the other woman is..all the upkeep money transferred to the new, I won't forsake my children but she would become like wood in my eyes.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by eroticecstasy: 9:20pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Don't even think about it, rebuke that thought and restore your home.

When was the last time you took her out?
When was the last time you give her gift?
how creative are you on bed?
When was the last time you made her scream and pant for breath?

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Pvin: 9:21pm On May 24, 2023
donbachi:
Bro, wetin dem wear for hand,dem no dey take mirror look am .
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Bodydiialect57: 9:21pm On May 24, 2023
Caramia2020:
6 children, let's assume u guys might have been married for roughly 15 years plus n u might be in your late forties or early fifties, at this stage with 6 children n the increase in taking care of a home, twice or thrice a month is not bad but what do I know, our libido are not the same. Taking care of such a large family might have taken a toll on your wife. Please settle this issue by applying dialogue.

6years in marriage and not 6 children.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by gassbee: 9:21pm On May 24, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.
are u married

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Beebah321(f): 9:22pm On May 24, 2023
Vinnie2000:


Dat's because they have OVERKNACKED in their Youthful days. smiley

Too Many Ex Boyfriends and Dicks received. 🤨

So Sex with their Husbands does not Freak them Again.😒

Hope you see why some Guys are finding Virgins as Wives. sad
Them dey look for virgin but them no be virgin. undecided

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by prigoz(m): 9:22pm On May 24, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.
If you don't know what to say, you better keep quiet, how can I legally married my wife and she denied me sex, my body language will respond to her behavior, nonsense, I will be planning to marry another

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by virginchaser(m): 9:22pm On May 24, 2023
ehay:
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Please educate me further on cancer causing HPV.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by jayAjoku(m): 9:23pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Bros sorry to break it to you but there’s a really High chance that your wife is probably cheating on you with Someone And she’s Saving her pussy for him that’s why she’s resisting You at the moment.

My advice to you is To call a respected person preferably a male in her family and tell him what’s happening. So he can call her to order if she continues despite this intervention then I’ll advise you to Demand sex one last time if she denies you just Say it’s either you give me sex or I get it elsewhere then go and sleep. wait till weekend book a hotel for the weekend call a young runs girl and bang the Hell out of her without regrets.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Nobody: 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
Simple, divorce her.
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by SonofGod231: 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
It is a sin to deny your partner in marriage....See madam,do the needful and service this man to cool him pressure ohh...I wonder the expensive work she does to be misbehaving like this?!See🙌 we don't want alpha females ohh.If the trend is not visible,just enjoy being single.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by RIDOO: 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
Please try to understand her better give her time...pet her so that she can open up to you

She might be going through a lot of things she can't even explain. ... depression, hormonal changes, birth control reaction, dryness,not having urge for sex.

Most of these things are not intentional..help her to open up to you and help her to come out of it.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by seguno2: 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Is this not enough for divorce?

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Yoighaman(m): 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
Although I don't support it, but side chicks have kept many marriages, maybe you want to consider one, based on your current dilemma, don't just impregnate her. You will be happy and she would be fine. Think about it.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Freelancerr(m): 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
Nawa ooo how couples go deny the other sex.

Sex is to be enjoyed by both of them..
😢🤦 things we read on shosho-midiya

what I do to a girl I'm dating is I clone there chat mostly WhatsApp.

Once it's cloned I check and read all their message directly on my phone even without them noticing.

I do this for some months so as to be sure of whom I'm dating, make I for no go enter one chance.

I'll teach anyone this trick only if you check my signature and text me on WhatsApp.

Note : you will pay a token before we start. Cos it's not free oooo.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by edungene7: 9:24pm On May 24, 2023
You can quietly move to the seminary for priesthood

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by seguno2: 9:26pm On May 24, 2023
RIDOO:
Please try to understand her better give her time...pet her so that she can open up to you

She might be going through a lot of things she can't even explain. ... depression, hormonal changes, birth control reaction, dryness,not having urge for sex.

Most of these things are not intentional..help her to open up to you and help her to come out of it.

Things that she can’t discuss with her husband of six years and who she has two children with

Are you kidding us?

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Ellasure: 9:28pm On May 24, 2023
primeredge:
Some men don't want to cheat, but some women, once they gave birth they started neglecting the man and hence give the men reasons to cheat and justify their actions

above quote is very true. maybe you had wondered why older men go for another woman. please don't call it cheating, it is European culture that refers cheating.

my talk, I have observed that women become bolder towards life and feel secure after the birth of a second child and also less caring to the husband. in fact, the attention given to their two children will make the man less relevant in the home. further, if you check by now she has plenty women friends chatting on all topics that are there to talk about.

the only way to recall them back to reality is a second wife or you seek fun elsewhere.

if you venture to discuss this as a subject she will not understand because she is engrossed in joy and happiness on another topic of life.

continue to play your fatherly roles and adapt to the new levels.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Uniqueness789: 9:28pm On May 24, 2023
Caramia2020:
6 children, let's assume u guys might have been married for roughly 15 years plus n u might be in your late forties or early fifties, at this stage with 6 children n the increase in taking care of a home, twice or thrice a month is not bad but what do I know, our libido are not the same. Taking care of such a large family might have taken a toll on your wife. Please settle this issue by applying dialogue.
calm down read well

Married for 6 years with 2 kids

Not 6 children

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Vernor(m): 9:28pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

My brother we have been in you shoes too, do as it pleases you don't look back just protect yourself.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by phenylalanine(m): 9:30pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about. To

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.
Rekindle what you guys both enjoy.. away match will destroy you and every thing you love

I need your advise guys.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by meetme01: 9:31pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Start doing stuffs you don't do before.

1. Have a new number & WhatsApp...Use a lady's picture and start romantic chat. Drop your phone carelessly. Trust me, she would be forced to read. In one your chat, tell ladyself..lol what your wife has been doing and why you are doing this. Romantic messages of things you want from your ladyself.

2. If you decide to do the above, care for her more. Just smile and be happy which shows something new and good has started...

3. She will start suspecting and start guess work. Before you know, you will get free sex everyday because she knows if she does stop not that act, you will definitely find it somewhere.

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by happney65: 9:31pm On May 24, 2023
taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Bleep my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill kiss

You be wayre.. angry

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Peskid147: 9:31pm On May 24, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.
get a sex therapist to hep you and your wife know the importance of sex in your marriage.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Buchman1(m): 9:32pm On May 24, 2023
eventainment:
How's the sex event been? Boring? Same styles? No pre-intimacy? Quick ejaculation? Is she happy in the marriage? Do you down-talk her withany opportunity given? Are you maltreating her? Is she over worked?

Confirmed Marriage Counsellor!
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Michaelota: 9:33pm On May 24, 2023
Check her very well , she is either dating someone else and finding you not good enough as a result of an issue which she also refuse to tell you. I discovered my wife was sleeping around after 9 years and 2 kids just because of a little issue she could have told me. Fear ladies of this days most especially Yoruba ladies they are worse than dogs. She will even be sending nudes to guys old lovers. Check her phone you be surprised.

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